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>tfw no bf
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>be me
>wanna be a caring and loving waifu
>like to suck dick
>all men just want to pump and dump me
>every okcupid message is just a gross neckbeard
why live
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>>23543550
Where are you from?
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post pic
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>>23543536
why not?
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>>23543536
I mean, a lot of people are in the market for one. What d'you look like?
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>>23543536
iktf
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>>23543568
im a tranny and not attractive
>>23543558
east coast
>>23543576
imagine a deluded man wearing a dress with tiny gyno-tier tits
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>>23543580
>east coast

Same, are you in the mid-atlantic region?

pic related
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>>23543580
well i'd say that's you're problem, but I actually guarantee there is someone on 4chan for you.
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>>23543595
yes
>>23543389
>me irl
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>>23543576
THAT'S RIGHT, JAY!
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>>23543578
its a bad feel desu
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>>23543622
checked

:/
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>>23543609
You kinda look like the pink lady from the original Grease movie
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>>23543633
Rizzo you're totally right he does.
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>>23543609
You look Sicilian. If you weren't a dude I'd marry you and make you have my kids. Only to move back to Sicily and have a second family. Then one day I would return to the U.S to see them.
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>>23543647
>If you weren't a dude
>my love life in 5 words
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>>23543654
Sorry, paesan you know how Italians are.
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>>23543646
Lol

For what it's worth, I always thought she was kinda hot
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>>23543660
ya i am italian. gonna have big tits someday at least
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I just know that I'm going to wake up tomorrow and this shit is going to have like 250 posts in it
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>broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because all he ever wanted to do was have me suck his dick
>haven't been kissed in about 2 years now, since I did that
>every time I start to like a guy he stops replying to me for some reason and now I'm scared to try to talk to new people

it's a multi-layer kind of feel
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>>23543832
Try me i dare yooou
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>>23543832
Two years since I've kissed anyone even too. Those feels.
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>>23543580
Stay in the 5chins honey. I'm pretty sure this is your best dating pool in the universe.
Also, do you hab a fem cute dick or a full beast veiny eight inches?
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tfw no bf/gf is one we all must feel

I broke up with my girlfriend a couple weeks ago and I'm already lonely af
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>>23543665
I m italian too, sono italiano, hai kik??
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>28 next month and never hugged a man
>get london comments over face, body shape and voice
>used to weigh 350 lbs and have a disgusting body
I sometimes wonder what would happen if I was out and some guy thought about raping me. I imagine he'd freak the fuck out and run.
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>>23543940
If you're really still a virgin you can have literally any guy you want
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>>23543940
Show your fucking body or im not even interested
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>>23543609
actually cute as fuck!
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>>23543890
I have a cute feminine penis, it has a bow on it
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>>23545041
kik me?
fife420dude
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>tfw no gf
>tfw 4/10
>tfw kissless virgin
>tfw try to talk to women on /soc/
>tfw from australia and they're always from the US
>if they're from australia they are not in my city or if they are they have a bf
>can't approach women irl

Just kill me lads :^)
No single women in my city
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>>23545055
I don't have kik and am not rly interested in camming or trading nudes
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>>23545055
You just got turned down by a penis woman
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As beta as this will sound (not that I'm alpha anyway haha), but I sometimes find myself feeling intimidated by how good looking most people on tinder are. I get scared to swipe right because I think they'll match with me just to mock me and ask me how deluded I think I am to think I could ever get with someone like them. I kind of regret getting Tinder now.
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>>23543536
Lady wojak is pretty cute
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>>23543609
You have a cute face. Reqd the rest of the thread, can't guarantee you'll find me attractive, but I'll throw my skype out there. 24/M/MD btw.

