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Fuck I am new to this Tinder shit and I have a few questions.
1. How normal is it to be super liked? I've gone through 20 or so people now and have now encountered 2.
2. What's normal etiquette for super likes? Should I match with them because they super liked me? Even if I'm only "meh" on them?
3. How picky should you be? I matched with 3 so far, and none of them are really of any particular interest but they also aren't boring, they're just kinda average.
4. Should I always initiate the conversations? I'm a guy btw.
>>29746666
nice quads. but my best advice is to not waste your time anon.
There's isn't a reason to not talk to all those who like/superliked you and yes initiate the convo since women only know how to talk about themselves most of the time (bring up some dumbshit she wrote in her bio)
Don't pick someone who isn't worth your time
>Is it normal to be super liked?
Not as much as you think. Essentially it means that you or the other person just wants to get your attention more instead of a regular like
>What's normal etiquette for super likes
Because you are using a hookup-dating app, there is no such thing as etiquette. If you do match with someone you do not like or even remotely want to converse with, don't pity super like them. This will give them the impression you are really interested in them
>How picky should you be?
This is all you. It is incredibly unlikely you will find the perfect one who will also like you. You have to compromise
>Should I always initiate the conversations?
Are you gay or straight? If you are gay, then it doesn't matter. If you are straight and a guy, you don't. If you are a girl, yes.
>>29746666
>be me
>go to uncle's beach house for the 4th
>decide to try out tinder
>literally only match with nonwhites (poo in loos, chinks, beaners, nigresses)
They were all fairly attractive otherwise I wouldn't have liked them, but 75% at least of the girls on tinder were white though.
LIITERALLY WTF!!!
I'm not even a bad looking guy. Maybe not a male model but I'm fairly well-built, have a good jaw, and am 5'9" so average height. Anyone else experience something like this? I understand nonwhite women would value me more on the sexual market but this is fucking ridiculous.
I guess I never really realized how fucking spoiled white girls are until now.
I saw this this morning also. Really makes you think: https://imgur.com/a/z5JmC#8PJsR1P
>haven't gotten a match in weeks
I might just delete it guys.
>>29746666
nice quads m8
Also what do you put in your description? I'm brand new to tinder and just put what university I'm going to next year.
I set up a tinder and have got about 6 matches. Mostly chubby Latina and black girls. I haven't had any luck with it but I'm kinda a social retard and don't have good pics.
>>29746940
for me it just made me feel even worse about myself. That's when i realized that I wouldn't be able to find anyone other than a fucking roastie (if i was to get a match)
>actually getting superliked
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>29746666
My chad friend gave me great advice on how to begin conversations on tinder. Begin it with a cheesy pick up line like "Are you Abe Lincoln because you're causing an uprising down south." So they know you're a fun guy but also that they know this is about sex, and they'll e turned on by your bluntness which will come off as manliness. That worked for me at least.
>be black nontyrone
>live in a large city, mostly white area
>swipe right on 99% of girls in my area
>literally 0 matches in almost a month
>the ones that do match are disgusting
>even they stop replying after a few messages
my semi-autisic skelly white friend gets hundreds when he was on it but now he has a gf. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>29746955
Just where abouts I live and that I like running, traveling, biking, fitness, and relaxing in a hammock.
>>29746980
Nigger tinder is nothing but roasties. Its literally an app for hooking up. You're not gonna find hat pure virgin waifu on an app for pre marital sex.
>>29746888
>If you are straight and a guy, you don't.
So I should not initiate conversations as a straight guy?
You have two options:
Delete it and run
Become someone who you're not and try to get laid
good luck
Super-likes are usually accidental, nobody uses them because it looks desperate.
>>29747059
exactly, thats why i stopped using it.
Are all the people who use tinder super normies? I want to use it but I have never used a dating site or app before and also I am gay and scared guys will only want sex.
>>29747052
Do you think I should put my height? I'm 5'9" so only average, but a couple of the pictures make me look a little short (I have no better photos of me doing shit that show my face). I've had the app for a couple of days and have only had 3 matches and I'm wondering if thats because girls think I'm short.
>>29747163
Height is usually the first thing women will ask you so you might as well put your height there.
>>29747080
> it looks desperate
Is this true?
