Have you ever had a relationship with someone online?
>>29940977
>Have you ever had a relationship
No
Once when I was 7 a girl in an online game asked me for "cex" and I cried and got my mom
>>29940977
Yes. We e-dated for a year, on yahoo messenger, and took goofy quizzes and shared funny links and chatted almost every day.
>>29940977
>talking to a girl online
>really like her
>have to keep reminding myself its 99% likely a dude on the other end
Yeah and it was awful.
Lesson learned tho.
>>29940977
No because it's not real
>>29940977
Currently have one now
>>29940977
Once, but it wasn't really real.
I talked with her online, and I knew she had problems. One day she basically asked me about it, so I said yes, mostly so she wouldn't run out into traffic. But afaik we broke up by the time I got internet back.
>>29941053
We bought webcams just for each other to call. I remember the first time I heard her voice. That first time she smiled. I'll never forget it.
>>29941005
This is the only correct legitimate answer
>>29940977
yeah, 3 years ago, went abroad to meet her and destroyed me, she lied about a lot and was talking to her ex sexually etc
your experiences define you and your opinions, and that's the case with me too, but i still don't really see an online relationship as real, and i know that to truly know a person, you need to meet them, people act very differently behind a screen and project themselves how they'd like to be viewed, you'll not see the ugly side (physical or otherwise)
just my opinion, but it really isn't the same as irl
>>29940977
The show kind of ticks me off with how the MC wouldn't touch his girlfriend.
>>29940977
A few.
One was just some girl I played some old korean MMO with when i was like 13. We had an in-game relationship, talked on the phone sometimes, the usual for almost 2 years. She eventually found a real life boyfriend and broke it off with me.
Another was this girl from cali, I think I met her in a chatroom or something when I was 16. She was... different. Kind of wild and crazy. We talked online a bunch, exchanged phone numbers and had long phone conversations, sent each other pictures, had plans to eventually meet. Then I learned she was actually crazy instead of fun crazy. She and her friend apparently kicked the shit out of some pregnant woman who mouthed off to them, caused her to miscarry. Nope'd the fuck out of that one.
Last one was a girl from NY when I was 22 or 23. Met her in a /soc/ meetup thread. We'd skype, play WoW together, eventually made almost guaranteed plans for her to come visit my place, possibly even move here, she wanted to move to canada and I figured I knew her pretty well after a year and a half to see how it went. She became pretty flaky all the sudden, taking a week to get back to me several times. I mostly just assumed she was probably catfishing me (the long-con of a year and a half) and just drifted away. She eventually moved to cali and is there now and I think has a boyfriend now, not really sure since we haven't talked in over a year.
>>29941155
She had made a few fake accounts to try to see how I responded to sluts coming at me
>>29940977
A girl in World of Warcraft, we ended up skyping a lot and she got turned on by seeing me do high damage in groups. She was really weird but cool. Wanted me to visit her and be her bf but there was an ocean between us and neither of us had money. Just drifted apart after a few years.
>>29941191
Ouch
Origami
>>29940977
Just one. I confessed after a year and a half, it was reciprocated, we met up for a week and oh my god was it amazing.
When it came time to fly over here as I flew over there last time, they cancelled on me 10 days before the flight and ended it abruptly. It hurt alot, but the memories keep me happy some days.
Yeah, a friendship senpai
>relationshit means le bf/gf maymay meme
>>29940977
>be 14
>meet cute girl on game I play
>we become friends
>one year later
>we get on skype and her friends are also in the call
>video chat
>it's a trap
>i'm shocked and yell "what the fuck? are you serious?"
>the girls laugh
>HE awkwardly smiles
>i tell him to never speak to me again
>remove
>block
>cut all ties
>he tries making another account and contacting me
>block
i've never e-dated anyone since and never will.
>>29940977
Yeah when i was 15. This was also 1998 so we actually had no idea what we looked like until we started mailing stuff to each other, but once we saw who we actually were the whole thing seemed to fizzle out. Most of you probably weren't even born then so you have no idea what im talking about. I'll probably kill myself soon.
>>29940977
God, don't remind me. I've had around five of them, and I want to forget about every single one. If I had more time to spare and extra privacy during those relationships, they probably would have gone better, but... Fuck. I would not recommend it. Unless you live alone, have plenty of free time, and can support yourself, don't date someone through a computer.
>>29941299
I was 17 and graduating high school in 1998, what's up fellow oldfag.
>>29941205
I didn't show any interest at all, kust politely declined all the advances.
Some may have been real girls I will never know. But my eyes were locked on her. I don't know what it was but I knew she was my one and only for the rest of my life.
A couple, most never became boyfriend/girlfriend but almost all involved exchanging phone calls, playing games together, exchanging nude pictures, phone sex, webcam sex etc etc.
My longest one was a girl I met off Totse, we dated for about 5 years until I dumped her for being too clingy.
We're still friends and talk everyday, sometimes I miss her and want to get back with her but then I realize that it's just loneliness and she would just drive me crazy again like she used too.
I've been in an online relationship with 3 girls.
One when I was twelve back in the AOL dial-up days. We met in an AOL chatroom and became internet boyfriend and girl. It was the dumbest relationship, we would just send like emails every few days telling each other about our week and whatever. It was so innocent.
We eventually just stopped talking to each other. In fact I think it was me that just stopped sending the emails. I just didn't care for it.
One a few years later when vanilla WoW came out, I met a girl there who was like 5 years older than me and we played the game together and "cybered" (Do kids these days still call it that?) and all that disgusting degeneracy. I broke up with her because she was a slut that would flirt with other dudes when I wasn't around.
