Fembots, how easy is it for you to reject men? Do you have any interesting or hilarious experiences?
hijacking this thread. Would you rather be outright rejected or would you rather they dodge the question every time you ask them to every single fucking time until you just lose the will to do anything.
>>29787343
I hate rejecting men, Ive only had to do it twice.
I knew after I did it they wouldn't want to talk to me anymore either, I hate losing people.
>>29787364
Most people would rather be let down gently by being rejected through subtle cues.
But autists, by definition, can't handle social abstraction, so a lot of people on /r9k/ would rather be rejected outright, because it's pretty much the only way they can be rejected
>>29787403
damnit, I know I felt something was off but damnit anon you made me realize that I have been rejected but I'm never gonna stop hounding her until she completely humiliates me so I can feel vindication knowing that she's a bitch who humiliates people
>>29787403
>I'm supposed to read your fucking mind
>If I don't then I'm the one with the problem
So you admit you cunts are weak creatures that can't actually talk with someone. You want to be able to do what you want with zero negative consequences.
I realize your fucking stupid, but realize that as a man this is not an option. You MUST be the one to ask, as women are too weak to do it.
It makes me anxious and i sm having to stop myself running away physically.
Male attention freaks me out
>>29787390
the last girl i was close to told me that every guy she's known, once they find out she won't have sex with them, they stop talking to her.
she said it in a context like this was hurting her or something.
but then she lied to my face and led me on and even apologized for it.
so there's evidence that it's not guy's problem you're being abandoned.
i abandoned her after i felt extremely betrayed, that is grounds for abandonment.
>>29787805
Well, see here the problem is I do ask but she always avoids it, she doesn't outright reject me but there's always an excuse
>Sorry anon I don't think I'm ready for a relationship
>We need to focus on our studies
>My parents don't approve of me getting a boyfriend yet
>I don't know *looks away*
>Well see there was this one time someone tried to ask me out and it just ended up hurting us both
>>29787838
Is she one of those "asexual" snowflakes? Or did she mean not gave sex right away.
If the first, (or something similar) shes using sex as a weapon to screw with men. Shes an evil bitch then. No relationship can reliably last without sex at some point.
>>29787838
definitely abandon her
she deserved it
I just mean like, it's like losing friends.
I don't have dozens of guys hanging off of my every word like stacey so I can't relate to how she would act but it hurts me because I lose what little I have just because I won't put out for every guy.
>>29787896
forgot to mention
every time its happened its been when someone wanted to start long distance with me
Fuck ldr
>>29787872
right away most likely. she's one of those "yeah, i'm bi" special snowflakes.
when she said she's bi that was one of the first red flags for me.
oh and she muttered, "i'm not a slut" randomly more than once. projecting much?
>>29787896
the whole thing was stupid because i would've accepted a friendship with her, i didn't care about the sex.
but she kept lying to me. puzzling, maybe she was depressed or something.
i should've said that i don't care about sex, maybe enough guys don't say that, i dunno.
I hate doing it. I don't like hurting people. It even gets worse if a guy keeps on trying, even if you keep on telling him you are not interested in him.
>>29787896
Pro tip: there is literally NO upside to having a platonic female friend. They are shit for advice, shit for helping move heavy things, and shit at life in general. Why would any man want to put up with a woman's shit if there isn't something to incentivize it? He'd be better off finding a dude to hang with.
That's a shit load of roastie apologism going on ITT.
FUCK OFF FROM MY BOARD ROASTIES REEEE
>>29787343
I don't find it hard to reject guys. I'm sort of an honest person and if a guy doesn't mesh with me then I just come out and say it's not working for me.
The hard ones are those who, even though I'm direct about it, don't get the message. One needed a visit from my brother who is a state cop.
Not that difficult, I really don't even like men
but it's funny to see them try to hook up with me and stuff, lol. One pathetic little boy even bought me a car, no kidding. What they don't know is that i'm actually into girls, lol.
>>29788243
>lol I lead poor guys on so they buy me free stuff
/literally/ a whore
>>29787364
Juat fucking tell me.
I hate wasting my god damned time. Additionally, juat be civil.
Pretty much anything more polite than "haha, are you fucking serious?!" Counts as great in my book...
And yes, I've actually gotten that one before... years ago... it's been almost a decade now, and I still remember every detail...
God why did I do that to myself?
