Virgin thread
>age
>why you're a virgin
>19
>Avoidant Personality Disorder, very few friends, socially akward
18
I spent majority of my time in a ldr so eh :b
The social anxiety doesnt help
>>22990329
>>age
18
>>why you're a virgin
afriad of talking to people irl
>25
>ugly, shy, shut in, social anxiety, never been the opportunity to lose it, etc
>>22990329
>just turned 18 pretty recently
>I don't know, I feel like I'm not a "fun" person. I also don't know any girls that are anything like me. I'm just a gamer who wants to be a game designer and my hobbies really just are gaming and listening to music. I just really don't care to go out places and really just like to chill alone and talk about life lmao. The few girls i've had at my place and "netflix and chilled" with were all taken and really just used me for weed in a way. Honestly I doubt I'll ever figure out how exactly to get pussy until I get out of my current hellhole state and move far away to college.
>>22990329
>21
>just shy
Surprisingly I am perfectly normal, in shape, have friends, have a good job, and pursuing my degree. No one would ever be able to guess. I get so scared when I get close to a chick she will find out and judge me so It always fucks it up.
>20
>GF is really apprehensive and has pretty much guaranteed me that I'll never fuck her. She did however get molested when she was younger AND get dateraped, but despite all of this, she still lets me touch and eat her out. I feel too attached to her to leave, I also feel bad.
>Age
18
>Reason why I'm a virgin?
Easy.Because I find it hard to talk to guys/girls due to my inferiority complex and insecurities. When I find myself talking to someone attractive I never know what to say or I'm afraid that their judging me as we speak. I'm afraid their thinking >"She's so fucking ugly geez BTFO".
So I refrain from talking or trying to get with anyone. Also doesn't help that I suck at carrying conversations. Tbqh I won't be surprised if I stay a virgin for a majority of my life due to these problems. I fucking hate myself.
>Mfw bisexual but afraid to talk to either sex
>Mfw not attractive enough to talk to either sex.
>>22990339
>>22990344
>>22990352
>>22990364
You guys are still really young. A lot can happen in a few years or even days. Sometimes you don't even have to go looking for it. Don't feel down about that shit yet guys.
>>22990356
not even ugly though.
Have you not made any friends from uni/college or keep in contact with some?
call some up and arrange a few drinks. Something might just happen.
>>22990389
> GF is really apprehensive and has pretty much guaranteed me that I'll never fuck her.
Rape her.
Seriously though, if that's the case you should make her a friend and move on. Why waste your time?
>>22990391
>she's so fucking ugly
if you're female, you're lucky & unlucky.
You will never have to start a conversation because it usually comes to you. If you're shy, it can be considered cute.
In many cases, guys will think the sun shines out of your ass no matter what.
>>22990402
>lol dude just leave the person your in love because she's not putting out, also just rape her because why not right ahaha XD
You're a disgusting human being if this isn't b8.
>>22990402
I guess the attachment, and the fact I may never find someone as good if not better? I guess
>>22990427
Ignore that anon, she will give out and when she does it will mean something.
>>22990426
The "rape" part was an obvious joke you fucking autist. Wash your pussy. And sex is an important part of any lasting relationship, so if she's "never" going to put out, yes he should move on to a relationship that will actually be fulfilling. You'll understand that shit if you ever actually get into a real relationship.
>>22990427
It's not about better, it's about having something that is ultimately sustainable. Eventually you'll get tired of not having sex and it will become an issue and possibly an ugly one. You can still love her and care for her but not date her.
25
terrible social anxiety and no friends
>>22990448
yea how do we win over that
>>22990447
>It's not about better, it's about having something that is ultimately sustainable. Eventually you'll get tired of not having sex and it will become an issue and possibly an ugly one. You can still love her and care for her but not date her.
I'm still pretty young, I have a really bad habit of conforming and being complacent
>>22990465
www.scenekids.com
make some new friends who also don't like to conform.
20 scared shitless of making a mistake when talking to women.
I'm going to tell a story for you guys, something that happened to me today
>meet girl at school towards beginning of year
>get to know her pretty well
>months later (around now) we start talking more and more
>texts me hearts and stuff
>asks me to hang with her constantly
>she comes over to my place
>we smoke weed and I discover she has a boyfriend, kills it for me
>We end up doing the equivalent of nothing for 7 hours
>I drive her home
>mfw /soc I will never get pussy at this rate.
>>22990497
I mean i'm no expert but if she was at your house smoking weed and texting hearts. Boyfriend or not you probably couldve got with that...
>>22990497
She is probably down to fuck you.
>>22990503
>>22990506
I know but i'm literally too pusy to try anything big. Like I would make hints and stuff and she seemed uncomfortable with any real physical intimate contact so I didnt press forward. My only hope now is just to fuck her friend and she'll probably get taken before I even have a chance lol. Sluts in my life bruh... can't want to go to uni
>>22990538
Uni will have more sluts.
>>22990392
What this guy said. When you're around 17-20 losing your virginity is something that can just happen one weekend. Promise.
>>22990555
I lost my virginity on a Tuesday night high on edibles playing gta5 when my roommate came home with a bunch of strippers.
>it will happen when you least expect it
>>22990329
>24
>picky as fuck, and want my first to be a serious relationship.
