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any of you guys use tinder often? I'm trying to get laid but i literally don't know how i start a conversation on it.
you cant start a conversation unless you like both eachother.I like everyday 100 girls and i have 4 matches after thousands of likes.Dont bother with this normapp fellow brobot
>>29767439
I think he means, how do you start a convo with someone you've matched with
Like what the fuck are you supposed to say
>>29767557
I'm already matched with someone but I'm just stuck on what i'll put for that first text
>>29767439
>I like everyday 100 girls and i have 4 matches after thousands of likes
Lower your standards famalam
I've had to for about 3 weeks. Got about 25 matches, but only 4 numbers, and zero dates. It seems that most girls lose interest fast.
>>29767355
I just let them start the conversations.
If they aren't messaging first you more than likely will NOT smash.
>>29767355
What kind of pictures do you post on a tinder profile. I don't have any pictures of me doing anything fun or with friends. Only reason I never tried online dating was because I feel I'd have a shit profile.
>>29767773
hmm i dunno, i kinda want a qt shy gf and i doubt that kind of girl will want to message first. I've already left it a day since i got my last match.
It's not worth it
It's mostly stacies trying to legitimately date
Or desperate uggos/hamsacks trying to legitimately date
Or she's just crazy or has a kid or something wack
I got lucky and found a mildly chubby, cute-faced, smart Mexican girl I'd smoke weed with and just fugg but it was pure luck
Seriously though, the vast majority of your experience will be depressing
>>29767820
i just have 2 pics: a selfie of me smiling and a picture if me in a shirt and tie (pic related).
seems to have worked well for me so far.
>>29767822
how many matches you have? it's a numbers game, friend.
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>>29767865
m8 I'm mildly autistic there's no fucking way im hanging around bars chucking retarded pickup lines at every qt i see. online dating is my only option to lose my virginity.
>>29767913
read this unoriginal comment and
calm down.
>>29767902
i only started using it yesterday and got 2 matches.
>>29767918
I mean
If you're willing to go on a few dates with borderline retards to get laid, then go for it
>>29767355
Just have to think of a joke or something dude. I've had tinder for a year and most people on it aren't really trying to meet people and it kinda sucks. Tinder is really one of those apps that only works if you live in a major city. I just went on a date off tinder last night and it was a lot of fun
>>29767930
YOU GUYS HAVE A WHOLE FUCKING THREAD FOR THIS ON /SOC/
YOU COULD POST THIS ON /B/ AND GET MORE ADVICE FASTER
WHY THE FUCK OF ALL PLACES DID YOU NEED TO START THIS THREAD FUCKING HERE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
GOD FUCKING DAMMIT NORMIES RUIN EVERYTHING
>>29767964
>I've had tinder for a year and most people on it aren't really trying to meet people and it kinda sucks
why the fuck are they using it then?
>wanna use it but don't want to because i have to use my facebook and i dont even have any photos of myself i like
hh..haha..
>>29767988
Stacies use it for validation
>>29767984
We're at least making an effort not to be permavirgins.
>>29767988
It's a way to kill time. I just like to fuck around on there and sometimes you actually meet cool people.
Even if I somehow got a photo of myself that isn't awful and somehow got a match I wouldn't know what to say.
>>29767964
LOL WHAT??
Some Cuban girl from Las Vegas wanted me to visit her during Christmas
>>29767355
>trying to find a gf online
The internet is full of whores, go to church, AA or a foreign country instead. If it's a whore you want though, go for older women. They give the best sex to be quite honest famallama
>>29767355
I'm close to get two dates. Wish me luck guys.
>>29767988
I used it for a while for when I was bored in class. Talking to random chicks was much more fun than hearing some old man's ramble.
>>29767944
You need pictures of you doing things.
>Out doing shit (hiking/sports)
>In a social setting
>Showing a cool hobby
>You doing something funny (mildly clever snapchat text over a semi-interesting moment)
Then make yourself a bomb ass bio and you're golden baby. Make it without a hint of meme-phrasing, something they ain't seen before.
I'm not even attractive and I get at least 15 matches whenever I decide to use it on the shitter.
>>29767355
i tried but didn't get any matches
>>29768042
like i said i think your experience with the app varies based on your location and the time of year. During summer you always get more matches cause girls are back from college but every time i visit san francisco i always get a ton of matches
>>29767684
you only have a certain number of matches every 12 hours. if this guy is liking 100 per day then he's already maxing out.
