/nonmonogamous/ general?
Include poly, non-monogamous, swingers hotwife, cuckold, etc.
Does anybody participate in the lifestyle? Does anyone desire to? Stories, tips, questions and of course pics in this thread plz
>>23406179
>nonmonogamous
So literally everyone?
>>23406179
>TFW I'm a unicorn
Feels special.
I cuck my woman. Matter of fact we just had our little 19 y.o. painslut here not even 24 hours ago. I fucked her while my GF watched and played with herself.
So yea, I participate in the lifestyle. It's awesome, confusing at times when unexpected feelings pop up and makes all the other bullshit in my life turn the volume down.
I am in a non-monogamous relationship with my submissive girlfriend. I can fuck who I want, as long as she doesnt have to see or hear about it. Quite often she suggests I even bring the 2nd girl to bed with her! She's awesome!!
>>23408775
Oh and she's a double jointed ballerina who loves anal, she makes me add this part. It is true though lol
>>23406179
Does cheating count? I have a mistress, my wife doesn't know about it. We've only seen each other once. Got a public BJ out of it. The rest is online until we meet again for a full fuckmarathon.
My mistress doesn't care, she understands my reasons and we are open about it. She is single, not into relationships and very down to earth. Only interested in getting off. She probably has many others like me, I don't mind.
>>23408775
how did u establish this situation with your gf? I want the same...
>>23408775
how did u establish this situation with your gf? I want the same
>>23406179
Polygamous is the word you were looking for, non-monogomist is not really a thing people say
>>23408227
I want this but almost all the girls I've talked to say they want to be my only.
Polyamorous*
>>23408775
>as long as she doesnt have to see or hear about it. Quite often she suggests I even bring the 2nd girl to bed with her!
that's quite the contradiction, you sure you're not telling fibs?
I want to be cucked by my bf but he says Im the only woman he wants. He doesnt even want ffm threesome. Sure thats romantic and all but I cant help my fantasies.
was fucking my boss to keep my job a while back, im pretty sure my bf knew but never said anything.
>>23410180
I belive that sometimes guys say that because they're afraid it's a trap. You have to slowly start encouraging the idea of open communication. Maybe even surprise him with a girlfriend over. You could start something simple like, "My GF thinks you're cute, but you're not interested in this kind of thing."
I kind of just want to be genuinely cheated on by my girlfriend.
Not cucked. I don't want to know about it.
I like the emotional abuse I guess? And never catch her; just wonder if it's happening or not.
Staying with me for the emotional side of the relationship but fucking guys on the side that can please her.
I'm fucked up I know.
me: 56, GF: 42. non-monogamous committed relationship.
We both have outside interests and friends we share together.
Best relationship I've ever been in.
[email protected]
>>23410355
Pretty sure that would not work. I know he doesnt like me being bisexual, he might think I just want to fuck her myself. And all my straight female friends are kissless virgins anyway. I have tried talking about this many times, but he just says Im crazy and he wont do it.
Honestly as a 27 year old who didn't lose his virginity until a month after my previous bday this sort of lifestyle seems really interesting/appealing
But I still also don't even know how people have sex or end up in dating situations normally so it's unfortunate this sort of lifestyle is probably not obtainable for me.
>>23409242
Sure you do, let me guess. 2D master race?
tfw polyamorous and no partner will ever be okay with this
;_;
>Gf and I are virgins despite dating for over two years
>Lots of weird fetishes like exhibition, humiliation, partner sharing, etc
>Suggest to my girlfriend that I'm fine with her being nude around other people, or even sleeping with other people, and it excites me even
>She likes exhibition too and being a sub in bed
>She goes to college in a state over so no sex for us
>She befriends a large dude and asks me for the okay if she can do stuff with him
>Tell her yes and to have fun with their "Netflix and chill" night
>She went to his apartment and ended up blowing him, he's hung
>They quickly get to know each other better and she tells him about her desires to be a sub, he's on board immediately
>She asks me to mail her some collars I have for her, do so
>They get together again and she wore a collar for him, and he happily made her his bitch
>She told me all about their first fuck; lots of oral, riding him, couldn't even get his dick all the way in her, blew a load all over her face
>They've been fucking most weekends now for the past two months that she's been at the college
>Last weekend they tried anal for the first time and she loved it, she managed to get him balls deep inside of her thanks to lube
>She's fucked him so many times and I haven't gotten to fuck her yet
>Despite all the sex, she barely tells me anything now because "what happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors", but she'll tell me when they have sex and may tease me with a few details for fun
>Has even told me that she loves his thick and long cock and thinks she won't be pleased by my average dick anymore, which made my cock diamonds
>She's still romantically and sexually interested in me, it's just that she also loves being this guy's fucktoy
>Still like 3 months before she comes back home
It's fucking exciting and hot as fuck knowing she's getting used like a cumdump by him. I just wish she would tell me more about what they do.
>>23410767
I wish cucked losers would get out of poly threads.
>>23410996
>Include poly, non-monogamous, swingers hotwife, cuckold, etc.
Literally in the OP. I mean, with how much of a buzzword cuck and cuckhold are these days, have the lines between having a hotwife and being a cuck been blurred to the point where people consider them one in the same? I don't really think of it as a cuck relationship, more like hotwife, because she still loves me and still wants sex with me. She's asked me before if I wanted to fuck other girls, but I told her that I'm always too tired from working to make the effort.
>>23411048
DESU, most of the poly relationships I know started out as a cuck relationship. But all the ones i know are in the fetish scene so draw your own conclusion. (i guess most of the men are bi as well which probably helps.
