Hey Robots so I've been stuck on this god forsaken board since 2012 and now I finally have my ticket out but I need your help because I've never been in this situation.
I'll explain the story with each picture (total of 8)
tl;dr:About to get a girlfriend but she's skeptical since I have another friend whose a girl
>>29885311
So I work at Fast Food and there's a co-worker i've grown a liking to ever since we hung out one time. It was nothing special but she seemed to get pretty into it so naturally I did too. This was 2 weeks ago when we started to get a vibe off each other
also
inb4 normie
inb4 having a job
inb4 have friends
inb4 having friends who are girls
>>29885345
A friend of mine moved away to Georgia last year and recently came to visit on Friday.
I've always had feelings for her but nothing too serious and with her being gone those feelings diminished. But it was pleasant to see her again on Friday.
>>29885345
>alsoinb4 normieinb4 having a jobinb4 have friendsinb4 having friends who are girls
:(
she wants the D man, you're all set
Just take her on a date or something, show her that you choose her above your other female friend.
>>29885396
stop being a cuck, tell her you're going on a date tomorrow at 6/ whenever you know she's free
what's with this retainer shit? I've broken mine before and it was no big deal
>>29885396
tell her she doesnt need to eat, only suck
>>29885396
So me and Gaby, the co-worker, hung out plenty of times until then but when my friend from Georgia was coming suddenly she started in a subtle way, ignoring me.
She tells me she wanted to talk about something on Friday on I was busy that day so she never told me. Also had to get friend from the airport.
>>29885441
So let's fast forward today: Me and my friend hung out a few times but I ultimately kept messaging Gaby to see if she wanted to hang out but to no avail, she was always "busy"
This morning I invited her out to breakfast so we can also talk and she agrees.... however this is where the story stops. I'll post the rest of the pictures right now so you see what happens.
>>29885477
I'm reading the replies, just want to get to the point before I reply
>>29885477
o shit jason is a cuck
>>29885507
shit nearly triple dubs
Yeah so just one more post to go and we're there
Wait what she went on a date with someone els?
>>29885563
probably cucked by some 6 3 chad
By looking at the screenshots, seems you got kinda friendzoned to me, bro.
Dont put question marks when texting this may sound like stupod shit but youre asking for permission, boom beta.
Example
Instead of : lets chill tommorow?
8.15?
Lets chill tommorow at 8.15
She'll let you know if she actually cant go.
>>29885555
And well yeah. Here we are.
the tl;dr version:
>Gaby thinks I'm in love with my friend because I told her I did before
>She stills thinks this
>Trying to prove her I don't
>Ask her out for later tonight
>Literally tells me she has another date
PLEASE HELP
This is the part I have no idea what to say! I've thought of multiple things like:
1. See you at work
2. I know I do, I'd like it back (Faggish I know)
3. It was never taken to begin with, not until now
Do any of these sound good?
>>29885635
try fucking the other girl
>>29885635
4. Oh Gaby. How did you reach that conclusion?
>>29885635
she could be lying about the other date and just trying to see how you would react
cut all contact
You are being such a fucking chuck.
>no, it's fine Gaby
>don't worry about it Gaby
>family always comes first Gaby
Wouldn't surprise me if she's getting fucked by an 8 inch nigger cock as you're pretending you're making any progress in your pointless conversation.
You're in too deep my friend...
...and you're NEVER getting out!
>>29885635
Reply with hahaha and never reply again. Masturbate for 2 weeks and she'll hit you with the ol' I miss you text
>>29885635
as you're another jason bro I won't REE at you, but try telling her the truth, that it's good to see your friend but your first isn't your main flame anymore, tell her that she "has your heart" even if she doesn't. get that shit buddy I believe in you
>>29885635
Tell her that youre not interested in the other girl anymore. Then just tell her lets go on a date.
If she says no. Say thats fine if you change your mind let me know. Then somewhat give her less attention you have your own life she'll probably see that and go for that daaattteee. No point in becoming a total beta frienzone cuck is thats not what you are looking for.
>>29885635
I would just keep it casual, don't try to be fancy or anything, just be you. So, I would just explain her that your heart isn't taken in a normal/not too flirty tone.
