Robot Levels
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What level are you?
I moved up from a level 9 to a 4 last night when a girl felt sorry and slept with me after I got punched by a chad - am I still a robot?
hug and I'm 23
At least a -2 or -3 depending on what's above sex, what level is a MFF threesome?
Hug.
Oh, family doesn't count?
...the cashier at my local convenience store is a woman. I shoot the shit with her sometimes, she's cool.
>>30008571
Does kissing count if she didn't want it?
>>30008571
Level0reporting in
I still don't belong around people
Classic 9 for me
>>30008571
11
never touched a girl in my life besides my mother spanking me
Hug but it was only a friendly hug that people do when leaving school.
0.
Normalfag here. Fucked once.
>>30008571
I'm an 8.
20 years old here.
>>30008571
>I moved up from a level 9 to a 4 last night when a girl felt sorry and slept with me
>slept
Whatever. I'm a 9, a kv like most robots.
Also, relevant Adventure Time clip. (As robots, you have no right to judge.)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iB1qgS8HeBk
>>30008571
If I fucked a whore am I at 0 or it doesnt count?
1, but I was a 9 a couple months ago. Finally found an attractive girl who can deal with my shit. Think I'm gonna move up to 0 tomorrow...
>>30008571
I was 8 until I was 19, 4 until I was 21 and 1 until I was 22. There's hope for you young robots to turn it around.
52 here. Guess that's an okay score... I'm nearly a normie :/
>>30008803
Wrong thread bud try again.
>>30008777
When you finally do, you need to GTFO this board. Obviously, you can no longer identify with us. Moreover, staying here will just fucking poison your mind.
So, best of luck, and get out normie. You have earned the "reeeee".
>>30008625
>>30008672
GET OUT NORMIES REEEEEE
>>30008749
Doesn't count. The partner has to actually enthusiastically assent to sex.
1 but with a dude
>>30008843
Then 10. Only whores have fucked me.
>>30008571
Moved up from 8 to 0 in like two weeks when I met women that liked me despise my really shitty personality. I was 24 virgin then.
Now I have guaranteed sex when I only want, but still prefer to masturbate. Feels good man.
7. I was 5 years old at the time. If that doesn't count then I'm at level 10
>>30008803
>Guess that's an okay score... I'm nearly a normie :/
Go
Back
to
>>30008571
I've been stuck at level 8 since 16.
I'm 24 now.
>>30008887
Were the women qts?
My girlfriend rims me and gets into my fetishism like wearing her mother's high heels and letting me cum on them. Which level is that? Apart from that I'm a total robot though.
Im a fucking 11. What can i do to talk to a girl? How do i approach?
>>30009429
What is your age, dude?
I'm still an 11. 23 years old, and I only talk to people if I have to.
>>30009429
i've always wondered this too
>>30008571
10 Pls kil me
>>30008843
Are you jealous that I've had two girls suck my cock at the same time? I'll admit it was pretty great, but they ended up passing out before doing any really fun stuff. I kept fucking them both separately but they were too shy sober to see each other naked.
>>30008571
>tfw 10
>>30009443
20yrs old and fuck the mute system, why do you need to know?
>>30008571
8, because in my country, you kiss on the cheeks as a greeting.
But no hug tho.
Made out. 18
>>30008571
9 I think. A girl hugged me as a joke once, but it wasn't romantic, so does it count?
Aside from that I've had some light touches on the arm in conversations, but nothing else.
I seriously doubt I'll ever kiss someone
11, baby. Talked with girls maybe half a dozen times throughout the years of school. No opportunities for anything else except maybe a hug, but it was one of those things where a female friend of a friend of mine hugged everyone else but me as a goodbye thing or whatever.
What if I paid to do most of this stuff and never legitimately had love or a girl attracted to me? Can I still be a robot?
>>30009465
Not him, but I'm jealous. Do you even need to ask? Get out normie.
>>30008571
i guess im 12 then because i have never talked with opposite gender beyond swearing to them as a kid and spitting on girls.
>>30009504
nah famalam I'm not going anywhere. If any of you guys picked even a single thing to excel at, you could do the same. I'm not even that attractive, 5/10 at most.
>>30009521
What do you excel at?
>>30009521
Are you tall?
Oregano
>>30009521
FUCKING NORMALFAG GET OFF MY BORAT!!!!!!!!!
BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP!!!!!
>>30009541
I want to lie and try to get rid of this stupid meme, but yes I'm just over six foot lol
>>30009540
I'm a software engineer and I play bass on the side
>>30009475
>20 y/o
You still got a chance, dude.
Don't give up!
>>30009572
>six foot
>wealthy
FUCKING NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>30009521
> If any of you guys picked even a single thing to excel at
I excel as being a virgin.
Now, how do I use my skill?
>>30009352
Nope. When you're kissless, ugly virgin with bad attitude and shitty personality you shouldn't be too picky.
You should get any women and then make her pretty - help her lose weight and change the way she is handling make-up. And you will have cutie that you dreamed of.
>>30009685
No woman has ever been attracted to me. I'm not sure I have the strength of character to help a woman lose weight or self-improve anyway.
At this point I think I'm better off alone
Level 4, although I skipped level 6 and 5 if it only counts as making out if there's tongueI still have no idea how to french peopleI also border lined level 2
I'm gonna make it bois
>>30009572
Boom, there it is. Being tall is almost the guy version of having big boobs, you can have an absolute butter face and girls will still want you
What's the cut-off point for robot status? imo anything more than a hug and you're not a robobt
>>30009716
Being with women is overrated. It takes a lot of your time and makes you do things that you might not like. It's natural - you must not think only about yourself, but about other person too.
But it's good to have gf/have sex with women even for short time, to get some self-confidence from it.
Don't be afraid dear anon. When you find woman that is attracted to you, even if she will be ugly - try to be with her to feel how it is. It's good to have some new experiences.
It's not hard to make women go on a diet. You must still remind her of goals in your relationship. Telling her what you will do when she's gonna get fit. Sex will be better, she will be healthier, her social status will be higher... tell her something like:
>I don't want to push you on a wheelchair at your thirties. I want to go with you on a long date on your own legs.
or
>I really want to lift you up and take you to the bedroom... or having you sit on my lap at park.
Things like that works on women. Give them some promise filled with emotions and romance-like motives and they will keep they diet.
And remember to told her that your relationship is based on sincerity. You probably need to improve yourself too, but it's something good.
>>30009784
Apparently it still works if you're over six foot and over three hundred pounds? Because I've fucked a lot of girls and had four threesomes to date.
>>30009887
>fatties have had threesomes
>you're a skinnyfat virgin
>>30008571
Level 9 from a friendly hug that I've gotten once. I might as well be a level 10.
>tfw only one girl has ever liked you in your life as a total fluke and because of ur relationship w her you achieve normie status in the eyes of fellow robots
anyone else feel this
0
oregano pretendo roboto commentaro
>>30009909
confidence is a hell of a drug
also tbqh it doesn't hurt to have a large dick
>>30009918
REEEEEEEE GET THE FUCK OUT
>>30009914
this
>>30008571
What if I've clothes groped but never made out or kissed with tongue?
>>30009676
I know you're being funny but really he's right. If you have any kind of passion, literally anythingnot illegal/sexualat all will lead to you getting with a girl given enough time of putting yourself out in the world. Girls are justnormalpeople, they like the same shit as everyone else. You like a specific video game? Put yourself in the community, and you'll find a girl in it. Talk to her, talk about the game BAM you're in. Both me and a friend of mine got girls (one for me, two for him) overLeagueby just playing the game and talking in all chat. And I'm fat, and he's the goofiest looking mother fucker I've ever seen in my life.
