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How do I become more attracted to my girlfriend? We have been together for over a year and personality wise she is perfect for me. We share the same interests, she cooks for me, loves me, bakes me cakes, we have fun and I love her to death.

Sexually she is also perfect, was a virgin when we met, and now does anything I want, cum inside her, anal, swallows, recently even learned to deepthroat.

Only problem is when it comes to looks she is quite plain, she's not ugly or chubby or anything, but there is nothing remarkable about her looks. She has small boobs, average ass, plain face etc, basically isn't 'hot'. Often when I'm walking with her I look at hotter girls and feel guilty, one time she noticed and teared up asking if I still love her.

I would never leave her or cheat cause we love each other so how do I become more physically attracted to her?

pic related, i wish my gf had tits like that
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>>29948340
Be ungrateful, wait for her to dump you and you'll find her more attractive than ever when she's fucking some big black nigger cock and you're back to watching anime and playing 'vidya'
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>>29948340
Homie, I don't know how to tell you but you done fucked up. See, with random girls it doesn't matter how they look but with your serious gf you should find someone who you like as a person AND who are attracted to.
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>>29948382
I have no intention of ever dumping her cause i know how lucky i was to get her in the first place, there is zero chance of me ever finding a girl like her again.
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>>29948340
You could start by avoiding browsing places with 10/10 women. And you should focus on her physical pros,even if they are small things like freckles or her eyes.
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>>29948419
Then get over it. Unless she's some landwhale.
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>>29948340
>Often when I'm walking with her I look at hotter girls and feel guilty, one time she noticed and teared up asking if I still love her.

>pic related, i wish my gf had tits like that

As a practice gf fembot I wish I could strangle you through the screen desu.

Instead, for some reason I want to give you advice, try not watching anymore porn or visiting NSFW internet places like /r9k/, /b/, etc. Stick to SFW stuff instead of places that ogle 10/10s all the time. And stop saving lewds of other women. You obviously won't stick to this advice, so good luck have fun whatever. You might even consider it "unfair" - it's not. Do you think your gf ogles over 10/10 Chads all day? Probably not, girls hardly even watch porn let alone obsess over what the perfect 10/10 pecs look like. inb4 a bunch of virgins tell me otherwise, we don't
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>>29948425
This is good advice. I once had a friends with benefits thing going on with a plain jane. She was really super average but she looked a lot better to me with my dick in her mouth.
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>>29948425
Thats good advice, but its hard when i go to the beach with her and see nice tits everywhere i look. My girlfriend almost cries whenever she catches me looking at another girls boobs and is afraid i will dumps cause she has no tits.

I do try to focus on the positives but everything about her is average except maybe her feet which are super cute but i dont have much of a foot fetish sadly.
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How do you know you haven't just gotten bored with her? Even if she had those great tits you may feel the same way at this point.
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>>29948509
How hard is it to have some semblance of self control?
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>>29948445
I thought this might come up, i have not seen porn for years now believe it or not, the hot girls i see i only see in real life when i go out with my girlfriend.
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>>29948509
Ask her to do a footjob. Maybe that way you will slowly aquire the fetish. You can force yourself to like something,and I doubt that getting a feet fetish would be hard
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>>29948557
>I have not seen porn in years

What do you think if the picture you saved to your computer and posted in OP? Children's television programming?

Retard. Dump your gf because you don't deserve such a pure virginal qt you fugging ape.
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>>29948523
This, you dumb fuck. My gf is gorgeous and we have a lot of sex but I still like looking at all kinds of women, when out. Particualrly now that they don't wear much in summer. Men are more focused on the visual, that's all. You should try to make it less obvious though, when she is close by.
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>>29948577
I literally just googled for perfect tits so i can post here and found that gif on some tumblr wtf?
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>>29948340
The solution is very simple
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>>29948605
The perfect tits should be your gf's tits, regardless of whether they are a perky set of fake implants, or saggy ugly egg-drop tits. They belong to your gf who seems to do a LOT for you, the least you can do is be grateful and maintain some self control instead of disrespecting your gf and constantly making her worry.
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>>29948605
Also at least look at the bright side. She has small tits, a lot of people like DFC and think its the best, because as she gets older they won't sag and they'll stay perky and small. They're youthful, etc.