Skype: notbobjohnson
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>>23545085
What's ur city
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>>23545302
melbourne
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>>23543536
>>23543550
I've got a beard on my neck but also all over my face. I feel your feels though, believe it or not girls can be the same.
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>>23543609
Any chance you're in PA? We could def be friends.
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>>23543536
>>23543550
I feel a lot like you do except the sucking dick part


I message a lot of cute girls on okcupid and you all fucking ignore me. And none of you that match me on tinder are even remotely cute; you're all below average objectively and I thought I could do better.... So, how do you think I feel? Shit, I'm 23 and never even had a date.... I feel dead inside, like my life has no purpose and like I'm looked at by women like some vague cardboard cutout instead of a unique person with likable features...
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>>23545312
whats ur skype
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>>23543609
>tfw op is really attractive
>tfw op prolly thinks I'm ugly too
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>>23545362
u look very artifacted

what are your okcupid messages like? i only respond to people if they say something other than "hey" or whatever, which is like 1% of the messages i get
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>tfw have the crazies
>moderately attractive but have crazies so guys I catch feels for dont reciprocate
>the few that do eventually get tired of me
>other guys show interest because moderately attractive
>they lose interest when they find out I have crazies
>somehow find great bf through mutual friend
>feelsgoodman
>things going great
>he's an aspiring musician
>in two bands trying to make a career
>always support him
>one of his bands takes off
>getting record deal
>dumps me right before Christmas so he can pump and dump fangirls

feels bad man
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>>23545412
Any chance your in the UK?
I love the crazies on girls >~<
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>>23545412
Stop being crazy then jeez
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>>23545424
no :c Oregon

>>23545427
wow what a breakthrough I'll tell my doc I can go off my antipsychotics then thank u anon
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>>23545427
That's not how mental illness works, Anon.
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>>23543550
HAHAHAHAAHA

welcome to the real world, honey. If a guy is alpha and ladies wanna fuck him, he's not gonna commit. Why would he? he can just pump and dump all day.

The guys who will commit, are beta neckbeards and do so because they are so sex-deprived they will throw compliments at anything with a face. (hence, girls don't want them)

As much as people fantasize about anyone inbetween, there's really only two. choose one
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>>23545433
Still, do you have a skype or anything? ^-^
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>>23545412
>>he's an aspiring musician
Nothing good ever comes out of that. Sorry for your bad dating luck and all, but if that's the type you go for, you really are bringing it on yourself.
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>>23545448
Go back to 2008 /b/
We've evolved from you.
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>>23545448
You've been spending a little too much time on r9k friendo
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>>23545455
lol you can't run from the truth my friend. 20% of guys fuck 80% of girls.
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>vagina girl comes into the thread
>everyone trips over their dicks replying to her
fucking shitlords smdh
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OH SHE'S GOT A UTERUS WOW racists
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>>23545448
are you 14?
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>>23545450
yeah and kik, what's your username?

>>23545451
>but if that's the type you go for
I know, and it's not typically the type I would try and pursue a relationship with, but we just clicked and it was going way better than with anyone else I've had before so I figured it was worth it, you know? he was completely different at the start, but when he found out they were getting signed and girls started giving him wayyyyy too much attention I think he got caught up in it

I still think the guy I dated is in him somewhere, and he still tries to talk to me, but even if so I know getting back together wouldn't be smart. I'm crazy, not a moron

>>23545464
uh didn't mean to hijack your thread friend

>>23545463
>20% of guys fuck 80% of girls
>le r9k logic of thinking if you repeat something enough times it becomes true
I bet you're also afraid of vaccines
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>>23545486
i was just joking we're all tfw no bf here its a safe space
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>>23545486
Kik is chuckthefarmer and skype is (dont fucking laugh is was 13 when this was made and cba making a new one) Thenorthernirishbrony
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>>23545493
g-good

do you have any irl hobbies or anything? can be a good way to meet people

>>23545495
I messaged you on kik
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>>23545486
i've never been to r9k, i am not sure what you mean. But there are relationship truths and concepts of social value that no matter how much you deny them, will always be true, and if you don't except them, you're only holding yourself back. These truths are: if you're a girl, your attractiveness is 95% based on looks. Being fat is unacceptable, and if you're ugly then you better be slutty. Girls do not want to "date down" like guys will, and will always try to swing to a higher branch. (miranda kerr jumped from a banker, to orlando bloom, then to billionaire snap-chat founder Evan Spiegel.)

