I have the opportunity to have sex with a milf tonight. This is a huge fantasy of mine that I've had for years. However, I've been in a relationship with my GF for almost 4 years and I love her to death.
If I act on my fantasy, will it go away, or will it intensify?
Anyone else been in this situation where they've had an opportunity to fulfill a sexual fantasy but are in a relationship?
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well, ask yourself. do you really wanna give up a good relationship for a one night stand? sure this may be your fantasy, but if you really care about this girl, i say that your fantasy should be neglected this time.
>>22807808
Kill yourself.
Good luck!
>>22807827
Or you could just not get caught.
Can you live with the guilt tho? Will you be able to handle knowing you are a terrible person and not deserving of your significant others love but still take it anyway?
What I think about anyway, about to get married.
Some other chick wants me to tie her up n what not, dont think I can resist.
I'll prob hate myself on the inside, but I'll get over it.
>>22807847
I had a situation at college where a girl caught me in a vulnerable state and abused to try and have sex with me. I let it go on for a few minutes before getting her off of me and felt really guilty about it.
I know I had agency in the situation, but like I said I was very vulnerable at the time.
I feel like I won't feel guilty but I think that's just because I'm horny.
>>22807869
dude, dont cheat on your girlfriend, man. if shes been good to you, then why bother right?
>>22807885
I fapped and immediately didn't want to anymore and felt like an ass. I think that says enough. Thanks for your help /soc/.
>>22807906
no problem
>>22807906
You think fapping will make your desires go away? Hah you've got a lot to learn about yourself. You'll regret it whether you do it or not. The upside to doing it is that at least you'll have been able to act out and experience your fantasy. Just do it and don't get caught. The guilt will mostly go away. But the truth is, you won't be with your current girl forever anyway. Don't let this opportunity slip away.
>>22807808
Throughout life the little head pushes us in directions that our intellect and values try to reject. The mlf offers an exciting but empty experience. I ruined my marriage chasing women. I didn't get caught but my. Guilt interfered w my ability to communicate and caused me to be cold and distant.
>>22807808
>Marry Gf
>Knock her up
>Wait a few years until she looks like a milf
>???
>profit