All the memes about how to get chicks are based in some kind of truth
>just b urself
Isn't advice to get a girl, it's advice to get a girl that you actually want to be around. If all you want is a girl, don't listen to it. If you want a life long gf/wife then follow it. Given a long enough time you'll get a gril who likes you for you
>just b confident
Is the realest of the memes. Here's the thing, when you meet grils (or anyone for that matter) they don't know you. They don't know your faults, your problems, your struggles. All she knows about you is how you act and how you (look like) you view yourself. Be bitter, you're better than everyone. They're filthy normies, and you fucking know it. They're lucky to talk to you. Don't tell them, fucking obviously, but talk to them with that in mind. She's lucky to be with someone like you, she's a fucking normie. You're a god. You've transcended this reality. Let her see how good you are in the way you hold yourself It doesn't matter if it's true or not, it doesn't matter if you believe it. All the matters is that you act like you believe it.
>>30009941
>tfw average dick
Yeah fuck this, I'm dying a virgin.
>>30008571
a 10
I can't specifically remember a hug but i'm sure it happened
5
Planning on fucking the same girl eventually.
>>30009960
Thank you anon, you've done a good job of explaining what I mean. It's actually not that hard to attract girls. They're just normal people like the rest of us. Stop putting them on a pedestal and you'll realize they're just as fucked up and insecure as you.
That chart is pretty strange. I've groped girls, but I've never kissed one. That puts me above someone who made out with a girl? Nah.
>>30009429
Kek I read "I'm fucking 11" was about to call the mods on you son
Nigga you're 20 go get drunk and approach a shit ton of girls you'll get used to rejection and it will get easier and easier
>>30009998
It really isn't. And the literal worst thing you can do is put someone on a pedestal (woman or otherwise) most people crave power. The minute they realize you place them above yourself they'll strike. The exception of course being people who you are genuinely close with who actually care about you.
>>30009941
But you're still tall, that's all that really matters. Confidence will get you nowhere if you're a manlet
>>30009960
This is bullshit advice. Firstly, some of us aren't good at anything.
Secondly, being confident if you know you're inferior is retarded. It's ignoring reality.
>>30010039
Humans are predators. Show no weakness. Do not be prey.
>>30010044
what part of "fat as fuck" did you not get? Nigga I fuck girls that *more than two hundred pounds less than I do*, do you really think being short is a serious problem? Don't fall for r9k memes, short people wouldn't exist if they didn't get laid, it's basic fucking genetics.
>>30010053
The sound bite is "You are what you pretend to be" and it's 100% true. I pretended to be an Internet nazi for trolls and now I'm hardcore fash and I didn't even mean for this to happen. I pretended to be confident because I really wanted this girl to like me and three months later she had her tongue up my ass and was calling me Sir.
>>30008571
Level 9 kissless virgin. I've atleast got a pityhug from a busty grill before
>>30009960
Someone finally explained the "b urself" meme to these faggots, I can't believe it was that hard to understand.
>>30009998
>It's actually not that hard to attract girls
>They're just normal people like the rest of us.
>normalfags actually think this
>Stop putting them on a pedestal and you'll realize they're just as fucked up and insecure as you.
I seriously doubt that. I don't put them on a pedestal (I hate that phrase), I just don't understand them and at this point in my life I'll never be able to catch up. Even if I somehow got a gf I'd be a terrible partner and would likely just end up pushing her away.
Anyone else thinking about an heroing if you reach 30 and you're in the same situation?
Touched anywhere a few times (hands).
One or so pity hugs from classmate.
>>30009960
>League
>specific video game
Fuck off.
>>30010073
But you're tallness still cancels it outtttttt. Even if you're heavy, you'll look a hell of a lot thinner.
Like I got a guy at my job that's like 6'5 and almost 300 pounds, but he looks a hell of a lot thinner than me at 185 and 5'6
>>30010073
>Humans are predators. Show no weakness. Do not be prey.
This just sounds autistic as fuck. I don't want to act in a stupid way just so some cunt likes me.
>>30010089
>I pretended to be an Internet nazi for trolls and now I'm hardcore fash and I didn't even mean for this to happen.
Holy fuck Ive pretended to be autistic in this board for a long time for shitposting
I'm fucked am I?
>>30010104
Look, I used to be one of you. I have multiple friends, friends I met playing fucking Dungeons and Dragons, who got laid on my advice. If you'd like to continue telling yourself that girls are totally alien, you go right ahead.
>>30010119
It's not acting in a stupid way, it's not letting people step over you, cuck.
>>30010089
That's fake. It's ignoring reality. Retarded advice. If it worked for you, it's because you were a crypto Chad
>>30010116
Bull-fucking-shit. I'm 380 pounds and barely over six feet tall. I have a large penis but I'm so fucking fat it hides inside the fat when I'm not erect. Don't give me this "tall" meme nonsense. Have you even tried? Legitimately talked to yourself in the mirror to figure out how to talk and not look like a retard and struck up conversations with girls? Have you gotten a hobby and talked to girls you meet there?
If you haven't tried then all of your "manlet" memes are literally making you into a retard.
>>30010119
It's not autistic. It's an absolute fact. People will not respect something that their reptile brain sees as little more than the social kicking toy. So get yourself a mirror and fucking *pretend*. For hours. Get your shit together.
>>30010123
Don't worry, you can hide it. I still shitpost here for a few hours a day. It's irreversible, though, you'll be hiding it for the rest of your life. Autism is forever.
>>30010146
You literally cannot teach some people. If you want to die alone because you'd rather believe in nihilistic memes than things that actually work, be my fucking guest.
As much as I hate pickup artist shit, their stuff actually works. I have multiple friends who can confirm.
>>30010044
The manlet meme is blown out of of proportion a lot. Unless you're a literal midget you won't have problems. A friend of mine is legit like 5 foot 5 and he's fucked multiple girls and had plenty of gf's
>>30010053
>Firstly, some of us aren't good at anything.
Find something you enjoy, put time into it. Easy. Granted I'm not one to talk, I'm not really good at anything other than WoW, self depreciating jokes, and suicide jokes that frankly I'm not even sure aren't thinly veiled crys for help. The point is the V A S T majority of people, robots included, have something they're passionate about. If that's you, pursue it and you will find friends/gfs/etc. If it's not you then look for something you're passionate about, I hear it helps you feel a lot better. Personally I'm still looking for something other than fucking math that I like/am good at since I'm not educated enough in it to do anything with it.
Second see, >>30010089
Besides, even if it is ignoring reality. So what? Isn't that what we do every day. We come on /r9k/ ignore our shit lives, and blame everything on "normies" when deep down we all know to some extent that everything in our lives good or bad is our fault. We all ignore reality Anon, in one way or another, might as well use it as a way to get what we want.
>>30010104
Look man, if you understand people at all you understand grils. It really is that simple. If you don't understand people I can't help with that one, I've been really good at understanding and reading people all my life so I don't know how to get there. Either way the take away from this is as follows: grils are just people. They like the same shit other people like. There are grils out there that like the same shit you like. Grils, like all people, like guys who don't hate themselves, who think their time is worth something
>>30010108
?
>>30010123
Yer fucked kid. I do the same shit. Act autistic on the internet and then realized I'm doing the same shit irl. You can hide it
>>30009960
> Girls are just normal people, they like the same shit as everyone else. You like a specific video game? Put yourself in the community, and you'll find a girl in it. Talk to her, talk about the game BAM you're in.
This guy is right. I've found my gf on some mediocre fantasy play-by-forum game
>>30010119
It may sound autistic, but it's true. People are fucked up. I am. You are. Everyone is. Everyone wants power, don't give it to them. And it's not acting in a stupid way, it's just not showing your weakness.
