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When did you realize love isn't real?
2016-07-06 05:03:08 Post No. 29758458
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When did you realize love isn't real?
Anonymous
2016-07-06 05:03:08
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When you were young, you were taught that love was some sort of innate attraction that compatible people magically felt for each other. You watched cartoon characters meet and saw the little cartoon hearts pop over their heads. Or maybe you saw some romantic movie where the main characters were "destined" to be together.
Then you grew up and became confused when things didn't seem to work out like that. You became jaded and disappointed. Perhaps you felt like you were cheated out of something promised.
This cartoonish version of romance is how women experience love. It's spontaneous, it's magical, the feelings just appear out of the blue. This is how it is to a woman.
Men are supposed to know better. All of this is nonsense.
Women really are like a simple chemical reaction. If you pour the right ingredients in, the chemicals combine and produce attraction. Excepting that which they have for their children, unconditional love is unknown to a woman -- although she isn't aware of it.
Rather, female love is highly conditional. She'll love you as long as you have a nice body, as long as you have a nice house, as long as you display dominant behaviors, and as long as she doesn't have any better alternatives. If you don't meet her conditions, the feelings will just inexplicably "vanish". She won't even be able to explain why, but a man knows.
It's like she has another intelligence in her hindbrain manipulating her emotions in a cold, calculated fashion to guide her towards the situation of greatest personal advantage, irrespective of other people's needs or wants. Behind the pretty face is a hardened negotiator trying to squeeze every single penny out of her opponent, willing to use every dirty trick in the book to achieve her ends. Leaping on any sign of weakness, exploiting any emotional vulnerabilities, deceiving anyone who comes too close to the truth.
In reality "love" is more like a transaction: tit for tat.
The sooner you acknowledge the truth, the better.