>>29747074
Just b33 yourself :)))
Kys
>out of town, visiting family in California
>check out Tinder to compare the locals
>first girl is qt 7/10
>2nd girl is 9/10 tired eyed qt
>send super likeI get excited about the idea of her messaging me but then I realize I won't do anything about, I won't be able to arrange a meet up and the most I can ask for is someone to text for a week
>>29748013
I know that feel broseph
>>29746666
>Just downloaded the app
>Accidentally superliked a fatty because I didn't know that was a thing
>hoping she doesn't match me
Not off to a great start. Not really sure why I am using it desu, I hate making conversation with strangers
>>29748977
because you want to lose your virginity
>>29746918
>5'9"
king of manlets
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You might remember me as the autistic /p/ gear fag from the last tinder thread.
Well... SHE REPLIED TO ME ABOUT PHOTOGRAPHY, YOU LITTLE SHITS. FUCK YOU FOR MAKING FUN OF ME.
Apparently, "be yourself" is actually good advice. It helps that I'm not ugly and fat.
>>29746666
Satanic quads
Stay away from online dating. I started last year in June and it has been the worst thing I have ever done. It's all about getting your hopes up and wasting time. 12 different guys in 13 months and only three of them made it past the 3rd date. I'm currently trying to drag myself out of depression because I thought I had a chance but it didn't work out.
Avoid online dating at all costs. If you meet someone it'll happen.
>>29749588
It's not just Be Yourself
it's Don't give a Fuck
Men and women are both attracted to that
>tinder is a sex app
Fucking gross... trying to get it to work right now.
>>29749724
how do u do that?
>tfw have never had a smartphone and there is an entire world of apps and society that I'm not even a part of
>>29746666
In my experience super likes are done mostly on accident. If you're the guy and you don't get a message 24 hours within the match you have to answer. Be picky but don't wait too long. If you wait over a week the roasties get mad that you were being selective and you weren't their first pick.
>>29749588
Well "be yourself" really depends on what you are, photography is a hobby people usually find cool, messaging girls about their hobbies is also something they like and makes you stand out in a positive way so you lucked out there
>>29746666
Can anyone that's using tinder tell me if you have to add new pictures when you're signing in with facebook, because i have like 3 pictures, none of which actually show my face, on there (not to mention they're pretty old).
>>29749665
>if you meet someone
Well there you go. If all I had to do was meet people (which is hard enough already) I would have a harem by now
>>29749665
have you considered that you might be the problem?
>>29750578
>photography
>cool
I doubt many girls will be interested if I start trying to talk about the pros and cons of mirrorless vs dslr
>>29750672
You can upload from mobile now
>>29751847
Alright, so it won't default to any facebook pictures?
>swipe right on girl
>it's a match
>seconds later removes me
THEN WHY'D YOU FUCKING SWIPE ME RIGHT YOU STUPID BITCH REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>average looking but I have a couple good photos on my profile so I get a lot of matches
>all students because of where I live
>every conversation consists of:
Do you go to my university?
Do you have a job?
Do you own a car?
then they stop replying
>>29752196
>work up courage to message
>send it
>doesnt respond or removes me
gettin real sick n tired of these roasters...
>made a tinder as female and liked everyone
>they message 90% of the time with hi ;)
>somehow this is not appealing whatsoever
why would the roastie right swipe
Holy fuck this thread is full of normans
>>29746666
>How normal is it to be super liked?
Almost never happens, because it comes off as desperate
>How picky should you be?
Not very. I would actually start a conversation before being picky.
>Should I always initiate the conversations?
You have little other choice, since girls almost never message first.
>Most women are either Stacies or Tumblrinas
I think I'm done with Tinder, I don't see myself ever being happy with a majority of the people on there. Is there a dating website with less basic bitches?
So I set tinder up last week, I have about 13 matches, most of them are cute and pretty decent looking 7/10+.
My issue is I'm never sure what to message them about. Apparently messaging shit like " Hey, hows it going?" is to generic. Not really sure how to start a conversation off if they have nothing in their bio, and even if they do I don't wanna come across like an autist.
Also when I match with a solid 9/10 I feel as if its a practical joke from school. Fuck me I never knew how damaged I was until I set this shit up
>>29750339
be smug and playful. talk about things you are really interested in, even if its not in her sphere of interest. she will appreciate the passion you can have for something.
>>29754830
talk about them. bring up a detail from their profile in a question based format. let them talk about themselves, but also have your own opinions.
>tfw someone matches with you
>too afraid to talk to them
I'm 24 and it's all been 24+ girls even though I look like I'm 18. Are they going to rob me? 3 out of 4 initiated contact by sending a phone number.
The only one I actually talked to straight up said she wanted "sum d" on the 4th or 5th message kinda weirded me out. I want to get laid but don't want the aids.