>>29787896
>I don't have dozens of guys hanging off of my every word like stacey
You could if you wanted to, though
>>29788719
yes but I dont want empty orbiting
also im a tranny so whats the point really
>>29788761
>empty orbiting
is full orbiting a tranny thing?
>>29788783
I dont want any orbiters at all.
I havnt fucked with anything to do with trying to get attention like this.
I wouldnt know.
>>29787896
So what do you have to offer?
Like, outside of sex, what makes it worthwhile being friends with you?
Do you have any talents? Any uncommon education or experiences that lead to you having worthwhile insight? Since most dudes will laugh at anything a woman says because they want to fuck her, do *other women* find your shit humorous? Are there any crazy physical feats you can pull off? Can you get me access to places or influence with people?
Welcome to trying to make friends as a dude.
>>29788820
I have alternative interests such as formula 1 and military history.
I thought having these interests would make it easier to find guy friends but when I try they see me as this miracle girl of their dreams who likes the stuff they like and im one in a million.
I would say i'm funny, I make people laugh. It's what I do.
I actually like sex, a lot.
I'm just not looking for ldr and can't stand cyber stuff.
If I was in america I would have slept with guys from /r9k/
>>29788866
>If I was in america I would have slept with guys from /r9k/
Where do you reside m'lady?
>>29788901
melbun
I've never had to reject a guy
>>29789011
Will you please be my gf, please?
>>29788866
>I make people laugh
Me too.
All the time.
Especially when I try to fit in or want to be taken seriously.
>>29789338
usually its just by me making shit puns and lewd jokes but they laugh at me for this too anon
it hurts, it hurts bad
>>29789355
They usually stop laughing when I try puns or jokes though.
>>29789049
Yes okay
I'll tell my mum
>>29789373
some people don't have the gift for it
I think if your'e "trying" to be funny, it won't work out
some people can naturally do it and some people can't
usually I can make people close to them when we become closer and I understand them a bit more
for example if I ever "try" to be funny I fall flat on my face like most people do
>>29789416
*make people laugh when I am closer to them
wow I suck
>>29789379
So we're exclusive now?
>>29788313
If you're dumb enough to buy a girl a car then you fucking deserve it. I presume most robots are smart enough to know not to spoil women, they're just going to use you.
>"""fembots"""
>being approached by men
Top kek, what a shitty bait.
>>29787896
you girls need to realize that youre not friend material, stick with girlfriends, if you can't then kill yourself, guys need guy friends, girls arent cool enough. If a guy talks to you he either wants to fuck, is gay, or sees you just as an aquaintance.
>>29788795
You sound so whiny and annoying, which is impressive for a tranny because you sound just like a girl
>>29789846
thank you anon
sorry that I come off as whiney when I say I don't want orbiters.
Fucked if you do, fucked if you don't.
>>29788920
There are shitloads of aussie robots, you silly slag
>>29789870
No one cares what you want. You're not even a real girl, lmao
Whine somewhere else
>>29789505
Yes it's official you're my 1st bf : ))
>>29787831
That's still acceptable, I had one girl powerwalk away from me while looking back to make sure I wasn't chasing.
>>29789920
im not here to whine lol
>>29789906
point me in their direction
>>29787993
Agreed. Only female friends I've ever had were basically orbiter-collectors who used their guy friends for ego boosts.
>>29787993
you just dont know the right females
I have one female friendI dont want to fuck herand she is fun and gives great life advice
>>29790092
You are a vanilla uninteresting person or very lonely friend wise or both or a liar. Either way your post is worthless
>>29789954
Do you look like a serial killer? I'm fucking dying
>>29789978
Check the ausbot threads. They pop up quite often.
>>29787364
I'd rather not be rejected outright, I'd rather be gently rejected by subtle cues as the other guy put it, I'll get the memo.
I usually just tell them something that won't hurt their feelings.
>>29787343
>how easy is it for you to reject men?
Pretty hard.
I'm shy and is hard for me to say NO to people. That got me in a few ''relationships'' that I never wanted, yeah.
How to fix it? Being disgusting or just ignoring them til they reject me.
>>29790515
Fuck, I need this so much...
But even if I don't know them, I have a bad time hurting their feelings.
>>29790530
>pretty hard for you to reject men
Yeah i've done it plenty of times. I can see it coming and I always try to excuse myself and leave the situation before it's too late.
