Calling all "fembots".
How many of you have never been approached by a guy? I mean never been asked out, never had anyone crushing on you or hitting on you.Relating to the recent threads on rejecting girls and never being approached.inb4 this thread gets 0 replies
Does getting asked out when you're like 13 count?
I've been hit on and asked out by A lot of ugly guys but I don't even think counts that as being hit on
>>29748229
I've never been hit on or crushed on, then again I don't go out much nor do I really talk to anyone online.
>>29748265
How old are you now? Never had anyone interested since then?
>>29748272
That's pretty ungrateful desu, a lot of robots would remember that shit forever if a girl showed interest in them.
>>29748229
I have never been asked out on a date and my only real interaction romantically with men have been when I was wasted and made out with guys at college parties. Granted, I am fat and shy around men so I get it. Still doesn't feel good tho desu
>>29748601
why don't you lose weight? not interested?
>>29748229
Me
I've asked guys out before but they all said no
Even ugly guys reject me. I just want someone to accept my affection
>>29748272
Nice bait, it worked on someone!
>>29748272
FUCKING SELF ENTITLED ROASTIES LIKE YOU ARE THE WORST KIND OF WOMEN
GET OUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>29748671
are you ugly or just annoying?
>>29748645
It's hard to lose weight especially when I have relied on eating as a coping mechanism for so long but I do try every day to better my health both mentally and physically
>>29748904
Not sure if you are still here, but, come to /fa/ and find the /thinspo/ thread. I lost 60lbs there. Not everyone is anorexic on it, lots of people like us just wanting to lose weight.
irl i've never been actually approached or hit on. online i guess i've had people that liked me but nothing serious.
my sister is a 300 pound super butch lesbian with resting bitch face, and she gets hit on 20% of the time when she goes out.
it's kind of inevitable.
I have never been approached, asked out or hit on (or "crushed" on, to my knowledge) in my entire life, but then again I'm fat, autistic, and stopped going outside after age 14, so it's not that surprising. Yes, if I really wanted to I could find someone desperate enough on craigslist but honestly so could most male robots, you just don't want to fuck meth-addled single moms and I don't want casual sex at all, so here we are.
>>29750184
Same here. Never irl, but some extremely desperate guys have expressed shallow interest online.
>>29750526
>extremely desperate guys have expressed shallow interest online
If you've wanted sex, it's in your hand-reach but no you need ultra-Chad to satisfy you.
About 3
But I scare myself with my shitty personality and then I end up running away from committing
I've only been approached by guy who was drunk so does that count?
>>29748601
>tfw even fat women can get attraction from the opposite sex
>tfw never been fat and never even kissed a girl
>>29750526
>>29750786
Still counts.
>women thinking they can know struggle and pain
top fucking kek
>>29750829
Do you let your desperation show?
Women can smell it, It's a real turn off for me imho. It's like a sign that I'd be dropped quickly after a couple rounds of sex
>>29750829
>tfw fat and still get ton of attention from girls
>>29748229
I've never been hit on or crushed on, unless you count the one time 40yo niggers catcalled me when I was thirteen.
>tfw mixed signals of people telling me I'm ugly and I'm hot
>tfw every time I get hit on, I think they're just joking
>>29750852
I don't really think getting approached by a man old enough to be my dad who was day drinking outside a gas station really makes my life one without struggles.
>>29750952
>be bf
>have fat gf
>she loses weight
>leaves me for Chad at the exact second when she loses weight
>>29750888
I don't think so, I'm usually quite restrained in conversations, mainly because I don't have any confidence with women and am beyond hope when it comes to inexperience. That's probably why they loathe me, not "desperation"
>>29750910
fuck off normie
>>29748229
Me.
>wasn't allowed to date in high school
>introverted
>handicapped
>didn't leave home for collegedropped out
>stacies at work were always approached but never me
i only get approached online
Only homeless men and FOTB immigrant men that are 30+ have tried to hit on me. I don't think anyone's ever had a crush on me.
>>29751067
Sorry man just having a guess, but no women I know would loath you for being restrained, at most I guess I would assume you wouldn't want to talk at all
>>29751113
how old are you? if you are mid 20s then 30 year olds hitting on you is fucking awesome.
>>29751131
It's more I don't know how to talk to people, or make friends easily. It's like I've lost all my social skills over the last few years. I'm hopelessly insecure and too self hating, idiotic and useless to make a good partner at this point anyway.
>>29751107
>handicapped
What do you have anon?
Literally every woman who says no is lying or simply too autistic to understand when someone is hitting on them.
I lived in the ultra rural country til I was 16 nearly 17. of the people my age range there were 6 girls including myself and 3 guys. All three of which ended up with different girls and never really talking to me. me and my dad then moved to a bigger town right before my 17th birthday. I was 19 the first time a guy asked me out and I didn't even realize it was a date til like 4 hours into hanging out with him. I was used to hanging out with guys and girls as groups so when he said "you wanna go out sometime" I was thinking "hang out? sure!"
Since then I've been asked out twice by friends of friends but never a random person.
>>29751212
How do you even hit on women? I don't get it. Probably why I'm a virgin. I just can't comprehend them being interested in me.
Only time I'm ok talking to them is about something related to a certain task, like a job or essay. Casual talk and flirting is just incomprehensible for me.
>>29751195
How old are you though?
I feel that my want to socialize is deteriorating already even though I have just graduated
>>29751067
>fuck off normie
Fat people usually have decent personalities as oppose to skinny angry people.
>>29751285
I don't even know what flirting is until it's full on physical contact. So I dunno tbqh
>>29751176
Why is it awesome? I thought older men had lower standards?