Am I supposed to invite them for drinks or to my house or what?
how the fuck do i get tinder. i dont have a phone
>>29754821
>all the tumblrina dyke normans who want to fuck other girls but call themselves "bi" and reduce the pool of women further
>>29749588
jump on "we should get together and take nude photos"
>>29755554
bluestacks, then get .apk file for tinder.
So how long do I have to contact them. Should I say I'm a virgin? They'll definitely know I'm weird as fuck. I'm afraid they'll see me in person and realize I'm an autist skelly and leave. Or see beta bux and stick around, both seem shitty.
>>29755554
You need a phone and facebook.
>setup facebook for solely this purpose, upload a single photo
>real firstname, fake lastname
>suggests people I might know
>I actually know them
wtf
>>29752196
Around 4/5 girls do this to me
I don't really get it but it feels bad desu
>>29746666
Best Advice I can give for tinder is
1. EVERYONE IS THERE FOR THE SAME THING, except a few jackasses
2. DO NOT CONVERSE WITH GIRLS ON TINDER, KEEP IT SHORT AND SWEET, CLEVER PICK UP LINE=> MOVE ONTO A BIT OF SMALL TALK TRY FIND SOME TOPICS TO TALK ABOUT WHEN YOU ACTUALLY MEET HER=> ASK IF SHES UP FOR A DATE
>CONVERSING AND CHATTING WILL MAKE TALKING IRL HARDER CAUSE THIS WAY YOU GUYS WOULD'VE TALKED ABOUT SOME TOPICS
>Girls love cheesy shit, you can pull cheesy shit off if the girl is considerably less attractive than you or you're quite attractive yourself
>Don't cringe and try break from the "status quo" you'll look tryhard and idiotic
>Never text more than twice in a row and don't expect fast replies
>>29746666
Are you only allowed 1 account per phone? I'm trying to make a fake account as a girl to see what the competition is it keeps saying theres an error when I request the verification code with my phone number.
>>29754477
why do we even try
we lost the genetic lottery, we just need to accept there's no hope for us and move on
No matches. Now im depressed. Been on bed all day for a couple days now. Barely sleep at all. Tired.
>Find a qt
>Same age and same location
>Same interests
>Has a bio thats nearly identical to mine
>Near the end of the bio
>"My main priority in life is my son"
God fucking dammit.
>Mention MTG in my bio
>Girl messages me first about having a deck
>Talk a bit tease her some, make a few sexual references
>she seems responsive
>Ask for her number so we can play a game or two together
>No response
RIP she was cuteish
Tinder is pretty fun, I have almost 2,000 matches on there but I don't often message anyone. I'm good looking but just fucking autistic in IRL.
>>29757963
How the fuck do you find a woman that isn't a single mom or isn't a single mom that doesn't want kids?
I don't want little shits of my own, and I sure as hell don't want to raise some other man's.
>>29758128
Post pic of yourself
jnhbgvbhnj
>>29756568
Me again. This message keeps happening every time I put in my phone number. Somebody help reeeeeeeee
>>29758336
bump
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>>29758336
>>29756568
Come on you fuckers actually fucking help me for once instead of spiral me into depression and social isolation
>>29759316
somebody pls help
>>29759459
plllllllllllls
reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
fuggin niggers
>>29749588
dont ruin it now
>>29758336
>>29759316
>>29759459
>>29759960
i honestly dont know m8
try rebooting or force close empty cache etc
check if ur facebook still works
tfw youve prob swiped right on over 500 girls and only got one match who was just one of your friends trolling you.
Meh, I had for a little over a week and got like 8 matches overall. Currently have a dates set up with 2 of them later this week.
They're not the best looking, but whatever. I'm lonely and seeking companionship/sex.
>>29746666
When you do get a match and setup a date what the fuck do you do? Take her to some restaurant then slyly invite her back to your place?
Any bots got good advice?
Success stories?
>>29760054
>tfw been swiping right on average or better girls for 3 weeks
>tfw talked to two actual girls
>tried to set up meeting one after texting for 2 days
>cancelled last minute, proceeded to ghost
>my life when
>>29755292
those are not real people. spam accounts/bots
Hello.. How often do you guys get matches??
I've been using tinder for almost two weeks, using all my swipes, and I have gotten ZERO matches. What the fuck is this?
>even the ugly ones you accidentally swipe right on don't swipe right on you
>>29762076
I've had it one week and I have 60 matches and secured dates with 3 girls. Then I will inevitably sperg out in person probably.
>>29762293
You have more matches in a fucking week than I have in 3 months. Fuck you
>>29762293
>60 matches
CHAD FUCK OFF
>>29749588
I told you she was just asleep man.
>>29762293
With 60 matches you should be doing a lot better than only 3 dates.
