Who /given up/ here? It took me around 5 years but I finally realized I destined to be one of these loner single men and I'll never get a partner in my life. It doesn't even bother me anymore, these "buhuhu no gf" feels have banished from me completely, now I live at (relative) peace.
>>29939581
>these "buhuhu no gf" feels have banished from me completely, now I live at (relative) peace.
I have moments like this but once in a while i get really depressed again and want to die
I'm turning 21 this year, i'm already borderline alcoholic i'll spend a lot of time in bars maybe i'll find someone in one.
last year at my family vacation my older brother came with his gf and my older sister came with her husband. i sat alone on the beach drinking a huge bottle of tequila every night, this bottle was the size of a vodka bottle i put 2 of'em down. looking at 3 this year
Meditate. You will become skilled at pruning your thoughts and not treading down bad pathways.
Monks vow to be broke celibate losers so they're experts at this.
25 yr old KV here
just about ready to form a new identity i think
It's very liberating. Now it seems so petty and childish to be upset because you don't have a girlfriend. There are worse things in life I think.
>>29939656
This is how it is for me. It's all in highs and lows. If I could just minimize the lows that would be just great.
>>29939695
lol fuck you guys, I'm not going to end up like you. The countdown to my suicide has already started, I refuse to just accept loneliness.
I'm going all out tomorrow, asking out 100 women and will suicide if I don't get a single date.
>>29939656
Well I'm depressed too and sometimes cry myself to sleep but it's because I'm all alone and don't even have friends. Maybe if I had only one person to talk with.
>>29939679
not this exact one but bottle looks really close, it was some tequila that you can only get in st augustine
>>29939581
Yep.
Apparently having one standard (don't have kids) is too hard to achieve and I'll die alone. Once I finish my masters I'll probably swim into the ocean and shoot myself in the head
I was born with a cleft lip and palate so I have never known what it feels like to even have hope of finding someone. My body and genes are totally worthless. Frankly if it wasnt for internet porn, I would kill myself.
>>29939581
Yeah I sorta got there and accepted it. Getting a lot of work and other shit to do helps. Though sometimes I still get the feels and it's horrible, but I just tell myself to "keep going, keep doing my work and don't think about it". Usually worksso long as I don't see happy couples or qt girls who talk about their boyfriends. I'd never have a chance with those girls anyway desu.
>>29939748
>I'm going all out tomorrow, asking out 100 women and will suicide if I don't get a single date.
Try tinder. You might get a single date, but I wouldn't hope for a second.
>>29939752
Tbh I don't even know how to cry anymore. Men don't cry. But I also wish I had at least one person to talk to. Someone to give a shit about me.
Amazes me how there are actually guys who have gfs that really care for them. I just can't even imagine what it's like. Some of those guys even have the audacity to complain about their gf caring too much...
>>29939581
I never will give up. That's not in my nature.
I'm a dreamer and i fear i ever will be.
>>29939656
This.
Once in a while every 3 months or so I get the feels and cry myself to sleep for 1-2 days
>>29939581
While I never really wanted a gf I'm still depressed not having one because society completly cast you out for not behaving normally. Same with drinking. I don't drink and people treat me like a monster.
>>29939581
am I the only one who gets lost in their thoughts imagining up scenarios where you and a random girl, maybe one you see on the bus or train or something, where you work up the courage to go talk to them and everything goes perfect and you end up marrying her and having kids or something, or just a life where you get to enjoy each other's company, but then after 30 or 40 minutes of it you kinda snap out of it and are back to being sad and lonely.
>>29940352
Yes. Everyday. Wanna be friends?
>>29939656
>>29939742
>>29940015
same here robros. its like I know even if I got the girl its never what its cracked up to be. but I still long for that girl to be on my side take interests in what I like and genuinely care for me. and then I realize how fucked up girls are now a days and how I couldnt even be a proper man for them anyways. in the end I think its for the best that I'm alone. been so alone for so long dont think I can function in any type of relationship.
>>29940352
i think its just a natural thing for robots i do it constantly and shit those are some of the best day dreams my favorite is imagining the proposal
>>29940404
I wish, but it probably wouldn't work out
>>29940404
>>29940445
lets all be friends! hakunamatata og
>>29939656
>I have moments like this but once in a while i get really depressed again and want to die
Same, it's usually after a dream.
>There are roughly as many females as there are males in the population
>men are somehow 100% lonelier than females on average, including extreme cases like OP
How does that happen?
>>29939656
I never get those moments. I've given up on trying but desire won't go away.
>>29939581
>taking you 5 years
At the absolute latest it should have been a realisation when you graduated from highschool and realised that you have 0 significant interactions with girls the entire time.
Throughout my highschool experience I think I talked to two girls and the conversations both didnt last longer then a minute
>>29940476
>the average girl has a dozen beta orbiters
>how are they not lonely
hmm
>>29940476
Women group up on individual men.
>>29940423
that's a great one... how does yours play out? mine plays out while we're at our cottage for our anniversary, everything went wrong but we just end up on the porch eating frozen pizza staring up at the perfectly starry night, and even though it all kind of went wrong it still ended up being great and when I pop the question she jumps for joy saying yes and we embrace each other.
I know that just sounded autistic as fuck but it's the only thing I have
>>29940476
>How does that happen?
pic related
>>29940527
>>the average girl has a dozen beta orbiters
why though. there is the same amount of men and women in the world, so how come a girl has dozen of orbiters and a guy has none
>>29940555
Because human beings are hard wired to consider women as more valuable due to them being the bottle neck in reproduction.
>>29940555
Because girls all go for Chad. If you're Chad, you have female orbiters.