I don't think I'll ever find the right girl. None of them seem worth it.
18
I'm too picky. The few people I have been attracted too ended up being real b****es. I mean that in the sense that they genuinely seem insane in at least some aspect.
Not to mention I don't even look good enough that I can afford to be picky, haha.
Ah well, I'm still young.
19
Just not as outgoing as I'd like to be.
21
Was picky and too nice, had plenty of chances but none of them morally right. Regretting that now.
23
Socially awkward, avoidant etc. I had my first kiss just a couple weeks ago and I might even lose my v card at a party in another couple weeks. If not, well at least I'm not complete KV status
>18
>was a nervous wreck of a beta when dating my ex. she was even giving clear fucking signals but i'd just pussy out.
>mfw
>>22991130
Good luck mate.
>>22991090
you look like a modified elliot rodgers
please dont hurt anyone
>>22990329
24/m/Seattle
Cause I was a fat fuck until two years ago, got my shit together, now I don't have as much anxiety and am in shape and look good.
I put location because I won't like I'd like to find a qtvirgin nearby I could exchange cards with.
Chat for a bit, get comfortable, get to know each other then get a hotel room for a weekend.
>>22990329
>18
I dont fucking know why
But I'm gonna get an escort before I let 2016 show up and still be a virgin
I have 670ish dollars in the bank and will be getting 200-300 for christmas and will be getting 1500 on January15th when college starts back up
I wont keep fucking living like this I am so fucking done
>20 m
Fucked up my chance yesterday, spaghetti spilage just never ends
>>22991193
You could spend that money on a gym membership, healthy food, nice clothes a haircut and find a qtgf to take to a few fancy dinners.
You'll still lose your virginity, granted it'll take an extra 6-9 months, but you'll come out of it with someone you can cuddle on a couch with, not to mention you'll look good.
Either way, you'll blow all that money, so might as well use it wisely, right?
>>22991234
>6-9 months
what the fuck
Hell no
I shoudln't have been a fucking virgin when I turned 18
Or 17
Or 16
Or 15
I feel like 14 is the last acceptable year to still be one
Once you turn 15 it should be over
Each year that goes by it only gets worse and worse and the statistical odds you getting laid keep going down and down, even the fucking CDC says so
>>22991250
That's what the aggregate data says, yes. But what happens to you and what you do is up to fucking you. You could have started training and taking care of yourself at 18
Or 17
Or 16
Or 15
But you didn't, if you start now, by the time you hit 19 if you don't have the social skills of a rotten potato you'll either have a steady gf or at least 4 willing, unpaid sexual partners.
>>22991275
I had started working out back in August of 2014
I did it pretty regularly and had a few months of fucking up and not doing it and then got back into it until finally I got banned from the gym in May, by that point I assumed I had lost enough wait and thought that parties were all over the place and the combo of alcohol and my weight loss would be enough to get me laid
Turns out that VCU has cracked down on drugs and alchohol HARD, and greek life is nearly non existant
Plus it being an urban university doesnt help either
I'm 6'5, was orginally 307 back in August 2014, am now 268
I turn 19 in May man
And my new years resolution at the start of this year was a sort of "not one step back" beyond 2015 type deal, that I would get laid this year no matter what even I had to get an escort
>>22991250
Half of all male 18 years olds are virgins.
Don't lose it to a prostitute, you'll regret it.
>>22991291
So your problem is potato related, gotcha.
>>22991275
Also I drink nearly nothing but water now and I eat like half of what I used to, even without working out anymore I still maintain the way better eating and drinking habits
Its the least I can do
>>22991294
Thats fucking bullshit and you know it
I gotta go shit I'll pull up the statistics in a bit to prove that its bullshit
And I dont see why I would regret it
>>22991291
How can you get banned from a fucking gym wew lad
>>22991301
Wow, you are a catch. Goddamn I hope this is but a clever ruse.
All the people I have ever been infatuaded with have never felt the same way about me, and when they do show some interest in me they lose it very very fast, I tend to be too fucking nice, I have a great fear of rejection and don't want people I appreciate to feel wrong about me, I take risks but I'm such an awkward idiot I usually fuck it up, and of course I'm not the best at social interaction, not only romantically and thus I don't feel like a great conversationalist and this plays into the whole not being interesting thing. Another thing is that I don't have many friends to hang out with, i stay isolated most of the time, because of this there aren't a lot of occasions where I could find people I would be interested in.
And then we have the people who are into me but I don't reciprocate, I could easily go to them and start dating and shit but it would not be fair to either party, it wouldn't be genuine
So yeah that's kinda why I'm a kissless virgin, I just needed to vent a little about my romantic and social problems
virgin and not proud
29/M/Chicago
Looks like I've got all of you beat. Guys bitching because you're 18, 19 or 20 and a virgin? Fuck off. I'll be 30 in February. I've never been in a relationship before. Mostly a combination of reasons already mentioned in the thread. I've recently gotten past some anxieties and have been trying to talk to some women online but they just want nothing to do with me. I'm waiting til I'm 35 then I'll just get a prostitute if I'm still a virgin, lol of course I'll still be one! Probably off myself then as well.
