[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / biz / c / cgl / ck / cm / co / d / diy / e / fa / fit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mu / n / news / o / out / p / po / pol / qa / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Home]
4chanarchives logo
Self improvement thread. How can so many normal looking guys
Images are sometimes not shown due to bandwidth/network limitations. Refreshing the page usually helps.

You are currently reading a thread in /r9k/ - ROBOT9001

Thread replies: 93
Thread images: 12
File: 1455617754793.jpg (2 MB, 2400x1200) Image search: [Google]
1455617754793.jpg
2 MB, 2400x1200
How the fuck does a pale, hairy, out of shape dicklet get a qt Asian girl with a tiny vag like this?

Seriously, my body/dick isn't much worse than this and I'm good socially. Can any fembots chime in on whether this body/penis is acceptable for the purpose of procreation?

Also, can we get a thread going about realistic things we can all do to better ourselves. I'm trying to get in better shape and go back to school.
>>
Self-improvement power move: cut off any people that put you down.
>>
>>29844107
This seems like pretty solid advice. How do you feel about spending time with people who are negative like most robots here?
>>
They got the time and money for women, apparently.
>>
Probably because he's white. Decent looking asian girls will go out with average white guys solely because they're white, so if you're white you already have a stepping stone.

Also just try to find a qt in your niche that you can actually get along with. It's definitely possible if you try; become the focal point of your group and you'll feel slightly better.

One thing I've been trying to do to get into a better mental spot is accept who I am and what kind of women I should try to surround myself with. Know who your good friends are; quality over quantity. Once in a while push yourself to do something out of your character, but have a backup plan if it doesn't work.

Eat well and at least make some time to exercise, preferably 3 times a week(??) I'm not eating as many carbs, trying to eat more protein and doing pullups 3 times a week, and it definitely makes me feel a tad bit better.
>>
>>29844441
This seems like good advice, thanks anon.
>>
>>29844058
>dicklet
Please tell me this isn't actually considered a small dick? It looks pretty damn thick and rather good looking. The dude's body isn't bad either.

If this is small and ugly than I'm royally fucked.
>>
>>29844058
>qt Asian girl with a tiny vag like this
How can you tell she's Asian?
>>
>>29844376
>They got the time and money for women, apparently.
I hope its more time than money that's important.
>>
>>29844058
Her pussy looks ridiculously small.
>>
>>29844107
I did this
all of my friends called me this stupid nickname that made all girls run from me
I simply left all groups and ditched them
Feeling ok
>>
>>29845055
Well done anon. Do you have new friends now?
>>
>>29845103
NO kek
spent my whole holiday full hikki
>>
>>29845137
Well that sucks. Do you prefer no friends to friends that give you a stupid nickname?
>>
>>29845234
no friends honestly
I created the habit of ghosting everyone
on my IT course break now I simply sit alone far from everybody else
>>
>>29845266
Do you feel better than you used to?
>>
>>29845435
yes
at least I found some peace
>>
I joined this discord chat that I'll probably leave soon enough. Anybody interested?
>>
>>29845620
What are you chatting about?
>>
>>29845640
Well there are several chat channels

>sticky
Has some good information and owner said he would start updating it more often
>improvement
People talk about goals, how to attain and general improvement stuff
>improvementvault
people post interesting links/pics/... improvement related
>lounge
general shitposting but there can be some interesting semi improvement discussion

There's a book, programming and study accountability group.

You can join from the 4+4chan board /improve/ if want.
>>
>>29845734
Cool. Thanks anon. I might join in.
>>
>>29844058
I wanna suck on her toes.
>>
>>29846281
gtfo footfags
>>
>>29844058
>tfw my dick is smaller, I'm even more hairy and fat

Why live?
>>
first off, asian girls perfer white guys by far, like all non-white women. So being white is a huge plus. It sucks but that's how women work.

