why am i afraid of every female i find attractive
im 29, this shouldnt still be happening at this age, lifting for the past 5 years hasn't helped
>5'7
Because you're afraid of failing. The secret to life IMO is not giving a fuck. Pursue as many girls as you want but realize that each time you fail you got experience points for the next time. Its a numbers game, the more you try the more likely it is that you'll succeed.
Start talking to a female you know like your mother and/or grandmother
It's best if you live with them for a month so that you get comfortable talking to female
I would also be afraid if my stature barely surpasses that of a teenager.
because your chance of getting rejected is like 95% and if you can't create some semblance of a conversation, the fail chance goes up to 98%
>>29826150
>>The secret to life IMO is not giving a fuck.
Getting something you really want by not giving a fuck about it seems like a shitty catch 22. Because if you've stopped giving a fuck then you won't enjoy it as much when you get it
>>29826371
You hit the nail on the head. The more we care about something, the more it hurts when we don't get it. The less we care, the less satisfaction we get from it.
Personally, I have found a bliss from not caring. A bliss that is not effected by outcomes. Its hard to explain. But it's still possible to move toward goals and enjoy them, and not be totally devastated if it doesnt work out.
>>29826019
have you looked up gynophobia?