Men's attractiveness is based on social status, personality, and wealth. not so much looks. Which is why Donald Trump and Evan spiegel, as average as they are, are dating supermodels. Meanwhile high-status, good looking males like James Franco are fucking a different 18 year old every night.
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>>23545529
then please tell me where you got your oh-so-scientific numbers then faggo
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>tfw single and loving it
You ain't getting my money, hos.
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>>23545529
>except them
>except
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>>23545581
yea i noticed after i posted, but it's whatever.

>>23545548
It's not scientific, but it's a general rule of thumb. Think back to highschool, there's gotta be one guy who dated almost every hot girl in school correct? And then there's a TON of guys who didn't date anyone at all, or only dated 1 girl.

Have you ever heard the saying "nice guys finish last" or "chicks only seem to go for asshole douchebags"? it's not really that they're assholes, it's just that they don't take shit from people, and they're upfront and clear about their intentions.

If you're ready to wake up, Neo, yo may do so.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2q582c/a_comprehensive_guide_to_the_red_pill/

But a lot of men are not ready to wake up. They would rather live in self-denial, where it's comfortable and they don't have to exhibit effort to better themselves.
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>>23545603
me irl
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>>23545609
>"hurr no it's not scientific but u should belieb me anyway"
>unironically links to TheRedPill
my fucking sides
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Lawl this thread is kinda cute, at least it looks that way from the outside.
Y'all might be crazy as hell <.<

But that's kinda the fun part, isn't it?
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>>23545623
here's a study from OkCupid itself, that should clear a few things up.

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

Online dating is a bit different from real-world dating, in that your profile pic is everything for women, they barely read your bio. Notice how in OP's image post, none of the guys who messaged her have a profile picture that's a pic of their abs? You have much to learn about female psychology, how women operate and what they find attractive. But it's not too late, my friend. I woke up and so can you.
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>>23545612
>>23545603
I doubt that very much
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>>23545642
>OkCupid
>Study
I think you mean survey with a fuckton of external factors not accounted for

pls learn 2 science
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>>23545642
>"wake up sheeple"

Dude ever just stop and think, that both guys and girls are assholes. Maybe that there's varying degrees of shallowness between each individual person or hell maybe even personal preference
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>>23545609
>actually believes The Red Pill
no wonder you're a virgin beta manlet
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>>23545394
Artifacted? And I usually say something more than just hi. I try and start a conversation by mentioning or asking about something they've had in their interests section.
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>>23545642
> your profile pic is everything for women, they barely read your bio

Men definitely do that too. Why would anyone waste time on someone they're not attracted to?
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>>23545646
It's clear that nothing will change your mind. I'm leaving to go lift weights, but enjoy yourself. I hope for the betterment of men everywhere you guys will see the light one day. Good luck with your virginity, mate.
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>>23545670
>I'm leaving to go lift weights
Bahaha because that proves how manly you are
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>>23545670
>It's clear that nothing will change your mind
I'm just looking for a reputable scientific study that proves your point, don't get triggered over having none

>Good luck with your virginity, mate
I'm not male nor a virgin. my ID just changed because I had to use data connection
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>tfw no obese clingy gf
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>>23545468
uteruses are my fetish

Technically this is mandatory as i have pregnancy and impregnation fetishes so anyone trans is outside of my dating range

not that i matter here lololol
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>>23543536
OP, you in NY?
wanna hang out?
i mean this in a platonic way.. i got some weird shit going on with me, i could use a distraction even for a day, like you could use a distraction
i mean if you wanna just talk for real talk talk, drop skype or i'll drop skype, i ust don't wanna drop it without you seeing this first, come on!

i probs seem thirsty, whatever, i do wanna be your friend though, OP
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My Kik: onlyone2016
20m
Will chat/trade pics. Bored as fuck. Solid 7/10
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bumpan this thread 'cuz for reaisins
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Relationships do nothing but hold you back.
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>>23547303

this desu
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>>23543580
207?
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>>23543953
You are a crazy man, anon. It would take a very special, patient and kind person to love me despite all my flaws. Unless have meant be used once and then tossed aside just so some guy can say he had sex with an almost 30 year old virgin woman.