The tits you posted will sag in ten years and turn into ugly cottage-cheese tits and you'll be left with an expired product.
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>tfw I ogle bitches while out with my bf
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Buy her implants for her birthday. But physical appearance should be secundary thing if you are actually planning on settle down with her
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>>29948702
I am not a fan of fake tits desu.
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>>29948728
the tits you posted are fake, retard
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>>29948738
They are not dumb fuck.
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>>29948728
Lots of those women in the beach have implants.
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>>29948340
Girls with a great personality and average looks/body are leagues better than a hot girl with a generic personality and big tits and ass. A girl with a good personality that connects with you well shouldn't be dropped just cuz you find her average-looking.
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>>29948769
yes they are, what are you some sort of plastic surgeon? they're fake, that girl is a common porn star
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>>29948340
Hmm, can't say I ever had this problem. But I will recommend not giving it a second thought. If you actually like her so much you are willing to settle, does it matter if she's not the most beautiful woman? Keep your eyes on her, and enjoy her for who she is.

Also, don't be a dick-head. You have no idea how much it hurts when the person you care about has eyes on someone else other than you. Fucking soul crushing.
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>>29948728
I am aware of this, and i dont find those very attractive.

In hindsight, using tits as my pic was a bad idea, now everyone thinks i am just obsessed with massive tits, i like small nice looking boobs too and its not just about tits.

Point is my girl is plain and doesnt turn any heads, nothing remarkable about her looks.
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>>29948340
Post a picture of your gf. You probably have retarded standards due massive model posting. Just fuck her doggy style and in the ass hard and you will be in love for ever.
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>>29948340

I used to think like you man. I had a gf whom I thought was pretty meh looking, but had a great body. But her face was a big turn off.

So we broke up and years later today, I saw her recently and noticed how much prettier she had become, only nothing much about her changed except for my perception of her.
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>>29948340
My situation is kind of similar, but she wasn't a virgin when we met (met at 25) and I have cheated on her once with a qt 19 year old. I think it's going to end pretty soon, and I'm really dreading that moment.

I'm pretty sure I would be totally in love with her if not for the sexual history thing and a few personality things. I know I could get over her plain appearance if that was the only issue. So, you should just try to get over it. Very few guys actually land a super hot chick, and it sounds like yours is awesome in every other way. You'll miss her a lot if you dump her, and every girl you meet after that might just be a disappointment.
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>>29948788
You are an absolute idiot, i found that pic just now on some tumblr specifically dedicated to natural breasts only.
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>>29948651
All tits sag in time, this myth that small tits stay perky forever is just that, a myth
They don't even stay perky longer
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>>29948850
I want to kill you, desu.

oregano
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>>29948635
>The perfect tits should be your gf's tits
Kek, roastie detected. This is the same mentality as "beauty at every dress size". It's just an opinion to guilt guys into dealing with mediocre women
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>>29948728
Then you're a faggot. It's like you don't even WANT to fix the problem. Learn to live with fake, perky tits (if she wants it) attached to someone you love if tits is what you really want, or stop bitching and accept you've won the fucking lottery. Stop being a whiny cunt.
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>>29948871
I'd cheat on you too
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>>29948340
Bro you post about this shit like 5 times a week. Seriously, get a life.
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>>29948853
>expecting tumblr to know anything
Those are fake, the super high quality asian ones implant actual fat and not silicone so they look way better and they do it in a way that doesn't leave scars unlike western implants that are all silicone and done on the cheap leaving obvious scars
Watch some jav and you'll learn to spot them
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>>29948340

You'd dump her the moment an opportunity arises you piece of shit.
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>>29948828
Quit being retarded.
>Everyone loses their looks eventually due to aging
You'll have to deal with this one way or another. Learn to look past it ffs.
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>normalnigger problems
you might want to ask your IRL friends on facebook
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>>29948877
So you don't want your gf to think your dick is just perfect for her?

You're okay with her constantly lusting after Tyrone's dick then?

Cuck.
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>>29948871
Nobody cares about you since we both know that you're ugly and involved. The only weight your female opinion holds is sexual currency and if you become mad or sad then that's a very positive thing.
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>>29948914
The first good post in this entire thread. This is just a normal-fag trying to get help from robots.

>>29948919
Surprisingly good response. This threw me off.
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>>29948923
M-my boyfriend thinks I'm c-cute

in the dark
facing away from him
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>>29948340
dump that ho and get a hot bitch then wtf is wrong with you
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>>29948340
I ACTUALLY REMEMBER THIS FUCKING PASTA
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>>29948923
>he thinks anime posters are girls
That's a tranny newfag
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>>29948877
>girl gives you her virginity, one of the most important things in life
>learns degrading sex acts that are often painful just to please you
>cooks for you, bakes for you, does lots of things for you