>>30010146
see my post here>>30010207
>>30010144
i don't let people step over me, fuck off. I'm constantly wary of people trying to use me normalfag
>>30010188
>People will not respect something that their reptile brain sees as little more than the social kicking toy. So get yourself a mirror and fucking *pretend*. For hours. Get your shit together.
If it's true then I don't want to participate. Normie genocide when? Humanity is disgusting.
>>30010206
>If you want to die alone because you'd rather believe in nihilistic memes than things that actually work, be my fucking guest.
I just don't want to ignore reality like a deluded retard.
>>30010207
>The point is the V A S T majority of people, robots included, have something they're passionate about. If that's you, pursue it and you will find friends/gfs/etc
Even if we believe the guy who originally said this, he has a huge dick. So that explains why it worked out for him. Most robots don't.
I am level 12. Never speak to girls, unless they speak to me first. I think it's due to my creepshot addition, i think I'm just ashamed to talk to girls i photograph. any girl now though. i almost went to counselling for this. twice. bitched out both times. anyone with a similar experience please share.
>>30010244
>It may sound autistic, but it's true. People are fucked up. I am. You are. Everyone is. Everyone wants power, don't give it to them. And it's not acting in a stupid way, it's just not showing your weakness.
I can't fucking do it. OK? I can't and don't want to act like that. If that's what I have to do to have sex then fuck it, I'm not interested.
>>30010044
>Confidence will get you nowhere if you're a manlet
M8 this guy is poor,a manlet and ugly as hell and gets pussy every weekened.Confidence is probably the most important aspect in getting women
>>30010132
Well they are totally alien to me. It's not something I've told myself, it's something I learned through my life experiences. I don't give a shit about your D&D friends, they were latent normies the whole fucking time (robots have zero friends).
>>30010188
>>30010207
FUCK
alright you know what
I'll start acting as a Chad now in this board
Maybe this will help
I don't want no autismo
>>30010262
If you act confident without having the qualities to back it you're a fucking retard. You're lying to everyone else but more important you're lying to yourself. And that's fucking pathetic.
>>30010246
NOBODY SEES YOUR FUCKING PENIS UNTIL AFTER THEY DECIDE THEY WANT THE COCK YOU MORON
>>30010262
Confidence comes from consistently being socially validated, and then romantically and sexually desired.
If you missed the boat like us robots, you're fucked. You'll never catch up. Better to totally withdraw.
>>30010277
It's not going to work you fool. I tried acting more confident before and women still treated me the same. It's just bullshit.
>all the manlet memes
FUCK
GIRLS
SHORTER
THAN YOU
How hard is this to understand, I'm pretty much a giant compared to some of the girls I've fucked and I'm 5"10'
Level 8. Not that bad for /r9k/, but really bad IRL.
>>30010290
It gives him a massive confidence boost.
>>30010246
>I just don't want to ignore reality like a deluded retard.
Again, we all ignore reality in some way. Tell me Anon, how often do you think/do something about the corruption in all of the world's politics? How often do you think/do something about the inhumane treatment of people across the world? Of the animal abuse happening in YOUR city? The rape. Murder. Kidnapping. All of this happens every hour. But you probably don't think/do anything about it. Instead you go on /r9k/, you're ignoring reality. We all do it. Use it for your gain for once.
>Even if we believe the guy who originally said this, he has a huge dick. So that explains why it worked out for him. Most robots don't.
It doesn't work that way. No one knew his dick size when they started talking to him, and the vast majority of people won't get to the point where they're horny enough and attracted to you enough to fuck you. Watch you slide down your underwear and then decide: nah nevermind, your cock's too small. I'll just go home
>>30010259
Yes you can, you just don't want to put in the time/effort which isn't a lot. And you don't have to do it to have sex, it just makes it easier. Not just sex, but any kind of relationship. It's the best way to become friends too. Hide your weaknesses until you're close then open up. It's the way most relationships work Anon. If you don't want to, that's fine. Do you, but know the power to get relationships is there and available to you.
>>30010277
Do it Anon, it'll help. And hell, if it doesn't what do you have to lose?
>>30010281
We lie to ourselves all the time. And fine, don't want to lie to yourself? Then fucking find something positive about yourself. You have at least one, don't lie to me and yourself and say you don't. Hone in on that, let that thing define you and get confidence from that.
>>30010291
Can not confirm. Never had a girl be interested in me until 21, wasn't confident until 19. Fake it till you make it
>>30010324
>t. handsome wealthy socially confident normie
just beee urself
I'm the same height and I'm a KHV
>>30010281
>If you act confident without having the qualities to back it you're a fucking retard.
Probably,but women like that. If you dont value yourself they wpnt value you. You dont have to lie,you just have to show confidence in yourself and be proud of what you do,and you will eventually find someone.
>>30010369
>Tell me Anon, how often do you think/do something about the corruption in all of the world's politics?
Often.
> How often do you think/do something about the inhumane treatment of people across the world?
Often.
I think about all these things. Ignoring something that I don't even witness is different from ignoring my own fucking shortcomings that I see every day.
>It doesn't work that way. No one knew his dick size when they started talking to him
Having a big dick gives you a huge confidence boost because it makes you desired. There is nothing quite like it.
>>30008571
i did 5 once. not that intense so maybe inbetween 6-5
the problem isit was with my cousin
I groped people in public in very crowded areas.
so does that count im a 4 then.
>>30010342
Maaan, at least you talk to girls. I cant remember the last time i had a conversation with a girl that lasted more than 20 seconds.
>>30010369
>Yes you can, you just don't want to put in the time/effort which isn't a lot. And you don't have to do it to have sex, it just makes it easier. Not just sex, but any kind of relationship. It's the best way to become friends too. Hide your weaknesses until you're close then open up. It's the way most relationships work Anon. If you don't want to, that's fine. Do you, but know the power to get relationships is there and available to you.
It's not for me. I can't wear a mask around people. It makes me want to vomit just being around normal people, knowing you're an impostor. I'm just not made for this world.
Fuck I wish I was never born.
>>30010394
how do you grope people in crowded areas? sometimes at school when the hallway gets real packed i kinda want to grab a girls ass. any tips?
>>30010397
I think it's been 10 months for me, pretty good going.
>>30010378
>If you dont value yourself they wpnt value you.
No reason for me to value myself if I'm a non-Chad.
>You dont have to lie,you just have to show confidence in yourself and be proud of what you do,and you will eventually find someone.
I have nothing to be proud of.
>tfw normies dont even think about that because its normal
>cant even kiss a girl
>>30010373
I'm not handsome, I'm average looking. The confidence I got from the meme "faking it till you make it" meme and fucking womenlets. I'm not wealthy either lol
>>30010415
Yeah it seems crazy to me too. I just don't get how it happens. It's so natural to them but so distant and alien to us.
>>30010413
I can't approach girls. I assume they know i do creepshots. when in reality, almost 0 know.
>>30010415
don't even think about what?
>>30010411
I mean it has to be really crowded to the point where there is so little wiggle room. just look around, look for a girl and place your hands out a bit. you could probably dry hump her too and not come of as like you are trying to intentionally.
Hey, i reached level 0 for 3 days, and lots of endless misery and suffering afterwards, 2 years ago.
inb4reeeeeeeee, i'm a complete wreck
>>30010291
>Confidence comes from consistently being socially validated
Not really. You can be comfident without validation.
> and then romantically and sexually desired.
That is why you have to start low. Go for fatties or ugly girls at first if you really believe that you are worthless,and force yourself to speak with women. Really,if you enter a women,and they stock with you,you have pretty much got a laid if you dont fuck it up.
>>30010470
Tell us you story, anon.
And the reason that made you feel miserable afterwards.
