just get like 4 dollar Panasonic earbuds. Actual headphones are not comfy for me because I'm on edge when I can't hear anything besides my music, and the only way to listen to conversations and music at the same time is with headphones is to do some awkward rotation of them.

>>29866752
buy open back headphones, at low volumes you can hear most things around you.
Philips SHP9500 are what i have and i like em quite a bit, there's no real bass to them though so you'd do better looking for something else if that's a concern of yours.

Currently have Phillips SHE3590BK/28 earbuds, they're good and cheap but after buying them I noticed that Panasonic had practically the same thing for less.