>>23544968
I did once and it didn't end well for my self-esteem.
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TFW given up and deleted all dating profiles.

I don't go out or have club activities so I never interact with anyone outside of work. Online was the only way for me and that failed.

I'll just get a bunch of cats and die alone.

I'll never find that qt degenerate sub bf with a fat fetish that also has long hair. I can't even find a normal bf
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>>23548000
Post contact and that could change :3
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tfw kv with no gf t b h
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>>23543550
Maybe you're not very physically attractive, or you have shitty interests.
Most people expect more from relationships than just someone to suck their dick and be loving/caring, they want someone they can get along with share common interests with, and be physically attracted to.
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>>23548103
Chances are you live no where near me so what's the point.
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>>23543580
>I'm a tranny and not attractive

well there's your problem.
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>>23543953
kek don't listen to this neckbeard. He obviously doesn't live in reality.
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ITT: betas falling for bait
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>>23548465
It's a buncha desperate fucks tripping over another desperate delusional fuck. It's pottery.
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>>23545316
ElliotRodgers.Jpeg
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>>23543550
>>23543536
Pic related
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>>23543550
>tfw people find me attractive, but I am to much of a loser that they stop talking to me
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In my head half of the comments calling girls sluts are from virgin girls
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>>23545345
Don't have a Skype, but you can kik me (or add @gmail for my email):
pitt.anon.412
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>>23551862
Not sure why my ID changed, but I'm >>23545312
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>>23545486
if you're still here i've never really talked to a "crazy girl" so I probably wouldn't be able to tell the difference

my kik is thethugstrug
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>>23545041
I'd suck until chocking
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>bitter guys blaming women and other guys because they dont have the nut to talk to girls
epic
if you dont talk to her, another guy will. women usually get partners passively. deal with it.
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>>23551938
>chocking
You'd suck until it was time to put wedges around his wheels?
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>third date
>invite guy over to my house
>make him dinner
>make out a little bit
>force him to watch the entire first season of Review
>interrupt attempts to make out further with "noooo, good part!" as appropriate
>finish season
>make out a little more, send him home
It's a really good show.

>>23543609
You're less ugly than you think, M. I'm not the type to sugar-coat things so I won't tell you you're a beautiful perfect goddess or what have you but I'll tell you that you can at least dial it back somewhat.

>>23550263
It's more like if you're only getting offered bread and you have Celiac disease.
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>>23545412
Hahaha why am I always happy when such girl gets dumped? Like you all prefer the boys who are selfish and shallow like musicians, football players, actors, while casual guys that could actually really love you are not in your type, kek I fucking hope youll die alone with posters over your bed of those famous celebrities you lonely fap to :D
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>>23553252
>Like you all prefer the boys who are selfish and shallow like musicians, football players, actors, while casual guys that could actually really love you are not in your type,
that's a whole lot of salty assumptions there, projecting a little bit?

I explained here >>23545486 that it's NOT the type I usually go for, he was just pretty much the first guy things actually worked out with, I met him through a friend who is a dog trainer ffs. I think more than anything it's that his crazy went well with my crazy. believe it or not, most "casual" guys aren't interested in girls with addiction problems, BPD, and episodes of psychosis that require hospitalization. spent plenty of time looking
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>>23543536
>tfw youn have been single your entire life but are actually sad about it
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>>23545085
Aussieman, stfu and go get a nerdy qt. Also, you're not a 4/10, yuh fuck. Good looking, honestly.

