Double posting from adv because fetishists and misogynists are what I REALLY need, probably.
I seem to have a fetish, and I need to either know what it is called so I can go bother other people for ideas, or I need ideas.
Basically I enjoy painful/inconvenient beauty rituals. I dry brush daily (don't buy the lymph thing, don't know if it's better than my previous exfoliation, but damn is it inconvenient), have been tightlacing/waist training for 4 years, epilate all my body hair, maintain an insane skincare regimen, wear a complicated array of foundation garments, eat/supplement a specific way, take ridiculously good care of my hair+elaborate healthy styling of it, run every day, lift weights religiously, enjoy the hell out of wearing my essix retainer, and that's about it.
I want more.
A few stipulations:
First, it either has to do nothing or at least do no aesthetic harm. Some limited health harm is okay. For example, I would buy an expensive product that doesn't do shit, but I won't buy one that would harm my skin even if it is the most painful, time-consuming and ritualized thing in the world. Health-wise, I won't take supplements that could fuck me up long term, particularly hormonally, but I will occasionally go on a water fast for fun.
Second, I prefer things that are outwardly subtle. Example: my corseted waist is about 6 inches less than my natural waist (so from 24 to 18), but with the exception of some dresses, I never show it off. Day to day, I keep it under loose/normal clothes and enough foundational garments to obscure the details of it. So it might be clear that I'm shapely under my t-shirt, but no hint of the waspy goodness within. I focus on radiant skin rather than clown makeup, etc etc.
Bonus points for really sexist/old-timey shit. Double bonus if it tickles my weebish fancy.
Bumping because really? No tips on how to hurt myself to be pretty or even a passing insult?
Yet another desperate bump.
Post pics or get the fuck off my board you shitstain
>>29880028
Maybe if you insulted women like me in a more personally degrading way you'd get better results and not need to be so bitter.
Restrictive clothing is the most obvious thing I can think of. 4-inch heels, pencil skirts, very tight fitting blouses. Wear your hair as tight as possible. This might be the easiest fetish I've ever heard of to satisfy, you lucky fuck.
Also you'd better fucking post some pics of your waist, at the very least.
>>29880303
Honestly those don't really do it for me. For a few reasons. One, I don't like looking like a slut. Two, clothes don't change my body. My corset is pretty restrictive as is, honestly. If I'm feeling extra needy in that department I'll wear compression clothing under my normal clothes. Tight blouses look like shit usually, I think.
Idk, I'm really shy about the corset thing. I don't really like the look of it because it's so sexual, even though I buy all my corsets in plain twill. It's underwear to me, haha.
>>29880447
>claim to have a fetish
>act like you enjoy being degraded
>don't want to be slutty though
>don't like the look of it if it's sexual
>>29880493
I like the discipline and body-mod aspect of it mostly. I don't go in for more extreme aspects in that department because a. been there, got bored of that, and b. it's too overt. Sure, getting suspended at the local fetish ball was fun, but it's pretty ham-fisted compared to the subtle secret of my corset.
In private I can enjoy slutty things, but in public I feel like it would reflect badly on a partner if I looked slutty? Like I should look very attractive but also respectable. I think that is optimal and much harder than just being a slutty looking person. More attractive too, to anyone with sense.
I would enjoy having a partner to tell me to do things, maybe, but if it's really slutty things without and subtlety at all, then we wouldn't really be on the same page.
I have an aunt who wore heels so much that she couldn't wear normal shoes anymore without being in immense pain, her tendons had shortened so much. That's very sexy to me, but I run 5 miles every morning so...I am not sure I could do that.
Why would a bunch of khvs know about ladies' beauty regimen, degenerate?
Ask a Korean forum instead, those maniacs make your routine look like a dog farting.
Wear a butt plug. Bleach your asshole.
Basically make your butthole beautiful and inviting like a pornstar
>>29880621
Implying my skincare regimen isn't kbeauty and I haven't had 4 cosmetic surgeries.
Eh, some of you know some odd shit/at least have opinions. I sort of expected a group as put-off by sluttiness as this one to have some non generic kink suggestions, honestly.