>>22991306
Some bitch wouldnt stop trying to turn off the fan that she doesnt own and was trying to act like she did, I wouldnt let her do it and eventually she started cursing me out and yelling at me so I basically told her to fuck off and called her a cunt
They banned me I dont know what happened to her if anything
this is what i look like
dont know if its a good thing or a bad thing
>>22991294
Also I cant find the shit right now and Im too lazy to search harder
>>22991464
I think that maybe, just maybe your personality _might_ be the problem.
>>22991462
Don't go to a prostitute.
18
Waiting for the right guy
>>22992071
That's me. Right guy, coming through
>>22992075
cheeky
26
Never bothered making an effort, and other obvious factors. Can't be arsed to listen to problems, and deal with emotional baggage.
>>22992071
There's no such thing as 'the right guy'. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment.
>>22992071
Don't listen to >>22992096 for obvious reasons. There is a right guy, and you should wait. I'd flirt with you, but it's a waste of my time (distance probably). But you seem like a sweet and sexy girl. You'll find someone who will knock you off your feet and exceed your expectations by far. Do NOT settle for less because it will come. You just can't find it no matter how hard you look. You run right into it
>>22990329
>Age
21
>Why?
I don't fuckin' know bro. I'm not socially awkward, go 'errywhere 'round town, am not an idiot, am not ugly, am not a poorfag. By all means I should have scored yet I haven't.
Maybe its gotta do from my general naivety and the fact that I'm an eccentric faggot.
>Pic
My virgin pee-pee.
>>22992110
Hahaha. I think you've been watching too many Disney films.
>>22990356
I've seen very good looking girls with much worse
>>22990615
You definitely shouldn't be picky
>>22991090
A new haircut would go a long way
>>22991464
>banned from a gym
You did the right thing, m8. Find yourself a submissive woman who knows her place.
>>22992071
You'll pick the wrong one... trust me
>>22992096
You're on your way to becoming a wise wizard, anon. And the reasons that you listed are VERY legitimate.
Anyone below the age of 20 who's complaining about this should not let the ridiculous social stigma get to you; once you end up fucking someone, you'll realize that the worst thing about being a virgin is the fact that you feel undesirable and crave validation -- I suppose this goes for anyone, but after a while, the feelings of inadequacy are understandable and will only get worse.
>>22992130
Not being a virgin, I wouldn't know.
>>22992071
As all women are. No matter how long you wait, your perfect fantastical Prince Charming will never magically appear in front of you.
>>22992128
What's your condition? You're actually very handsome. It's a bit surprising.
>>22992134
Then I believe you're confused about the subject of the thread, anon
>20
>I think it's because I'm boring
>Could also be lack of confidence
>I don't think it's my appearance but I'm not going to post a pic
Technically not a virgin on account of I've had sex with four different hookers. But a virgin in the meaningful sense of nobody wanting to have sex with me.
>>22991108
>Was picky
oh god this
I mean I've never had anything guaranteed, but I've had a bunch of ugly fat chicks with terrible personalities show interest before. Two of them even outright told me they were flirting and I just tried to change the subject.
Want to jump in a time machine and slap the shit out of that kid.
>>22992139
Not really, because so far I haven't had sex for the last year, so I'm practically a born-again virgin.
To add, I'm not well-experienced (due to not being attractive enough) so I don't actually feel a non-virgin. So, I'll just keep posting.
>>22991294
>Don't lose it to a prostitute, you'll regret it.
How do you know? Did you lose it to prostitute and then regret it? I lost it to a prostitute and don't regret it. Every person I know that lost it to a prostitute didn't regret it. The only people who seem to know virgins will regret going the sex worker route are people who never went the sex worker route.
>>22992150
>haven't had sex for a year
My God, anon! How have you survived??
You wouldn't simply be fishing for compliments, would you?
>>22992158
There isn't anything to compliment, so you'll have a hard job at that.
>>22991462
why wait till you're 35?
>>22992039
oh shut up.
21
>Never been in a relationship
Just lol at you degenerates wanting to fuck strangers and prostitutes
>>22992170
Seeing a prostitute at the age of 18 is a bad idea.
>>22991462
I think 20 is a reasonable age to start grumbling. I've been in college for two years and had nothing come of it. Came out of my teenage years a virgin. Entered employment, still a virgin. I'm living in the age of tinder and hook up culture and I'm still a virgin.
If it hasn't happened by 20 prospects aren't exactly high for the future. Especially not with my attitude.
>>22992176
Not really, better than waiting for the 'right person'. You'll only be disappointed.
>>22992176
Why?
>>22992162
Then perhaps therein lies your problem.
The only women who are attracted to timid and insecure men, are butchy closet dykes, or generally dominant women-- you don't want that, do you?
>>22992182
18 is kinda too young for that. I mean you are still a teen and can easily get laid if you have a social life.
Just wait until you are 21.
>>22992176
the guy i replied to is 29, dummy.
and either way, half the people i know lost their virginity while they were drunk at some party and don't feel great about that either. how is that any better? this whole "don't lose it to a prostitute because you'll regret it" attitude is just sappy bullshit like the first time is going to be some romantic magical moment which it usually isn't.
>>22992189
By age 18 the sooner you start the better. If you have no idea how to fuck at 21, when you're probably fucking other 21 year olds, you're going to dissapoint your partner and probably won't get a round two.
