>be me
>walking home with gf from uni campus
>no one on campus this late in the year
>playing Pokemon GO together
>feels amazing
>literally 10/10 wild Chad appears
>great genetics etc.
>my heart sinks
>he speaks a solid 15 minutes about normie stuff
>says lel i play that game too
>he's so confident
>i see gf smiling the whole time he's with us
>feelings of inadequacy building
>he eventually leaves
>gf says (exactly this) : 'i dont want to upset you... but he has the ideal look that chinese girls are after'
>pepeplusthegun.jpg
>play it off like haha yea i can see why
What should I have done? Am I right to feel insecure? Am I pathetic? School me on what I should have done. This happened yesterday and I am still thinking about it...
>>30010136
what the fuck. first how old is she OP?
>>30010161
she's 32 (leftover girl) and i am 21. i am using her as a practice gf, before my 10/10 korean cutie
>>30010136
Literally dump her now to save the heartbreak and drama down the line
Wow, your girlfriend is a slut. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I would NEVER say that a guy is attractive in front of him. What the fuck? She is either trying to make you jealous or is a bitch with no empathy. If I were you I wouldn't have played it off, I would've been like "Why are you telling me this?" Would've made her explain why she is complimenting some guy to you
>>30010183
save what heartbreak? hers? i am self motivated in this matter... i won't get upset.
>>30010192
Yeah... You're right. Fucking hell. Thanks for the response.
>>30010136
Beat the shit out of her. Or you know, just do the normal thing and break up. First is way more satisfying though.
>>30010136
You're a soft sissy bitch. I'm starting to like faggots like you, less competition.
>>30010136
Leave her now, OP. You may not be upset when she fucks Chad, but you will be angry. Just leave that whore and find your 10/10.
>>30010223
To be fair... Yeah. I should've called her out or something. Fucking hell.
>>30010176
>i am using her as a practice gf
kill yourself, you deserve to get cucked
>>30010227
This is why I am learning Korean etc. getting a Korean job... Not one of these bad attitude Chinese.
>>30010240
They are both shit stains that deserve to die.
>>30010136
You and your gf WILL find other people attractive during your relationships, this is normal. You gotta get yourself comfortable with it and do it yourself too. It's a common topic of conversation. It's normal to have feelings of attraction with people who you aren't in a relationship with. You have the option of ignoring those feelings and not talking about it EVER or bringing it up and having a normal conversation about it. It's a normal thing people do in relationships.
Put it this way - talking about stuff like that keeps both of you working to maintain the relationship and improving yourself.
>>30010176
What the fuck? why are you dating a leftover girl? By dating her you are telling her she still has value in the sex market. Have you had sex with her? Or does she let you?
She sounds like she is still thirsty for cocks and chads. I would be weary that she could cheat on you if a "ideal looks" man came up to her even being slightly flirtatious. Then she would say "oh no I was drunk and didn't remember :P"
Personally I wouldn't have gone in a relationship with her in the first place because most women act like this. If you somehow gain from the relationship then I guess thats your choice to stick with it. But be warned of these risks.
>>30010265
Yes, we discuss things like that. It's more the manner of, 'Hehe~ He's so attractive', as though she was voicing a genuine attraction that she would otherwise follow up on given the right circumstances.
>>30010295
Probably just wants you to be a little more confident, she sees that you could be just like him so she's nudging you to be more like that.
Fucking hate when females do that kind of "indirect suggestion" shit though, but it's how they work.
>>30010349
Didn't think of it in that way... Maybe you're right. It's a bit of a shitty way of hinting at something, though. I mean, fuck.
>>30010176
>she's 32 (leftover girl) and i am 21.
She's not "leftover"..
What happened is she kept cucking guys one after another
You'll be next
just enjoy the ride while it lasts i suppose
>>30010176
>>30010176
This guy can get a GF. What's your excuse r9k?
>>30010624
Amen, brother
oregano comentaro
>>30010270
>THIS
you stupid white boys ruin everthing
She's "leftover" for a reason
Leftovers>into the trash
>>30010136
>'i dont want to upset you... but he has the ideal look that chinese girls are after
So you're another white beta in a wm/af. You're already being cheated on if she's that confident in saying that. What's she use you for?
>>30010136
Yeah, all women are like that.
>>30010265
Lol it isn't normal to say that other guys are attractive right to your boyfriend's face. Maybe if you're both swingers or he's a cuck and likes hearing that shit but otherwise no. No man wants to hear that their girlfriend finds another man attractive, I don't care what you think a "normal relationship" is that's whack.
I am so tired of hearing about this fucking game
I work a hard job with some tough dudes. It is especially uncanny to see these sort of men, who until the game went viral hadn't even heard of Pokemon, now wander about the city playing this terrible meme botnet pile of shit. I really don't know what to make of it.