-the faggot with the red hair
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>>23553293
Yeah agree, casual guys will not be with you cuz fear of having retarded children plus addicts supposingly got a lot common with criminals that suply them with drugs. Think maybe about getting your imaginary bf that will suit your needs
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>>23552815
>It's more like if you're only getting offered bread and you have Celiac disease.

I-I-I swear guys! I'm allergic to any guy who doesn't have a chocolate penis that ejaculates money! It's a serious health condition. y is lyf so cruel ;_;
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>>23545433
>Oregon
got kik?
I'm from there too
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>>23553506
In todays With Camera Among Internet: Watch this virgin mercilessly hitting on defencless, feeling lonely and unloved pray, that happens to be a female. His pray even got some mentall problems so for a experienced predator it should be a piece of cake, will the virgin succeed and got to make a first contact with female that is not his mom? Do not turn off TV as we will soon find out
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>tfw whenever I try to act confident it comes off as either douchy or insane
I can only really nail it if I'm on drugs but then I have to be high every time I'm around girls I like
Also I've only ever dated people I met on the internet because I'm spontaneous and funny but only after you get through the first couple days of crazy, because of this I feel like I have no idea how to know if someone's interested in me IRL.
sorry blogpost
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>>23553550
Why are you such a prick tho
I'm genuinely curious as to your motivation
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>>23553479
>hurr u bitch u only want Chad y no date average guy
>no average guys don't want u
are you just going to keep changing your point so you can be a cunt

>addicts supposingly got a lot common with criminals that suply them with drugs
yeah, but my poison is alcohol and pharm shit. but thinking about it I wouldn't even call myself addicted to it exactly because I don't go through physical withdrawal or anything when I stop, I just don't know how to cope with life so it's what I do

>Think maybe about getting your imaginary bf that will suit your needs
already ahead of you m8

>tfw no mentally unstable angsty antihero bf with superhuman powers
>not dating kaneki ken
why live
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>>23553506
yeah, what's your username
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>>23553588
Yo good taste tho
Kaneki is my goal
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>>23553609
I dig ayato too but kaneki but has those split personality feels
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>>23553567
My motives are pretty simple. I'm a loser that had sex only once in my life while drunk and with 45yo prostitute at age of 21. To prevent myself from 3rd suicide attempt I need to make things that make me feel better and forget about my depression. One of them is making others feel bad, which as you may have noticed pretty stops working cuz I openely admit my current situation. So yeah, if you ever feel bad and useless you can remind yourself that one time in life you were the one that prevented some guy from blowing his head off by letting him mix you with shit( if that makes you feel better) JK I don't have gun, Ill rather hang myself :d Btw if someone is intersted I got Gw1 and 2 account to giveaway since soon I'll smell flowers from the other side and thats pretty the only thing I care currently in my life - I dont want them to get deleted, but you need to be persuadive so I can trust you that my characters will land in good hands!
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>>23553694
My email - [email protected]
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>>23553705
I got all expansions in both games
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>>23553694
Killing yourself is boring. Just spend all your money on a plane ticket and go die in some foreign country. Spoiler alert: You'll realize depression doesn't go away and isn't that bad, and that suicide does nothing besides force people to pay attention to you for a little while.
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>tfw no girls want a skelly man.
>nobody in maryland ever
>not horrible looking
>get ignored anyway
feels bad
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>>23553643
I already have those; I just need to get slightly cuter and obtain supernatural centipedeman powers.
>>23553694
Maybe do a little more introspection. Having sex isn't that cool especially if you're not happy enough to enjoy it. I'm not haughty enough to think I know you from that post but if you're citing the sex situation as a reason (even a partial one) for suicide maybe you need to reconsider what kind of intimacy you're really looking for and why you're having trouble finding it. Thanks for the honesty though.
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>>23553765
work out you lazy cunt.
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>>23553734
Cool idea, I could go to germany or smwhere in western eu, kill some arabs(oh how I fucking hate them)
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>>23553781
What's the point? Nobody gives one anyway.
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>>23553789
Gives one what? Fuck?

