What do you do if you're a girl who's too scared to talk to anyone and is consequently painfully single? How do I stop being so scared of people?
Talk to inoffensive looking people. They're often inoffensive.
>>29781460
Just have like a wine cooler or something
>>29781482
Yeah but what do I talk about?
stop being a Fucking tumblerina and Get over it? lol
>>29781460
You're a fucking woman, just step outside of your house while <200lb and you'll get asked out
If you can't get a date as a girl you're probably not fit for normal society
>>29781460
Ask social rejects on /r9k/ for advice.
In actuality, be extremely cunning and subtly advertise your need for beta orbiters to buy you stuff online and give you attention.
>>29781606
get a hobby. also you can ask them questions instead of talking about yourself
>>29781753
I've been asked out before I just never know what to do next
>>29781788
Buy me stuff? What?
>>29781826
You fucking accept or you don't get to complain about being single, that's like denying every job offer you get and complaining that you're poor.
>>29781792
Maybe that would work yeah
>>29781870
Okay I'm sorry I wasn't trying to seem rude
>>29781792
>implying guys won't still date her if she just talks about herself
>>29781460
You only need to stand around men long enough for one of them to try and make a move, it's that easy for women.
>>29781910
So just stop complaining and get out there and wait for a guy to fucking ask you out what are you even doing here
>>29781923
But no one makes a move on someone who hardly talks?
>>29781918
she's not talking about anything idiot. thats the problem
>>29781910
stop apologizing to assholes. that's a good way to start not being scared of people.
if they don't deserve your time, just ignore them. if they seem like decent people, there's nothing to be scared of.
>>29781963
>implying betas would give a fuck
>implying betas wouldn't ask her out even if she was mute
>>29781974
Keep kissing her ass you failed normie, maybe she'll pick you to go out with, even though she no doubt could do better.
>>29781954
You'd be surprised, just look decent and you'll get approached.
>>29781991
betas wouldn't have the balls to ask her out
>>29781974
Okay, I'll try to do that- thank you
>>29781460
>How do i stop being so scared of people?
I wish i knew
>being an introvert at all for any reason
>>29782035
Why are you still fucking here slut, if you're so desperate for attention go to a fucking bar and bang the first guy you see
>>29782015
i'm a straight woman, idiot
No it'll get better I promise! You can do anything.
>>29782049
>>29782074
Oh so you're just another slut who thinks she's special because she goes on 4chin? We don't want you here.
>>29781606
Say hi. Then, I dunno, how are you doing?
Maybe talk about the weather or the place you're at. Ask them some personal questions, what they like to do, you know, ask them the shit you'd like them to ask to you. You're a girl, they'll open up immediately and most boys who know anything about talking to women will take the lead in the conversation quick and you'll just have to go with their flow.
>>29781460
1. Go to bar
2. Get free drinks
3. Congratulations now you have hundreds of chads and beta orbiters that want you , you don't even have to be interesting , you can be the most plain and boring person in the world.
Now fuck off back to tumblr
>>29782070
I'm not looking for that kind of relationship
>>29782132
Those are really good ideas thank you so much
>>29782151
Then what the fuck are you looking for? Literally every single person here is telling you the same thing, just go absolutely anywhere and you'll be asked out by every fucking guy
Hey OP if you want to practice with me I've got avoidant personality disorder so you don't have to be that scared because I'm terrified to and can relate and won't be put off if you take a while to respond or anything and you can throw me away at your earliest convenience
>>29782274
OP is a woman she doesn't need "practice" she needs to stop shutting down every opportunity she gets by being a retard, if she just fucking stands there and answers yes or no questions she'll get a date
>>29782307
true she just needs to get over it like every other tumblrina cunt
>>29782274
Actually that sounds kind of really helpful
>>29782204
learn to reed.
>>29782381
Cool. I could probably use some practice as well.
Do you have a skype or throwaway email or something you want to use?
I'd rather ask you for yours if that's okay..?
>>29782491
>>29782575
Makes sense."anohn."
It's getting late where I live and I'm not fortunate enough to be NEET master race so I won't be able to chat for long but I can chat more tomorrow assuming I haven't scared you off before then.
>>29782658
Wait so what do you want to use?
Whoops, that's my skype.
Throwaway email is
[email protected] if that's more convenient for you.
>>29782979
Women who post on 4chan always bail on that. Have fun sending 4 emails back and forth and then being ghosted.
I don't get it, but whatever.
I'm sorry that's how people are sometimes, flakes are a bummer :c
>>29783119
>>29781460
You literally have to stand there and look cute. Write on a piece of paper that you're shy and don't talk and just hand it to the guy.
As long as the relationship is mutual I seriously doubt he'll care if you're quiet.
I mean I guess Ariel got dick without talking so there's that
>>29783233
>>29783187
Maybe it's me though, it seems like everyone I meet eventually slams the door in my face. I don't really know what I do wrong. The toughest part is the anxiety caused by knowing you just pushed a new friend away is when you could really use the support network.
How do you bootstrap from few or no friends without overwhelming people and making them avoidant?