>>30010393
The fact of the matter is there is still something about reality that you ignore. Everyone ignores reality in some way. Either way, fine don't fake confidence. Go out and and find something to be confident about. I'm telling you the easier way to get into relationships. If you don't want to "lie" to yourselfWhich, I'm putting in quotes because I honestly do believe that every single person at least has one thing to be confident aboutthen don't make it a lie. Go out and better yourself, don't say you can't. You can. Or don't and have fewer relationships than you could. Just don't act like it's not your choice, because it is.
>>30010401
It's not a mask though, it's just not showing what you don't like. It's focusing on either things, no mask. No acting or fakeness needed to just not show weakness.
>>30010414
Neither of those statements are true.
>>30010423
You're probably over thinking it like I was.
>my brother had 7 girlfriends already and will marry soon
>I never kissed a girl
>>30010492
>Go out and better yourself, don't say you can't.
Bettering myself won't change the things that make me inferior.
>The fact of the matter is there is still something about reality that you ignore.
Ignoring something that happens god knows where is different than ignoring my inferiority.
>Neither of those statements are true.
Actually both are true.
>>30010453
haha yeah, I just don't want to be frowned upon if someone sees me doing it. thanks tho
>>30008571
12, this lacks level 12. Level 11 is obviously talk to a girl in an attempt to ... whatever it is
By the way I am 35
>>30010517
>fat guys from school lost weight and now have gfs
>cousins younger than you are married
>handholdless virgin
>>30008571
4 or 5, not sure. I wasn't groped, but i did grope her. does that count?
getting grills 101:
>never be more invested in her that she is in you
>lift (seriously, fucking lift. Just don't be fat. Makes everything 80% easier)
>act confident if you aren't (don't do this if you're looking for a gf, just do it with random girls so you can build up actual confidence)
>get rejected a million times because you're not getting anywhere if you don't get rejected first
>learn from your mistakes
>>30010609
Fuck you. For every woman I would approach Chad would have much easier time. It's not fair and fuck you for telling me to ignore this.
>>30010609
>>get rejected a million times because you're not getting anywhere if you don't get rejected first
That's the part I cannot handle. I never do a thing than can fail, never
>>30010609
>>lift (seriously, fucking lift. Just don't be fat. Makes everything 80% easier)
I'm not fat, never have been
>get rejected a million times because you're not getting anywhere if you don't get rejected first
I got rejected once and it was too painful, no interest in trying again
>>30010642
>it was too painful
It becomes less painful with time
>>30010623
OTHER PEOPLE ARE ALSO SMARTER THAN YOU OR STRONGER THAN YOU OR MORE CHARISMATIC THAN YOU
Play with the hand you're dealt or fucking fold. Stop blaming other people because you're not willing to put in the work. Do not envy the luckier man, down that road lies only failure. You can never change your genes but you can change your fucking attitude you nihilist.
>>30010369
>Can not confirm. Never had a girl be interested in me until 21, wasn't confident until 19. Fake it till you make it
I'm older than that already, and I can't do faking
Im 2 and already feeling depressed. Good luck robots, hope you make it someday.
>>30010417
I see people on here post pics all the time thinking they're ugly when they're actually handsome. I'm not blaming my height specifically, there are other issues, that I don't have the ability or motivation to fix.
>>30010623
>waaah some people have it easier than me!!!!
Get over it faggot, life isn't fair. Too fucking bad. I wish I was born a 10/10 too so I could have everything easier, but it doesn't work that way.
>>30010629
You'll never succeed then. Failure is always necessary. Embrace it.
>>30010642
The more painful the better, once you stop caring about rejection no matter how painful they are and you eventually do whatever the fuck you want it feels so good. You just have to take them senpai, it's not the end of the world. There are a billion more girls there to try again.
>>30008571
I am level 4.
Grope sloots every year at festival. Haven't gone all the way with a good cutie though.
>>30010679
I am successful with every thing in life but women, that's ok for me if it means I will never have to endure failure.
>>30010492
>It's not a mask though, it's just not showing what you don't like. It's focusing on either things, no mask. No acting or fakeness needed to just not show weakness.
But that just makes conversation feel unnatural. I've tried it before, but I end up usually having an emotional breakdown because of the conflicting personas. If that means dying a virgin so be it.
>>30010652
I doubt it. I have no persistence or ability to hold an interest for very long. That time I was rejected was one of the few times in my life I genuinely felt somewhat confident and it still went disastrously. I'd rather gouge my eyes out than get rejected by hundreds of women.
>>30010679
>The more painful the better, once you stop caring about rejection no matter how painful they are and you eventually do whatever the fuck you want it feels so good. You just have to take them senpai, it's not the end of the world. There are a billion more girls there to try again.
I'm not strong enough to take rejection. I obsess over everything.
>>30008616
platonically of course
I consider myself a Chad
I'm confident, tall (6'4), strong and attractive (I feel pretty narcissistic about myself)
I'm also a KHHV. The reason being I don't know where or how to meet women.
What do?
>>30010656
>Stop blaming other people because you're not willing to put in the work.
I'm just angry that I have to work harder for same results.
>Do not envy the luckier man, down that road lies only failure.
Why should I not envy? He has better life due to luck. That's a good reason to hate him.
>You can never change your genes but you can change your fucking attitude you nihilist.
My attitude makes sense.
>>30010523
>Bettering myself won't change the things that make me inferior.
I was actually talking about changing the things that make you inferior. But even if you don't/can't change the things that make you inferior, if you have big enough/enough things that make you better it will outway the bad and be enough.
>Ignoring something that happens god knows where is different than ignoring my inferiority.
True, but you ignore things about yourself/the ones you love all the time as well. Either way man I've given both of the top 2 advice to getting relationships romantic or otherwise. Either fake confidence until you have it, or get it yourself.
>>30010609
>lift
Not needed, but it helps a lot
>>30010623
So what dude? People are better at things than you are. Welcome to life. There are people that are better than literally everything you do. Doesn't mean you shouldn't do them.
>>30010629
You can fail literally anything, and failure is an important part of learning. Real talk. Don't be such a bitch. You'll get rejected, you'll get hurt. But guess what. It happens, life goes on.
>>30010658
Then make it. You have two options. Make it, or fake it. Take you're pic.
>>30010678
>I see people on here post pics all the time thinking they're ugly when they're actually handsome.
Nigga that's the point. Everyone is insecure, you're not alone in that matter. So don't let it affect you, and don't act on your insecurities.
>>30010699
Why is that unnatural? You're not acting like someone you're not, you're not fake. You're just not drawing attention to something, it's still there.
Not directed at this anon specifically, but I'll try to get this across to /r9k/ in a different way. The way I learned to act the way I act, it's a bit of "tough love" but it's true and is a very /b/ way to word it but fuck it. No one gives a fuck about you or your problems. No one cares about why you don't like yourself. So why should you? Get over it, get over yourself and live your fucking life.
>>30010737
>I'm not strong enough to take rejection. I obsess over everything.
I know this feel anon, and the only way I fixed it was getting rejected over, and over, and over. This is why it eventually feels so good to take rejection, it even becomes fun. You realize how dumb you were thinking you couldn't take rejection.
>>30010766
>I was actually talking about changing the things that make you inferior.
Some can be changed. Most can not.
>But even if you don't/can't change the things that make you inferior, if you have big enough/enough things that make you better it will outway the bad and be enough.
That's not fair. Working hard just to outweight the negatives I didn' choose to have.
>everyone here is complaining that they have flaws
Fucking stop it, embrace you flaws. Nobody, NOBODY is perfect. Chad may have a small dick, Tyrone might have went to prison for rape. You're just all looking from the outside fags, people are attracted to other peoples rough spots. Improve on what you can and accept what you can't.