>>29885635
She's playing games to test you (fairly innocuous to be fair) and you're being a fag. I'd get bored at this point, but you know her better, so I'd consider another try if you feel it's worthwhile.
Ask her how she reached that particular conclusion, in a playful manner. Turn the table on her.
>>29885654
I tried, we did Leg day at the gym on Saturday and she invited me to her hotel room last night with Pizza.
I get there and she tells me that 30 minutes prior to getting there was was having sex with a /fit/ chad but he had a 3 inch dick when hard because he used steroids.
I was massaging the "leg" but never did it go farther than that because i'm a big fucking beta
>>29885741
when has the 'ignore them/play hard to get' thing ever worked? To me it's just stupid, you can't get a relationship without putting effort in it
>>29885779
wow you literally are a beta orbiter, friendzoned hard
holy shit i would have stolen the pizza and left, after calling her ugly and fat and a slut
>>29885768
I want to add to my text that its most likely a shit test. Shes probably testing you if you are chad. Make your intentions clear. Dont be a fucking total cuck. She wants to know how certain you are, if you go for whatever go want. If you can make decisions. Anyway what i wrote earlier is still the best option even if it isnt a shit test
So what did you do OP? What advice did you go with?
>>29885779
What? You were called in to your flame after she had sex with a chad (with a small dick, sure)?
Cuck beta orbiter, you win Jason.
>>29885311
Just stop talking to her, OP. She is clearly a bitch
All those robots thinking 'she's testing him'.
Why the fuck would girls be testing guys? All that matters to a girl is if a guy makes their panties wet. What would they even be testing for.
Dumbasses
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>>29885708
Wew, alright lad's lets see what happens
>Literally 1 hour late to reply
>>29885923
>haha
you just ended it right there
>>29885923
Just get to the point. Tell her that you've always loved her more than any other girl you've known. You only care about her. If she keeps playing games move on
>>29885923
OP PLEASE JUST BLOCK HER FOR REST OF LIFE
>>29885861
Just posted it right now, I went with the: What made you think that.
I really wanted to go with the faggish: You're right, i'd like it back, but this isn't the 1800's so that would sound really try hard
>>29885923
why do people always make these threads for advice and then literally just do they're own thing and fuck it up anyway
>>29885923
im in the zone now, the reply should have been one word: maybe
>>29885923
Good text OP
>>29885923
>haha
why.
My 4. did not include a 'haha'.
You're fucked for even talking so much over text, OP. Cut your losses and move on.
>>29885967
No, you don't want to overcommit. Telling girls you love them too soon drives them away. Just take your time to get to know them. That is the most important
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>>29885942
Hey hey, I thought it was casual! Does adding in the "Haha" really make a difference really? At least I got the point across right?
>>29886025
maybe not say "I love you", but he should've shown he is interested in being more than just friends by now tbqh.
>>29886015
He doesn't have to do it exactly like you right? He deserves to have his own personality right? Gaby has to get to know his personality right?
>>29886024
Yeah, you have a much better chance of getting with a girl by not talking to her at all.
>>29886062
Sorry Jason, don't listen to me too much. I dislike 'haha', but maybe it's not such a dealbreaker in the female mind. What's done is done.
>>29885922
You know nothing anon go back to you cellar and blame looks
But yeah girls actually do this subconciously for example : you just want to fuck me blahblahblah
Now if a guy would be like ooh noo baby i love youu. Total fucking beta cuckhead. If he says : yeah ill fucking use you and throw you in the trash(somewhat jokingly). The guy is getting higher value and the girl is like oh shit waddup this guy is confident i should fuck him to get his approval of me im trash in bis eyes blahnlah short explained but te basics of it. Go look for pickup shit on the interwebs if youre interested
>>29886068
Yeah, that's fair.