Obviously no one gives a fuck about you. You're stuck inside your head. Work out for a month then go to Cali or some other warm place where lots of people live. IF you're actually moderately attractive, you'll probably have an absurd amount of sex for a while.

Getting involved in a relationship is a whole other bag of tricks. Based on your list, you're currently an incomplete individual who needs to read a shit ton of books and travel a bit before you can consider having a meaningful relationship that isn't co-dependant.
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>>23553787
Do it save western Europe
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>>23553811
One month of workout even with tibetean monks will not give you any resoult, you got to spend an year at least to become noticeably better looking than others
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>>23553811
Any time I've ever tried to better myself it's just ended poorly, plus I have legitimate mental issues.
>Went to the gym for a year.
>Got in shape.
>Tried to put myself out there.
>No sale.
I don't know why I came to this board. Even more wasted time.
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>>23553825
Yeah, if you're a fat piece of shit maybe. If you're skinny and mildly attractive - and I speak from experience - a month of hard working out will give you the toning needed to become sexually desirable.

Also, the phrase "better looking than others" should be cut from your vocabulary, you racist cunt. Read some basic psychology books and go have sex, ass clown.
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>>23553841
You have legitimate mental issues? How much time have you spent in-patient? You can string together coherent, well phrased sentences and make viable arguments (albeit retarded ones). You're not looking for advice; you're looking for a pat on the back like the rest of this safe-space, safety blanket community wants.
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>>23553841
Attitude is all important anon. It doesn't seem like you're in the listening mood and I would unfairly peg you as an obstinate person anyway but time is only wasted if you make a concerted effort to believe it is. You may not have had luck in the form of a relationship but you're more experienced in what doesn't work (and if you learn from your mistakes, why) so you have at least a better shot than you did before. See how our mindsets differ? That's important to note, I think. Of course I don't know your situation but I don't have to. All I have to know is that you're taking your perceived failures at face value instead of subverting them and making them work for you.
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>>23553847
Why is it racist to say that someone looks better than others, I dont get
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>>23553870
I was referring to your feelings on the Arabian people, rock brain. Racism stunts brain development. It's actually a sign of retardation.
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>>23553881
You sound like all those cucks from politically correct medias kek, its not racism when Im nationalist. I tolerate arabs, blacks, chinks even fucking nijna turtles as long as they stay in their own countries and I accept arab in europe only if hes a tourist here
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>>23553869
I'll admit I tend to shut down in the face of adversity these days, but I just don't know anymore. I guess I lost the drive to better myself.
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>>23553931
You could've just written this to address why you're suicidal instead of that idiotic spiel you shat out earlier.
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>>23553404
shit shut it down
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Portland Oregon

Abusive dominant controlling - me

Submissive property 1950's housewife - you

Kik- beardaddybaredaddy

Let me complicate you
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>>23553993
Bdsm twisted perv outta nowhere kek
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>>23545305
>>23545085
literally just fucked a girl i met 14 hours ago on tinder in Melbourne
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>>23554023
and are you an ugly fuck
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>>23553935
You've identified your own problem! Good job. Building that drive back up is the most important thing in your life. I think the reason it was diminished is because you're looking without for validation instead of within. Do something you know you can accomplish. Keep building on that until you breach new territory. This time, though, don't look around to see if anyone notices. If you keep striving to get better and better your results each time you try other people will notice. These people will be people you actually want in your life. Don't set yourself up for failure by pushing yourself for someone else. Do it for you. You're fucking cool in some way. I know that because everyone is. Appreciate yourself and know that you owe it to yourself to push and push until you're happier than you've ever been and even then you don't stop fucking pushing. Take it from someone who's been as hopeless as you would imagine a homeless heroin addict who prostituted themselves for money to escape self-persecution would be. I'm happier now and I'm gonna be happier tomorrow. I decided that. Don't let your wellbeing be anyone else's decision or you'll be disappointed.
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>>23554034
literally just lied to you im quite handsome though too nervous to try anything
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>>23554042
Hey thank you for the actual helpful advice. I appreciate it.
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>>23554083
lmao alright well I'm below average so I'm screwed
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>>23554086
It's the only reason I still use this board. I like helping people rekindle themselves. Everyone is worth more time than they get Imo.
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>>23543550
okcupid

