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What the fuck does "trying too hard" means? I'm
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What the fuck does "trying too hard" means?

I'm having a meltdown over here. I got over a huge argument with my family and they told me that I try to hard. When I asked them what the fuck does that means they just said "just be yourself :)".

Am I living in fantasy land? How can people just walk around believing such stupid platitudes? What's wrong with trying hard when I'm such a fuck up trying to improve?
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>>29933676

They mean you are trying too hard to create an image which not true. How do you dress?
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>>29933676
Ya got memed on son
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>>29933793
Probably this.

Is there something that you strive to portray? Are there certain traits that you value, and you are consciously awaiting an opportunity to act in accordance with those traits?
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Just normies being normies

Ignore their shit and keep doing what you're doing
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They're proving a point
And that is that no matter what you do, someone, somewhere, can and will tell you that what you're doing is wrong
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Depends, but basically, sometimes if you try too hard it might come off like you are expecting reward for your behavior too much.

Which is retarded, naturally we would expect rewards for things we do otherwise why would we do them, the issue is people don't want to feel obligated to reward you. Trying too hard puts other people on the spot, essentially.
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>>29933676
What is the context? Call of Duty? The way you carry yourself?
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You probably come across as fake and girls can smell that shit a mile away.
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means you're an aspie prick who should have been bullied out of his autism but wasn't
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