Second of all, I don't know what's second. Beats me how people get GFs.
>>
>>29847809
Will they date a white guy with a normal dick like OP's pic?
>>
It really isn't that hard. I have been a virgin for 17 years, that was until I took a decent haircut and went to the gym couple of times. It was such a self esteem boost, that I lost my fear of talking to girls. Self esteem is all it takes. Be confident, be the man you want to be and no girl will be ever out of your league. It helps if youre not ugly, but im definately not some Brad Pitt type of guy, and ive had solid 9/10 's for girlfriends. Ironically my current gf is a 6.5/10, but she's the one im gonna marry.
Average girls are the best gf's, cause they dont expect as much from you, they know they're lucky with a guy like you.
>>
>>29848950
If you made it, you had Chad characteristics in the first place. You were crypto-Chad.
>>
>>29844726
it's not small at all that's probably 6 inches long by 5 inches girth, if anything he's slightly above average

4chan does this weird thing where in every thread of hundreds lurking the 5 or 8 guys who are 6'4 or have 8x6 inch cocks will never, ever fail to post about it. every time. This gives a fucked up perception in everyone's head cause they're only reading about the extreme winners and losers at each end of the gene pool.
>>
>>29848964
Maybe so, I do have supreme genetics no doubt in that, but the point i was trying to make is that its 20% looks, 80% behaviour. If youre fugg ugly, but make a woman laugh, feel safe and comfortable, you will have a chance. But lets be honest, a 2/10 will never date a 8/10, guy or a girl. Atleast become a 6/10, so you can date 6/10 or lower. Never date above your caste, you will always be working your ass of to make the girl happy.
>>
>>29849137
>Maybe so, I do have supreme genetics no doubt in that, but the point i was trying to make is that its 20% looks, 80% behaviour.
How the fuck would you know? You got lucky that's why you think your looks didn't play a big role. YOU FUCKING DIRTY LUCKY NORMIE FAGGOT
>>
>>29849137
>>its 20% looks, 80% behaviour.

Funny how you only ever see good looking people saying shit like this
>>
>>29849121
Does anyone else feel like penises on other people look much bigger than on yourself. For instance my dick in exactly 6x5 inches and I always feel it looks really small on me, and I'm only 5'9" 145lbs. The dick in OP's pick looks much bigger than mine, even if it is only 6x5 also.
>>
>>29849161
Ah there you go, thats the spirit that makes you drown yourself in the kitchen sink when youre 25. Brava, fagget, brava.
You'll never find a girl, because a loser who doesnt tries to improve himself will always be a loser.
>>
>>29846281
Hey footfags, are her feet considered nice? Why/why not? Trying to understand your fetish.
>>
>>29849326
>You'll never find a girl, because a loser who doesnt tries to improve himself will always be a loser.
Wrong. Loser stays a loser even if he improves. Working hard for worse results than someone good looking and gifted? That's still losing.
>>
>>29849245
same here. I think it's when we look in the mirror from above or just look straight down at our laps that it's gonna look smaller. I'm 5'10, skinny with normal hands but my 7x5 dick looks really small. feels small in my hands too. I don't know if porn has given me brain damage or if I really do have a handicap here. I hate that we have to be measured in sexual value by something so out of our control. women's lib killed gender relations
>>
>>29849245
Yeah, I get the same thing. Mine looks small to me but even if I look at it in a mirror it looks big.
>>
>>29849350
True that, but this isn't about other people, this is about you. If you work your way up on the caste system, who cares there are better people who didn't work as hard as you? A peasant will never become king, but he might become a merchant.
>>
>>29849504
>If you work your way up on the caste system, who cares there are better people who didn't work as hard as you?
I care because it humiliates me. It makes me angry. It's not fair and I can't just ignore that.
>>
>>29849395
>>29849396
Nice to hear other anons feel this same way. I think porn has just completely warped my views.
>>
File: AnonsITT.jpg (15 KB, 720x466) Image search: [Google]
AnonsITT.jpg
15 KB, 720x466
ITT: a bunch of ugly fat faggots trying to justify their lives the same way as fat feminists use 'Muh genetics'
>>
>>29850386
Except you can change fatness. You can't change height, looks, penis size etc.
>>
File: 1466215546596.png (105 KB, 512x512) Image search: [Google]
1466215546596.png
105 KB, 512x512
>>29850412
Im 179cm, 14cm cock on hard, weigh 85kg, by no means good looking, also have a baby face, but i still fucked a 8/10 last night with ease, just by making her laugh and being smooth, its not hard to fuck bitches, just dont be a retard, hell i even got with her after my friend kept lying and joking about me watching anime. You dont need to be good looking, just dont be a fucking retard.
>>
>>29850460
You're likely better looking than you say. Normies tend to do that. They like to act like they got success through things in their control, like making them laugh and being smoot. But in fact it's about things you can not change. Like looks, height, etc.
>>
>>29844058
That's a Huge vagina.
At least from the outside
>>
>>29844107
In other words, stop going on /r9k/.
>>
>>29850495
im literally like a 4/10 and i look like im 13, despite being 20
>>
>>29844058