>>29886085
Subconciously for sure, I thought people were talking about conciously. As if she deliberately set up this situation to test him.
dude, I hope you talk less awkward than you type. This whole convo has me cringing my ass off. Why do you say ITS OK FAMILY FIRST ITS OK FOOD LATER ITS OK ITS OK ITS OK over fucking everything? You are truly a cuck. If you like her, say, "Damn, I had hoped we could get into a relationship. I really like you." You know what will happen if she likes you better than the fella she's going to the movies with? She'll cancel HIM and go with you. You've probably waited and dicked about too long, but I hope you can unfuck your future relationships by learning to communicate.
>>29886073
You have an even better chance of getting a girl by talking to her in person instead of dragging things out through a screen.
Despite all the hate, I think you're doing a fine job right now OP. Just stay honest and straightforward with her without being too obvious. Just be patient and be yourself; if she doesn't like who you are, then it's better you aren't with her anyway for your own sake.
>>29886151
OP knows her from work, so he probably talks to her irl as well
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>>29886073
Well I have to go to class now but I'll post any updates... if there are any. I'll give it 20 minutes and then i'm dropping it and her entirely. Honestly these situations don't phase me anymore.
This is the closest I've ever been to having a GF but seriously, I don't even care. She's just a co-worker.
Keep the thread a little alive so it doesn't archive but trust me, I will be back to say if anything happens.
Guess i'm staying here forever
>>29886231
You fucked it with her - but I think you'll have other chances coming to you soon enough, keep trying my dude - but ditch this hoe
She has turned you down multiple times, dates someone else and you still try. Do you ever learn?
>>29886231
I'm sorry man but let this be a lesson to you, heed some of the advice you find here.
Also I haven't skimmed the thread to see but if nobody's told you this yet, take this lesson too: do not under any circumstance ask a girl on a date via text. Tell her you want to date her in person.
I'll be standing by for updates.
>>29886231
Should have gone with the Brad Pitt rule bro
If a girl cancels it's her responsibility to reschedule a time
If she doesn't that means it was just a shit excuse and she didnt want to see you
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>>29885979
Update, she replied but... I think this nails it. I don't think I can come back from this because it's true.
Christy is the girl that came back to visit... I didn't know I was this much of an idiot.
I have one last shot and I know I should do this on my own, but I'm at a loss for words
>>29886412
Did cristy died or did i miss somethig . Wat
Just reply with 'wtf? I thought we had something' don't be a passive aggressive Cuck girls can detect weakness
>>29886412
Ah I see lovelorn idiot yeah you're fucked op.
>>29886412
>I'm ready to move on
Goofed it. Just fuck Christy
>>29886412
But earlier on you said:
>A friend of mine moved away to Georgia last year and recently came to visit on Friday.
>I've always had feelings for her but nothing too serious and with her being gone those feelings diminished.
So what is it then? Do you still like Christy or not? You think you can put her aside for Gaby?
>>29886463
Waaay too dickish
>>29886463
THIS. Please this...! Jason, goddammit, write this!
>>29886463
Makes you look like a sore loser instead of just a loser.
Be fucking honest tell her you dont want cristy youre interested in her so date or nah. If nah tell her to hit u up if she changes her mind
>>29886528
This is grat
Lmao OP you lost. She's using you as a puppy to this point.
Oke, she said no to you. Time to move on, don't keep on nagging or crying for her. You will only embarrass yourself with it.
>>29886528
Fuck it. This. OP here on mobile. Going with this. Wish me luck lads, will update you. At a red light. Going to post response in about 10 minutes.
I'm tired of being this beta chump and throw away opportunities I always had. This is one I won't let go of. And if I fail at least I can say I tried. It's going down
>these fucking replies
just make it clear and tell her you aren't interested in the other girl,
because it seems you are still interested in the other girl and want the best of both worlds
I like your decisions OP.
>>29886705
JUST STOP IT, you are making it worse.On the other hand you are giving me a reason to stay awake a bit longer now, because I want to see how shit gets down.
>>29886705
Jason you absolute madman
>>29886705
if she says no DONT say okay hit me up if you change your mind, this is clear beta shit she will just think of you as a backup plan
if she says no just leave it and stop replying
>>29886752
No, he's actually doing something better. He's fucking halfway in, she said as much. She just thinks he's into the other girl instead.