>>22992194
edit: the guy i replied to was telling a 29 year old not to go to a prostitute.
>>22992188
Timid? Nothing of the sort. Women are not attracted to me, anyway nothing to do with personality. It's nothing to do with 'self-pity, 'self-loathing' or any other bullshit.
I'm not physically attractive enough, that's primary reason.
>>22992197
That's degenerate type of thinking. If a person can't deal with the fact that you are a virgin they do not deserve a second time anyways.
Fuck dating dumb broads who only want you for sex.
>>22992207
Okay, time for bed little boy. You've got Sunday school in the morning.
>>22990447
>2015
>joking about rape
>>22992201
http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/body-dysmorphic-disorder/basics/definition/CON-20029953
>unless that photo is far too flattering
>>22992197
>implying there aren't a bunch of 21 year old non-virgins that are supremely disappointing in bed.
>>22992207
No? Sexual compatibility is a huge part of relationships. (I say, having never been in a sexual relationship or relationship of any kind) Finding virginity cutesy is something you might do for a teen, where it's sort of romantic that you're somebody's first. By 21, statistically, most women have been sexually active for half a decade. Having to hold somebody's hand through basic sex like mish, doggy and cowgirl is a pain in the ass.
>>22992217
Another one suggesting I got that bullshit disorder. Think you need glasses.
>>22992213
I am 21 you retard. Back when i used to deal drugs i could have had sex a few times but i refused to behave like a degenerate who buys sex with drugs or fucks drugged up whores.
I am a human being not an animal.
>>22992217
To add, it's most likely the photo, because I haven't had much luck in person.
>>22992227
Well then I hate to be so trite, but perhaps it's because women prefer confidence.
>>22992232
Confidence does not matter as much as one might think. Looks money and status come first
>>22992226
Proplus doesn't count as "dealing drugs". Think you're just bullshitting.
>>22992232
No, I'm confident. It's that they're not physically attracted to me. I've never noticed a woman show much interest in myself, unless she's fucking blind.
>>22992226
>Back when I used to deal drugs
>refused to behave like a degenerate
lol, scumbag
>>22992237
I couldn't disagree with you more.
>>22992237
>looks, money and status come first
>not incompatible with my point
>18
>Bad childhood but that's no excuse desu
>I'm not that social, not a fan of 'clubs' would rather stay indoors and watch a movie or something
>Lack a lot of confidence when it comes to girls in general
>>22992244
Well, that's funny because I'm not good looking and don't receive many matches on tinder. So, I doubt it has anything to do with confidence.
>>22992270
You mean your physical appearance has affected your ability to score dates on an app where the only information about people you have is what they look like? Get out of town!
As a dude with a good body and a not-unattractive face who sees fatasses with solid 8/10s and literal 5'4" fat ginger manlets wooing grills left right and centre, your personality is 100% the most important thing. Are you fun to be around? Can you carry a conversation? Do people want to keep talking to you? If you don't have these you have no chance.
>>22992280
Think you definitely need your eyes checked. I doubt you're seeing good looking women with those types of men. Otherwise, I'd be having a lot more luck.
>>22992284
Maybe it's time to acknowledge that your personality stinks then. It's sort of the crutch I think too many people give themselves. Too many people think a girl saying "they look for a good personality" means they have a better shot, when in most cases it means you have a worse shot than before.
It was crushing when I finally realised I'm simply not a fun guy to be around and that's why I don't have friends or a gf. But on the other hand it gives you something to start improving. Fake it til you make it or whatever.
>>22992284
If you'd get a more suitable haircut and didn't look like such a mopey bastard in your pics, you'd probably have more luck
>>22992284
>>22992096
And actually shit man, you need to get YOUR eyes checked, you're decent looking. Dare I say you're even good looking if you cleaned yourself up a bit and tried cracking a smile.
I'd fuck you.
Was a virgin until 6 months ago. Ended up losing it to some random women from internet. She was fat, not attracted but i wanted to lose it. Immedietly regretted it afterwards. Being virgin might not be good, but losing virginity to someone you don't like is even worse.
20/m/aus
Literally dgaf anymore
>>22992323
20/m/aus
wanna meet up and play with each other's dicks?
>>22992329
Are poeple really that desperate that they go gay just to not be virgins anymore?
>>22992356
Yes.
I mean maybe. I've been jerking off to gay porn since I was 13 though, so I might be just bi.
>>22992329
Yeah no worries no homo but
>>22992356
how else do you explain all the tranny threads in /b/?
>>22992356
Why do you think traps are so popular on chans?
>>22992395
Ah... this guy already covered the obvious
26
I just don't interact with people that much, especially people my age. I don't think I know one female who is within ten years of my age - of the ones I do know it's either underage teenagers or women who are married with kids. I'm just not that social. Even at school I never really did much with the people who were my 'friends' outside of school hours. Needless to say I've never had a girlfriend. Honestly, I really don't care that much about being a virgin any more - if I have to spend my life doing things I hate just in the vague hope that it will lead me to hooking up with a woman who I will most likely also hate, then fuck it. And people who let prostitutes play on their desperation to extract money are just beneath contempt as far as I'm concerned.
Sometimes I wish I had someone to cuddle in the night. Then I pull my shit together.
