Is it true that most people have casual sex in college or is it just a meme?
I don't think I could even get over a girl not being a virgin, having sex with a guy casually sounds disgusting. I'm going to college this year and I was hoping to find a girl I could have a serious relationship with. Is it really that uncommon now?
>>29766249
Join a religious club; you can find virgins there. If you're not very religious, avoid the non-denominational Christian organizations -- they're usually devout and preachy. Instead go for the Lutheran or Episcopalian club, most of the people in those clubs aren't very religious and just attend the club because they are habituated to the church they grew up in.
Also college religious clubs aren't very popular these days so they'll throw free food and free fun at you to try and keep you from quitting. So even if you don't find a waifu it's a good place to be.
>>29766390
I guess there's nothing to lose, I'll give it a shot. But is it really necessary to join a religious club just to meet a decent girl in college? This makes me really regret spending so much time in highschool on personal hobbies instead of going a serious gf.
>>29766447
I remember about 2 months into college when my Facebook feed was filled with high school couples breaking up. Seriously, 99% of those relationships won't last; don't beat yourself up that you didn't get into one.
Yes there are non-religious virgins in college, but to start dating a girl you need to have common interests and a place where you see each-other regularly. So your chances are a lot better in a club (especially a religious club, if virginity is a must) compared to random girls you meet around campus.
Also the people in religious clubs are generally nice and welcoming, even if you're a robot / failed normie.
>>29766563
Alright, but when u checked the Lutheran club for my the college the pictures were full of just old people. I'll check them out, but how many actual students are usually in them?
Most people in high school and college have casual sex. They are usually very secretive about it though.
I've been to only 2 house parties in my life and have walked in on 3 couples banging. And that was before college where you could hear people going at it every night in my dorm (thin walls).
>>29766249
Kind of. I think a lot more people have steady relationships than go and fuck a new person every weekend. It depends on your college status. If you're an athlete in a major program you're probably swinming in sluts. If you're an average guy you probably have a steady GF or get a casual lay here and there.
Most girls aren't spreading their legs for every swinging dick that comes their way, thats a porno myth.
know that feeling. im not a virgin, but ive only had sex with the one girlfriend ive ever had
the thought of being with a girl who was used as a fucktoy is absolutely nauseating
I never had sex in university. Never had a girlfriend.
Although everyone I knew did.
all the fucking time
knew lots of girls who had 'fuck buddies' or friends with benefits during freshman year of college
also knew a girl above me who had sex with 2 guys on the same night
>>29766759
>>29766757
Why didn't we get laid? Why should we be the leftovers?
>>29766847
I was an only child and my mother yelled and ordered me around 90% of the time. I didn't know how to communicate with people or behave in social settings.
I work out, I'm attractive now, and my social problems are mostly gone though still slightly apparent. I do my best to improve myself but my childhood and teenage years were completely and totally wasted.