dicklet?

i am above average and he is bigger than me . he has got a big dick u idiot
>>
>>29850512
Really? It looks tight as fuck and doesn't have beef curtains.
>>
>>29849245
Mine looks miniscule when I look down at it, puny against my body in the mirror in my bedroom, and big in the mirror in my bathroom. I wish there was so consistency in how I perceive it.
>>
Getting a girl has way more to do with charisma than looks. Girls love to talk and girls love eye contact and self confidence.
>>
>>29850531
>he has got a big dick u idiot
Seriously, how the fuck is that considered big? Maybe you aren't as above average as you think.
>>
>>29850520
Not likely. I think you're lying.
>>
>>29844058
Asians are nasty

I man, if you're attracted to the 12 year old body and the alien head, be my guest
I'm convinced all white people who go for Asians are pedophiles who just want to fuck something that looks like it's 12 years old
>>
>>29850580
Just asked one of my 10/10 friends and she said she would rate me a 7 out of 10, but she's just saying that i think.
>>
>>29850615
Well if what you said is true (about the women you can get) I would be more inclined to believe your friend rather than you. Nothing happens for no reason. If you have success with women, you got born superior.
>>
>>29850615
That means you're a probably a 5 or 6. Women are compulsive complimenters.
>>
>>29850495
If you are really ugly just settle for an ugly girl. It's that simple. 99% of people who complain in these threads about how they can't get a girlfriend actually have too high standards.
>>
>>29850606

i concur with this anon here
>>
>>29850654
Why should I? I didn't choose to have shitty facial bone structure that makes me ugly. It's not fair.
>>
File: 1465358140358.gif (2 MB, 360x202) Image search: [Google]
1465358140358.gif
2 MB, 360x202
>>29850670
And the Stacies wont choose to be with a Melvin, when they have Chad Manly around the corner :^)
Enjoy fucking 2/10's and fatties for your life
>>
>>29850670
Nor did these girls. Life IS not fair that's all. My point is, it is a bit hypocritical to complain about how badly life is treating you when you are actually asking to be with a girl who is at least 8/10.

And yeah you can actually score a bit above your league by being smooth af, but it is not the most important point.
If you want some advice, I'd say that the only way to score with a good-looking girl when you are ugly af is to go full friendzone and hope for the best. It worked several times for me, it takes 1-2 years though.
>>
>>29850766
I won't enjoy that obviously. It's not fair and I will take revenge.
>>
>>29850778
>My point is, it is a bit hypocritical to complain about how badly life is treating you when you are actually asking to be with a girl who is at least 8/10.
Why is it hypocritical? I didn't choose be inferior and thus have limited choices.

>If you want some advice, I'd say that the only way to score with a good-looking girl when you are ugly af is to go full friendzone and hope for the best
That's pathetic. I might be ugly inferior KV but I have my pride. I will not let women break me.
>>
File: 1467305476414.png (112 KB, 294x256) Image search: [Google]
1467305476414.png
112 KB, 294x256
>>29850805
Wew lad. So you want to be able to go to any bar/nightclub, score with girls you don't know while being ugly.
Well you can't, then again not many people can. So if you don't want to settle for an ugly girl, and you are too proud to woo a qt for a long time, then enjoy your masturbation...
>>
>>29850916
I will. It's better to be alone but with pride than humiliated doggy-man who lets women control him.
>>
Isn't the qualifying factor that most of these guys are willing cucks?

If you make the decision to be willing to date\sleep with a girl who's been with other guys before, you could easily get a half-decent looking girl.