that's your problem

>>23545412
>Aspiring musician

Oh lordy
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>>23543580
well you're a tranny, not a girl, that explains it
no straight man wants a tranny, just weird neckbeards who fap to futa
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>>23543550
or you can try out
>be an average to under average looking guy
>just want to be able to go on a date with someone
>send literally hundreds of messages to all sorts of women
>all of them trying to start a conversation or ask a question about something on her profile
>receive exactly zero responses
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>>23554275
iktf
admittedly it did happen to me once and it went for several months but they were in the US and something happened to them

its like god wants me to suffer desu
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>>23554317
Yeah a while back I met a girl indirectly off of here.
We talked online for a couple of weeks beforehand she had a hard time believing that I was 26 and haven't even been on the day before.
Went hung out a couple of times it was actually really great.
It was first time I hung out specifically with a girl since I was a kid.
She straight up told me she'd never be involved with me because "I'm not good enough for you" "I'm a terrible gf" and "I'd only hurt you"
She ended up being legitimately crazy and was probably right.
But at the end of the day the "better" person is still alone.
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>>23554351
kek well this one was about 10000km away from me and we never met in person but had heaps of skype sessions and even once going nude and shit

like it was alright but it felt incomplete
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>>23543832
Kissings better than fucking. I could make out all day for years . True story
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>>23545394
All the chicks that message me just say "hey" with a smiley face or whatever. Boooorrinnngggg.
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>>23545515
tfw will never have your skype name.

You sound a lot like an ex girlfriend of mine who just faded into thin air one day. : ^ )

>tfw exgf left me without a word.

>tfw still have feelings for her and can't function properly emotionally anymore because of that.
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>tfw based ausfag with no crazy gf to throw glasses at him

wait
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>>23543940
You sound cute, I like the shy chubby type :p
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>>23545486
As someone who deals with anxiety often, there is someone who will love you in spite of what's you because that isn't really you, just something you're fighting.
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>>23554824
>>tfw still have feelings for her and can't function properly emotionally anymore because of that.
Grow the fuck up pussy

But seriously I don't get people who place little to no value in their own self worth and define themselves according to other people or their relationships. If you were a complete person, liked yourself, and had a sliver of self worth you'd be sad for a bit after some breakups and then fucking move on. Some breakups are the best thing to ever happen to you and you'd be able to see that when it happens too.

Work on yourself before you get into another one.
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>TFW average looking dude with no confidence
> can never start convo with women on person, too afraid they won't be into me or humiliate myself or something
>only had 3 gfs ever
>picked up 1 chick at a festival once
>can never start talking to a girl without for sure notification that she's into me
>just too afraid of being looked at as weird by trying to hit on a girl that isn't interested
I mean, I know some girls I talk to like me somewhat and I just have no idea how to talk them and get past that odd semi-flirting staring and smiling phase. Idk what it is, have a decent job for how young I am (19), I can be fun sometimes, always wanna go out, go to music festivals, etc. Its not that I don't like going out and meeting people, I love it. But I just can't get up the nerve to talk to people in public idk unless I'm at a festival or party but I'm always too fucked up at those places for my own good and end up talking peoples ear off and getting loud, its annoying ik and only happens like 8 times a year but those are the times I actually out being social lol wat do?
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>>23553597
>eberhac
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>>23543832
NEW YORK
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>tfw just wanted to befriend OP
>tfw maybe something more'd happen than just friends
>tfw OP disappears
>tfw you will never make OP feel nice by hanging out with them all day and forget your problems too
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>>23554824
do you have kik? I'm just usually not on skype unless I'm calling someone. if not then skype is ok