I tried Tinder and failed, hard.
The standards of Chadism required are insane.
The standards of Stacism required are waaaaay too low.
I had a fat roastie friend of mine show me her Tinder account and she was all "this is so funny getting all these losers at my feet, I love it"...
Same goes for all similar dating apps
>>29767895
it's just because you're tall you lanklet prick.
what are you
6'what
all you have to do is write 6'x in your profile and you'll get matches
>>29768011
DO IT SOMEWHERE ELSE THEN YOU FUCKING DINGBAT
WHY IN FUCKING HELL WOULD YOU COME FUCKING HERE FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO PICK UP WOMEN
WHY WOULD YOU SHIT UP MY BOARD FOR THIS SELF-DEFEATING HORSESHIT NORMIE TRASH FUCKING CHRIST
>>29768099
It's not THAT hard.
>get yourself a 2/3 good pics of you
>one with those faggy filter
>put a serious medium description.
>lower your standards
>???
>meet/fuck/profit
>>29768029
>why do people use tinder if they don't want to meet people?
>because sometimes I just like to meet people lol
Are you fully literate
>>29768099
>this is so funny getting all these losers at my feet, I love it
They also show it to their friends and laugh at them. Don't even bother, /r9k/.
I probably get about 4-5 matches every day. Been using it since February and have matched with over 500 girls. That's just in the area around my city (UK). If I ever move to, say, London, that number will double or even triple in the same period.
What you need to realise is that this is the most important development in hooking up since the beginning of time. You've basically access got tens of thousands of thirsty girls available to chat from your own chair. Think about that for a second. Imagine the alpha males of decades and centuries past, and the physical legwork they needed to put in to make those numbers. And now you can cast an even larger net with a few flicks of your fingers.
The key points are to look more attractive than most other males on there, and to be good conversation. Don't try and flirt explicitly like you've just read The Game - it's 2016. Just talk to them as if they were your neighbour and you're talking across the driveway. Again, it's 2016. The dynamic of a guy smirking and feeding a girl lines whilst she laughs coyly is dead. They all want to be treated like friends, not prey.
There's an art to asking for their number - with some girls it can be after only a few sentences, whereas others will get spooked if you try that too early. But remember, the number is key. Tinder is just a game, an app, like Candy Crush. Once you're talking on WhatsApp you've become a part of that girl's social circle alongside all of the other people she messages.
When things start to get sexual, emphasise that you're good with your tongue and that you're a thoughtful lover. Remember, all girls know that every guy wants to fuck (them). So position yourself as a more satisfying, intellectual choice than the common rabble.
I'm not going to lie, I'm quite good looking. Unfortunately, you won't get good numbers without that. But bear in mind that with such numbers of girls on there, you should surely find at least one that's right for you.
For some reason I think that this place isn't as desperate as it seems, but boy is it
>FUCKING WOMEN THEY'RE SUCH FRIVOLOUS SUPERFICIAL CUNTS GOD I HATE THEM
>LET ME GO ON A HOOK UP APP because I'm so lonely ;~;
God you're all so pathetic, creepy fucks
>>29768074
How do you propose to take selfies whilst doing sports unless you use a camera with a timer and have it all planned in advance ? Sorry I don't go swimming or hiking with my fucking camera and tripod all the time.
Social setting? you'd first need to have friends for that, not a robot thing to do...
Showing a cool hobby, so I'd need to take a selfie of myself taking a photo ? and indeed need 2 cameras, one for show and one with a timer to actually take said selfie.
Something funny ? sorry mate I ain't a stand up comedian; my funny moments come spontaneously without me realizing it. and I am not taking selfies constantly just in case I might be doing something funny.
>>29768146
I am a pro photog; I know how to take good photos. I know how to do filters without them being too faggy (unlike instagram)... Still nope...
>>29768158
Different demographics
These are mildly awkward normies who think they're depressed
The other is neckbeards
Both are degenerate tbqh
>>29768157
Almost sounds like a sales pitch... Go back to fixing connection bugs Tinder employee number 3
>>29768158
Post yfw you realize that every straight man alive sees women as either a necessary or unecessary evil.
