Vague invitations
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Is anybody familiar with vague invitations?
Situation:
>Visit female friend a week ago
>No crush just be clear no netflix and chill
>Watch many movies and eat noodles
>She had alot of fun, hints at maybe see'ing eachother on Monday
>Weekend, we're chatting on Whatsapp
>2hours in conversation, she doesn't make the move
>Monday passes and no invite, just more chat
>Assume she lost interest
>Tuesday, she says out of nowhere: "maybe we can do something on wednesday, but its not sure...
>Suggest to push it back a day
>She'll tell me later
>Wednesday, she invites me all of a sudden on Wednesday
>Nigga i aint prepared i smell like shit
>Oh ok tomorow maybe
>Exit's Whatsapp without telling me the time
Why do some people do this, why can't they formally say "Hey want to do something with me on Wednesday at X time?
But no, they make the day extremely vague, and they dont even tell you what time to come over.
Why do people do this?
Then you say "I can be over that at X:XX, is that good?"
>WHAT IS A VAGUE INVITATION MY DEAR GENTLEMEN???
Do you have autism?
I have a friend who's always asking for advice in this situation. i just want to shout "SHES NOT INTERESTED, STOP TRYING"
if women weren't cunts who got off on leading guys on, he'd get the honest "no" that he needs to move on with his life.
>>29923620
When i ask what time to come she just says "come whenever you want"
As i said its extremely vague, i could be there at 9 o clock in the morning and she doesn't give a shit.
She very clearly loves hanging around with me, but why does she got to look so uninterested?
>WHAT IS A VAGUE INVITATION MY DEAR GENTLEMEN???
I never asked that question, you're the autist here, i asked if you were familiar with them personally.
>>29923675
Never let a woman make a decision. They're terrible at it, thats why she's being so vague. Say "Ill be there at X o'clock" and then just go, or if you're a boy and not a man, you can say "I'll be there at X o'clock, is that cool with you?"
>>29923721
forget the "is that cool with you"
just say what time you're going there, and go. it's implied that she can come if she wants. if she shows up, great. if not, who gives a shit, there's 3.5 billion of them
Nigger, what are you doing? If you were doing what she is doing to someone, you'd shy away because you aren't getting any signals back. Fucking broadcast your intentions and ask her out somewhere retard.
You guys don't understand what im talking about.
Im not looking for a date, no i don't say "I'll be there at X o'clock, is that cool with you?" i decide the time as always but she pretends she doesn't care.
Im merely asking why she's so vague with her invites and decisions
Nothing more nothing less
Im not looking for anything, im just wondering if MAYBE she's socially anxious and has no idea how to make plans, she's completely obedient when i invite her around.
>>29923589
Don't play games. Nobody likes that. You're a fucking dunce who is enjoying the attention. Stop being a fucking woman. Just KYS
>>29923589
>No crush just be clear no netflix and chill
bullshit, else you wouldn't be sweating this
did you ever think YOU'RE the vague one?? huh did ya