>WELP, BETTER CHEAT ON HER OR DUMP HER FOR WHORE STACEY WITH THE FAKE FAT TATS

Robots are literally human scum.
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>>29948828
>Point is my girl is plain and doesnt turn any heads, nothing remarkable about her looks
then how did you fell in love with her in the first place? mere exposure effect?
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>>29948340
>virgin
>dfc
>not ugly
>loves you

Want to go fuck yourself OP? I try really fucking hard to meet a decent virgin girl and the only two I found were crazy. Boo hook she has small boobs. At least she didn't have another guy fucking her. I can't believe you fucking care about something so small.
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>>29948877
This guy is right OP. Dump your gf and start cooking your own food.
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>>29948976
>how did you fell in love with her in the first place?
Most people here would get in love with anyone that treats them nice and pays some kind of attention to them
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>>29948962
Robots don't have girlfriends
You would know that if you weren't some reddit fuck
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>>29948445
>practice gf

What does that mean? Are you an escort?

>>29948340
>>29948850

Look dudes, you CAN'T maintain a healthy relationship with a person you're not attracted to. People talk about "chemistry" all the fucking time for a reason--- physical attraction is a MUST.

I once dated a fat chick because I really liked her personality, but after a few months, I couldn't stand her because she was physically repugnant.

If you're not attracted to your GF, just dump her. Otherwise, you're wasting your time, and hers. You will not magically find her more attractive one day; you will just grow to resent her for not being pretty enough.
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>>29949010
Means I'm ugly and I'm gonna get dumped once Stacey comes along.

Practice gfs are gfs that guys get to practice. We're often ugly. Then when the guy has gotten enough experience being in a relationship, he can move on and is able to "please" his dream 10/10 Stacey.

The ultimate cucks.
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>>29949032
go away transfag, we're talking about GIRLfriends here.
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>>29948976
>how did you fell in love with her in the first place?

The cuck probably fell for the first girl that ever paid attention to him.
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>>29948340
>gets a gf
>still unhappy cause she's not a 10/10 model

the internet really twisted our generation's mind
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>>29949051
>implying not every robot does that
being clingy is such a red flag damn
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>>29949066
I want to argue against this but...
Those digits, gotta be checked.
I can't. Clingy girls are often the scariest.

>>29949032
Can't tell if this is real or not. I would like to imagine that this doesn't exist, but logically speaking this is a rather smart practice.
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>>29949032
Post a pic of yourself

Hdmjxhsunsn
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>>29948910
>>29948785
>>29948807
>>29948850
>every girl you meet after that might just be a disappointment
>You'd dump her the moment an opportunity arises you piece of shit.

I have had 3 other girlfriends total and slept with 1 more, some of them had nice tits or ass, but none of them come close to my current girlfriend when it comes to personality and sex. None of them were virgins. Only one of them let me put it in her ass(and she did it like twice and bitched about it for a week), 1 wouldnt let me cum in her, 1 made me wear a condom all the time, 1 woldnt give me a blowjob, some of them were nicer than others, 1 was a massive slut with some kind of personality disorder i swear.

My current girl lets me do whatever i want to her whenever i want, and is a pleasure to hang out with. So i know that there is no chance in hell i would ever find a better girl and so i would never cheat or leave her.
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>>29949087
>Can't tell if this is real or not. I would like to imagine that this doesn't exist, but logically speaking this is a rather smart practice.

The fat girl you dated was a practice gf.

>you will just grow to resent her for not being pretty enough.
Is just what happens.

>>29949089
This is NOT /soc/! Camwhoring is not allowed!
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>>29949010
only useful answer in this thread
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>>29949032
Post a pic of yourself

>>29949097
But it's not cambwhoring, there's a reason behind it
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>>29948382
This was 100% my experience. Don't take her for granted, OP. Buy her some lingerie or something that turns you on maybe?
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>>29948509
Save up for her to get a boob job, perhaps?
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Is she fuckable?
If so, then that's fine.
Learn to appreciate how she does in bed rather than how she looks in bed.
Quit porn and anything that makes you a more visually stimulative person.

I had a gf like that, a bit more than average IMO but nothing special. But holy shit did she make me cum way harder than I've ever had anyone else do before.
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>>29949095
>Wrongfully quotes me.
Why did I even bother responding? You seem only sex focused. You prolly don't give two shits about her personality, and just love the sex doll she is who allows you to fuck her any which way. Get off my board, normie.

>>29949097
>Dating fat women
>Dating at all
Sorry, I prefer to be single and carry resentment while complaining about women. Much easier than changing to attract women.
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>>29949159
Well yeah but you still used her for the XP.
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>>29949095
print out the face of Jennifer Lawrence and stick it onto her face
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>>29949174
>XP
We're in a videya now? Sorry, the vast majority of dudes I know actually date because they like the woman, not because they're something to practice on.