What's that really worth, though?
>>
>>29844107
There is a word for and an entire movement based around this called "deefooing".
>>
>>29850922
Well I think you should try despite your pre-conceived opinions, the result might surprise you.

>>29850942
I've tried some virgins and some who were not, there is no difference. I'd say that the choice is yours, if you want only girls who have been with no one before then go.
You better be young though. Too young to be on this site.
>>
>>29851025
defooing*
>>
>>29844107
But everyone who is superior to me puts me down. And even some people who are inferior (which aren't many). I can't cut off the whole society.
>>
>>29851038
>Well I think you should try despite your pre-conceived opinions, the result might surprise you.
The result will be that I will be getting humiliated to MAYBE get sex. Not fair.
>>
>>29844058
>guy's cock is significantly thicker than mine
>multiple anon's saying he's a dicklet

REEEEEEE
>>
>dream of going to Philippines or Thailand to find a qt Asian wife with lower standards
>can't even do that now
>will probably get kidnapped by extremists and beheaded

http://www.cnn.com/2016/04/27/asia/aquino-reacts-abu-sayyaf-beheading/
>>
>>29851038
>I've tried some virgins and some who were not, there is no difference.
there may not be a difference when you're blasting them with your chad dick to 'try them out', but it's a huge difference in the girl's value for relationships.
girls' bodies stop releasing huge oxytocin hits when a guy is fucking them after the 2nd or 3rd guy they've been with. Their biology just gives up on trying to create an emotional bond. This link between inexperienced girls and their ability to fall in love is the entire reason all cultures have valued virgins forever
>>
>>29844058
1. It's already been mentioned ITT, but seriously start exercising a few times a week

2. If you're not actually confident, I've recently learned that you can just fake it till you make it.

I just turned 24 and I'm dating and hooking up with girls for the first time in my life. /r9k/ inspired me to make a tinder account (I have no idea how to approach strangers irl), and if you just act like a confident, functional human being, most girls can't tell the difference.

I kind of think of it like a game - how normal and funny can I convince this girl I am? The more you do it, the easier it becomes. I feel like I'm starting to develop real confidence, desu. You have nothing to lose by trying.
>>
>>29851852
Wow, this is actually solid advice. Thanks.

How long did not t take you to start training confidence? Fan you talk about some of your dates/hookups? What went right or wrong? Did you screw up or make an ass of yourself at all that you later realized you could avoid in the future?
>>
>>29844107
that's why I want to kill myself, I'm that person
>>
File: 1410235689051.jpg (157 KB, 1280x853) Image search: [Google]
1410235689051.jpg
157 KB, 1280x853
>>29851852
>How long did not t take you to start training confidence?

I'm working in a new city for the summer and I've been using Tinder for about a month. Just the process of initiating conversation with girls and seeing how far I can get has boosted my confidence enough to try it with more girls. There are times where you will hit dry streaks and struggle to get things going, but DO NOT take this personally or let it impact your self-worth. Some of my friends are mega chads and it happens to everyone. IMO the biggest confidence boost comes when, on rare occasion, a girl actually starts the conversation or asks you to do something with her.

>Fan you talk about some of your dates/hookups? What went right or wrong? Did you screw up or make an ass of yourself at all that you later realized you could avoid in the future?

For my first date, I went to a movie with a girl four years younger than me. She seemed really cool initially and we had a lot of common interests like music, art, and light vidya. She sort of invited herself over to hang out two days later and we ended up having sex. I actually broke things off with her because I realized she was a lot less mature than I originally thought and way more into me than I was into her. The way she aggressively pursued sex with me was also kind of a turn off.

1/2
>>
>>29851852
regular exercise also literally makes your brain grow
>>
File: alex colville pacific 1967.jpg (47 KB, 620x621) Image search: [Google]
alex colville pacific 1967.jpg
47 KB, 620x621
>>29852068
>>29852458
Sorry meant to respond here.

cont.

Then I had a few weeks with nothing, followed by a few dates that were boring and didn't go anywhere.

Yesterday a girl actually asked me to hangout at the park and we ended up spending the whole day together. It was flirty, but nothing physical happened. I'm definitely going to try to see her again. Feel free to ask more details about any of this.