>>22992300
Tried and tested.
Doesn't work, next suggestion.
>>22992303
>cleaned myself up
Despite actually already being cleaned up, I'll just waste more money then. To be "more clean".
>>22992531
I'm not decent looking, otherwise I won't be here. I'd also have a lot more matches on tinder than just one.
>>22992531
>next suggestion
Put a gun in your mouth and pull the trigger.
>>22992531
Ok, at this point, I think I can confirm the fact that you don't have any luck because you're an insufferable faggot.
>>22992270
I'm a skinny nerd who's like 6/10 and I'm up to... 19 last count? As of 24 y/o and losing it at 20.
It is entirely confidence and finding girls who happen to be into your type. And trust me, they exist.
I get zero matches on Tinder BTW. Having a kink helps, vanilla is easy to find you need something that makes you stand out.
>>22992566
>Having a kink helps, vanilla is easy to find you need something that makes you stand out.
Please clarify?
>>22992537
Not yet. I'll give it another 4 years, and I'll consider it.
>>22992563
When you come up with something I haven't tried and tested, I'll consider it. It's just that I'm not attractive enough for women.
>>22992566
Kink? Really don't think any IM is going to make the slightest difference. You're not living in the real world! Like I've said dozens of times already that I'm not good looking, and that's primary reason why I find myself in this situation.
>>22992597
That's me, bro. I'm not exactly amazing either. And I thought exactly the same thing you did UNTIL I started domming and got self confidence. It has nothing to do with looks other than that determining how many people are attracted to you. You gotta do a little more work but it is 100% that attitude that is fucking you
>>22992609
Nice b8 m8. Not convincing enough though, try again.
Attitude has very little to do with it.
>>22992586
Ok. Think of it this way. You go out to eat. You want a hamburger. You can get a hamburger anywhere right? But then you see a sign that's a hamburger with waffles for the buns. Kinda weird, maybe, but some people are gonna go for that because it's different, and maybe there's some people that like that.
Kink is like that. Doesn't have to be anything hard; maybe youre into latex. Maybe it's oil or liquids. Maybe spanking, or bondage, or anything. It sets you apartm. Think of it like a job interview, they get 100 applicants, you have to have something that makes you stand out and be the better choice
>>22992642
I don't buy it. I think being into weird sex stuff will make you stand out in a bad way. If I put in my tinder profile that I love sucking toes I'm gonna get less responses not more.
>>22992617
What do you want, a timestamp proving thats me? A pic with me and my play partner? I mean the latter would have to wait until after the first gets back from Christmas and the second recovers from having a kid but its doable
I don't really understand what people mean when they say "lower your standards". If I don't like someone, I don't like them, so how am I expected to talk myself into liking them? There's this fat, 30 year old, suffocatingly clingy woman that is willing to travel a few hours to meet up and fuck... but I've been trying to softly friend zone her. She's ugly and crazy but then if it doesn't happen now it never will, I'm 24 ffs. But like will I even be able to get hard.
>>22992654
Tinder doesn't get you laid. I have gotten three matches in two years. Try OKCupid. Or I get luck on Fetlife but you have to not be a shithead + Wade through the people already taken
>>22992676
Okcupid doesn't work either, I've tried that. Went on one date, with a rather strange individual. Not willing to do that again.
short, ugly face, shit genes in general, social retard, probably mentally ill too
>>22992698
Don't worry m8, you're not as ugly as me.
>>22992701
lol you look way better man, not even close
>>22992710
If I were good looking I wouldn't be on here would I?
>>22992715
idk what you are like but in my opinion it's definitely not your looks, take it as you will
>18
>creepy IRL, I suppose
>>22992727
Nah m8, it really is my looks. I've tried everything m8, nothing works.
>22
>too nerd, and not realy the mating kind of guy.
>>22992734
No more bait, thanks. We've had enough liars.
>>22990329
>24
>had a shitty school life
>misdiagnosis made school life even shittier
>hard to learn things due to dyslexia
>hard to talk to anyone since I had trouble understanding them completely
>very shy
>emotionally sensitive
>now suffering from depression
>do have a gigantic sex drive, but most likely due to being a virgin
>not exactly the greatest looking dude, but not an eldritch brain scrambling abomination either
Talked to a doctor yesterday and seeking some professional help now to deal with my depression.
Not saying I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy/FWB, but I'm more interested in a relationship.
>>22992689
There's your problem m9, fail once and then give up? You are gonna fail. 90-95% of your attempts will fail. Another couple percent will be psycho or catfish. It's the last bit you're looking for. Hell I went 10 mo with nothing before I got my current fwb
>25
>ugly
>>22992260
pls help
>>22992775
Not even lying. I've even tried to take a more aggressive role, being the "pursuer" which resulted in one guy dating me out of pity for a very short time.
Still a KV.
>>22992786
There's no point I've tried it all. Online, offline and no success. I even take coke, to make an effort to speak and even that doesn't help.
>>22992804
I doubt it, women always have it easier. I've only ever been on one date too, I think that was out of pity.
>>22992734
>crazy eyes/10
>>22992818
Then you should probably see a psychiatrist, that sounds like an anxiety disorder. Definitely more than just low self confidence. And that's coming from someone who has one himself
>>22992818
I won't deny that women have it easier, but this has been my experience. See, putting yourself out there doesn't help much when you're a creep. Pity dating is just humiliating
>>22992834
Psychiatrist? Nah, I won't steep that low.