Lastly another girl I met in a game, TERA this time. We were together for 3 years. Probably the most legitimate of my relationships because I met up with her in real life once. We would spend hours and hours on webcam chatting with each other. She was a really sweet girl. She was pure autism and was really weird and was a NEET living with her parents.
I went to her house once when her parents were out of town. I took the train for 3 hours to meet up with her and I spent the night. We didn't do anything though, we held hands and cuddled to sleep. She did let me feel her up though but she was too nervous to have sex.
Wasted train fare honestly but at the time I was so into her I was willing to wait. We broke up eventually because she became legitimately obsessed with me. She would blast up my phone with texts ALL DAY. She would get upset when I partied with other people in the game. She would want me to spend hours every night on the phone with her. I got like 2 hours of sleep a day during that time.
I thought I would be able to deal with it but it wore on me. Eventually I broke it off, took like 5 hours to break up with her. I thought that kind of girl was what I wanted until I had it.
>>29941352
Oh I forgot to say that I did eventually meet her and stayed at her house for a year, lost virginity to each other yada yada.
Then I moved back to my parents house and dumped her over the phone a couple of months later, so yeah I'm an ass.
>>29941318
Not a whole lot, insomnia got me dicking around on 4chan at 4 in the morning. Shit you're older than i am. Question: do you have stairs in your house?
>>29941332
I dreamed about her every day. I bolted to the laptop to crank up the dial up internet every time I got home. No matter what bullshit happened, my qt was there waiting for me.
>>29941395
Hah yeah, but I quit posting there a year or so ago, don't like what it's become. I was highly active there around 2008-2012, posted a lot in LF.
>>29941402
I had been recovering from a suicide attempt wherein I had been briefly dead.
She made me forget that feeling of wanting to end it all. She took all the pain away.
>>29940977
Yes I did. I was in an e-relationship with a "girl" for a year. We were inseparable.
>>29941435
If you want the story I saved it for easier phoneposting because my internet is down.
>>29941416
yeah i lurked gbs a lot back in 2000-2004, then btb, but once the file forums had to be axed i just went with them and didn't spend as much time there. i had an account that was made before the paywall existed and i permabanned myself a few years ago because it had fallen so far from what i had once seen. i actually went back earlier this year because lowtax was actially posting again about the fun he's had with terrible forum codersvover the ueats and gbs actually had a few things worth reading... anyway good times
Yes, we live in different countries. We've met up once and it was the best time of my life. It's worth it if you're able to meet up.
>>29941047
WTF man
You could have been Chad now, you dingus
>>29941057
>not demanding timestamped video/pic voice recording
are you even trying?
>>29941468
Im so glad to see a happy story on /r9k/
>>29941571
It's not a relationship, I have no real reason to ask ((((her)))) to verify ((((her)))) identity.
>>29941723
Posted it a while back. We're still together
>>29941883
Sadly the stories before it are just awful. But hey, life. Can turn around in unexpected ways.
>>29940977
I've been in a few internet relationships and maybe I'm just retarded but every single one of them just didn't feel as strongly as I did.
And they're all from /r9k/
I figured I'm a Loony NEET so surely lots of others like me would be here, but 99% of the people I've even spoke to on here are Normans
>>29942191
Keep trying man. Just keep trying. It's better thsn giving up.
>>29940977
How the fuck do people even have relationships online? I've never been attracted to someone online and even if I was men outnumber women online like 10:1
In any case I've had more success irl than online
>>29940977
Yes, when i was a retarded teen. It cost me 2000 dollars and all of my innocence
i had an online friend from 4chan in the longest time I was banned and lonely from xbox live. lurked 4chan for 3 years and the first friend I get kills me off in the shittiest way possible.
>>29942267
I almost gave a girl $3000, but thankfully it didn't come to that. We would've broken up a couple months afterwards anyways.
>>29941362
Must've had a pretty bad life to obsess over a guy like you.
Anyways bro what games do you play these days? Still TERA?
>>29941304
you know a good friendship to me = something as deep as a relationship is supposed to be. but you're too dumb to understand that rostie
>>29942249
It only works if you actually enjoy having conversations with women
kinda. and it sucks cause I want her more than the person I am married to.
>meet girl on facebook (we share same right wing views)
>share nudes/talk to each other on phone
>lose touch for a year
>two years later I am married to a girl I loved but now it's just a dead relationship/we're friends
>now she is kinda back in my online life again liking all my political posts
>we live about 20 mins away from each other
>too beta to meet irl and I gained weight. so not skinny/attractive anymore
I'm in purgatory desu
Well now it all makes sense
>>29942507
>>29942667
forgot to tag originally
I'm on Interpals, it's fucking awful.
Hitting it off with all these qts and we're separated by thousands of kilometres of water and land.
>>29940977
I am currently in one with a qt grill who never goes outside, and still lives with her mummy and daddy. She lives in the United Kingdom, and I hope we'll get to meet irl soon :3
>>29942685
what's your personality type?
im talking at the moment to a girl who i have much in common hope she will be my waifu
>>29940977
Yes, but he really hurt me.
Now I've fallen for someone again and we're in a weird limbo state.
>>29942694
English instructor.
>>29940977
Couple of them, I've never regreted any of them before.
But with time I come to think I'd be better off not having meet anyone.
>>29940977
Yeah but it was always unfulfilling. The sudden bouts of silence when they grow bored of you are never fun.
>>29942977
kek
you made me laugh for a long time
>>29941265
KEK, where did you find this weirdo?