>>29886705
528 here. Remember if she doesnt want to, dont go back and beta the situation. If she changes her mind she'll let you know. If she doesnt it wasnt meant to be, a bit harsh but true
>>29886705
Absolute top op if delivers just like given. Dont change anything and let her go if she goes for a bitch way. Good luck you magnificent bastard, lurking.
>>29886784
How is this beta. You show her you WANT her. That youre INTERESTED in her, but dont NEED her. Just go on with your life if she says no. Plenty of fish in the sea. If she ever thinks hey hes pretty cool its not weird for her to message you cause you implied her to do it
>>29885311
Holy shit dude read your messages, you are one beta cuckold, man.
>>29886888
Oh shit check em
>>29886888
Trips confirm OP go on and listen to your fellow robotswe try to help
>>29886909
he wants her but he cant come across too desperate if she says no and replying "o-okay well i'll still be here if you change your mind"
it will come across pathetic she needs to know that's her chance, he wants her but he wont wait around to be second choice if it doesn't work out with the guy she prefers.
>>29886932
this. kind of pathetic when you realise these are the guys complaining about tfw no gf. she can smell your desperation from a mile away
>>29886984
Thats fine text me if you change your mind.
I dont even know how that is desperate.
The part of ill still be here is solved by living on with your life an ignoring her. She'll feel the gap and will try to close it . And if not thats fine she was just not for you
Anyway you look at it its the perfect solution
>>29886705
It's been more than 10 mins you fucking cunt.
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>>29886691
Are you niggers ready?
>>29887202
Do it, you absolute madman.
Godspeed.
>>29887202
Bit too much i guess. Send whole and post, DOESNT look THAT bad
>>29887202
jesus you're such a fucking faggot
>>29887049
>text me if you change your mind.
it may not seem much but half the fun to women is availability, saying this implies yeah you still want her even after rejection. and you will always be there for her or whatever
the ideal thing to say to rejection from a girl is "ok" or something one worded and just cut her off even if she replies to you days later this will piss her off endlessly
then after a week or whenever she stops pestering you text her first, it's all a game to women.
>>29887202
NO what the fuck are you doing? this isn't an essay this will come across so desperate
>>29887202
dude you're taking this so much more seriously than she is, do you not see that?
>>29887202
Oh wow you totally made that gay. OP you impress me once again to faggotilize every message you make
>>29887249
Its not text me, op is writing about tonight and should dump her if she doesnt change her mindbut i guess that wont happen
>>29887249
Thats implying shes the only one. Fuck scarcity. She'll be doubting herself every fucking minute of rhe day if your available because you (apparantly) dont care about her anymore and live your own life. Anyway OP somewhat ruined the advice i gave. The message he typed is pretty betaaaa
>>29887202
Man that's fucking bad. Not only are you writing a wall of text but you're also presuming that she'll say no and leaving her with no incentive to respond with the "see you around."
RIP
>>29887202
why are you writing fucking desperate essays?
just tell her you arent interested in the other girl.
holy shit
Sent her this and please dont changw a word: im interested in you not cristy. ( date(example lets go for coffee))
If she then says no you will say alright im not looking for a friendship msg me if you change your mind
>>29887202
Please be sure to leave that spelling error in there. It will make you look aloof and confident in yourself, if you change it you will look like a fucking beta that proofreads love notes. Don't be a fag, hit send without checking it next time.
>>29887480
You put soooooooooo much effort into making that yoi already fucked up. I bet you spent 10-15 mins making that text
>>29887480
DONT SEND THIS be forward
say i've told you im interested in you not cristy.
no essays just see what she replies
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>>29887239
Is this any better? It's 3 messages long. Simplified and straight forward
>>29887611
okay now i know your baiting
>>29887611
Post last line, sounds beta as fuck. Imho looks better, could be shorter, but better
>>29887611
Dont listen to those faggots pushing you down. Text that right now. She's trying to push you this way, you have the control of the situation.
>>29887611
>STOP WRITING ESSAYS
>proceeds to write even longer message
>okay hows this?
