>wanted a girl for awhile
>she's disabled
>has trouble with her legs, wouldn't be able to tell since she hides it well
>walks normally for most days but must take a rest here and there
>have a friend who is clearly thirsty in her
>he has a habit of being completely insulting to everyone, laughing at everyone at their expense
>loves to call people faggots and loves to talk about politics, she hates that shit
>only a 6/10
>think I'm a 6-8, depending on my acne
>act decent to everyone especially her
>try to talk to her all the time I get
>friend keeps coming into our conversations and directing her towards him
>she has a habit of being nice to everyone so think nothing of it, think she is just being nice
>faggot friend ends up going to her house to see her new kitten
>he asks her out that day
>she said yes
WHY
I TALKED TO HER ABOUT EVERYTHING, ALL THE SHOWS SHE LIKED AND EVERYTHING
MY FRIEND DOESN'T EVEN WATCH THE SAME SHOWS INSTEAD WATCHES GRIMDARK AND EDGY ANIME SHE CAN'T STAND
NOW I HAVE TO DEAL WITH SEEING HER UPDATE HER FACEBOOK WITH STUFF ABOUT HIM
IT'S BEEN TWO MONTHS
HELP
You should have asked her out you gigantic faggot.
>>29872653
you've been literally cucked
just kick the shit out of him, seriously
fortune favours the bold
you should do what many here have and reject all future friends to prevent any more potential competition
Douchebags always win.
Don't show weakness or any other beta aspects.
All women, and I mean ALL women are whores. Deal with it.
>>29872653
if he's really such a faggot, just kick his ass. the girl is over with. when he fucks her and then they break up, you're gonna be there for the rebound, which is not a position you wanna be in since she is not gonna be into animefag's friend. just beat the fuck out of him and then leave with some scrap of dignity, unless you're obese, which you probably are.
>>29872653
>not telling your friend that you are in love with her
>not telling her you were in love with her
>he asked
>you didn't
>cause you're a coward
>>29872755
he's not even a douchebag to her, he's completely different to her. very nice to her, treats everyone else like shit. to her though, he is a completely different person.
>>29872765
>>29872715
fighting him is a good way to make her hate me. what will it do? make me feel for a moment good only to realize this will just make him score more points with her? she's the caring type, she can't handle him not feeling good.
besides he can fight, i have been in a few and won most of them, i don't think i can beat him.
>>29872765
why would they break up
not fat, average-skinny instead
>>29872836
friend was a coward he had a huge crush on her for three whole semesters, took him forever to ask her out
>>29872860
Looks like your friend deserved her companionship more than you.
Jealously isn't attractive. You maybe making him look bad because you're jelly. M'kay?
>>29872912
>jealously isn't attractive
Clearly you don't know women.
Lol whats her legs have to do with anything?
>>29872947
her disablity effects her mobility, gives also huge amounts of time to talk to her which is what i tried to capitalized on
break his legs so they are both crippled
>>29872937
Women like assholes that don't give a shit.
Women don't like assholes that get jealous and cry about it.
>>29872980
>clearly gives a shit about her
>really nice to her and is basically a completely different person to her
>in fact she doesn't like it when people are shitty to each other
please read
>>29872997
>nice guy meme
>taking the words of a female as facts
>words of a female just lies to make her look pure
>in reality likes her hair being pulled
>choked
>spanked
>and called her daddies little slut
You need to learn how women think, not learn what they tell you.
>>29873068
>what women like in the bedroom is what women like in every day life
I don't think you know how women think
>>29873068
yes, he is the meaning of a nice guy to her. he treats her nicely, takes care of her problems, etc. meanwhile doesn't give a shit about any one else
Shoulda asked OP
Well you can always wait for their relationship to crumple
>being this cuck
>blaming others
>never gonna procreate
>inb4 Gandalf wizard
>>29873136
why would there relationship crumble
>>29873155
they always do at some point. or you could play a part in their breakup, instead of waiting for fate
>>29873166
i don't see why they would inevitably break up
nor do i see how i could play a part in it, she trusts him the most out of everyone
>>29873106
>women intinctively want to be owned by an alpha male
You can keep being a delusional whiny faggot all you want, it will not help you get a girl. Trust me.
No man that has ever orbitted a girl to be her emotional tampon has ever been actually intimate nor were allowed by her to marry them. Not unless you hit the lottery in your life time, you will never win a girls heart, mind, and body being a "nice guy".
>>29873181
there is no handbook on this, but if you want it enough, you can play a part. grow some balls
>>29872860
>he's not even a douchebag to her, he's completely different to her. very nice to her, treats everyone else like shit. to her though, he is a completely different person.
