>tfw no sleepy bf to cuddle all day
>tfw no NEET bf with eccentric tastes in movies
I want to drown myself in interesting media until I can't see straight anymore but I don't want to do it alone
if you're a girl... u know the rules
if you're a fag, kys
>>30003042
dont try to suppress your feelings it only makes it worse
>>30003068
get help to heal ur mental illness fkin fggit
>tfw no cute trap bf to hold hands with
>>30002929
>tfw in middle school me and this girl gave each other piggy back rides
>tfw i got a boner while i was on her back
>>30002929
I can have anything i want except for someone to share my covers and pillows with.
Why must life be so cruel?
would be easier to cope with my shitty life if I had someone to talk to instead of being alone with my thoughts every night
>>30003395
You can always do whatever you want in your dreams anon,just learn to lucid dream
>>30003500
but it would increase the lonely feeling after dream ends and I wake up
>>30003528
You have a point. At this point iv learned to accept it and just sleep away. Most people look down on it though,so its hard to find anyone to relate to.
>Tfw you will never have a huge sleepover with other robots where we just sleep and discuss our dreams
>>30003026
That's what I do all day and night, mix it up with a few games here and there and you pretty much have my life in a nutshell
>>30003621
is it hard to learn to lucid dream or takes a long time? I've done it once when I was 10 or 11, flew around my neighborhood. never happened again since then
>tfw no Miyano gf
>>30003669
also most of my dreams involve spiders crawling on me and I cant wake up
I dont like them
you have your gay containment board
stop shitting up the robot board
>>30003727
its ok to be angry anon. let me cuddle you and make you happy~!
>>30003727
>>30003749
I want to cuddle with a non-gay Anon too~
>>30003669
>>30003720
It takes a lot of practice. There are many different techniques,some keep jornals,others have music. Do some research and experiment and find what works for you.
Im narcoleptic so i developed the skill naturally.
>>30003794
Journals*
i need to go back to bed
>>30003794
I'll look into it. Also curious if its possible to not have dreams since I have to deal with this sleep paralysis shit
>>30002929
I have narcolepsy and I can sleep all day please be my gf
>>30003907
sorry,im a guy
>>30003889
Sleeping aids can help with that.If you have trouble staying asleep i recommend getting a delayed release.
But why avoid dreaming? Its the best part.
>>30003967
>But why avoid dreaming? Its the best part.
Even when I don't have scary dreams they involve situations that make me anxious. Haven't had a nice dream in a long time.
>>30004013
Did you have a traumatic experience or something. Worst dream i have gotten was the cliche naked in high school dream.
Lucid dreaming will help,but you gotta eliminate those thoughts or else they will turn bad.
Try to dream though,please. Sleeping without dreaming is just a waste. The more you practice lucid dreaming the more you can turn nightmares into fantasies if you become aware.
Or maybe you have somethings you need to get off your chest? Hence why youre mind creates these dreams to deal with them in a way
How do I start to lucid dream? I've never tried it in my life and I wanna start
>>30004129
>Did you have a traumatic experience or something.
Not that I'm aware of. Just deathly afraid of failure so most of the time I dream of me fucking something up and ruining my life. Anxiety, self loathing, and feeling lonely most of the time are probably not the best combination for happy dreams.
>>30004211
Im really sorry to hear that anon,and i mean it. Are you eating midnight snacks or eating sweets/sugar? These can cause anxiety attacks while you sleep.
Are you currently taking meds to counteract those feelings?
>>30004162
see
>>30003794
Try to think about what you want to dream about through out the day. Try not to worry about the stress in your life when you are falling asleep
>>30004330
Thanks for the kind words.
>Are you eating midnight snacks or eating sweets/sugar?
I don't eat in the middle of the night, I do drink soda often.
>Are you currently taking meds to counteract those feelings?
Not taking anything. I have this irrational hope that if I wait long enough things will get better.
>I asked him to be my bf yesterday and he said yes
I don't think I've ever been this happy.