I'm in a poly relationship over long-distance with two of those involved. They live in Berlin and i live in Denmark with my danish partner. I met the two others at a concert here, they were playing, and went to visit them after being picked up by the guy. Best decision ever! We've been romantically involved for about a year now.
It can get a bit emotionally complicated with 4 people who are all very individualistic and different. Fun though
>>23410549
Patience friend, you'll find your polylove.
>>23408775
I've had this as well and it worked well for a goodly while.
>>23406462
:^)
I'm fed up with my long distance relationship with my boyfriend and I want to talk to talk someone else for a change on kik mr.hwy
If we both fall in love with somebody, we will both consider being committed (no infidelity) to that person.
>>23409596
Thanks yo. I was stoned.
>>23411838
*insert rant about how polyamorous is a ghastly combination of greek and latin roots*
I'm too tired to remember what the hell the "correct" term is
>>23411770
With this said, everybody here is being cucked.
>>23411904
How so?
>>23411908
Successful poly would like lead to a poly society, aka everybody having sex with everybody. I don't see it. It seems that most of these group flings are disintegrating into nothingness.
>>23411924
Most relationships eventually disintigrate friend, why should group ones be different? I'm under no illusion of everlasting love
>>23411935
I guess I have higher hopes. I got engaged 2 days after I met my current partner. Our marriage has been stable for over 2 years since. We can only consider group marriage, as one household, in our predicament, if that answers your question.
>>23410767
>she's still romantically and sexually interested in me
LOL
>>23411945
Engaged 2 days after? That's hugely naive friend. If it's stable, then cool but DAMN that's quick commitment.
>>23411985
I'll frankly say that before traveling I took myself and a staff into the backyard, went into trance-like pray with the intent of getting married to her as soon as possible, mysteriously knowing it would work.
The context that enabled what I have can only be considered by every standpoint to be anomalous.
I can't fully prove to myself that what I did worked but it did.
>>23412006
Good for you that it did friend
yo
soo, I have three boyfriends, I, R, and J.
>R is like my top super boyfriend. We're going to get married. We've been together for five years.
>I is my best friend that turned into a sex thing when I took his virginity. Now he is my boyfriend and I love him and I love having really hot car sex with him lol.
>J is the newest addition to my weird relationship. He fucks like an animal and is also one of the sweetest guys I've ever met
I'd love a poly Dom/Domme/sub relationship
>>23412114
Notice how there is a hierarchy everybody. You will never be R. You will probably never even see his butthole.
>>23412141
yep and i'll bet anything it's
>chad
>slightly less chaddy chad
>slightly less chaddy than that chad
How do you avoid jealousy in a non-monogamous relationship?
>>23412160
Communication is
Yeah my girlfriend is an escort and I see other girls without her knowing but with her blessing. We occasionally bring in other people or hit up a nearby swingers club. It's a good life, she's a sweet girl.
>mfw my gf wants me to fuck other girls but its too hard to find one that wants a strictly physical relationship
I'm a polyamorous male and my wife allows me to date and see other women. We have rules that I have to follow, its so no one gets hurt, and to be honest life is good.
>>23410506
Your wife into 20 year old men?
>>23406462
oh christmas that doc.
>>23406220
How is that "everyone"? Most people are monogamous.
>>23409242
Cheating is kind of a shitty thing dude. Non-monogamous people generally don't want to be lumped into the same category.
>>23409582
...Polygamy is specifically multiple marriages, and is illegal in a LOT of places. Non-monogamy is a very common descriptor, because its what all the different non-monogamous iterations fall under.
You're thinking of polyamory, which is a TYPE of non-monogamy. It is by no means the only type though.
Non-monogamy is a much better term to drop in than just specifying polyamory, if you're wanting more than polyamorous relationships - which the OP does, since he included swinging/cuckold.etc. These are not polyamorous arrangements.
>>23411924
There's tons of successful poly. It doesn't mean therefore that the entire social structure of life is changed. Poly is just another relationship type; its not superior or inferior to monogamy.
>>23412141
..Hierarchical polyamory is one of the most common forms of polyamory. It doesn't however mean that all polyamory is hierarchical.
Not to mention there's a hell of a different time investment. The dude who shes been with for five years is going to be more integrated in her life than the dude who just got recently added.
>>23406179
I'm poly. Well, relationship anarchist. That gets rolled into polyamory fairly often. Occasionally I end up in a hierarchical situation, like the case with 'my previous partner' (there being many previous, but for her its more of a title than anything) ... Buuut, yeah, generally float the relationship anarchy side of things.
Only have one fixed partner at the moment, then 4-5 casual folk. Not hugely interested in forming relationships at the moment.
Going to give this a solo bump since I don't get to talk about non mono very often here.
>>23409347
I met her through Fetlife and she became my submissive, then we got more and more serious, but I never stopped fucking other girls, and she's always said she wants to be used by a dominant woman.
>>23410016
If I fuck them in private 1on1, she doesnt want to hear anything about it, know its happening or be near it. If they join both of us I'm not allowed to kiss them if she will see it.
>>23411265
I hope it goes for a goodly while too.
>>23410521
Nothing is unattainable dude! You want to swing, join SDC. You have a darker fetish side, join Fetlife. You wanna fuck loads of women go to fucking Thailand. You only live once, better make it count amigo!
I'm poly. I'm dating my bf, and we want a third female partner to date together. We haven't found the one yet.