It will amuse me.
Any man who has put trust in a woman has a painful memory. Everybody eventually settles, still thinks about the one that got away. Deal with it norman.
>>29768178
>being this defensive
Christ, you're hopeless.
>>29768152
most people on it aren't really trying to meet people
>sometimes you actually meet cool people
both of these things from my posts imply that most people on it are not down to hangout but some people are. Besides the fact that I said the main reason i have it is to fuck around and kill time, maybe you should pull your smug head out of your ass before calling other people illiterate when you can't even take the time to fully read what I wrote.
>>29768178
Okay, so you dont have friends who might take picture of/with you...
But you think you have social value enough for a woman to want to fuck you? Are you planning on tricking her? How?
Tell me what you bring to the table, friend. Help me out here.
>>29768236
I am pragmatic; the proposed shots will simply not happen "organically" (if you care about them looking decent) you need to plan them; and planning them is a desperate thing to do
>>29768085
Girls use Tinder 24/7.
>>29768268
>Every picture ever has to be candid or else it's worthless.
>>29768273
I know but i'm saying that since the girls are coming back from college they are using it here too to look for summer hookups
>>29768099
This applies with any girl on social media.
>>29767355
/r9k/, I'm in an awkward situation. One month ago I swiped right a cute twink "for the lulz", and I get a match. He seems submissive and nice. But I still don't have a girl match.
I want to do vagina before putting my dick in one of those boipussies or whatever you call it. If I do men before girls, I'll feel this like a disgrace.
Any other "bicurious" who can relate to this feel ?
>>29768254
My friends are, by now, scattered all over the world; they were once IRL friends but because of work had to move here and there.
Do you propose I fly (I could, business owner here) to Tunisia to take a lame selfie with Whassim ? Too much work for 1 shot that may or may not help me get matches that may or may not get me laid; for the same price as the flight I could get an escort...
>>29768268
Nah, the salty tone of your comments shows blatan butt-flustered defensiveness. And refusing to do what you know needs to be done because it's "desperate" is pretty antithetical to pragmatism you dumb cunt. If you were pragmatic you would do it anyway, spooky ideas like "desperation" be damned.
>>29768268
Taking photos of yourself doing cool things and looking good is not desperate, it's fun.
>>29768288
How can I take a candid shot of myself swimming without a waterproof camera, say?
hmm??? I ain't gonna waterproof my camera just to show Stacy that I can swim...
>>29768123
this frogposter is right. this tinder shit and these chart threads have been growing in frequency lately, bringing the quality of the board down. this type of shit belongs in /soc/reeeee
>>29768157
Christ
You sound exactly like this guy I knew who was cocky because he would literally hit on everyone he came into contact with, and sometimes it would work. Thinking you're good with women because of this requires a specific roid-fuelled form of autism, where you make up half-assed excuses every time the bait doesn't land, and total lack of self-awareness that virtually all women in your life see what you're doing
>>29768316
I have already done what you propose I should be doing. Was a pain in the ass. Nice photos though, but still, It doesn't work. PERIOD.
>>29768368
>It doesn't work
What kind of profile did you have in Tinder? How long did you try it for? How many swipes? How many matches?
>>29768361
If he gets the results he wants, what's the problem?
>>29768368
If you've already done it why the fuck are you making excuses? You're a stupid dumb cunt, period.
>>29768254
>has no friends
>dates 8/10s regularly
>at least two casual hookups per year if single
>feel like sex is all I have to offer women, my fuckbuddies and girlfriends are my only friends
Who else /manslut/ here?
>>29768309
>>29768343
Oh man, you're right. I'm retarded.
you had me goin there mang. nice b8
>>29768317
Do you have any notion of photography?
How can I possibly take pictures of myself doing cool stuff if said cool stuff already involves being 100% focused on said cool stuff if I don't want to croak? (like rock climbing)
The only way is to plan it in advance, which is desperate, it is putting tons of effort into possibly getting a few more matches.
>>29768388
I don't know how many swipes, probably tried 6 months over all... about 3 matches , that were dead ends.
>>29768307
the worst thing you could do is look back on your life and realize you never lived. If you like him do it man, the only people that would care are petty
>>29768413
>The only way is to plan it in advance, which is desperate, it is putting tons of effort into possibly getting a few more matches.