>>22992845
Low? You go to a doctor when you get the flu right? There's nothing low about being sick. You go to the doctor, you get it treated. Simple.
This stigma about there being something wrong with having a mental illness of some sort is fucking stupid, there is absolutely no reason to act like seeing a psych is something to be ashamed of.
>>22990329
>18
>I spend more time on 4chan than I do on anything else in life.
>>22992851
I don't have a mental illness. I'm just not physically attractive, it's just that simple.
A psychiatrist isn't going to anything. I haven't got time to piss around talk to someone. I have a job to keep.
>>22992096
It's not your appearance at all, it's the fact that you are not a fun/nice person and you're too pussy to acknowledge it for yourself so you pretend like it's something you can't help. Man up and face yourself.
>>22992898
Nice people are pussies. If I pretended to be nice, I'd get stepped all over. I'm not a push over, so I'm not pretending to be one either.
>>22992915
Keep believing yourself. Keep believing that you are strong, better than others. Keep believing that you got unlucky with a bad appearance, and that that's why people don't want to be around you. Keep believing that attitude doesn't matter, and that charisma isn't the biggest factor in attraction. But eventually you will realise that you've been lying to yourself because you didn't want to know the truth because you know you're too weak to fix it and want to stay in your 'I'm untouchable' bubble.
>>22992929
I'm actually physically unattractive, I don't know how many times I have to reiterate. I simply look in the mirror, and don't see what you see.
You think it's attitude, when it isn't. I'm just not physically attractive, end of. Charisma don't mean jackshit.
>>22992216
>2015
>getting offended on 4chan because of its edge
Grow up.
>>22992112
The reason you haven't had sex is because women can sense when a mans penis looks like opo squash.
>>22992734
Women can't be creepy
>>22993023
Yes they can
>>22993031
can't believe it, there's always some dude who can put up with anything a woman does
>>22993023
You say that, but it isn't true.
Maybe top tier Stacies can get away with having a few creepy traits, but on a whole its a dealbreaker and easy to put people off.
M/21
I'm shy and become slightly anxious in social situations
I don't know how to hit on a girl and I don't know how to tell if one is hitting on me or is interested in me
I don't have any female friends except for two who are my friends gfs
The ironic part is I'm not even ugly. Well idk about my face but I've posted my body on the Internet a decent amount and I always get positive responses.
now I just feel weird cause I feel like if I ever manage to get close to hooking up with a girl my lack of experience will just turn her off and cause her to leave
>>22993060
gib some examples, i can't think of a single thing
>>22993023
I knew a girl that used her name as the subject for every email. And then later she would use a number in the subject to count how many emails she sent. Btw this was at an office and she also left a creepy mask made out of a paper plate on some dudes desk.
>>22993086
>this was at an office and she also left a creepy mask made out of a paper plate on some dudes desk.
maybe it's because I'm a creepy fuck but this shit sounds funny :^)
>>22993086
>I knew a girl that used her name as the subject for every email. And then later she would use a number in the subject to count how many emails she sent
that just sounds like it would make it a lot easier to keep track of a conversation if you've got a busy inbox
>Age
18
>why you're a virgin
I'm extremely apprehensive. Got daddy and mommy issues but instead of turning a hoe, I became really cautious when I comes to guys. Also I kinda feel like a lack a little bit of a personality cos my mom tried to stifle and suffocate me when I was a kid.
>>22993108
Idk she just had a presence that was unnerving to everyone, and her emails were so often bizarre in structure, and very cryptic, so that made the subjects creepier.
>>22993091
It was funny to laugh at but she never talked to this guy and the mask was kind of crudely terrifying, haha. Looked like something a deranged child would cook up.
Btw this girl was fired because she broke into a tenant's apt (we were a property mgmt company) and was found playing the tenant's harp. I'm pretty sure there are bodies in a meat locker somewhere..
>>22993110
Another bullshit poster. Really? Why lie?
>>22993110
>tfw you are addicted to filters.
>21
>Shy, think I'm hideously ugly even though I have times I feel like I might not be, really insecure about being very tall even though I'm a guy
>>22993132
how tall? It probably only becomes detrimental at 6' 6"+
>>22993123
I don't care if you believe me or not lol. There's nothing to gain from lying on an anonymous board, especially not /soc/.
>>22993126
Tru
25.
Young girls are retarded and don't deserve my attention.
The older generation is too old.
lmao-ing hard @ betas who think they're the problem between the two parties. There's a reason it's not possible anymore to have a healthy couple. A major shift in Western society happened some 40-50 years ago to accelerate the emasculation of men and degenerate human relationships. Before that era, it was never expected for a man to remain alone, he just naturally got along women.
www.mgtow.com
>>22993137
6'4". I got tall at a very, very young age. Over 6 feet tall in middle school.
>>22993143
You-don't-need-it. It's like drugs.
>>22993157
You still seem within normal human range then
>>22993158
I haven't taken a selfie in 2 months since I don't have any social media lol dw, not addicted.
>age
23
>why you're a virgin
socially disabled
>>22993175
No facebook? You seem like my type of girl.
u wnt sum fuk bby?