>>29887611
Just give up dude, there are less retarded fish in the sea
Niiceeee tryyyyyyyyy
>>29887675
The Last message was 6 texts long, that first pic was only half'
The second one looks like but really isn't, vertically.
>>29887611
That's is simply awful.
Absolutely don't send that line about comparing to her in any form, it's literally autispeak.
OP here, Fuck it. Be entertained
>>29887611
>more essays
OH LAWD
just say "i've told you im interested in you not cristy."
then post her reply
>>29887611
Listen to me now. Delete everything after throws me off and make an ultimatum. Youre done.
>She's my best friend, but that's all she is.
>So, when we going out? :)
But nah, write Autism: The Romantic Failures of Anon in shitty middle-school textprose and think it will go well.
I'm sending this. Final. Now to see what she says
it's like i'm watching a movie. i like it
>>29887611
This >>29887750
No more than 2 sentences, please.
>>29887791
can you see our posts? or are you legitimately retarded?
>>29887791
It sucks, but at least you removed the comparison line that was pure autism extract.
>>29887791
we tried to help you
RIP
>>29887791
FINALLY FUCKING BETTER.
Just dont act like a dog after this. Think about that chad who would fuck your oneitis and exchabge those emotions into being alpha or something. JUST DONT SPERG OUT LIKE A BETA
>>29887804
This is some of the best entertainment I've had in the last few weeks
>>29887791
looks good op, send it
>>29887791
Also dont listen to samefags. They are pretty obvious anyway, just letting you know they are here
>>29887781
There is no way OP is for real. He's clearly baiting us.
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>Betas giving advice to betas
>>29887838
Fuck you, I have her where I want her.
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>>29887691
FUCK LADS! IM SO CLOSE!!!, THIS IS IT!!!
>>29887944
She's just rejected you kek
>>29887944
I strongly doubt that this is it, but I'm rooting for ya kid
>>29887944
BASED GABY
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>>29887944
I... I-i think she actually rejected you sonehow but i really never knew how those walking pieces of cunts work.
>>29887966
This op, sorry dude
marked as original
>>29887944
FINISH. HER.
ORIGAMO
>>29886085
Great memes my friend.
>>29887944
why does she think shes competing with her?
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>>29887966
Rejected? Pls guys, this isn't a rejection. It can't be
>>29888009
This, more background story needed. But you're close OP!
DO IT
THE SCENT IS FRESH
THE HOUNDS YEARN FOR BLOOD
FINISH IT
BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD
>>29887944
You don't have to. Let's catch a movie and dinner tonight.
>>29888019
Just reply how would you reply normslly. Im an omega and i know how to reply
Why does she still doubt you? Ask her that maybe? It's not going too bad atm imo
>>29888019
I'm
>>29887993
I mean that you're close. This is the dance of insemination, and the last barrier is about to come down, you just need the right move. STAY THE PATH MY FRIEND JASON
>>29888030
Just what i had in mind
>>29887944
>Gabers
So she's obviously into you but she's feeling insecure about your friend lel. Also the way she told you about her date was so hamfisted I wonder if women think they're being subtle.
>>29888030
Look here op, seems pretty correct. If she try any kind of >ughh i dont know
Dump her. Shes a dumb whore then
JUST TELL HER
GABY LETS WATCH A FUCKING MOVIE
AND THEN FUCK HER
YOU FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT
This much argumentation doesn't bode well for the rest of the relationship, I just say give it a rest OP, this isn't a battle you need to win. Just be friends with Gabby and see if something a little more natural develops down the line. How old are you anyway? Since when did taking a girl out for a meal or coffee constitute a relationship?
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>>29888024
It's over lads... I tried. I was close. Thanks everyone. I don't think there's more to go on from here. Thanks again for your help.
>>29888293
There is still 1 way to get her, slap her with your [insert size here] inch dick. Then, and only then, will she finally know how much you fucking lover her.
>>29888293
you fucked up big time, but that doesnt change a fact that she want you off her tail. Ignore her op for some time and youll be good, trust me
>>29888293
Lol she dont believe you you sad cuck
>>29888345
Agreed. Is she still wants you she will come back for you.