>>30010751
Depends on your age, how old are you? College? High school? Job?
>>30010737
>I doubt it. I have no persistence or ability to hold an interest for very long. That time I was rejected was one of the few times in my life I genuinely felt somewhat confident and it still went disastrously. I'd rather gouge my eyes out than get rejected by hundreds of women.
Just realize that rejection is the norm.Exoect rejection,and when you get a girl you will feel awesome.Men dating activity is to ask lots of women and get as many as possible,so rejection is pretty much expected
>>30010484
my first and only relationship was with a woman that was 4 years older than me, I was 26 when it finally happened.
Lived in the next country, around 400 km away. We chatted a lot, she was the most pleasant person to speak to i've ever met, we understood each other perfectly and we exchanged a lot about us.
One day she unexpectedly showed up in my town at night on a Friday. The short version is we fucked like mad in those 3 days, it was intense, she was around 20cm smaller than me, wide hips, huge rack, black hair and big brown eyes. And after the third day she disappeared, she didn't steal anything, but it hit me really hard that she just left without a trace.
Later she contacted me and it turned out she was an illegal mexican that cheated on her boyfriend who apparently was a total fucking piece of shit anyway, who went batshit insane and started hitting her / almost killing her, so she fled first to me, but then told me in a text message that she "didn't want to ruin my life too" and possibly returned back to Mexico because she had no options left.
That shit broke my heart and I could not up to this day man up again to get a new girl. That up there was the shortest summary I could think of.
>>30010751
Get out.
I'll accept cyborgs.
Normies are too far for this board.
Chads are just unacceptable.
>>30010751
>I'm also a KHHV. The reason being I don't know where or how to meet women.
Tinder or other dating app and you will get flooded by pussy.Go to soc,and they will help you with your profile,but if what you say is true you wont need it
>>30010737
just realize that girls don't enjoy rejecting you either
rejection fucking sucks, ever had to reject someone? it feels bad but you have to do it
nobody enjoys rejecting people unless you're a sociopath and enjoy making people feel bad
>>30008571
still 11
>>30010827chads are made by actions not bragging online
edgy cyborg
fell in love with a french girl and went from 7 to 0 in 48 hours
I live with her now. It's been ten months and we fuck at least twice a week.
She comforts me when I go manic depressive/schizo
>>30010834
MOOOOOOODS MODS MODS MODS
underage b&
>>30010834
>However im 15.
MOOOOOOOOOOOODSSSSSS
>>30010751
Literally just go out in the world. Talk to people. Do you go to the gym? Talk to people at the gymobviously not when they're in the middle of a fucking set or some shit. Whatever you do in your free time, talk about it. This literal walking fucking spaghetti friend of mine is currently about to get with this qt gril because he wouldn't shut the fuck up about the fact that he plays smash bros and it turns out she plays it too.
>>30010759
>I'm just angry that I have to work harder for same results.
That's life dude, people aren't equal. You have to work harder for some things, and have some things easier.
>Why should I not envy?
Because what's the fucking point. What will Envying and hating him for his luck do? It will do nothing but make you unhappy and will have Z E R O affect on him. You're just fucking yourself over by being a bitch over it.
>>30010786
Life isn't fair faggot. Everyone has flaws, either work to overcome/out weigh them or be consumed by them. That's the choice EVERYONE has to make. I'm fat because I was born into a fat family. My family fed me fat adult sized portions my whole childhood. Honestly the whole reason my life until recently was because of the fact that I was fat. Or more accurately because instead of doing something about it I let myself get consumed by it. Same for the fact that I'm nearly blind without my glasses, my girly voice. All of that shit held me back because I let it. I didn't pick any of those, but guess what no one picks their flaws. You either change them if you can, accept/out weigh them if you can't, or let them ruin your life. Your pick.
>>30010839
Also this is true
>>30010834
>I should be fine though
If you don't change your personality it won't change.Start going out with women,or you will be a permavirgin,or be in a thread like this in 3 or 4 years
>>30010834
B&&&&&&
You are 15 this website is like a cancer for you. Go outside
>>30010834
MODS WE NEED YOU NOW, GET THE FUCK OFF MY BOARD. MOOOOOOOODS!!!!!!
>>30010834
>15
GET THE FUCK OUT OF THIS BOARD
BEFRIEND CHADS BEFORE ITS TOO LATE B8 ANON
SAVE YOURSELF
>>30010866
>That's life dude, people aren't equal. You have to work harder for some things, and have some things easier.
I can't and won't accept that. Not without being angry. Just tell me, why should I not be angry?
>Because what's the fucking point. What will Envying and hating him for his luck do? It will do nothing but make you unhappy and will have Z E R O affect on him. You're just fucking yourself over by being a bitch over it.
At least I will not be pretending like I'm okay with it.
>Life isn't fair faggot. Everyone has flaws, either work to overcome/out weigh them or be consumed by them.
This isn't about flaws. This is about hating the people who will unfairly treat me worse for these flaws. Like normies.
>>30010834
If you were my bro i'd tell you your best years are coming up take every chance you have. MAKE SURE YOU TALK TO ALL GIRLS fat, ugly, hot, small, tall all of them no exceptions this will open so many doors. You will get invited to parties introduced to freinds and almost definitely eventually meet a girl you click with.
I had so many chances in high school of girls trying to get to know me but i wss too autistic to take advantage
>>30010866
>just go outside and talk to people
>just b urself
Seriously?
>>30010834
It doesn't get better kid
Also, MOOOOODS
>>30010929
Yes. How else do you make friends, fag?
>>30010766
>Then make it. You have two options. Make it, or fake it. Take you're pic.
I think I'll do neither.
>Nigga that's the point. Everyone is insecure, you're not alone in that matter. So don't let it affect you, and don't act on your insecurities.
But my insecurities are backed up by reality, not some "boo hoo I only got twice this week" bullshit. I didn't want to end up like this.
>Why is that unnatural? You're not acting like someone you're not, you're not fake. You're just not drawing attention to something, it's still there.
But it precisely is acting like someone I'm not, and I have no interest in doing that.
>>30010946
It's not that easy for social retards
I haven't made it past 1 for over 9 years now, prostitute.
>>30010919
>If you were my bro i'd tell you your best years are coming up take every chance you have. MAKE SURE YOU TALK TO ALL GIRLS fat, ugly, hot, small, tall all of them no exceptions this will open so many doors. You will get invited to parties introduced to freinds and almost definitely eventually meet a girl you click with.
any underage b8s reading this, this is the best advice you'll ever get
also get off this board immediately
autism is contagious
>>30010961
Then go and talk to people anyway, you only get better at socializing if you actually go and try socialize and learn what you did wrong.
>>30010776
I've no desire to do that, like I said I'd rather kill myself.
>>30010839
They probably do enjoy shitting on me, never had a single female friend so clearly something about me is disgusting. I can't trust women, or anyone really. And rejection in a romantic/sexual context is different to rejecting someone for say, a ride home.
>>30010919
I had friends but they never invited me to any parties, especially ones where girls were. I did talk to a few girls but nothing ever happened. Never developed any confidence and they never seemed to care about me.
Literally everyone I know has had a gf/bf/sex at this point. Makes me want to jump in front of a train. I remember having dreams of a gf/family when I was younger, that's never going to happen now. I can't see myself as an old man, even a middle aged man.
>>30010824
Moral of the story: don't fuck illegals.
>>30010916
>Just tell me, why should I not be angry?
Because it does nothing but make you unhappier. It does literally nothing. Why would you intentionally hurt yourself for no gain?
>This is about hating the people who will unfairly treat me worse for these flaws. Like normies.
