What do you think about resigning yourself to the fact that you'll never attract a girl, let alone a girl that you like?
Is it liberating, or just somber?
>>29949806
I can attract women, I just can't keep them. Either they or I initiate a break up after a few months and it's never been ugly or anything, just disappointing. I have a poor opinion of both myself and women in general, so I figure it's best if I just stay out of the dating pool.
Somber
I'm so far behind in social experience that it's basically impossible. Even if somehow I managed to get gf she would probably leave after she finds out that I have no friends. It's hard to get a social group after being out of it for so long.
it's kind hard to accept that I'm below abusive men, murderers, rapists and all other kind of scum that can attract a girl while I'm not.
>>29949951
Yes, but isn't that all just greater incentive to invest time on yourself? You can make your hobbies and prospective career your single occupation once you've actually resigned yourself.
>>29949997
That is what I do, except prospective career. There is a bright side to being alone as you point out, but it still sucks to not have friends
>>29949806
I didn't resign to the fact, it just sort of happened in my subconscious.
I just feel the vast majority of women are spoiled and a good single one is way too difficult to find in a sea of bad and taken ones.
>>29950038
>still sucks to not have friends
I agree. The more you invest in yourself and your hobbies, the more you realize you've no one to share your experiences with.
I'm indifferent about it. I don't have any skills that billions of other guys lack, I would get cheated on even if I managed to find someone who'd sink to my level.