I just think you've had bad experiences and view people in a wrong light. Though on the off-chance you're right, you have my apologies.
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>>29948340
I thought it wasn't possible but it is to appreciate your lady more. stop looking at porn for one. when you're intimate you will be having flashes of porn images in your mind distracting you from her. find what you are attracted to about her and fetishize that. also get her walking a lot. a girl should feel compelled to exercise for you. it takes some doing but they keep it up on their own once they get a habit started.
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>>29949217
Lol at least suggest someone prettier
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>>29949221
Normies don't do this, it's mostly something losers/betas/robots do because they have to.

Normal people don't need to practice in social situations because they're basically born knowing what to do/how to act/etc. They don't have to settle for 1/10 fatasses in a sad attempt to hone their relationship skills.
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>>29949238
there you go
[originalhos]
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>>29948962

Robots? This thread is literally about chads and yet somehow robots are to blame? Absolute fucking retard.
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>>29948976
Was seeing her every day and we liked spending time together and sorta just clicked. I was alone for a while before that, she wanted me to be her first so it kinda just happened. After that i slowly fell in love with her due to how amazing she is, the cakes helped a lot to be honest.
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>>29948633
this to be honest to you budde.


you are a d e m o n and i hope you are kill.
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>>29949318
just keep reminding yourself that you don't actually want to leave her for a roastie hot girl and then it will click that yeah, that is just grass is greener syndrome, and you don't need a hot girl because what you have is already enough to make you happy. keep reminding yourself. worked for me. clicked after a year or so of wanting to leave her for the chance at the way hotter women out there,
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>>29948340
>this isn't a bait thread
>people are seriously responding to this guy's problem with his gf

What has this place become?
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>>29948445
sorry to hear. the girl I lost my virginity to was a practice gf. 5/10, cute impish face bumped her up from 4/10. she had no hymen though swore she was a virgin. If she had, I would have stayed with her longer and gave her more of a chance. But i think more likely she was lying because after I told her it was over she started having sex with older men and my good friend and told me later that she had only been with one guy after me. dumped her even though she really really liked me, because I thought I should try to get with hotter women. she became an alcoholic thanks to her future boyfriends after me. feel very responsible.
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>>29949503
no exact reposts, nothing more
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>>29948340
Man you got a good thing. Don't ruin that shit.
My ex was similar. She wasn't model hot but she was beautiful to me. I always have problems explaining that when people ask.

Anyway. You love your girlfriend, but you're annoyed because of her different physical features? Man fuck that. If she makes you happy just being with you, the rest shouldn't matter.

I guess I don't get it because I don't care if a girl I love is flat or not. That wouldn't bother me at all. That ex of mine certainly wasn't flat, but she could have AA cups and I wouldn't give a fuck either way.
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>>29949503
normie infestation had reached critical levels about two months ago mate
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>>29948340
Listen friendo, here's the deal.
Hot girls, the thing about hot girls is, they know they're hot. Of course some are hotter than others, but as a general principle, hot girls know they're hot. Now the thing is, this knowledge leads to quite a few complex things happening in their lives. They can
>Become manipulative bitches who use their looks to create a social circle of betas who'll do anything for them just to get a cursory pat on the head
>They'll shoot only for guys who are equally as attractive (this is how good-looking people keep getting made) or guys that have awesome future prospects (rich guys, popular guys, guys generally on the up and up)
>Sometimes they become genuinely grounded people who are a bit wary of people in general because of how differently society treats the good-looking from the plain looking
>And sometimes, due to shit happening in their lives such as abusive partners or broken homes, they become bat-shit crazy or broken down

Now see, the thing is 9/10 times you get the pretty girl that uses her looks to get what she wants and will fucking leave you if she sees a better deal elsewhere, especially if shes an ambitious go-getter kind of gal. Looks don't last forever after all, and she'll use em while she got em. So my advice; stay with your plain looking girl unless you're upwardly mobile. She'll adore you, she'll love the shit out of you and she'll treasure you like no one else will. Aftr all, you're one of the few guys who have shown her love. She hasn't had it showered on her from all sides since she was old enough to read, so she really fucking appreciates it. Not to mention plainer women tend to be more grounded than their prettier counterparts, so you have a person who's more "real" and less "sex appeal in human form". So stay with her, for your sake and hers
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>>29948850
>cheated on her
>would be totally in love with her if not for the sexual history thing
are you serious?
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>>29948340
that fucking waterdrop on the camera lens
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