>>29880669
Butt plug is directly sexual. My asshole isn't really dark? I'm very pale, and the stuff I add to my body wash has pretty much eliminated what genital darkening I had. I've thought about it as a sexy secret, but then...does it provide apparent results people would see if not understand? Not really. It's also pretty fucking basic. Hate to say it, but having some tanorexic slut with 80 pounds of MAC over her acne try to talk to me does sort of the opposite of helping me enjoy a ritual.
Huh OP, you sound just like me, except I don't do it for fun, moreso because I'm obsessed with preserving my beauty long term.
I have some additions to your ritual from my own.
If you don't already, take up derma rolling. I derma roll once a week (no more than this otherwise it actual harms you), and I've grown to love the pain. I also epilate, although I occasionally get super masochistic and sit and remove each of my armpit hairs with tweezers.
Aside from your regular supps, I highly recommend a pinch of ceylon cinnamon each morning w/ a pinch of cayenne pepper. Both are very good for the system and both aid in weightloss by keeping the metabolism that little bit more active, but the cayenne pepper is so spicy it's exceptionally uncomfortable to take.
Additionally, look up bentonite clay. It's a natural face masque in clay form and when combined with ACV makes for p. much the best skincare product you can find. As it dries on your face it begins to tighten and your face throbs and pulsates all over, but it's amazing forremoving blacheads/sebum.
I hope your skincare products are South Korean imports; they're the only country that can be trusted for low-toxicity given the level of rules and regulations surrounding their production and distribution.
Got any narcissism tips to share with me? Beauty inspirations? Favourite models?
>>29880801
The "peril" to your dumb fetish is that it does have a wall, particularly with your inhibitions.
You could let yourself descend into shittiness as to build yourself up again, or possibly could train some dog of a woman into perfection.
>>29878845
10XF fork putdowns
So you don't need a gut confining waist trainer.
Other than that I would recommend laser hair removal from the nose down, go on runs and jogs.
Maybe train your arches with orthotics to increase height marginally and make your feet look smaller in shoes.
Weird fucking thread but interesting question famporino
>>29881073
I use a few Japanese products occasionally, but I mostly stick to South Korean.
I do a lot of weird shit that seems to help longevity in mammals. I'm too awful for the community/supportive shit that helps people in the "blue zones" but I'm careful about what I eat in terms of health-risk etc based on actual repeated medical studies and not foodbabe bullshit. I also take racetams, on an aging note. Won't make me pretty but will help my neurons a bit.
Inspirations are difficult. I guess no one is my total package for inspiration. A fat ugly girl could be my hair inspiration, a model whose face I like might not really apply to me at all, etc. I photoshop myself sometimes when I'm thinking about new surgeries, but it's often more about the ritual than results at this point.
>>29881163
Ah, if only I still had a toxic, mutually enabling friend to bully still. I miss you miss cheyne, if you're somehow reading this.
I pretty much did do this from nothing. When I started I had been sedentary/depressed for 6 years, shit body comp, actually obese, skincare clueless, etc etc. Sort of pathologically afraid to go back.
>>29881164
Thought about laser but I really like the pain and personal ritual/time of epilating. I'm pretty fit, I run every day and am working on lifting progress. My instep/arch is already so high many shoes are uncomfortable, desu. Thought about fucking up my tendons as I said here >>29880599 but yeah...don't want to stop running and get unhealthy/fat. If the heel was low enough I could probably find something to run in that wouldn't be terrible but I don't know if a 1.5" or so change would cause enough pain to force me to do it? Although I've heard of dancers who ripped their tendons from practicing jumping incorrectly, so...maybe.
>>29881073
Ah, just realized something that motivates me, but it's not quite inspiration, so I'm not sure it will help you?
I feel like I need to be at least as beautiful as objects I own/am near, or I just look ugly. Many objects are made to be beautiful, but if I am using them/near them and I am not? Ugh. How embarrassing. I could never be in a nice car if I felt ugly. I avoid going in buildings I find beautiful if I think it will make me feel/look bad. So really I find beautifully designed objects and just try to be worthy of them.