Ok so put no effort in and get no matches then.
For someone who allegedly wants to leave this place you sure are a self-defeating moron.
You know what you need to do, but you keep making excuses because it's "desperate". YOU ARE DESPERATE, retard, that's why you're on fucking /r9k/ asking for advice on women.
>>29768123
>MY BOARD
Hi there Hiro. You seem a bit salty today.
>>29768390
Because you obviously know fuck all about photography, that is why!
The shots I used on Tinder were done with pro gear and planning involved; because they wouldn't have been possible otherwise.
inb4 "they have to be candid...", yes ideally; but you can't exactly do candid selfies when you are holding on a rock face with strong wind blowing and trying to not fall off can you?
>>29768502
The main issue here is that you have no friends.
>>29768249
What the hell does "fucking around killing time" even entail? The way I see it, there's 2 options
A. You're "fucking around killing time" screening people to meet in real life. In other words, meet up
B. You're "fucking around killing time" looking for validation on Tinder, and we're intentionally vague about your wording so you didn't have to admit that
C. You enjoy very simple, repetitive activities that require little to no thought. Should this be the case, you should consult your local doctor, as this is a common symptom of autism in children
D. You're not fully aware of what you want from Tinder, and some semi-unconscious psychological reasons are leading you to A, B, or C
I tried a few times. It takes me a week to get a match and when i get it usually don't care anymore. I had a match today, she's cute but i'm not in the mood for relationships anymore. Thinking about giving it all up.
>>29768502
If you already have these pictures, what is the argument? I didn't say they have to be candid. All I'm saying is that you need to stop making excuses like "it's desperate" so you don't have to do what you obviously know you need to do.
>>29768476
I am 36, I am not asking for advice about getting women; I have MGTOW a while back but all the shit you propose to do I have already tried in the past in one form or another.
They simply DO NOT WORK. or at least not well enough to justify the effort involved.
And I am just warning others to not expect miracles.
Online dating is a meat market targeted at women; they get thousands of matches every day from guys and find it funny, it is a game to them; it is a game called "the quest for the ONE who will somehow give me elusive tingles".
Do not feed their inflated egos any further by taking part into a losing game like online dating...
wtf, hasn't the red pill taught you anything?
>>29768599
>I did no effort so it didn't work for me
>therefore it will not work for anyone
>>29768599
you don't need the red pill if you're relatively attractive and people don't hate you
>>29768542
My friends are all over the world, some work in government, some work at Airbus, some work at Apple; do you propose I just fly around the world just to take a few selfies so I can show my worth to entitled Stacy ?
I need ideas for a new profile pic.
I'm a loner though so I don't really know how.
Could I just go to the beach and ask a random couple of Chads to take a photo with me or something??
>>29768599
This true and it's sad how men are desperate for women when it was the opposite a century ago.
>>29768599
not all of them are stacies ya know, i girl i knew at school who was kinda a loner but still alright looking was on mine.
>>29768566
I would; time is something you can never get back; time to move on.
Focus on "day game" and networking, usually yields better results.
>>29768475
you're probably right, so many questioning tho..
>>29768595
I am trying to warn others that no matter how good you make your pics the odds are still massively against you and therefore dating/hookup apps like Tinder are a waste of time.
>>29768390
It's depressing that he's so fully committed to a lifestyle just for fleeting gratification
Also in probably half of hookups something depressing happens
>>29768623
Reading comprehension ain't your forte huh? I specifically said I already tried all the suggested bits here and there to get more hits on Tinder (and the like). They mostly do not work.
>>29768692
there's literally no other way a true robot like me will find love, i don't go to bars and clubs ffs.
>>29768632
No.
I suggest you get friends that aren't all over the fucking world. Expand your circle.
>>29768565
I like to meme on people on there and sometimes I have funny conversations or meet people. I don't see what's so difficult to understand about that.
>The way I see it, there's 2 options
>lists 4 options
jesus
>You're not fully aware of what you want from Tinder, and some semi-unconscious psychological reasons are leading you to A, B, or C
Get your carl jung wannabe ass of 4chan. I have fun talking to people on there. Admittedly the app is stupid but I have no idea what you're trying to accomplish here. Yeah I've fucked girls on tinder but that's not the primary reason i have the app. It's more like "I can troll on there and on the off chance i may meet someone". Do you understand now?