In response to the OP, I can't tell if you're blowing this out of proportion, but from what the information you're giving us it does seem like you are an inadequate partner for her. That's the kind of stuff that used to happen with my ex before she picked up a chad. Just sayind dude.
>>30010708
>Lol it isn't normal to say that other guys are attractive right to your boyfriend's face.
There's a big difference between
>WOW he's so hot I'd totally fuck him if I was single but I still love you babe x3
and
>he has the ideal look that chinese girls are after
>No man wants to hear that their girlfriend finds another man attractive
I agree, but being in a relationship doesn't mean you hear what you want all the time - same goes for her. It's inevitable your partner will find someone other than you really attractive and it's better for you to talk about it with them. Bottling those feelings up leads to both parties in the relationship being unhappy. They will feel dissatisfied with the partner they have and think they could have something better and talking about them (even in a humorous way) will dissolve those feelings and have both parties feeling more secure in the relationship - if the converastion is done right.
>>30653287
I would just leave her if some slut started talking about other men like that
>>30010708
I really don't care if my GF says she finds some celebrity attractive. I would probably be bothered if she mentioned someone IRL, though.
>>30011151
I think that we're going to have to just disagree. I don't think that it is necessary to talk about every person you find attractive with your SO. I've managed not to for years without any problems. We both watch porn and find others attractive but would never blatantly call someone attractive in front of the other. I just find it to be disrespectful and it obviously hurt OP as well. Like she can't encounter a hot guy without blurting that out, really? If you have a relationship where you communicate that way and function then good on you but I think that the majority of people would feel uncomfortable with that comment
Chances are, she's already fucking someone behind your back, you stupid cuck.
>>30010624
His GF is 12 years older than him. She finished college while he was still in elementary school
>>30010624
She is a leftover .
That's like even Asians don't want her and the man is getting nearly cucked by a literal trash
>>30010136
"Then go be his girlfriend, bitch'. This is literally what i would've said. Then i would have left. Right now it's too late for that, but you need to talk it out to her, and explain your problems. By the way, this: >>30010708
>>30011376
>"Then go be his girlfriend, bitch'. This is literally what i would've said.
I bet you're real successful with the ladies.
>>30011285
Yeah dude by all means not ALL the time and not EVERY guy. I'd be uncomfortable too if that happened and I'd talk about it for sure but the way OP put it seemed to me like it happened for the first time so I was explaining my point of view like that.
Also
>I think that we're going to have to just disagree
It's rare I see this when discussing something on this website, cheers
>>30011376
Yes, this is how you learn about women and relationships. Breaking up with them at the smallest sight of something going wrong. Simbly ebin :DD
Why am i so afraid of playing pokemon go?
There was a lure nearby and i was literally too afraid to go there since there will be people.
I guess i'm afraid of them all being friends and me being this autistic lonely person next to them.
>>30010136
>>30010183
Do this. But before doing so give her one last hate-fuck.
>>30011428
doesn't mean tgat you break up with her. it's to show how mad you are for her behaving like that.
>>30011496
I've seen a lot of guys playing it alone, as well as a few girls playing it alone. At the park near me I saw a guy on his bike, another guy alone, a mom with her two preteens, and a group of people. I was by myself as well playing because there are like 7 pokestops and 2 gyms on one little street with several bars, it's my favorite place to play. I have actual autism and have talked to some people about it no problem, even met some guy on the nature trail and he helped me learn how to beat a gym
>>30011541
>it's to show how mad you are for her behaving like that.
lmao that's woman-tier manipulation behaviour
>>30011541
Any self-respecting woman would leave you after you said that.
>>30011730
a woman that just told you such a thing. haha.
Should have mentioned she was your gf in conversation and Chad probably would have stopped flirting with her. Most people have enough respect to do that
>>30010136
>>30010176
>32 year old thinking she's hot shit.
I hate this fucking country sometimes.
>>30010176
look like you are the one being used as a practice bf you fucking cuck.
>>30011376
This reeks of insecurity and immaturity. You'd sound like a toddler.
>>30010192
>girl btw
Go the frick away
>>30012321
Now I know that you're a roastie. If a girl so much as has a conversation with a guy, I'll drop her faster than I can cum. Seriously, I have no time to waste with entitled selfish bitches. there are billions of women, I don't have to settle with one less than fucking perfect. She obviously doesn't care about me if she talks to other guys, and I'm not keeping her around for the sex, I can get that anytime from hookers much hotter than her and with less BS.
Life gets 100% better when you drop negative people out of your life.
Havent read the thread yet but what did the chad look like to make her say what she said?
Pics appreciated
>>30010192
But from what I've gathered. I think she want op to look more like that chad. That's how girls say things right? They're indirect like that. Maybe you're different but im talking about op's girl
You should have beat her and told her she was just a practice gf
>>30010265
Nah, you're just a worthless whore ruined by the culture Jews have made.