Sounds like exactly what girls want.
Seriously, they may tell you they "hate that shit" but you can't hide what's inside. Every girl loves asshole in the end. You either play their game or give up on girls.
I still meet up with girls but honestly it's too much of a bother to act out of my nature so I'm like, whatever. It's funny because just when I started getting that "whatever" attitude, a girl hit on me and I'm gonna see her tomorrow to see how it goes.
Either way, though, you should've told her. Maybe you had a chance too if you only asked.
>>29873181
Most relationships break anon. Also higher they are the harder they fall.
Be creative and come up with something
Why didn't you ask her out first?
Are you retarded?
>>29873225
depends on how long he is willing to wait though, if anon is in high school or college, the relationship might still be intact after they finish school. so he has to keep the contact with her after that, and not just be "the nice guy in class"
>>29873068
You can be a nice guy to a girl and then fuck her brains out in a hotel after dinner.
Honestly anon, forget about her, just move on to the next one
>>29873265
And then pay your escort an additional $500.
>>29872653
>I TALKED TO HER ABOUT EVERYTHING
And yet you never asked her out, contrary to your faggot friend.
What, is she just going to magically know you're into her and throw herself at you?
Would you REALLY want to be with someone like that? Imagine if you had asked her out one day before this other guy and she said yes. That would imply that the only reason why she chose you is because you asked first.
If she simply said "yes" to him because he asked before you did, then would you really value her thoughts/feelings despite how fickle they are? If she could easily flip from liking "this" guy to liking "that" guy in such a short period of time, all because one of them said "hi" first, do you honestly believe that she's worth your time?
>>29872755
this right here, women are the worst sociopaths even when they're not
>>29873316
I dunno man, not OP but look at it from another side.
I know a girl who had a crush on me but I didn't like her enough to ask her out myself. Still, if she asked me out, I'd say yes, because she's honestly a cool person and quite a qt3.14
Instead she only told me she had a crush after she got a different boyfriend.
This stuff is all too complicated to simplify it like that
>>29872860
>she's the caring type
then why didn't she care about your feelings?
Do you want her to ask you out, OP?
That isn't how the man/woman dynamic generally functions.
>>29873410
she does care about my feelings, she just doesn't know all of them as clearly shown I didn't reveal my real personal ones to her.
>>29873418
here's a joke: she was going to ask my friend out if he didn't ask her
>>29873410
I'm assuming she's young and attractive, meaning she most likely has several options to choose from in regards to dating.
Many guys here (my self included, don't get me wrong) don't onow or understand what that feels like. We develop a oneitis kind of thing and our feelings tend to stay with that one girl (or guy, if that's your thing).
Try and look at it from a young, attractive woman's perspective. A young, attractive woman is the cream of the crop, the top of the sexual food chain. She has plenty of men pursuing her, so she has the luxury of being able to chose exactly what she wants. It's something that's relatively incomprehensible to people like us, but you cannot really hold it against her. I'm of the opinion that many of us would be the same way if we were attractive/desirable.
That's just life, man. Some people are lucky enough to be born on the good side of things. Others... not so much.
Is any of this real? I get the feeling that this nigga's bullshittin' me.
>>29872653
That really sucks OP.
I think you should've gradually started to show her signs that you are interested in her romantically, not just as a friend.
>friend keeps coming into our conversations and directing her towards him
>she has a habit of being nice to everyone so think nothing of it, think she is just being nice
I think that she may have noticed that as a sign that the dude was interested in her.
But then again, I have pretty much 0 personal experience with girls, only from my friends and their experiences with gfs.
>>29873448
>here's a joke: she was going to ask my friend out if he didn't ask her
Hahahahahaha
You guys just weren't compatible. That guy had some qualities she likes, that you don't have. Maybe she likes when the guy has all different interests and temperament than her and just pulls her in. I know to you it probably doesn't make sense, since when we guys search for a partner, we search for somebody similar to us.
>>29872653
move the fuck on slowpoke, you didnt make a move, now you learned a valuable lesson.
You dont wake up one day at 30 as a functional, assertive man, its by trial and error. Things like this will help shape you into a better man in the future, this lesson taught you to make your intentions clear quickly, perhaps then your 'friend' wouldnt have dated her.
keep your chin up and remember what you learned.
>>29872653
You're such a fucking faggot dude get over yourself.
>>29872653
Is wojack crying because pepe /madeit/ it?
>>29872860
FUCKING BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF YOUR "FRIEND" YOU FAGGOT