>>29768692
Ok, I thought you were asking for advice and then refusing to follow it.
>>29768695
Why is it depressing? Life is a series of momentary joys and miseries. If his lifestyle makes him happy in more of those moments then not, it's a good lifestyle.
>>29768639
Bumpawo
>>29768632
I live in a chav town, do you propose I make chav-friends? not gonna happen. I have standards, plus they wouldn't be real friends, they'd be here just so I can take pictures with them.
I am very picky with friends; hell if I applied the same standards to women I talk to they would all fail.
>>29768721
You don't need to go to bars and clubs thats possibly even worse than Tinder, because it costs money as well as time.
Go to place where like-minded people hang out.
>>29768786
you have a negative outlook on people.
have fun being alone and angry.
buh bye bub
>>29768837
No kidding, it's clear why he's alone.
>>29768749
Kek the 2 was a typo
And a lot of people want things they aren't aware of it can't explicitly vocalize
In any case, why didn't you say trolling instead of "fucking around killing time"? "Fucking around killing time" explains nothing, saying you like to troll people does. I hope you learn from this mistake and are a more clear, effective communicator in the future :^)
Also
>I get laid
Sure you do, friendo
>>29768837
No I just do not like to hang out with people who can't even speak their own mother tongue properly, who dress in sportswears no matter what they are doing and who's idea of their best time ever was that one time they got fitchased and passed out to wake up in the police station after trying to jump out of a window to prove some Stacy how brave he was.
>>29768824
>Go to place where like-minded people hang out
examples?
>>29768871
I don't need to lie about having sex online. i fucked one girl from tinder but she was crazy and it's not something im necessarily proud of
>>29768316
Jeeze what's your problem bro
Take a look at what you're typing there buddy; might wanna take it down a notch, lest people catch on that you are the one with the issues here
>>29768897
Figure out what makes you you. Your dreams, your ambitions, your likes, dislikes, the type of women you like, the type of people you'd like to hang out with and go from there.
>>29767355
>don't have one of those fancy "smartphones"
>never had friends
>never had a gf
>KHHHV
>want to try tinder
>don't want to blow my hard earned money on a miniature toy computer that could get me a gf
>still want a gf
>realize you also need good pictures taken by someone
>no one to take pictures of me
I need to die.
Tried first time yesterday coincidentally. I put range 30 miles in a city of around 300k. I got 35 matches in a day. 20 were ham planets. 5 were okay enough to talk to. 2 were banging hot. Rest had something in their bio I wouldn't jell with (Bernie ftw!).
I heard bumble is the real winner now
>>29768894
Yeah man I'm sure thats what literally everyone in your town is like. You're the ONLY one who's remotely intelligent.
How much were you bullied as a kid and why did you deserve it 100% of the time?
>>29768926
>what's your problem
Being surrounded by idiots.
Also constant sub-threshold rage.
>>29768944
Nah man
Have you seen the competition?
We're simply out-classed pal
You are definitely not missing out on anything
>>29768981
I am missing out on gf and probably will for the rest of my life.
>>29768944
>>want to try tinder
>>don't want to blow my hard earned money on a miniature toy computer that
There are Android emulators which let you install apps. Google it.
>>29768959
you experience sub-threshold rage? I recommend you amplify it and let it all out for good this way it won't bother you anymore.
>>29769036
Doesn't work, I have a personality disorder.
>>29769021
I meant by not being able to use Tinder
Besides, you don't even need a smartphone
Just download Bluestacks and run Tinder as a desktop app
>>29769035
>>29769054
I played Fallout Shelter on it for about a day and it asked me to pay up for the emulator.
>>29768157
HAHAHA Look at this dumbass wannabe Don Juan
If you use Tinder to find women then you already failed.
Do you successful tinder users have pictures of yourself doing stuff on there or just a few portraits? I've got friends but we don't take pictures when we hang out. I hate having my picture taken.
>>29769048
which one? if it is schizoid, use opiates or some kava strains that make the bad feels come out (I know I tried them).
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>>29768908
Lol
Iktf, that's why I had to stop using the app
Hookups are generally way more messy and complicated than most would expect
>>29769127
BPD. Nothing seems to make me less irritable and I kind of enjoy being mean to people anyway, although it's probably quite unhealthy.
