advice pls
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Hello, friends, fembot here.
I started dating a boy I met online recently, he's a fair bit younger than me, at 21, but very sweet and cute, and today I found out he was a virgin. I've never been with a virgin and have no idea what to expect. I've had quite a bit of experience and am not sure how I should treat this, I've had bad sex and good sex and I imagine this will be something different, so that's basically it, I wanted to know what to expect from taking a guys virginity and I though who better to ask about virginity than /r9k/! But really, I'm a bit worried. Want to be considerate but also hoping he'll get the hang of things pretty quick.
>>29750613
>fembot
>dating
>has had sex
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
ew roastie slut go drag you and your ham sandwich cunt back to whatever hole you came out of
>>29750656
>>29750693
That's not very helpful at all.
>>29750613
he probably won't know what he's doing so when you have sex, tell him what feels good or what you want him to do.
>>29750613
>>29750813
It's not supposed to help.
Go fuck yourself nasty fuckin slut.
Don't be worried. I've heard stories of virgin men being absolutely fantastic in bed. However, the only rule that applies is to fucking tell him if he's doing it wrong.
It's not difficult, just tell him what feels good, virgins tend to be quick learners since they're too self conscious about fucking up.
It's actually really great to sleep with a virgin since they don't have bullshit techniques that they think are good.
Just take a long time during foreplay so he can get the hang of it before actually fucking you since there's always the possibility that he might not last too long.
normals.
reeee
ect
>>29750916
But this is an advice thread!!
>>29750894
>>29750996
Yes, I'm prepared to be patient with him.
The not lasting long was a concern, how common is that, should I expect it? How long before we can have sex properly?
Thanks for the input.
>>29750613
If he doesn't know you aren't a virgin, be sure to tell him. Just in case he wants a virgin partner. Which is not the only or even the most likely possibility.
>>29751057
Of course I told him, he's not from 4chan, he doesn't subscribe to those memes.
>>29751056
My advice is to fuck off and kill yourself. You are a disgusting person and better off dead.
>>29751088
But I just want to make sure I go about it considerately.
do not let him inside you. he deserves a better woman that has good decision making skills and isn't a slut.
>>29751079
>preferences are memes
Thanks for the insult.
>>29751115
>>29751160
>>29751165
This is what I mean. You don't belong here, nobody wants you here. You're a selfish disgusting piece of shit and you're inflicting your presence on us like a fucking pestilence. You deserve to have everything bad happen to you, please leave and also end your fucking life.
>>29751251
Calm down, moonpie. He wants to be with me, and I like him too, there is nothing selfish about me wanting to be considerate about taking his virginity. Me having sex with people before him won't affect him in any way.
>>29751165
Well it's not really something that matters. I'm 27, of course I've had sex. I like sex.
>>29751160
I'm not a slut!
>>29751368
You very obviously are a slut and you are taking advantage of this poor kid. Maybe as some kind of momentary ego boost that you're "still got it gurl" before you hit the wall at 30 and become the haggard used up whore you were always meant to be. Meanwhile he'll be left bitter and used.
>>29751368
roastie whores thinking they arent whore
this is comedy gold
>>29751422
You're being totally silly.
>>29751368
How many guys are we talking here?
>>29751560
Eight guys and a girl. All but one were during exclusive relationships though.
>>29750613
Fuck off norman roastie whore you don't deserve sex as you are used goods, the guy deserves a virgin and not a slut like you.
>>29751056
>How long before we can have sex properly?
In my experience, never.
>tfw PE
>>29751782
Do you mean you were with a boy who had PE, or you do? Aren't there ways to just practice controlling it or something?
When I was 19 I had a boyfriend who would prematurely get off, it was extremely frustrating for both of us, he couldn't last more than a few thrusts it felt like. I couldn't enjoy sex regardless of how much time he spent trying to make up for it with foreplay, and I could tell it probably frustrated him even more. I felt really bad for him, but it didn't improve with like, three months of sex. The frustration coupled with it ruining his self-esteem killed our relationship.
>>29751929
>Do you mean you were with a boy who had PE, or you do?
I do.
I can fap and get blowjobs and handjobs just fine, but as soon as I'm in a pussy I bust. It's all mental. After I lost my virginity in three thrusts, I started cumming early while jerking it too. After about 5 months the stress went away and I could fap normally again, but I've still never gotten over it. From what I can tell, all the "exercises" and such are only meant to increase your confidence. The only time I managed to last was after already nutting earlier, but then I couldn't cum at all. But I guess if you just want to get off then that's the trick.
I've also had my self-esteem destroyed by this, so I get where he was coming from.
fucking vaginal jew takes another victim
>>29752253
It's kinda hard to wrap my mind around, the not being able to control it at all in such a short period of time, but I believe you when you say it is mental, at first I thought he was just selfish and would get a bit angry but it was clear he really wanted to last longer.
That must be a pretty awful thing to deal with, I don't think I could do another relationship with a guy who can't last again, part of the reason I'm a bit worried about being with a virgin.
pls great mods, remove this thread and permaban this roaster.