>>22993110
I pity tha fool
>>22990329
>age
21
>why you're a virgin
why Im a virgin? how about why are you non virgin fucking stupid retard
>>22993023
Nymphomaniacs are one thing you should avoid.
So yeah, they exist.
>>22993062
I have a few questions for my fellow virgins.
Is it that you feel ashamed that you still haven't had sex when most people you age have or it is that you feel lonely because you have no one to love?
Have you guys experienced your friends basically making run of you behind your back?
Like my friends know I'm a virgin and they've said they'll hall get me laid but they never do. Then one day I over heard a conversation going on the living room about how if you want to get laid you just got out and do it it's not hard and if you can't get laid your a ugly or there is something wrong with you
>>22993110
Any interest in talking? My kik is sajl63 and my Skype is sajl632 or email is [email protected] Nothing dirty at all! Just maybe we can bullshit and help each other's confidence.
>>22993193
Why?
>>22993183
Nope, have a tumblr but I don't really consider that social media since I don't post any pics of me and no one in rl knows about it.
And no sry I don't like boys who type like those horny 50yo Indian guys on omegle :/
>>22993210
:^)
>>22990356
you're not ugly at all you fucking faggot, you look good
24 year old kissless virgin
Part of the reason is because I'm ugly. Get rated below 5/10 on /soc/ and other places, and have gotten insulted/teased IRL over my looks. Not only is my face ugly but I'm also emaciated
But the biggest reason is because I have a terrible personality and haven't had friends since probably middle school. I've always just been that class clown type who's sometimes funny but no one respects. And every year I stayed alone, I just more bitter and angry, and became more awkward as the years of isolation went on. I even graduated from college where I lived in a dorm and apartment, worked on campus, etc and all the people I knew I never contacted outside of living or working with them.
My life is just over basically
>28
>not attractive, not wealthy, not ambitious
>there's plenty of other guys who are a better catch
>>22993206
They can get emotionally attached to you, and will constantly demand more and more sex from you, even if you're physically and mentally exhausted, worst case scenario is that they will become violent and dangerous to the point of becoming morbidly jealous of your actions around other people.
Yes, I really did get bored and started studying Nymphomania back in the day.
>>22993383
>worst case scenario is that they will become violent and dangerous to the point of becoming morbidly jealous of your actions around other people.
That's just being a woman
>>22990329
> 27
> am scared of sex and women. also hate people, in a vaguely nazi-ish manner.
I wanna cuddle ;_;
(Also I want to tie you up and sodomize you viciously but mostly I want coffee & cuddles)
are do people think girls who are relatively good looking aren't virgins? just like how some guys can be socially awkward or shy so can girls
>>22991348
@ryan
23 year old kissless virgin
Diagnosed schizoaffective. Would much rather spend time alone then with others. Occasionally i get lonely and hang out with people but its definitely not enough to sustain strong relationships.
>>22991462
Dont start now you are almost a wizard
>>22992566
>6/10
>0 matches
>>22993414
How many good looking girls do you know who are virgins? And god looking guys are rarely virgins as well because good looks typically = more social interaction = less chance to be awkward.
There is a major difference between men and women.
Women can be awkward or shy but guys will still approach them, ask them out, have sex with them and date them/put up with them if they are awkward.
But it's up to guys to ask out girls, and if you're socially awkward, it would be hard for you to do so. Women won't see that you're awkward and realize they have to take the initiative if they like you. Even if they do like you, another confident guy will come in and ask her out anyway
>26
>several reasons: not attractive enough, living in italy, hate clubs. Also previous gfs mostly used me like a dildo, last one was like "i said no but it was a yes"... well fuck that, not risking jail for pussy.
>>22992216
>joking about rape
Blame feminist "rape culture".
>>22993667
>previous gfs used me like a dildo
>"virgin"
Get out of here you fucking normie
>>22994170
dude the fact that i did something doesn't mean i'm not a fucking virgin. The fact that i couldn't stick my cock in yet is even more frustrating
>>22994170
Well to be honest that's not a normal definition of virginity he has there.
>>22994187
She wanted you to ravish her. Poor girl.
>>22993378
You are gorgeous. I love it when you post.
23/m
I dunno man. I've been studying and putting in a lot of effort into improving my life. Recently took up public speaking and I go out regularly, though to more "nieche" places like tabletop gaming cafes.
I don't think I'm too retarded socially, but I've just been always afraid to "pull the trigger" so to speak. Might get myself an escort if I don't lose it before 24. I have a bit of a phobia too, because everyone always says that your first time is terrible and such.
Whatever happens, I'll work on getting it handled sooner or later.
>>22990329
>25
>i look like this, no girl ever liked me
20/m
Never tried to approach girls, spent most of my life studying or playing video games/watching cartoons/reading.
So yeah, never tried, and maybe I didn't notice girls trying to approach me? I have no clue about this "love" thing. Some nights I feel really lonely, expecially during days like these, but after I while I recover so it's all daijobu.
>19
>UK
Just not that attractive really, I try to put effort in and all, just doesn't end up with any girl being interested
>>22992698
>ugly face
wtf where? You are not ugly.