>>29769135
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>>29767355
FUCKING NORMIES GET THE FUCK OUT YOU FUCKING NORMIE NIGGER CUNTS
>>29769251
Nah, I think I'll stay. What're you gonna do about it?
>>29768753
Yeah, I just think committing to it shoots you in the foot in the long run, comes with a lot of awkward or sad moments or misunderstandings, and usually ends in a moment of clarity that you've essentially been chasing the dragon instead of fostering a much more satisfying, real emotional connection with someone
My general rule in life is to ask, does it sound comfy? And if it is I'll do it, if it's not I probably won't
>>29768158
Fuck off, whore. Kill yourself.
>>29768824
>tfw the only place I can find like-minded people is here
D-d-do I get my free gf coupon n-now?
>>29767822
>qt shy gf
>on tinder
butt ugly girls on tinder still get a million messages a day anon, they have hugely inflated ego's and self worth.
>>29769304
plenty of boi pussy to go around then lol
>>29767684
I guarantee that if you can't generate ONE line to say to a girl, you're not going to get to the point where you can sex with her.
>>29769268
Lament
>>29769065
or just download Android SDK and run android virtual device from there. Or download Virtualbox and put android-x86 inside it.
>No good pictures of me in interesting places or mid-activity
>Profile would be like 4 selfies taken at different angles
This is what stops me from making a tinder
Tinder doesn't work with my shitty android tablet, so I'm stuck with Plenty of Fish. God does it suck. It's almost all blacks, fats, and black fats. And trannies. A bunch of my "mutual matches" are trannies I right swiped because I'm just looking at the pictures for non-black, non-fat shaped faces. I get at least one "wants to meet you" a day, but it's rarely someone I feel the same way about.
Don't worry about not knowing what to say to them, they don't know what to say to you either.
>Oh, you like to cook and you like anime? What's the last thing you cooked and what's your second favorite anime?
>Uh... spaghetti w/ olive oil and Hunter x Hunter.
>Spaghetti with olive oil? Sounds like something I'd like to try... I made scrambled eggs w/ bacon and sausage. My second favorite would have to be Hajime no Ippo, because I like boxing. Let me guess your #1 favorite. It's gotta be Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood, right?
>Nope, One Piece.
I stopped responding here because she's not giving me anything really to work with. And she's a little fat, but I was willing to ignore that if she seemed fun. And that's some pretty childish tastes. Definitely wouldn't want to get stoned and watch the new Berserk with me.
>>29769444
>Plenty of Fish
Holy shit, at least use OkCupid.
>>29769456
I downloaded and filled it out drunk. I woke up with two "wants to meet you"s that didn't look horrible, so I thought why not give it a try.
I'll branch out to other sites & apps once I've exhausted everything from this one.
>>29767865
This. It's discouraging at best and mind-blowingly, alcoholism-inducing miserable.
Tfw like 300 girls
8 like you back
4 talk to you
1 goes on a date with you and never does again
>>29769287
>comes to a thread about meeting women
>tells them to fuck off and kill themselves
Anon, for real though, sort it out
I would try it if it didn't require a Facebook account. I really don't want to create a Facebook account.
>>29769456
Kek, pof is filled with nothing but fat single mothers and BPD trainwrecks, usually they're one in the same.
>>29767733
This. I've had at least 7 matches these past few days. Two of them started strong, but lost steam quick. I'm sure they see a Chad and completely disregard everyone else.
>>29769948
It happens to everyone, including Chads. You need to match with a lot of girls to land even one date. Most girls will lose interest before that.
>>29769235
I was misdiagnosed with BPD before being rediagnosed with SPD
>>29768307
Fucking guys is way easier, just go for it and you'll have more confidence with women.
>>29768123
Not gonna lie dude, I came here from Reddit xD I intend on staying and continuing posting whatever I want since I read the rules and what I'm doing is not against it
Post a good fake job, like "manager at a small software engineering firm" something that isn't too vague or too specific. Something that sounds like you make a lot of money but doesn't sound fake. Preferably something she wouldn't ask too many questions about.
Also do NOT say you still live at home. Don't even say you live in an apartment. Say you live in a condo or your own house if you are older than 25
Also you need proper pics. There are guides online for what kind to take