>>29940555
because females are desirable from anywhere 3/10+ or above
men are only desirable when they're an objective 7/10+
>>29940588
>due to them being the bottle neck in reproduction.
but this is far from true in modern society
>>29940555
That's just how it is man
Anyone got that pic with equal girls and boys but with lines from most girls to a few boys? Explains it well.
>>29940630
Those arrows need to be pointing higher.
>>29940596
I wonder how lulcows are going to refute this claim
>>29940540
bah! cant think of one of the top of my head since every time I do its always a different story in my head. the best part of day dreams is you can be as autistic or as cool as you want and who gives a shit about anyone else.
>>29939656
Me too
Anyone else too cowardly to an hero?
>>29940555
The top percentage of men go through more women.
You know that stereotype about men being two-timing womanizers? That applies to the top percentage of men.
The bottom percentage of men are usually discarded by labeling them creeps/ugly/boring.
>>29940775
but the vast majority of relationships are still monogamous, meaning there's a 1 to 1 correspondence in every given point of time. if women only went for the top percentage of men there would be a "line" which is too long to allow women to have multiple relationships
>>29939748
I told myself the same thing too m8. The problem is anyone too cowardly to talk to girls past age 18 probably doesn't have the balls to an hero.
>>29940813
>but the vast majority of relationships are still monogamous
oh anon...
>>29939748
>living for the approval of women
>>29940814
Fuck are you me anon? It's like I never even tried but I just can't go on
In a depressive swing right the fuck now
watching sappy kdramas which has given me motivation to diet harder for these imaginary cute asian girls that I will never get nor receive such a sappy love from.
>>29940754
Most people are dude
Contrary to popular memes surrounding suicide, seriously attempting to end your life takes a lot of courage because you're fighting your own body and brain. That's why so few people do it even though tons of people are miserable, and why so many suicides involve alcohol
I have given up
I no longer feel anger towards the world all the time
I've just come to accept the fact that it's survival of the fittest, and I'm not fit to live.
I'll die alone. Probably some time in the next 10 years when my parents finally get sick of me and throw me out. There's no way I'm going to be strong enough o lead a livable life built off of a career and steady income
I thought I'd given up, but I dunno. Lately I can't bear to watch/read/play anything involving romance because it hurts too much.
>>29941118
No doubt that if the fear of death weren't as strong, society would not be able to exist
>>29941118
I suppose that makes sense. I used to never understand suicide but I perfectly understand how they felt now, wanting to end it myself
>>29941281
The number of people who wish they were dead is much higher than the number of people who are actually capable of suicide
>>29941216
Hey come on, I'm sure in 10 YEARS you could develop a skill that could make you some money to live off of. Carpentry, drawing, music, cooking, acting... pick something. Actually you could master it if you devoted yourself for that long.
>>29941404
It might be genetically possible for me to obtain the skillset required to make a decent living.
but i don't have the mental willpower to go through with something like that
and that's why I'll die
>>29941792
go to the mountains and fight with your mind. it might save your life
i still miss the daily sex
i dont think i can ever give up on that
>>29941915
>go to the mountains
You're underestimating how weak my mental fortitude is. I lack the strength to even do that, and i literally live in a valley town at the base of a mountain.
You don't have to feel bad for me or try to go out of your way to help me. I accepted how my life would play aout a while ago. It doesn't upset me.
>>29942004
take your feet and leave, you know you can do that. what do you have to lose? at least you would know you've tried everything
>>29940813
what are single moms
what is marrying a beta for security and fucking another man on the side
>>29942043
I'm talking about all the young lonely males
>>29940606
It doesn't matter because we are dumb Forest Apes running on Hunger-Gatherer OS 1.2.
Nothing about our experience is accidental. What we pay attention to/are motivated by is defined by our evolutionary and genetic heritage.
Don't give up robots I list my virginity at 17 and have had a stable relationship since I was twenty with a beautiful girl who loves me unconditionally. Maybe one day you can get lucky too.
>>29942072
Shouldn't you be banging Stacy instead of fucking with us, Chad?
>>29942062
>Hunger-Gatherer OS 1.2
Heh.
>>29942072
Fuck off normie, I'm 20 and KHV
>>29940775
>that picture
God damn nigga
I can't even get angry anymore
Last night I sent my information and some semi-application thing on the navy and air force website.
I'll go to the recruiter later today in the afternoon.
I hope I get beat into a normie.
Have already accepted that disabled defective men such as myself will never have any value whatsoever to anyone in society. Life sure is fun as a useless eater.
anybody /never tried never cared/?
Just when I decided to give up on women I've discovered that I have a fuckin epic lever talent that went unnoticed through my life. Completely dedicating myself to that now, maybe it will let me win in life. Wish me luck bros
>>29939581
I would try to maintain this mindset for years and would occasionally fall off the wagon, since the start of this year though I can sense something has changed, I guess I've finally seen too much, too many awful examples of how modern relationships have left men drained and broken. The perpetual loneliness I used to feel is gone and just the thought of a relationship causes aversion and mental exhaustion. I've taken true comfort in my solitude and I think I can say that you're better off alone and genuinely mean it now.
>>29939581
I've stopped feeling. I don't even think about it much anymore. Im more preoccupied with dank memes and video games now.
>>29940596
>men are only desirable when they're an objective 7/10+
That's not true though. Attractiveness does not only include looks.
>>29939887
I was born with a cleft palate.Underwent surgery for it when it was a kid.Still have a slight speech impediment.Have you considered cosmetic surgery?
But have you at least tried to get a girlfriend?
>>29939581
>I destined to be one of these loner single men and I'll never get a partner in my life.
you need to be 30+ to use these words.
>>29941216
Find a way to get a job.You don,t have to die on the street.I'm a robot too.A 28 year old KHV.I at least have an education and a job.Living alone is better than dying on the street.
