>met a strayan qt from /r9k/ just over a year ago
>long distance but whatever
>had a blast, really falling for her
>she was literallyalmostperfect
>months ago she said she was going on a trip
>we started being more distant even before that, but i figured I'd wait because i wanted it to work
>disappears
>thought i was over her
>just had a dream to remind me how qt she was and how much i liked her
wew lads time to kill myself
>actual 10/10 mtf in washington
>also ldr, connecting well, good chemistry, etc.
>starts becoming more distant
>exact same story as you basically
>found out from a friend she was getting married
WHY DID ME AND OP GET PLAYED LIKE THIS
at least you still have a glimmer of hope (if you haven't given up). i believe in you.
>>29987577
rest assured anon i've already lost hope
>>29987534
>meeting a girl from /r9k/
stopped reading there, that's where you fucked up, lad.
>>29987594
Well, the thing is, I don't really think I can fall for a girl that doesn't frequent 4chan
I've been on the site for awhile, it's really influenced my humor and stuff. Meeting some random grill in the real world just keeps me thinkign that we won't actually have anything in common, and I just can't get around the fact they'd probably have a shit personality
I don't know where to find anyone else, so I've given up
>>29987653
I've been going on 4chan every day since 2012, maybe 2011, and at some point I managed to do it.
4chan on the surface is nothing but memes, porn and hobby discussions.
You don't need to be identical to connect with someone.
>>29987534
>tfw a girl is drifting away from you and there's nothing you can do about it
>that hollow feeling you get when you remember her because you never had any closure
wew
>>29987653
i get what you're saying, but normies actually love 4chan vernacular. it's direct and self-aware, they think the way we talk and act is hilarious. people aren't as stuck up as we make them out to be. you would find common ground if you gave it a shot, and it would honestly be easier than anything you could find here on the chans.
i had the same mental block as you where i HAD to have a femanon. tried it and learned its a terrible idea. but i was given the same advice im giving you and did it anyways, so sometimes you gotta shoot yourself in the foot before you learn that it hurts.
as for where to find them though? valid obstacle. i don't think anyone, not even chad, has an answer on where to find a good, gf-tier girl.