>>23555863
messaged you
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>>23555487
>>just too afraid of being looked at as weird by trying to hit on a girl that isn't interested
i feels ya man
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>fat
>unattractive
>boring personality
I just want a cute slightly furry gf ;_;
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>be me, 20 y.o girl with above average body and a soft spot for nerds/losers/dorks
>just want to settle down, build a life with a guy, plan for kids, enjoy our youth etc. etc. etc.
>also want this relationship to involve kinky shit like swinging and sex clubs.
>painfully shy irl, crush on guys who are also painfully shy so relationships never get off the ground.

when will I meet a nerdy intellect bf? I hate casual dating holy shit.
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>>23558390
dating sites. plenty of nerdy guys on there.
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I love virgin girls
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>>23558410
all the guys I've met on dating sites have been awful, I've lost faith in that method. maybe I'll give it another go though.
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>>23558432
yeah, that's fair enough. i'm a guy so when i go on dating sites for other guys i just get DTF messages, so it's kinda pointless as well.
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>>23558390
What state?
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>>23558457
Canada ;_;
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>>23558423
>I love virgin girls
my nigga

Accents are also a plus
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>>23558390
you're ideal holy shit
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>>23558473
Damn, Texas here. Your goals sound a lot like mine. I just want a woman with her head on straight and who isn't a total fuckup hiding behind her "quirkiness" to cover for the fact she has no life skills, no education, and no plans for the future.
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>>23558423
This desu they're easier to talk to as friends, not even for lewd reasons
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>>23558497
I've been to Texas before! an alright place. I'm definitely strange but I don't use it to mask anything, I'm a pretty open book.
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>be mexifag
>never shave or haircut cause why bother
>school\part time job
>no fun car
>only play league and watch Gundam

All i want is a qt white gf doods, and get my shit together.
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>>23558648
Stay away from white wemon. They're plenty of mexicans for you to date.
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>>23558390
You sound like an ok person but good luck with the swinger/sex club stuff being conducive to a happy family.
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>>23558661
go away pol

If it makes you feel better ive aleady been with a white girl
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>>23558690
As long as you didn't have I kid I don't care.

Don't worry white girls don't like greasy mexicans
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>>23558673
I think it's possible to keep a healthy sex life separate from other elements in your life but alright, different strokes.
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>>23558690
Are you here legally? If so idc
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>>23558740
Of course, 2nd generation. I was BORN here, Im more American than some white people i know. My white friends call me white as fuck.
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>Be spergy nerd white male with life sort of together
>tfw qts have tfwnobf and would want me
>but meeting people even on /soc/ or r4r is hard and takes spoons
>Somewhere on the board is somebody that would cherish time with you as much as you would them
>But it takes too much effort with too much rejection to get there, so instead you shitpost, play video games, and watch netflex

On the other hand, MATING CALL!
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>>23558784
Oh, anchor baby. You have to go back.

Whiter than white friends yea, ok hermano.
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>>23558892
>2nd generation
>anchor baby

are you stupid?
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>a bit autismal but fairly good looking
>basically /g/ in person when it comes to interests (plus vidya)
>also furfag degenerate
>also gay
>slav
>in a conservative country
>no bf
C͟Á̡͜N̶͘'͜T͠ ͝W̢ÀKE̸̡ ҉UP̛
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>>23559908
>female /r9k/ user
This greentext is already full of holes.
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>>23545486
>musicians r gay
:(
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>>23558390
>>23558473
Where in Canada?
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>>23562168
Ontario!
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>>23562210
welp, Montreal here
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I would go on dates with most of the girls on here.
Problem is I never find a girl I want to date long term. All of my relationships last about 1-2 months and then we break up mutually. We never have the same hobbies or interests. Once the new relationship feel goes away it goes south. Apparently I always rush into sex. Where is a good place to meet people? All of the girls I have dated I have met at bars or tinder. Oh how fast is "rushing into sex"?
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>>23562255
so close yet so far, dang...
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>>23562397
If there are any girls in Leeds?
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