It's because you bring your flaws to their attention the vast majority of the time.
>>30010929
What more do you want? They're just people, talk to them. I've also already addressed the just b urself meme
>>30010954
>I think I'll do neither.
Then you're going with the third option, be consumed by it.
>But my insecurities are backed up by reality, not some "boo hoo I only got twice this week" bullshit. I didn't want to end up like this.
That's the thing about insecurities, you have no way to know if it's based in reality or not. Everyone thinks their insecurities are based in reality, that's the entire point. And if you don't want to end up like this then do something about it instead of bitching on a Romanian knitting forum about how life isn't fair.
>But it precisely is acting like someone I'm not, and I have no interest in doing that.
So you're telling me that bringing attention to your flaws is a defining personality trait of yours?
>>30010961
It really is as simple as go out and do it. If you're a social retard, then yeah you'll fail for a while. Practice makes picture, learn from your mistakes and move on.
>>30011067
>Because it does nothing but make you unhappier. It does literally nothing. Why would you intentionally hurt yourself for no gain?
So I don't forget who to hate. The normies who wronged me.
>It's because you bring your flaws to their attention the vast majority of the time.
There is no way not to bring bad up bad looks or being short. People notice inferiority. Inevitably.
>>30010982
>>30011067
>go to a random place and talk to people you probably have nothing in common with
for what
>>30011067
>That's the thing about insecurities, you have no way to know if it's based in reality or not. Everyone thinks their insecurities are based in reality, that's the entire point. And if you don't want to end up like this then do something about it instead of bitching on a Romanian knitting forum about how life isn't fair.
No, this place is one of the few things in life I enjoy. I don't care at this point.
>So you're telling me that bringing attention to your flaws is a defining personality trait of yours?
Masking over my obvious social/personal deficiencies isn't an option, it makes me feel sick. I've fainted in social situations a few times. I can't open up to anyone.
>>30009960
>>just b urself
Fuck off. Every time I say what is on my mind, participate in discussions, or just open my fucking mouth, my coworkers try to avoid me and they become pretty annoyed at me. And I don't really think it is their fault, it is just my absolute shit personality. Being myself makes people hate me. The only way to prevent that from happening is keeping my mouth shut and not being myself.
>just b confident
Again, being confident paired with a shit & flawed personality makes you look like the biggest retard the moment someone calls you out on that acting.
REEEEEEEEEE
>>30011067
It must suck to try to help someone that has already given up. Just so you know anon your advice is exactly what I needed, I'm gonna try and apply it to my life. Thanks a lot.
>>30011144
This is why cyborgs stick around even after dealing with all of these fucking ingrates. You aren't doomed to a life of loneliness just for being a little weird.
>>30008571
im 2, tfw i will literally never get further than that
>>30011144
fuck off failed normie, you'll be back here soon enough. There's nothing wrong with giving up.
>>30011175
>ingrates
Why do you normies think you have to help everyone? All of you have this stupid saviour complex. Seriously, you shit on us in the real world and then come on here to complain that we're not living up to your standards. Fuck off, let us have peace.
>>30011202
>there are normies who think this constitutes pain and suffering
>>30011107
>So I don't forget who to hate. The normies who wronged me.
And what does that do? Nothing. And it's not all their fault, you're the one that doesn't try to fix/make up for your flaws. You're the one that put yourself in that position. You're as much at fault as they are.
>There is no way not to bring bad up bad looks or being short. People notice inferiority. Inevitably.
Literally untrue, even more so with women since they are literally attracted to personalities as well as physical appearances. Also this fucking short means no gril will want you meme needs to fucking stop. Again, my fucking F I V E F O O T F I V E friend fucks hotter girls then I probably ever will and he's not even that good looking. Because he oozes confidence.
>>30011133
Learn from your mistakes then, it's not you that's the problem. It's not your personality, it's how you present yourself. Unless you're a literal sociopath and all you want to do is murder and skin people, your personality isn't the problem.
>being confident paired with a shit & flawed personality makes you look like the biggest retard the moment someone calls you out on that acting.
Again unless you're a literal sociopath there's no such thing as a shit/flawed personality. Second literally no one will call you out on it (in public) unless you've wronged them in some way. While people do crave power, the biggest power for most people is social positioning. And being a giant dick like that isn't good for anyone's social position outside of highschool.
>>30011144
It's frustrating, even more so when the solution really is this simple. Trying to help someone who refuses to help themselves is impossible, but I can't help but try. And I'm glad I was able to help you anon, good luck friend and don't listen to any nay sayers in this thread.
>>30011224
One those aren't the same people "shitting on" you and trying to help you. Second I'm trying to help because I was in that position until recently and I know how to get out
Does drunk stuff count?
When drunk: 3
Not drunk: 7
>>30011253
>And it's not all their fault, you're the one that doesn't try to fix/make up for your flaws.
It's their fault if they treat me worse for things out of my control. Which they do. Why should I fix my flaws just to get to the point where someone without flaws would be by default?
>Again, my fucking F I V E F O O T F I V E friend fucks hotter girls then I probably ever will and he's not even that good looking. Because he oozes confidence.
Anecdotes mean jack shit. If your friend was tall, he would have more success.
>>30008571
LEVEL 4 BABY
> it was 4 years ago though
>>30011253
No problem anon, also one of the things I remember reading that stuck with me was that people usually put the blame on everyone but themselves. I noticed that pattern on this board, everyone seems to blame the normies for shit that is obviously THEIR fault. Some people here are borderline delusional with taking memes seriously (like the manlet or Chad memes).
>>30011293
Holy fucking shit, just kill yourself then. You're such a fucking crybaby. If you're not gonna do anything about it and just complain then just off yourself.
>>30011347
To complain about injustice is to be a crybaby? You have very strange standards.
>>30011293
>It's their fault if they treat me worse for things out of my control. Which they do. Why should I fix my flaws just to get to the point where someone without flaws would be by default?
Minus actual genetic physical make up nothing about you is out of your control. Also you should fix your flaws because that's what everyone does. There isn't a single person in the world that doesn't have any flaws.
>Anecdotes mean jack shit. If your friend was tall, he would have more success.
>say it doesn't matter if you're confident if you're short since no gril will want you because of it
>Give example on why it's not true
>it means jack shit
????? I know plenty of short guys who get grils that guy is just the best example because of how short he is.
>>30011322
>also one of the things I remember reading that stuck with me was that people usually put the blame on everyone but themselves
That's a huge thing and honestly a big part of my view on the world. EVERYTHING is because of you. Everything good or bad in your life is your fault. At some point you could have done something to change it. Blaming others is a waste of time because you, focus on what you do and change that.
>>30011366
Crying about people not liking you when you don't like yourself isn't injustice. Crying because people don't treat you well when you don't treat yourself well by bettering yourself isn't injustice.
>>30011391
>Minus actual genetic physical make up nothing about you is out of your control.
That's what I'm talking about though
>Also you should fix your flaws because that's what everyone does. There isn't a single person in the world that doesn't have any flaws.
Chad has less flaws, therefore has to work much less hard to fix them.
>????? I know plenty of short guys who get grils that guy is just the best example because of how short he is.
Very well. But if these short guys were tall, they would have more success.
>Crying about people not liking you when you don't like yourself isn't injustice.
I don't like myself because people have treated me like shit since I was young. When you grow up being beaten up, humiliated and tortured by your peers, it leaves marks. So it is their fault.
>Crying because people don't treat you well when you don't treat yourself well by bettering yourself isn't injustice.
If I was born tall and attractive people would treat me better. So it is injustice.
>>30008571
I'm 22 and I've talked with a girl, touched a girl, hugged a girl and also had a girl lick my face. I've never kissed a girl, so where does that put me at?