I haven't had any major fuck ups so far. A lot of times, girls will flake out or the chemistry won't be there. You need to learn to not take it personally. It's just a game.

Here are a few things that have worked for me:

1) The golden rule for success talking with other people is asking them about themselves. If they are decent people, they will reciprocate and you'll get an actual convo going.

2) When it comes to tinder, I don't bother trying to match with the hottest girls. I pick ok looking girls who I can tell have similar interests to me. They tend to be introverts too.

3) If you manage to get 2 hours of solid chatting with a girl on tinder, ask her our ASAP to avoid getting trapped in a dragged-out e-conversation that will inevitably die.

4) In terms of dates, pick things you are comfortable with. I hate bars. I like sitting in parks and going to movies, so that's what I try to initiate.

5) DO NOT (I repeat DO NOT) take your failures on tinder personally. All of it is self-improvement and personal growth.

Robots will probably call me a normie/chad for what I've posted, but I'm honestly not. I'm getting a lot of coaching from my normalfag friends and making up the rest as I go.
>>
File: F1HybridRyokusai.jpg (282 KB, 890x708) Image search: [Google]
F1HybridRyokusai.jpg
282 KB, 890x708
>>29852068
>>29852458
>>29852608

Oh and one final piece of advice I want to add is the following:

There is no shame in recycling successful openers, conversation pathways, or jokes. If you get a good response to something, take note and use it again. No one on Earth is interesting enough to reinvent the wheel each time they talk with a stranger. I have a list of stories and jokes in my head that have worked in the past, and I recycle them with new people whenever possible.
>>
>>29852458
>I went to a movie with a girl four years younger than me
>She sort of invited herself over to hang out two days later and we ended up having sex
>way more into me than I was into her
>she aggressively pursued sex with me
cool man thanks for posting that. /r9k/ really likes reading these kinds of stories. thumbs up +1
>>
>>29853783
I hadn't had sex in 4 years. These girls are out there friendo.
>>
>>29853815
sir are u tall with big chad dick?
>>
File: -1.png (603 KB, 500x680) Image search: [Google]
-1.png
603 KB, 500x680
>>29853967
No, manlet and semi-dicklet. I just pretend I know what I'm doing.
>>
Martial arts

No seriously, pick one you like the feel/style of, and run with it. You'll be amazed at the change just a few months will have. It'll build confidence, strength, aesthetics, motor function, balance, etc.

There's literally no downside to practicing a martial art, and with the thousands of free books/guides on the Internet, even a NEET can get started
>>
>>29854040
well damn, now i feel dumb for getting angry at this thread by imagining chad. Bickle is my waifu I should lose 5kg and get his body

serious Q: how big is your dick and do these Tinder-sluts ever ask u about it in advance?
>>
>>29849121
>always thought my dick was average
>measure it
>7x6
>>
File: 221.png (493 KB, 500x527) Image search: [Google]
221.png
493 KB, 500x527
>>29854127
Good taste in waifus.

On my best days it's around 5'', but I have a hard time staying that size with a condom on.

None of the girls I've spoken to have brought up sex at all in our convos. I don't meet with them under the premise that we're hooking up, it just works out that way sometimes.
>>
>>29854159
Tinder would prob work well for you with some dik pics

>>29854189
ah so girls find sex by pretending to not be looking for sex. That's why the conversation skill u mentioned is essential
>>
File: 1352240183273.jpg (36 KB, 308x280) Image search: [Google]
1352240183273.jpg
36 KB, 308x280
>>29854292
Some girls are specifically looking to hookup. This happens to my swole normalfag friends sometimes. I don't match with these girls or have much interest in sex with zero attachment.

The girls I've met aren't explicitly looking for sex but at the end of the day, tinder is of course a dating app.
Thread replies: 93
Thread images: 12

banner
banner
[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / biz / c / cgl / ck / cm / co / d / diy / e / fa / fit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mu / n / news / o / out / p / po / pol / qa / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Home]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
If a post contains personal/copyrighted/illegal content you can contact me at [email protected] with that post and thread number and it will be removed as soon as possible.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com, send takedown notices to them.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from them. If you need IP information for a Poster - you need to contact them. This website shows only archived content.