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can't make small talktend to rant or talk in depth about socially unacceptable


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>can't make small talk
>tend to rant or talk in depth about socially unacceptable topics if expected to unnaturally direct conversation
>very limited interests that don't appeal to many people
>any attempt at small talk or normal conversation comes across as obviously forced and autistic
>no social life or friends
>same daily routine
>nothing to talk about
>can't even hold a girls attention online
>don't even attempt flirting anymore because it's cringy as fuck

should I just give up?
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>>29992229
Do you expect good advice here?

this place is designed so normies have people like you to tell them to kill themself
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I have the same problem, quite a few normie friends, but I can't hold a non sarcastic conversation, joking about liveleak videos doesn't appeal to girls.
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>>29992229
Heh, pretty much me. I manage to be a bit funny sometimes during small talk and I don't sperg out anymore, but it rarely goes smoothly. I have nothing appropriate to say back.
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I'm in a similar boat

>seem to only have one interest
>can only talk about said interest
>always drive conversation to that one interest
>if conversation isn't about it, I will doze out until I can find a way to steer it back, or just blurt out something
>no one cares about said interest
>people get pissed off about said interest
>don't talk to people much because I piss them off
>people don't talk to me because they don't want to talk about the same fucking thing again

That's why I stick to 4chan
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Sounds like actual autism OP. Have you been diagnosed? Cause if you're legit autistic you're kinda fucked.
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>>29992260
I don't mind sifting through a ton of shitposts for the few decent ones. I could use some mild entertainment anyway

>>29992364
normies bore too much to keep them as friends for too long. eventually I just get too tired of having to hold back the autism
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>>29992446
I got diagnosed with aspergers a few months back at 23
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>>29992229
Here is some advice
>Take up interesting hobbies like outdoors shit and just talk about that in small talk and bring up how they have been doing these last few days
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>>29992474
I go camping and on long distance hiking treks quite alot, but since they're not ebin wild partying trips no one is interested
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You'd be amazed at what men, who found something funny five minutes ago, will find weird and creepy when there are females in the room.

You can't blame them, its in their nature.
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