>tfw no bf that will listen to jazz fusion and other music with me
>>30004419
hmmm try to cut back on the soda and see what it does for you.
Its not healthy to keep these feelings bottled up anon,You should see someone...anyone.Please.
Hell id pay for your meds if we werent thousands of miles apart
>>30004433
Congratulations anon, I hope it lasts forever.
>>30004454
Jazz is good,though i like to listen to House in my bed
>>30003026
how eccentric we talking here
>>30004555
>Its not healthy to keep these feelings bottled up anon,You should see someone...anyone.Please.
maybe in the future. Talking here helps even if it's only temporary. I feel it would disappoint my family and make them think less of me. Not a real man, all that shit you know?
Forgot to mention it previously but I skip meals and under eat. Not entirely sure why but I speculate that I do it because its one of the few things I have control over. Maybe a willpower thing too.
one positive thing is I dont want to kill myself, at least I have that
>>30004683
I was in a similar situation,But surprisingly my family was very supportive. In fact they were glad. Your health is more important than anything else both mentally and physically.
I skip meals all the time,since i sleep all day. But as long as you dont go to bed hungry i think its ok.
No matter what life keeps on going,no matter what your family thinks of you.Your happiness is more important.Most people are young so im going to assume that you have your whole life ahead of you.The sooner you see someone about this the better.
Im sure you are in a better situation then me anyways
>>30004820
>surprisingly my family was very supportive.
I hope it goes the same way for me if I find the strength to bring it up with them. honestly the possibility of it going any other way terrifies me. so I guess thats one of many obstacles I have to get over before im comfortable trying to resolve things.
and I havent had a hard life compared to some people. I havent experienced real hardship yet. so it bothers me that I feel like I do, like its insulting because I've had a lot of opportunities other people dont get.
>>30004986
I think the thought that you have is a irrational thought. You are tricking your brain into thinking that there is some crazy possibility that things will go south.
A book called "feeling good" by david burns helped me control these thoughts. If you ever have the time. Go look it up.
I havent had a hard life at all. Im a trust fund kiddie so i should be able to be active and be a normie right? Nope. Here i am sleeping 12+ hours a day for the past 19 years contributing nothing at all.
We are humans, we each have are faults no matter what environment we grow up in. And so we got to help each other correct them. Im sure your family will understand. They have been around long enough to know that no one can get through this world being some lone wolf who doesn't need help.
How is your family? Are they usually supportive?
>>30005134
>How is your family? Are they usually supportive?
They've been supportive throughout highschool and college so far. I have a twin brother who has a job, is doing well in college, and has a gf. meanwhile here's me, doing ok in college but I feel like I'm on the precipice of failure, have a job that I hate every moment of and no bf. Cant even be open about that for fear of them disowning me or cutting me off financially (parents very religious). I dunno, I try to put on a happy face at work and at home but its exhausting. I want to not have to but im not certain they would understand how I am or be willing to understand.
I just want to disappear and not have to deal with anything.
>>30005253
My family is far right conservative. So i probably will never have the chance to come out. (Reputation is everything for rich people).so i know how you feel,but If your family has been this supportive of you this far,why would they suddenly stop? You mean the world to them and they wouldnt want you to live in misery. Tell them. It will make feel so much better,and once you get treatment you will look back and be happy with your decision with rhe only regret of not telling them sooner.
>>30005134
>Im sure you are in a better situation then me anyways
>I havent had a hard life at all. Im a trust fund kiddie
People like you are the worst
>>30005402
Why? Im sleeping my life away and i can never come out ever.
And while my immediate family may be supportive. Everyone else thinks im a lazy piece of shit that is ruining the family name.