>>30011293
You're fucking delusional, first, what kind of psychopath central do you live that EVERYONE without fault picks on your flaws? I've never met someone that treated me worse for my flaws, unless you're underage b8 no one does this outside of high-school. Only immature fucks that never growed up do shit like this.
>>30008571
What if she kisses your dick though
Level 10.
24 years old.
>>30011253
>One those aren't the same people "shitting on" you and trying to help you. Second I'm trying to help because I was in that position until recently and I know how to get out
I don't care, you're all the same. And yeah they have done it before, people who were cruel towards me in the past have feigned concern but they don't give a shit, cut all contact. I don't trust anyone any more and I can't connect with anyone. And your position was likely far less grim than mine. I don't care enough to change at this point. Unless there was a reset button for my life there's no point.
>>30008571
I'm 19 and I'm at level 12
>>30011458
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect
People treat inferior ugly people poorly.
>>30011347
>Holy fucking shit, just kill yourself then. You're such a fucking crybaby. If you're not gonna do anything about it and just complain then just off yourself.
and here the true nature of the normie is revealed. Pieces of shit, every last fucking one of you.
>>30011253
>Learn from your mistakes then, it's not you that's the problem.
I tried it, and if I am myself, I will get avoided. And if I get avoided there is no one I can practice socializing/ being a good self with. And with no one talking to me my social skills will decline even further, which leads to more problems getting created than solved.
It just won't work.
>>30011533
That's why I keep talking to them about injustice. So they show their true nature to everyone. So robots see just who they're dealing with.
One girl that isn't related to me gave a brief hug once so I guess nine.
>>30011533
What the fuck do you expect? You'll talk in circles and reject reality in order to perpetuate r9k memes of oppression so you can feel like a victim. Eventually people get angry about it.
I'm 25 live in a small town and am seriously thinking about going to college just so I can socialize with other people again.
>>30011597
It's not a meme. Ugly people are really treated poorly. Not just ugly people. People are often treated poorly because of things out of their control.
>>30011443
>That's what I'm talking about though
Then make up for it, via your personality and the way you present yourself
>Chad has less flaws, therefore has to work much less hard to fix them.
He may have less physical flaws, he may have a lot of mental flaws. Also, getting /fit/ is a lot of work on Chad's part. So it's not like he's just naturally /fit/ and hot, he had to work at it on top of whatever flaws he has.
>Very well. But if these short guys were tall, they would have more success.
irrelevant, the entire point I'm making is it doesn't matter if you're tall/short fat/skinny whatever you can get girls.
>I don't like myself because people have treated me like shit since I was young.
And instead of changing/fixing/accepting the things you don't like about yourself to better yourself you instead wallow in your own self hatred. It is your fault, they may have started you down this path but you're the one who chooses to keep walking it every day of your life.
>>30011492
How do you know it was feigned? People's opinions/views change. Either way man, I've already given every piece of advice there is to give in this thread at least twice.
>And your position was likely far less grim than mine
Maybe, maybe not. I don't know you, you don't know me.
>>30011533
Not that anon, but really if you're refusing to help yourself what options do you have at that point. Live an unhappy life drowning in your own self hatred, or end your life. Obviously both of those are the wrong choices, and are why you should try to better yourself. But you can't sit here, reject any advice, refuse to better yourself/situation, complain about how shit your life is, say there's no way it will get better, and then be upset when someone says suicide is the right option if all of that is true. Of course I'm not saying to kys urself. I'm saying that what you're saying, the complaints and the it'll never get better mentality is wrong.
>>30008571
0 ofc
still a robot though
>>30008571
>tfw I'm a 9
>tfw 21 years old
4,once, 3years ago. Which number is the last a robot can get?
>>30011609
Play the hand you're dealt or fold. There are no other options. People are trying to help you handle the situation you're given -- you don't get a reroll. Being sour about it won't actually help you fix it.
You fuckers need Sartre.
>>30011540
Then go out and talk to new people. I know it's scary, but you can do it. It will work, you just have to try and go out of your comfort zone a little anon but it will be worth it. I promise you this.
>>30011609
Not as badly as /r9k/ makes it out to seem. And it's only on a intestinal meetings, you can easily make up for it with personality/confidence.
>>30011613
>Then make up for it, via your personality and the way you present yourself
Why should I? I didn't choose to get born with these flaws.
>He may have less physical flaws, he may have a lot of mental flaws.
Just as everyone else.
> Also, getting /fit/ is a lot of work on Chad's part. So it's not like he's just naturally /fit/ and hot, he had to work at it on top of whatever flaws he has.
Yeah because having big frame is not at all genetic. Also Chad knows his hard work will pay off much more thanks to his good genes. Ugly guy who works out improves less than Chad who works out.
>irrelevant, the entire point I'm making is it doesn't matter if you're tall/short fat/skinny whatever you can get girls.
And my point is ugly guys have to work harder.
>And instead of changing/fixing/accepting the things you don't like about yourself to better yourself you instead wallow in your own self hatred.
Better than ignoring reality.
> It is your fault, they may have started you down this path but you're the one who chooses to keep walking it every day of your life.
Why should I fix problems that someone else caused?
>>30008571
I have accidentally touched a waitresses hand when she was trying to take a plate off of the table. She looked suitably disgusted.
So 10, I guess.
>>30011639
I can't just play the game I've been dealt without being angry at the other players who treat me like shit for getting dealt a bad hand. Is there any rational reason not to hate them? Hating normies and society is justified.
>>30011661
>Not as badly as /r9k/ makes it out to seem. And it's only on a intestinal meetings, you can easily make up for it with personality/confidence.
Why should I make up for something I didn't choose?
>>30011705
What good has that hatred done you? The only thing you can change is what you do. Hating the world around you for being unfair is just going to make you even less happy. It's absolutely the wrong path. You may be right, but it's still retarded to waste your emotional strength on it.
>>30011493
you've never talked to a girl?
...ever?
>>30011597
I'm not trying to be a victim, just explaining my situation to "just world" faggots. See this is the normie mentality at work again. Fuck off.
>>30011677
>Why should I? I didn't choose to get born with these flaws.
Jesus Christ, it's the same fucking stupid arguments every time. No one gets to choose what flaws they're born with. But they deal with it. And you should make it for it so you're happy.
>Just as everyone else
DING DING DING
THAT'S
THE
ENTIRE
POINT
EVERYONE HAS FLAWS
ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS
OR FIX THEM
EVERYONE DOES IT
STOP CARING SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR FLAWS BECAUSE HONESTLY NO ONE ELSE CARES ABOUT THEM
>Yeah because having big frame is not at all genetic. Also Chad knows his hard work will pay off much more thanks to his good genes. Ugly guy who works out improves less than Chad who works out.
Literally unless you're going into actual body building none of that matters. Getting as /fit/ as the average chad has literally no bearing on genes.
>And my point is ugly guys have to work harder
One, that was never the argument. The entire point of all of my posts from the start was that you're the only one stopping yourself from being happy/having relationships. Obviously some people may have to work harder at something than others. That's the way things are.
>Better than ignoring reality
But that's the fucking thing. You are ignoring reality right now. You're fucking sitting there, trying to act like it's not your fault and you're the victim and nothing you do can change your position in life. And that's fucking bullshit.
>Why should I fix problems that someone else caused?
So
YOU
CAN
BE
HAPPY
>>30011705
>Why should I make up for something I didn't choose?
TO
BE
HAPPY
And a rational reason not to hate them? TO BE HAPPY AND NOT PULL YOURSELF DOWN FURTHER THAN YOU ALREADY ARE.
>>30011725
>What good has that hatred done you?