When he's walking up to me like he just watched a shaving commercial and is trying to keep eye contact with me it's usually a good sign things are about to get really awkward.
When he finally drops the "hey I really like you" in a casual way pretending he's done this loads of times but his eyes are quickly trying to read my face and have stopped focusing on keeping eye contact I usually try to look for someone in the room that I know in order to pretend there is something urgent that I have to tell them. If that doesn't work I just sit there quietly and watch the trainwreck unfold.
"Hey, so I really think you're pretty"
"Listen.." (why do they always say listen?) "..do you want to maybe" (ugh...no) "...go on a date sometime?"
and if this person knows me and knows I don't have a boyfriend I have to use one of my usual lines.
"Sorry, I don't see you as a boyfriend type"
"No, I'm not interested in you that way"
"aww that's really nice, but I'm not trying to start any relationship yet, i want to focus on school" (I do want to start a relationship, just not with you loser)
and if this person doesn't know me well, it's a fucking blessing.
"Sorry I have a boyfriend"
>>29787364
This, id rather a no over a maybe.
Since I never got any male attention until I turned 18, I have no idea how to reject guys.
One guy from work asked my number, and I told him because I figured it was just so I could cover his shift. He started talking to me about conversational stuff, and I kept replying because it's nice to talk to people and I don't have any friends. He asked me to go see a movie with him and I accepted because I love movies and thought he was a good friend but he held my hand and I got scared and didn't know how to say no. This went on for a while, until he finally asked me how I felt about him and I said he was a good friend. Then he quit work and I never heard from him again ;_;
I just don't know how to do these things
>>29790654
reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Why can't you fucking understand how hard it was for him to approach you in the first place?
>>29790654
>I do want to start a relationship, just not with you loser
why are all women such audacious whores
>>29790731
Wow fuck you. How do you not realize his intentions?
>>29790654
what if pic related asked you out?
>"ey u like wat u see yeh?" ;)
>>29790768
I can tell he's short just by that picture. Wouldn't date him. Short guys aren't attractive to me.
>LE FEMBOTS PLS ANSWER THIS XDDDD
fuck off to reddit
>>29790759
I'm literally autistic. I realized after my sister told me, but otherwise I never would have known.
>>29790731
>I'm female and I'm so helpless D: !
>>29787867
this is outright rejection though, just sugarcoated.
>>29790782
he's actually 6ft... desu
>>29790782
Post a pic of your face with Timestamp and then we'll believe you're a real woman. Til then, you are a robot false flagging to make others insecure. Please stop trying to raise the manlet suicide rate.
>>29790515
>using a vague excuse to end the relationship
You do realize this just prolongs confusion and resentment, right?
It's only happened to me once, there was this really mousy looking dude that I work with and one time we were alone on a shift together and he started flirting with me. He was really ugly, he was like 5'10" so fuck that, and if he works for 7.50 an hour I don't want him. So as soon as he started trying to stammer through asking me out I told him "no, I don't want to date you" and he got really quiet and awkward and ended up avoiding me and barely helping at all. Usually he does most of the work but that's because that's his job. So I called the manager and told him that he had left halfway through his shift and he got fired and was too beta to do anything about it.
I don't know if he killed himself but I really hope he did.
>>29790807
No? I see tons of things whenever I go to /adv/ like "how do I tell if she likes me" and I don't see how this is much different. Only the roles are reversed and I have no reason to think that he liked me because no one had ever asked me out before, so I don't know what that entails.
>>29790846
We aren't dating. We are not in a relationship. We have went on three dates and I don't see it progressing further. This is not confusing, I am clearly telling him why I don't feel we should continue seeing each other.
>>29790654
This is decently creative bait.
>>29790889
Are you clearly telling him? It sounds to me like you just aren't in to him, and try to blame it on his schedule.
I guess it's not that bad considering you've only been on three dates, but it's always better to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
>>29790748
No. Every relationship I've been in and all the ones that I'm aware of from my friends have all occured in similar ways. None of them happen by some "nice guy" walking up to us or me and "asking us out".
How I end up dating someone is when we're already in conversation about something we're both interested about or at a party and we're already making out. It's just there, the chemistry is just there. After the conversation or party when he asks for my number I'm completely willing to give it. There aren't any girls that I know that have gotten a boyfriend through one walking up and "asking her out".
Though I have rejected guys after a conversation, but that's because they were ugly. Sorry, truth hurts.