Id rather be poor with a bf and a nin judgemental family
>>30005381
>but If your family has been this supportive of you this far,why would they suddenly stop?
that makes sense. I think it would have to be a spur of the moment impulse for me to tell them. Ive lied to them a lot about this already so I feel guilty about that
>qt sleepy bf
Oh god kill me why can't all QTs be sleepy and cuddly ;_; I wish i had a sleepy bf to sleep with and watch netflix with
someone shoot me in the face
>>30005446
>Id rather be poor
lmao you fucking idiot
>>30005464
They wont care that youve lied man. They will be relieved infact. I hope you tell them soon anon. So you can be happy.
>>30005465
I dont think you guys would find it too appealing, most people end up bitching and complaining that i sleep too much and have no energy. So they end up bored.
>tfw no qt bf to sleep in all day with
>>30005583
A bit naive arent i?
>>30005446
A lot of people on this board are sleeping their life away, albeit not because of narcolepsy, and there's definitely a lot of people who can't come out of the closet here either.
>Id rather be poor with a bf and a nin judgemental family
It's easy to just say that, but in reality you wouldn't. You're inflating how bad your problems really are so you can think that you're worse off than others, but you can't see it from the other side.
>>30005598
>I hope you tell them soon anon. So you can be happy.
I'll try to work myself up to a point where I can. Thank you for talking with me and not leaving the thread, its cathartic typing everything out.
I might make another thread like this tomorrow but try to keep the negativity to a minimum. Maybe just pictures of qts cuddling or something.Sorry for dumping all my problems on you.
>tfw to qt bf to suck off while he sleeps
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>>30003669
Oh look, another shitty bait thread asking for a bf and ignoring all the offers. How fucking interesting, it's not like we have these every single FUCKING day or anything.
>>30005657
Yeah you are probably right. I guess the idea just sounds good.
>>30005689
No problem anon i enjoyed the talk.sleep well.
I am a very sleepy
Any cuties in az?no mexicans
>>30005868
go away underage b&
>>30002929
>>30005625
This what I really want. A bf to be comfy with all day.
>>30005699
This would be fun too.
>>30005885
Stop following me desu
Origami
>>30005598
If they're normies, obviously they wouldn't. I'm low energy as well, low testosterone even. To me, nothing beats comfiness and homely feels. I just want to share them with a qt who likes to sleep and eat ice cream
>>30005945
If only i could find you people irl. Everyone is so big on being active and going outside theses days. At least where im at.
>>30006008
Obviously people like me keep to themselves I think, because they think they would be a burden to others, or they just don't have the energy for a relationshipI mostly like to fantasize about having a bf, but I don't actually try to get one
bump for the cuddles in bed I'm never going to get
>>30006891
post contact or stop complaining desu
>>30007057
I was just bumping im sorry :(
>>30007142
>durrr I'm so lonely, I'm going to flood the board with posts about it and not put any contact info to actually solve my problem
>>30007167
I wasn't actually complaining, I only said I was never going to get it. Don't act like I said "waah nobody on /r9k/ asks me for my contact info"
>>30007268
>I'm bumping a thread called "tfw no sleepy bf"
>I-I'm not lonely and looking for someone, really!!
what is the point? why are you wasting your time?
>>30007268
Ignore anon he is a butt
I will be your sleepy pet bf
>tfw you know a qt sleepy robot but he will never love you
Kill me someone.
>>30007306
I can be lonely and not be looking to share my info, I could want to wallow in my own misery, or I could want to hear stories or whatever
The better question is why it's such a big deal to you. Literally no one ITT has posted their skype despite complaining about their feels
>>30007384
>I want to post and complain about how lonely I am and ignore the way out that's literally right in front of me
I'm done, kill yourself you retarded faggot
>>30007442
Except it's not that simple for some people
Why are you so pissed?
>tfw no BF who looks exactly like this
>>30007442
A way out? Do you think everyone lives close to each other and are going to hit off right away?
>>30005725
Thats just how it goes anon. Someone makes this type of thread and people desperate who can fit whatever vague description is requested clamor.
>>30007442
I'll indulge in your advice even though no one will ever want me anyways.
>tfw no small sleepy bf to cuddle all day[email protected]
>>30007687
Hachiman, yahallo!