>>29751285
>>29751195
ITT we describe the universal robot struggle
>>29750829
>tfw 6'2", thin, decent face
>never had a girl show any interest in me
>kissless virgin
>my standards are literally "have a vagina"
>still nothing
Just feels pretty hopeless
>>29751333
21. I feel like my situation has been getting worse for a long time.
>>29751354
it's not that, i'm calm irl, just annoyed about normie boasting on r9k
>>29751354
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
An ugly guy liked me when I was 14
>>29750575
not her but I want a boy to tease me about things he knows I'm slightly awkward/embarrassed about because he finds my reactions cute. a guy whose only standard is "has a pulse" thinks you can be replaced with 50% of the human population.
>>29751582
>I want a boy to tease me
So Chad?
>>29751616
only chads see girls as something vulnerable, delicate, precious, etc? I'm not interested in feminism and "equal relationships"
>fembot
Good joke, women can't be robots.
> approach girls
> chat them up
> ask if they want to do something sometime
> they say no
> get discouraged from trying
You do it to yourselves, ladies.
>>29751653
So according to you how should you and your bf be in relationship?
Does someone want to talk sometimes?[email protected]
I might not reply right away because of my job
>>29751582
Fucking oath.
Not necessarily the whole teasing thing I want but I don't want someone who claims their standards are low because it feels like you were there, existing and you'll suffice for a short amount of time
>>29751656
When women are visibly repulsed by you, it makes you want to give up. I'll never forget the first one I asked out saying "eww". She was pretty plain and chubby too. Some of us should've been aborted desu
>>29748229
I have not been asked out. I did ask a guy out and got rejected.
>>29751656
I have
It fucking sucks
>>29751721
I actually despise women who do that omfg.
Thankfully i am flat chested and never got any interest besides some guy asking me out when I was working at walmart (he proceeded to go and ask every other female associate out so I wasn't special) and someone walking by me saying 'cute'.
>>29748229
embarrassing things when i was in school made it so only autistic robots would even try
swiggity swooty i like them more anyway
except they never take it beyond holding hands and just stop talking to me eventually
rip
by now i dont even want anyone and just want to cuddle my eevee indoors
>>29751787
I thought it was going pretty well, we were talking normally, I'd made her laugh often before, thought she liked me back since she was becoming more talkative around me and (what I assumed was) flirtatious. So I told her how I felt and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, got shut down completely.
Destroyed my confidence, never recovered. No woman has ever shown interest in me so I guess it's true, maybe she was trying to be polite or something, I don't fucking know...
>>29751703
A nice 60-40 patriarchal relationship.
>>29751839
>by now i dont even want anyone and just want to cuddle my eevee indoors
Post Eevee :3
>there are this many fembots in r9k right now
>some of them are trolls
i can count 3 actual fembots in this thread
>>29751903
Sounds like my kind of woman, at least you know your place.
ayayayyyyyayayyyayayayayayyayyyayayyyyy
>>29751886
God that is shit, I was assuming it was something that occurred in grade 7 cause that is the only year I heard a girl respond like that. Fuck that's immature
>>29751903
>fembot
>patriarchy
is media lying to me?
>>29751930
I don't think I am a fembot, I don't think they exist. However, females exist and they can be here, it's just not comfortable to say you're female anywhere on r9k because of the fakes, and the misogynists who get baited by the fakes, and rinse repeat
I don't really like approaching guys, fear of rejection, so I usually just wait for them to come to me, or at most try to hint that I'm interested, usually works out fine.
>>29752027
THE MEDIA NEVER LIES
IT WOULDN'T DARE
>>29752047
Give examples of hints? Are those universal hints? I feel like I've missed a lot of opportunities for not getting the hints
>>29752231
I'll save her the trouble of replying.
>Looks at you
>Maybe a smile
>>29752231
It really doesn't take much, if I catch him looking my way I'll be sure to make eye contact, maybe smile at him. If it's someone I talk to I'll just be sure to stand close or pretend I'm really interested in what he's saying.
You can win over just about any guy you want if you are patient enough.
>>29752263
>having a girl giving you these clear signs
Oh then nah, I didn't miss anything
>>29752272
>You can win over just about any guy you want
>You can win over just about any guy you want
>You can win over just about any guy you want
>You can win over just about any guy you want
This is why fembots don't exist.
>>29752263
>>29752272
Women are so uncreative and plain it's painful
>>29751839
this desu
despite being smart and having a decent face, I only attracted legitimate special ed/retard guys. like the 400lb one that wore the naruto headband every day and smelled like three months of B.O.
it just doesn't count. it's not even feasible.
I'm not picky, but I can't date a literal retard.
>>29752356
But I don't need creative ways to get what I want, I'll just throw on a tight sweater or something.
>>29752409
I hope you're a troll cause if you're not than you know how to play the game and I'm scared.
>>29752441
youre stupid if you think women dont manipulate men just like the other anon you're arguing with supposedly does.
>>29752553
I would hardly call that manipulating, and men are just as manipulative if it is. It's just about doing your best to get what you want. If someone pushes something in a way you don't like, you're free to move along.
>>29752356
>>29752272
I would call her a cunt for being so lazy about it, but I have seen a girl try really hard on me; and yes, they are fucking scary when they do that for some unexplainable reason.
>>29751961
We were both older than that sadly. idk if women were any different for the rest of my time in school, hardly bothered with them anyway
I've never been asked out or hit on, no. If someone had a crush on me, they never told me. There was sexual abuse from my father, but that doesn't count, I think.
>>29752272
This really sound like a cliche movie club scene.