>>29790839
Pic related, is me.
>>29790818
Doesn't look like it, probably lied about his height.
>>29788920
lel aus women really are all whores
and so are americans for that matter
>>29791034
rubbin' the lady's only the fly ones ya know
but what if she's ugly?
Eazy come Eazy go
>>29790839
oh you asked for timestamp. Yeah I want some plausible deniability that I was here, but here is another pic.
>>29791147
We know you're just some neckbeard pretending to be some average looking girl, so it's cool.
>>29791034
It's a vicious cycle. One needs to be Chad to get girls like you, but in order to be Chad, on needs to first get a girl.
Next time be less shallow.
>>29791034
>Pic related, is me.
Not without a timestamp it isn't, cunt.
>>29791147
> multiple pics proves I'm real
Ohhh god kill yourself.
>>29789954
Men scare me
When I realise a guy is starting to have feelings I try to cut it as quickly as possible to keep it clear. I hate rejecting guys but more than anything I hate girls who collect orbiters or will leave a guy clueless and isolated. Although there has been a time where someone has continuously hassled me to the point where his friends were messaging me asking me to talk to him. I wasn't in the mood for talking so I didn't respond for a day, he freaked. I even mentioned I need time alone to this guy several times. Jfc
I will cut off contact if someone doesn't listen to me. Male or female, I will not give them my time if they choose to ignore my privacy.
>>29790759
Because for girls is normal to receive so much attention. Some of them probably genuinely don't realize when someone is trying to be something more than friend.
>>29787896
The fact that you won't put out for them means you biologically inherently inarguably consider them to be inferior people to the men you fuck a few hours after meeting and getting drunk with. Why would anyone want to be "friends" with someone who regards them as less valuable than a random fuck?
Sex is the ultimate determination of value that women have to apply to men, whereas time and attention is the ultimate determination of value that men have to apply to women. If women won't fuck men, that means they consider them to be sexless wallets and servants. Similarly, if you expect a man to give you ANY of his time or attention without fucking him, you are intentionally expecting him to fulfill the role of a romantic partner without receiving any of the sexual attention that constitutes the female's role in such a relationship. Only relatives are excused from this system of valuation because of familial bonding.
>>29790886
Women are the sexual selectors. Its not his fault for being led on, its your fault for leading on. Thats how it works. Don't like it? Give up the right to consent and let men do the selecting.
>>29791515
>"oh no a guy is asking me how my day was! Totally harrassment D:"
>>29792069
Yeah it is harrassment. He kept asking me how my day was. I never told him to stop only because I was scared that he was going to stalk and rape me or something.
Seriously, I should have to tell a guy that I'm not interested. The fact that I only say "fine" when asked how my day was should be a big enough hint that I don't want a guy to talk to me.
>>29792152
Men are not wired to pick up such cues.
>>29792152
This is b8
>the most original of original comments
>>29792152
Men just say "fine" when asked how their day was. You're either trolling or really retarded.
You absolutely do have to express yourself. Men don't owe you anything. Not all men are your daddy. They don't exist to coddle you. You're a sex object from the moment you reach adulthood, and its up to you to manage yourself. If you can't handle that then get a sex change.
If it's some rando stranger in public I just walk faster and pretend I don't hear... but it's really sad if it's a guy I know.
Like I'm not sure what to do to stop guy friends from falling for me. I don't flirt with them or anything. Sometimes they even do it when I have a boyfriend.
>>29792181
>>29792212
>>29792225
>asked daily how day was by the same guy
>only responds with "fine"
>"OMG she's so interested"
It's not even a guy girl thing. If someone responds minimally, it's an indication they aren't interested. Just because someone responds to you doesn't mean you're in.
>>29792249
It's a big problem with teenagers. If you're even somewhat attractive and you're nice to guys, they confuse that for romantic interest.
>>29792285
> If someone responds minimally, it's an indication they aren't interested.
No. Sorry, but just because you can't admit when you're wrong doesn't change the fact that you are.
>>29792398
>"Hey Anonette, how was your day? :)"
"Fine"
>"What have you been up to?"
"Nothing much."
>"Oh, okay :) Today I was blahblahblahblahblahblahblah."
*No response for 2 hours* "Cool."
Yeah, I'm wrong. She sounds so interested as long as she's replying. Unless she straight up tells you to stop talking to her, I think she might be into you.
