girlfrom interpalsjust added me on whatsapp
how do I talk to people on whatsapp?
I've never used it
She said "Hey :)" and "did you get my message" to me.
what do I say in response?
HELP THIS IS EMERGENCY
How about 'Hey' for starters? I know we're all robots but smalltalk is easy
>>29829311
>>29829311
where she from pham
>>29829496
>smalltalk is easy
YOU THINK?
Honestly I find long paragraphs easier where I can think about what to say.
I went with Hey there though..
>>29829539
Indonesia..
>>29829311
>don't text her long paragraphs
>barely or better don't use emojis at all
>don't send her shit like "pls respond"
>don't respond within 10 seconds she texts you something
If you don't want to fuck it up just remember these basics.
>>29829600
>don't text her long paragraphs
Yeah if you're talking to retards I guess.
>>29829600
>>don't respond within 10 seconds she texts you something
what's a good response time?
I waited like 6 hours mostly because I wasn't sure what to say. Maybe that was too long..
>>29829594
smalltalk 101:
>hey
>hey
>how are you?
>[fine/shit+explanationwhy] and you?
>[great/shit+explanationwhy]
> so how was [mutual interest or exploration into something you could be mutually interested in]
ezpz
>>29829594
>Indonesia..
That's entry level, just one step above thailand
>>29829625
just let it age for a good 1-2 minutes if you are already in a conversation, if the convo is just starting give it like 30-90 minutes
>>29829645
well I am entry level.
I've messaged with a few tens from different countries but this is the only one so far that didn't bail on me. She is also a rare one that seems pretty introverted.
>>29829640
THANKS
Show progress OP.
>GIRL TALKED TO ME!!!!! HELP?!?!?
>Goes to the part of a website least experienced with interacting with women
Why do underage newfags always do this?
>>29829964
No response. Considering I left 6 hours I guess that's not unexpected
>>29829995
28 here senpai :^)
I guess I come here more for the empathy than any expectation of good advice. But there are plenty of normies still.
>>29829995
because people here might give help
broken down into easy steps rather than empty platitudes
>don't text her long paragraphs
>smalltalk
If someone can't handle long paragraphs in conversation, they are a retard.
Snail mail and email have permitted long and thoughtful messages in conversation for as long as the history of written language and couriers.
People talk that way in real life as well.
You braindead ADHD millennials actually need to die.
She won't understand you better with her shitty English because you wrong a 1 line thing
>don't text her long paragraphs
Enjoy your downies OP.
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>>29830616
typing all that on a mobile device seems kind of annoying though
>>29829600
>>don't text her long paragraphs
why not? it's more interesting than standard small talk. and i love when people do that
>this captcha
NOW SHE SAID "YAY" AND ASKED WHAT MY NAME OR NICKNAME IS.
hold me bros
Girls don't care about what you say, they want to be listened to. Txting huge paragraphs is the height of Autism and will make you look pathetic and needy. Keep it short until at least a week.
>>29832766
How do you get them to open up and act interested then?
I gotta ask questions?
I ASKED IF SHE DID ANYTHING INTERESTING TODAY
Was that good?
Can someone please explain WhatsApp to me?
>>29834755
Smartphone chat app tied to your phone #
Idk why a robot would ever use it
>>29834845
So its like kik and all that crap?
>>29834170
no
girls never do anything interesting
>>29834985
I know but was it something good for making me seem like a normie.
well among other things she responded
>I met some friends today
fuck that
I almost thought she wasn't like the other girls.jpg
Is this all there is? Is the choice between somewhat sane but full blown normie girls or batshit crazy fembot types?
>>29835110
i tell people online i'm doing things with friends. like if i go out to get some food i say i'm going with friends because it makes me seem more normal. even though i don't actually have any friends.
>>29835184
meh I doubt she is lying about this, there are other indicators too.
>>29829311
Are you the guy asking me how I got my gf and I said try interpals for a start?
>>29835703
Nah. I've been using it since the threads here a month or so ago.
But curious to hear how you got your gf anyway.
>>29835950
over interpals lolol
After using it off and on for almost 2 years I was just about ready to stop using it for good, I checked up on my profile one day and saw she viewed me, I messaged her, we hit it off, and now here we are. We're both American though
>>29836508
Noice m8
were there obvious similar interests you had? or you just thought she was a qt
>>29837023
We are both into history, so that's what we talked about at first. Then we connected over being social retards (she's a literal aspie, super high functioning though) and underachievers (by our standards) in school. Then I think we talked about past relationships and it just went off from there, we got closer and started skype calling, crushing on each other and then just started dating. Now we're both each other's biggest person in our respective lives and we couldn't be happier
>>29837132
That's really nice man
>tfwno aspie gf
>>29837317
Yeah I wuv her. Like look at this shit, she loves birds and draws them all the time.
C U T E
A S
F U G
>>29837475
Yeah that is real qt.
May you have a long and happy life with her.