>>22994856
>girl
I'm sure there are enough guys who would. :)
>>22994856
Are you fishing for compliments or are you actually a retard that can't see that your face is absolutely nice?
>>22994894
Oh I don't think it's my looks that are too horrible, I think I phrased badly
I think I'm unattractive overall, specifically my personality/interests
>>22994883
Which is a bit of a shame, seeing as I'm straight :P
>>22994903
>I think I'm unattractive overall, specifically my personality/interests
yeah, i don't even know you but i hate your guts now
>>22994903
What kind of interests you have?
Remember that saying "I'm a boring person" is a really big mistake. Self loathing is good only if you are doing it in a really fun way.
>>22994860
some girls have said it to me and i have always hated it
>>22994924
I'm a programmer for the most part, I also used to stream on twitch as I really like to cater for others, but I have put a hold on that whilst I focus on my A-Levels, I also play badminton and do some cross country when I have time
I would go into more detail about these things but I think I'm rambling on as it is :)
>>22994945
Who give a f*** about girls, hole is hole. :^)
You would find as a gay men really fast a nice husbando.
Believe me because I'm gay. :)
>>22994915
Tends to be the response I get (y)
>>22994975
well i am not really into that stuff desu
>>22994957
Well surely those aren't hobbies that will net you lots of girls, that's for sure, I'm studying programming myself and spend way too much time playing videogames, and where I live girls interested in vidya are a myth. Dunno about UK tho, I think you have way, way more game cons there, you might hit jackpot there, or so I've heard.
>>22990329
I guess I just didn't really pounce on the chances I had and now I don't really go out much. I work and do my errands otherwise I just stay holed up and read. Yeah my mustache is pretty blonde, but I'm too lazy with my new job.
>>22995003
For the most part in England it's pretty ok for gamers and anyone of the sort, but I live in a town which is pretty vapid, ofc I can't speak for everyone there, so I still think there's a chance to find someone if I continue to look :)
>>22995024
Please marry me <3 #nohomo?
25.
I'm avoidant, ugly, fat since I was a kid. Extremely insecure so I won't even try, now I'm balding on the top of that so %100 sure never gonna lose it.
24
Fat, gyno which was made worse by being fat, shit personality, dont know how to properly socialize, depressed, anxiety, people don't like being around me, i freak people out by existing for some reason
>>22993420
What? Do you mean the race or my name?
Itt: issues and shitty priorities
Just focus on the long run. Build it, they will come.
M/25
I like to be chased. Women don't find men who act like this amusing.
>>22990329
18
Literally turned down girls who begged for sex because it just seems gross to me.
19/Norway I dont know what to say to people. And I am so inept that I have unknowingly turned down a grill that made a move on me.
>>22990329
21/Belgium
I don't know, according to many people I do look decent. It's probably because I have no idea on how to approach girls I want to go out with, I just feel awkward just by thinking about doing it our fear the consequences. You know, like I wouldn't want to make the opposite person feel awkward about me either by saying no, and I don't want to people to stop liking me. Literally the only times I went well with girls were when I was extremely drunk.
Anyone can relate to this?
27m
NEET
friendless
broken inside
sort of a dick
don't drink
hate clubs
weird smell on cock
can't get hard on command anymore
>20
>I have absolutely no desire to be in a relationship and I don't want to resort to getting a hooker
any advice?
>>22996360
Are you decent looking? Get out a bit? Try tinder!
20/m/ Us
I'm a virgin because I'm afraid to have sex. I had chances to do it in the past but I chose not to because I was afraid that it'll be as terrible as my first kiss. My first kiss was horrid because I made out with the person out of lust rather than something interpersonal.
>>22991294
i only came here to confirm this
sex is honestly pretty much garbage and the only way i could possibly enjoy it would be if i really liked the other person - i imagine
prostitutes are basically fodder for self-invalidation
>>22992130
no, >>22991090 is fa as fuck
>>22995382
hahaha yes women claim men have ego issues, and then you try to coax them into following your rules before you get them into bed and the only girls willing will
1) require tit for tat that you follow their rules
2) are players/sluts
26/M/ottawa
I was a super introvert/shut in for years although I'm honestly much better now. My problem is that I'm so hung up on the fact that I'm still a virgin that I don't even attempt to meet girls or try dating sites or anything. I'm too ashamed.
tfw no girls near pittsburgh to take my virginity
>18
>because I get attatched and then feel bad
Also because most girls in my area are literal cum dumpsters with body counts higher than their mothers age
42
>wizard
I'm a 42 year old guy on 4chan, of course I'm a virgin. Loved video games and computers at a time when it was kinda unacceptable to be an adult nerd. But whatever, I'll probably off myself before I reach 50
>>22996995
amazing if true
18/M
>How do you remain a virgin?
Just have next to no social skills, an abrasive/degenerate personality, and just be socially autistic as hell.
>>22994222
Thanks anon if only I can find somebody who appreciates me like that IRL.
Are you from UK? ^^
>>22996995
Or just play video games until you die naturally. Offing yourself is so boring
>>22996995
Also, go to therapy faggot
>19
>Too shy to approach women, fear of rejection, and I feel as if i'm so unattractive that i'll get quick reject.
>>22997099
Someone who is probably half my age trying to give me life advice.
That's real fuckin cute.
Let me know how you feel when you get older
