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Is it even possible to get a gf as a NEET basement dweller?
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Is it even possible to get a gf as a NEET basement dweller?
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Maybe if you play World of Warcraft.
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>>29780665
Technically yes. But practically no.
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Watch anime. Eventually a petite virgin qt will knock at your door wanting you.
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>>29780665

No. It's a monumental task to get one even if you're fit with a job and have your own place.

People like us have no chance regardless of our situations.
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Pose as a normie and use Tinder
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>>29780665
>Roommate is obese.
>No job.
>Roommate literally gets autism bux.
>Has a 6/10 gf.
>Ask his gf why she dates him.
"Cause hes tall and there is nothing hotter than that."
>Roommate is 6'3.
>I am a 5'10 kv and 3 years older than roomie.
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>>29780747
Girls are secretly pedophiles. They want to feel like children to tall men.
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>>29780747
>read this
>remember I'm 5'4"
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>>29780770
So kinda like why I enjoy jacking it to /ss/?
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honestly when I look back on my life and remember I never kissed a girl it's hard to find willpower to do anything
it's like I'm not even a human being
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>>29780802
Mah niqqa, that's my fetish
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>>29780665
Not saying this to be entitled, but a guy should at least have a job, in school/trade, and could take care of himself to be a decent bf. At least he'll won't be a lazy out of shape idiot that doesn't want to do anything in life. All NEETs should be lonely
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>>29780665

I mean why would it be? You are not entitled to a gf, women are actually people with autonomy. Who would want to be with someone like that?

As with almost all mammals females are the sex which selects, we have to impress them, they will not break down your door and jump on your dick, they don't have to when they have 50 guys per day trying to break down their door
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>>29780859
What if he's a starving artist, /fit/, learns and does interesting stuff but doesn't sell himself.
What then norman?
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>>29780783
Become my gf. I will pay for your hormones and everything. Your height is perfect.
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>>29780859
I've haven't had a friend in over a decade. I'm so used to being alone that I know nothing else, I prefer it now because I can't even keep up a conversation.
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In theory, yes.

Think of all the girls in the world and how many different standards they all must have, at least one of them is bound to have an unorthodox thing for basement dwellers.
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>>29780859
Would you say the same thing about a woman?
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>>29780982

you don't get to choose not to sell yourself

in all aspects of life you are competing with thousands of people for basically everything

selling is a skill you can study and learn, it's distinct from socialising, it's not something you're either born with or not

just waiting for opportunities to come to you is not an option when you're an adult
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>>29781117
Dodging the question ree
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It's possible

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/4k5icd/me_30_f_with_my_boyfriend_25_m_of_15_years_i/
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>>29780982
>What if he's a starving artist
Not a lot of those make a lot of money. They probably do, but it's a fucking hassle
>Drive town to town going door to door begging people to buy your paint even if it's shitty
Not the best way to live. At least have a job on the side.

>/fit/,
How are you going to the gym but don't have income? How are you paying? Also, there's gym-hards that are autist, so Im guessing thats you

>learns and does interesting stuff but doesn't sell himself.
Like what? If it's interesting, why not share it with people so people will talk to you?
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>>29780736
Anon! Be part of my project!
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>>29781115
I would just say "Naw, she just gotta be hot", but I want to put the "men juz want looks" meme aside. To me, if I was trying to "woo" a girl, but find out she has no job and doesn't want to think about her future, she can fuck right off. Im supposed to be her man, not her beta provider.
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>>29781202
not even the enlightNEET depicted on the NEET charts have a chance. there is a good feeling in not having a chance as a common NEET though. i feel ready to let go.
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>>29781294
So you think everyone should be a wagecuck not just men. Got it.
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>>29781144

What if?

He may be fine boyfriend material, but he's probably not going to get a relationship without some selling ability

Is it unfair? Yes of course
Can we change it? No
Can you change yourself? Yes

So make the rational choice and learn to sell yourself
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Yes. I have lived in my parents basement and for the most part unemployed last August, and soon after that I met my present girlfriend who is getting her phd and will support the two of us when she finished. It's not impossible. It's not the 'basementdwelling' that's the problem as much as the psychological effects of isolation that most robots endure that make them antisocial and oblivious to others. Etc
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>>29781202
I'm not even discussing me this guy is a theoretical.

I worded it poorly, but I'd like to leave it, here's something better.

>taking care of an old parent and otherwise sitting around the house (basically NEET that does the dishes)
>no education other than highschool
>overweight
>smokes like a chimney
This is my uncle, and he has had a wife since before I was born.
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>>29780699
Bad idea unless you want to be a cuck.

WoW cunts are always "poly" and unlike normie bitches they eventually convert all their orbiters into actual sex partners.....but hey if you don't mind sharing sloppy seconds with your landwhale I guess it's a good deal.
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>>29781363
I meant selling your undertakings for taxable income not social marketing.
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>>29781228
>>29780736
I've tried this method. If you go to college, join the anime club.

My problem is when I'm not on .r9k/ I'm on /tv/ or /a/ I'm very judgemental and critical and her taste are ALWAYS shit so I tear into her when she tells me all the crap anime she watches and that kills our chances.
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>>29781202
>/fit/,
>How are you going to the gym but don't have income?
Please, you do not need a gym to be fit.
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>>29781294
>le women need jobs and votes meme
This is why the west is dying.
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>>29780665
unless you go wheelchair-tier there isnt
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>>29780741
this helped me get laid once

took me 12 months

but hey i got laid

>tfw dunno if I will be this lucky again, i'll do my best but after months still no luck
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>>29781678
I'm not you or the person you replied to but the place I live at has a gym attached that anyone here can use for free so
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>>29781799
How does one "pose as a normie"

What does a normie do? Do I have to say shit like "I'm a dog daddy, into craft beers" and take a picture of myself at a sporting stadium wearing a jersey with my boys? oh right and something about music
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