>>29792473
You do realize there are more people in the world besides women right? Are you autistic?
Lets take your imagination and apply it to reality:
>"Hey, long time friend of 10 years, how was your day?"
"Fine"
>"WAAAAH WAAAH OH MY GOD YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED IN ME YOU HATE ME!!1!!!"
You are straight up retarded.
I hate when guys are in the same room as me and they breathe
like fuck off creep i'm not interested
>>29792528
I'll take the bait.
If someone is responding to you minimally, it's a good indication, for whatever reason, they are not interested in the conversation.
I never said or implied that you should sperg to them that they aren't interested.
Don't be that guy who can't take the hint; it only builds a reputation for being an annoying creep.
The "fembots" of this board are just as deluded as the robots.
>>29792643
Nope, and saying it doesn't make it true either, sorry to burst your bubble.
>>29792285
Not necessarily. It can mean that some people don't live on their phones.
>>29792676
Yeah, i.e. they're not interested in the conversation.
In which case, be more interesting, and try talking to them in person.
>>29792473
Are you serious. You don't really know what you're talking about.
>>29788313
No, a whore fuck dudes for gifts and money
That bitch didn't even have to fuck anyone
>>29792641
Not that anon but I don't think you realize that a lot of people do say thoae sort of things and it doesn't necessarily mean they're not interested. If this is the way you treat people who talk to you to let them know you're not into them then you're not letting them know at all. It's ridiculous to assume people know what you're thinking.
>>29792333
>hot girl was nice to me in HS
>imagine life together
>I tried to talk to her on the internet like a sperg
>fuck it up obviously
There was another girl I was into and I am REALLY glad I didn't try anything back then, sometimes when you are socially retarded its better to just shut yourself down so you don't create even more cringy memories for your future self.
FML
>tfw girl you've known for a long ass time rejects you with the "like an older brother" line
>mfw this is the second time this has happened
>>29792249
>guy friends
You can stop pretending they're your friends. The ultimate determinant of a man's value in the eyes of any woman is whether or not she will fuck him. Men she will fuck, including strangers she doesn't know after getting drunk at the bar, are inherently more valuable to her than men she won't fuck.
Why do you demean the idea of friendship by calling men you inherently inarguably view as repulsive your friends? Why do you take advantage of their time and attention.?
>>29792799
It's a good indication that they aren't if they repeatedly do so.
I've wittnessed it a lot. If they are genuinely interested in talking to you, they would input past the generic minimum of conversation.
I've seen it a hundred times. A girl replies minimally to her orbiters, and is vert talkitive when she's talking to Chad.
>Girl rejected me
>Stop talking to her and giving her attention
>she now tries to get my attention all the time
>this roast is toast
>>29793018
Yep this is what >>29793017 does undoubtedly. Women freak if you're not begging for their attention and if you are begging for their attention.
They're just emotionally as developed as children. It has nothing to do with guys not getting the picture. Guys get it, they simultaneously want and don't want attention. Guys just know they can't fulfill this psychotic wish and so persist in whatever behavior they please because you can't live your life attuned to the demands of children.
>>29793018
This is a good mindset.
The worst thing she could do when you stop talking to her is she also stops talking to you, and the worst thing you could do is keep talking to her after she rejected you.
>Be 15
>Friends with seniors, who have friends in college
>A 22 year old liked younger girls, had a 15 year old girlfriend
>He eventually breaks up with her, starts suddenly being interested in being my friend
>I'm a huge aspie so I think he really wants to be friends
>Eventually catch on and avoid him
>He eventually gets to me and says if I want him to leave me alone, he will
>I say okay and walk off
>Friends all stop talking to me
I heard the guy got banned from the local library's anime club for creeping on teenage girls too much.
>>29793057
>>29793082
I actually like to give women attention and then pull it away and have them look for my eye contact as I stare somewhere off in the distance. Or better yet give another girl attention in front of her play it up and laugh at everything she says, this tingles them to the extreme.
>friend tells me hes going to ask out a girl hes been friends with for 12 years
>tell him don't do it
>he does
>gets rejected
>hes married now but his phone background still has that girl on it.
>>29790654
>When he's walking up to me like he just watched a shaving commercial
wut
>>29787390
just become friends with INTJs
INTJs don't believe they'll ever grab a girl so they just act non-interested and hope to high heaven that the girl will make the first move