>>29888293
Time to move on OP, but that was a good try. Could use some refining. Keep us posted on your next attempt
If I were you, op, I'd be so fucking pissed off at this bitch. You need to stop being a pussy and tell (read command) her that she can't go out with the other guy cause she needs to go out with you
>>29888143
It saddens me how this could of gone a bit longer is he just did what you typed.
>>29888383
So, play the waiting game? Her birthday is next week, should do something then?
>>29888293
What the fuck is the story with Christy? Have you ranted about her like some lovesick puppy? Goddammit Jason.
This is not over, it's just a stew that needs a little longer to cock. Let her soak it all up for a while. Tell her:
>Fair enough Gab, I don't know what else I can throw at you. For me this is pretty simple, then again I'm a dense guy after all. Good night
Just reply 'K' that'll irk her nerves
>>29888434
Nice timing. Yep wait her off, until then think about something
>>29888442
Actually, this might be mad enough to work. Ignore my suggestion (>>29888441) and just say K
>>29888434
At this point either do something for her bday that will win her over or just type what >>29888441 said.
>>29888441
Looks good. For that devilish part id slso add something like have fun on that"""""date""""" of yours
>>29888293
>you already won me over
this comes across so pathetic holy shit.
at this point she's using your interest in the other girl as an excuse because she really doesn't want to be with a beta when some chad wants to take her out without writing cringy essays.
What the hell does it matter to her who you talk to? Damn, she's obviously talking to other guys but you can't talk to 1 girl? Shit, it already sounds like you guys are in a relationship and you haven't even gone on a date yet. Not worth your time, OP, she's a bitch. We all know it and so should you
>>29885311
>Gaby
Is that supposed to be pronounced like "gay bee" or is it just Gabby without the second b it should have in order to make the a short?
>>29888508
Kek, yes.
>Fair enough Gab, I don't know what else I can throw at you. For me this is pretty simple, then again I'm a dense guy after all. Have fun on that date of yours
>>29888527
Jason has been ranting like a lovesick puppy about Christy to Gaby.
>>29888549
Winner
Last chance op, dont waste it. After that radio silence bo natter what, unless she actually respond or smth
>"gabbers"
>talking to a chick who might be interested in you about a chick you're interested in
>writing cringe essays like some retarded beta
>coming to /r9k/ to post about it
>>29888293
you didn't take anyones advice and of course fucked it up
>>29888293
Talk to her in person when you get the chance, may help sort things out. Don't talk anymore for today else it becomes pestering. Good luck!
>>29888293
This is what you get you fucking idiot. You met yourself a (presumably) nice but average woman who actually liked you straight off the bat. And what did you do? You told her about your obsession with Stacy.
Eat shit you moron, I'm glad this happened to you.
take this thread anons as fine example of what not to do
>>29885635
>>Gaby thinks I'm in love with my friend because I told her I did before
Game over you're done.
In spite of what the robot will claim once they know there is another they will seek out better you were "right now" and if you are not on the market they will not wait or try to steal you unless they see you as god or some shit
>>Trying to prove her I don't
With what exactly? Words? At best you look like a crazed romantic that would dump her without notice at worse you look like a desperate loser that struck out on true love. You can't tell a girl there is someone and just 180 it. That sends so many red flaps to the person regardless of gender
take option 1 at best or something to the effect of offering to talk later in person.
No matter fucking what though, you need to go in thinking it won't end in your favor.
>>29885819
>when has the 'ignore them/play hard to get' thing ever worked?
Not commonly. Not unless it's a true loss of interest in a person.
It's like there is some cosmic strings that keep those longing for companionship rejected and those seeking refuge away from others to be hounded by it.
Or maybe that's how my world feels anyway.
>>29885923
>Haha
I refuse to believe this is legit anymore
OP I lost my girlfriend because I talked too much about my ex and didn't realize I was hurting her feelings and making her feel like second best. Women really hate that shit, she'll never be able to go out with you because she'll always think that you're just with her because you couldn't get the girl you actually want. You and I fucked up I'm afraid but learn from this, next time you're interested in a girl don't even think about mentioning an ex or any other girls.
Try to sell her a stereo