Nothing. But at least I keep my integrity. If there is a reason to hate someone, then I will. I can't do something else, that would be irrational.
>Hating the world around you for being unfair is just going to make you even less happy.
I can't ignore the reality. Even if I wanted. I get reminded every day.
>You may be right, but it's still retarded to waste your emotional strength on it.
Being right matters the most. The truth is most important.
>>30011762
Good luck, dumbass. This mindset is exactly why you're bitter and miserable. Maybe you'll grow up one day.
in b4 NORMIES SHOW THEIR TRUE COLORS REEEEEE
>>30011613
>How do you know it was feigned? People's opinions/views change. Either way man, I've already given every piece of advice there is to give in this thread at least twice.
>>And your position was likely far less grim than mine
>Maybe, maybe not. I don't know you, you don't know me.
I can tell people are being insincere. One thing I am good at it is telling when people are bored with me, which is most of the time. I've never met anyone more pathetic than me.
>Live an unhappy life drowning in your own self hatred
I'll take that option, I'm too cowardly to end it.
>>30011759
>le bootstraps meme
Every normie espousing this bullshit deserves a one way trip to Bouvet Island
>>30011806
What are you even talking about? Bootstraps meme?
>>30011759
>No one gets to choose what flaws they're born with. But they deal with it.
What do you mean by deal with it? To accept that my life will be harder because of these things?
>STOP CARING SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR FLAWS BECAUSE HONESTLY NO ONE ELSE CARES ABOUT THEM
But due to these flaws I have worse lives.
>Getting as /fit/ as the average chad has literally no bearing on genes.
True. But there are many things that can't be changed. Looks. Height. Penis size.
>The entire point of all of my posts from the start was that you're the only one stopping yourself from being happy/having relationships. Obviously some people may have to work harder at something than others. That's the way things are.
But I can't be happy knowing I'm being humiliated. And working hard for what Chad gets easily is humiliating.
>You're fucking sitting there, trying to act like it's not your fault and you're the victim and nothing you do can change your position in life. And that's fucking bullshit.
To be happy I would have to pretend I'm okay with the unfairness. But I'm not.
>HAPPY
But I will not be happy. Because deep down I will know I am getting humiliated. I can't overcome that.
>And a rational reason not to hate them? TO BE HAPPY AND NOT PULL YOURSELF DOWN FURTHER THAN YOU ALREADY ARE.
How would one do that without being miserable?
>>30011639
>Sartre
I think you misspelled Camus friend.also buddhism
>>30011782
That mindset is based on the truth. On not ignoring reality. I will have it for as long as the world is unfair.
ITT
>you're all losers and deserve to die, everyone hates you
>wow just be urself and get a gf, you can do it!!!1
>>30011832
Sure, whichever one helps you.
>>30011842
You are possibly the most autistic person I've ever had the displeasure of communicating with.
>>30011821
>work harder
>fix your flaws
>deal with it
>self-improve
etc etc. Meaningless normie bullshit. It doesn't work for people that missed the boat years ago. Normies don't have to work for anything, they consistently get sex and romance.
>>30011852
>You are possibly the most autistic person I've ever had the displeasure of communicating with.
So just tell me why I'm wrong.
>>30011852
>You are possibly the most autistic person I've ever had the displeasure of communicating with.
Nobody asked for your help normie
>>30011861
>Normies don't have to work for anything, they consistently get sex and romance.
If you actually believe this, you're legitimately retarded.
>>30008571
Level 11 checking in. 10 or up just get out. ree. Fucking sick of this shit and wizchan is too autistic even for me
benis in bagina has nothing to do with being a robot guys please don't fall for the meme
I'd rather jerk my gerk forever than fall for the vagina meme again
some of y'all don't understand the bullshit you have to put up with to get your benis in
its not worth it ignore me if you want but goddamnit its not worth it
>>30011825
>What do you mean by deal with it? To accept that my life will be harder because of these things?
They deal with it. They accept that there are some flaws that they can't change and instead make up for it in other ways. For example I have a girly voice that people have told me is annoying in the past, instead of never talking I instead make what I say worth listening to. I make jokes, give good advice, etc. Things to make my shitty voice less annoying because yeah the sound might not be great, but the words are.
>How would one do that without being miserable?
By realizing that the only person in your life that matters is you. The people that do you harm don't matter, thus being angry and hating them is a waste of your time and effort.
As for the rest of your post I'm too frustrated to respond to it. Read my other posts, I'm sure I've addressed them at least 3 times in this thread. I'll keep giving actual advice and answer questions, but I'm done trying to convince someone to help themselves when they have no intention of doing so.
>>30011844
>you're all losers and deserve to die, everyone hates you
Literally no one is saying that. Besides some anons about themselves.
>>30011861
>Normies don't have to work for anything, they consistently get sex and romance.
That's not how the world works. Everyone works for shit, no one gets a free ride. You just see the end results of the work instead of the work itself and thus assume there is no work.
>>30011747
well I think it implies talking as in a conversation. the closest I got was telling a girl to fuck off after she asked me for the time
I think I might be autistic
>>30011825
>tfw you don't give two fucks because you're detached from reality
Reality is boring anon, why do you care so much? I can do whatever I want and it's way more fun this way
>>30011919
>They deal with it. They accept that there are some flaws that they can't change and instead make up for it in other ways.
How can they accept it without being angry? I honestly don't get it.
> The people that do you harm don't matter, thus being angry and hating them is a waste of your time and effort.
What matters is that they are making me suffer.
>I'll keep giving actual advice and answer questions, but I'm done trying to convince someone to help themselves when they have no intention of doing so.
I explained why I have no intention, why it's not possible for me to have a different mindset. You haven't said much about that.
>>30008683
>never touched a girl in my life besides my mother spanking me
soundshot
>>30011945
>How can they accept it without being angry? I honestly don't get it.
Because they realize there's no use in being angry over it. Being angry over things they can't change will do nothing but make their lives worse.
>I explained why I have no intention, why it's not possible for me to have a different mindset. You haven't said much about that.
Honestly at this point I don't even remember which anon you were. There were too many people all making the same flimsy argument.
>>30011886
Whatever. I've seen people get sex insanely easy, which just agonises me even more. They're constantly in relationships. It's totally natural to them and has been all their lives. The "be yourself" meme works for normies.
The most effort they put in is talking to another human being
>>30008571
>tfw 3
Better than all you fucking plebs. Pity nothing beyond 9's happened in 8 years, though.
i have done 1 & 2 with a prostitute but the rest not. What am i?
>>30011979
The time they spend working out is effort. The time they spend practicing social skills is effort. The time they spend on their wardrobe is effort. The time they spend making and keeping friends is effort.
You can't seriously be retarded enough to believe what you said.
>>30011973
>Because they realize there's no use in being angry over it. Being angry over things they can't change will do nothing but make their lives worse.
So they just let others treat them poorly for things out of their control? I don't get how can anyone just accept that without being miserable. I really don't get that. It's like my brain got blocked.
>>30011919
>Literally no one is saying that. Besides some anons about themselves.
A few anons have told us virgins to kill ourselves
>That's not how the world works. Everyone works for shit, no one gets a free ride. You just see the end results of the work instead of the work itself and thus assume there is no work.
I've seen it in school/work. They don't put in "work" to get this stuff, it just happens and I don't get how. It's just bullshit. What have I done wrong that precludes me from that? It's impossible to ever catch up to these people.
>>30011995
Most people don't work out you moron, look at obesity rates. No they don't practice social skills, it comes naturally to them all their lives, I fucking hate it. Most people dress like slobs, I already made an effort to dress smart and nothing changed. Being friendly with people isn't effort, it's a natural human thing for pretty much everyone.
I don't care if you think I'm retarded, fuck off.
