>>29716912
1. record him saying it
2. go to police
3. ???
4. Profit

>>29716953
it's not legal to record people against their will in new york state

Every corner of the legal system will be on your side if that happen you know. Keep those chatlogs

>He

Nah. Dropped, bitch. You got what you deserved.

>get his phone/pc
>delete nudes
>take pictures of his flaccid penis
>dump him
>post his name, address, phone number and nudes online
>preferabbly as some kind of willing trap bf
>call police and say "I want this fucker to stay away from me"

Grin and bear it for a while. The best laid plans require patience.

Having all that stuff happen to you will not end your life. Just tell people you were with an asshole that did all that to get back at you, and they'll get over it.
Good luck OP, I hope you find a guy that can apreciate how lucky they are to have you.

>>29716912
even if he posts everything about you and nudes it's really not even a big deal. There are like 5000 nudes of me floating around online and I don't even care, because even if someone recognized me in real life they would just assume me a look a like anyways.

It literally doesnt matter

or you could kill him.

>>29716962
So? Just go to the police, everything is saved on your computer anyways and they will be able to get the chat log without you having to save it manually

>>29716963
he says it on skype with me, i can't record it
and he never says it twice because he suspects i might record it
>>29716973
because he's the only guy i've ever been with and sent nude pictures to, i trusted him to keep my purity but he's a scumbag
>>29716977
i have twice the amount of info on him than he does on me, i just don't want it to get that far
>>29717017
i just valued my body and didn't want it getting passed around for the internet to jerk off too
i guess that's impossible in this day and age

1. Tell him you want to have sex
2. Take pics of him after he gets naked
3. Threaten to post his nudes and info if he posts yours
4. Break up with him

>>29717065
he says no one cares about a guys body so it won't "stick"

>>29717055
>i just valued my body and didn't want it getting passed around for the internet to jerk off too
Why would you knowingly take nude pictures of yourself then you retard.

Hey OP.

Someone has done this to me before, multiple times.

Where I live, it is completely legal to beat someone's ass and the cops don't give a shit, so I broke the faggot's nose and beat his face in. I took his unconscious body into my car and threw him in a ditch out of town. He had his phone with me and shaking it in front of my face and he had left it at my apartment when he dropped it while I was kicking his ass, so I had his phone. I buried it underground in the forest and I have no idea where it is now.

Stop being a cuck and kick this faggot's ass. If he threatens you, like I said, kick his ass. If you live in a "le peaceful society", then record him threatening you and give a .wav to the cops. He'll get fucked probably.

>>29717088
Because she trusted him, you fucking autist.

>>29717100
If OP is a woman that's really not an option.

>>29717118

True, but the guy does make a good point about hiding the phone. OP, if you're 100% certain that the nudes exist only on his phone and that he didnt back them up anywhere, then steal his phone when he's not looking and bury it somewhere. Break it into pieces for good measure.

>>29717139
it's on his computer
i can't really do that
he also threatened to send them to my parents and in the mail

>>29717139
Don't just bury it obviously. Those phones have GPS. Take apart the phone and take out the board. Then take the remaining pieces and break it to fucking oblivion. If he has it backed up, then you know, kick his ass. Who cares about male nudes anyways. If you're a female, you can break the phone anyways since you can't kick his ass.

>>29717055
>he says it on skype with me, i can't record it
Why couldn't you record it? Stop being dumb, get a male-to-male aux cable if you have no better idea. If you want to make legal excuses, stream some shit game on livestream while you're on skype with him, livestream saves streams.
But, better yet, just dump him and sue him if he goes through with the threats, you can get dosh or get him in jail or both
>>29717139
That guy would have to be the biggest retard in the world to threaten someone with pictures that are only saved in one place

>>29716912

phone number, normiebook, and such --> just prepare new ones (with the most paranoid privacy features set), and slowly and silently prepare to abruptly trash the old ones.
wipe out all people who aren't absolutely 100% reliable.

nudes --> you gullible stupid, do you actually think that nudes always get spread when you least expect? hard-learnt lesson.

do plan something to slightly but permanently change your hairdo and your body, and silently start searching for a job 500 miles far from there.

and, most important of all, immediately talk about it to your attorney.

>TL;DR: I was blackmailed by a gay guy who fell for me and never accepted his "love" was unrequited. I literally disappeared from that wasted town. Eventually the lucky gay found my whereabouts one year later, but got a letter from my attorney.

You should totally consult with the police by the way. What he is doing is 100% illegal. I'm not a lawfag, but I know that it is 100% illegal to blackmail someone like this. Ideally, the cops would seize all of his computers and wipe them...hopefully he doesn't have them saved in the cloud.

Also, if you happened to be under the age of 18 when any of those pics were taken, then the nudes constitute child porn, so that fucker would be doubly fucked.

>>29717114
>trusting anyone ever

>>29716977
>>delete nudes

I hope he has an iPhone, who will spread the deletions command.

I don't have an iPhone, and always backup on my PCs (home and office) all pics.

>and he never says it twice because he suspects i might record it

this is proof that he needs a hard lesson.
very hard.

>sent nude pictures to, i trusted him to keep my purity
- purity
- nudepics
choose one.
Oh, you actually chose. And it wasn't purity.

>>29716912
If he tells you about it in a skype video call you could tape it with a screen recorder like Bandicam ( has a limit of 10 minutes recording ) or mayby Ezvid ( not quite sure whether this one records sounds so check that).
There's a lot of options to get him and even if he posts that stuff online, that'll just be the point that you can get the police involved. In any case, screen record him saying that stuff and save the video as evidence. You could go through his phone but he could get violent about that so be careful and when confronting him irl have someone with you to protect you just in case.

OP. Set up an appointment with a lawyer. Today. Not tomorrow. You need legal advice immediately. We, Anons, can only help you so much. Unless you want to handle this in a nefarious way (like magnetizing his computer's hard drive), which could possibly make the situation worse, you should speak to a lawyer immediately to figure out what the best course of action is. Your scummy EX-boyfriend (he's no longer your boyfriend because, contrary to what his ignorant ass believes, breaking up only takes 1 person to decide) is 100% in the wrong. He is literally a criminal at this point. God Speed.

>>29717155
go ot the fucking police

they will have a record of it

then ask for assistance when you try to leave so they can make sure you leave him safely

he will either fuck up and release your nudes and you will learn a valuble lesson to not do something so stupid in the future, or you can keep making the same mistakes and be a real fucking idiot and stay with this guy who will likely do even worse things in the future becuase he will see how much he has broken you

fucking go o the police, give your parents a forwarning that you need help this guy is going to send nudes to them if you break up and they will know to dleete them when he mails

which by the way, fuckin tell your parents that
if my kid told me someone was going to send me their nudes (and they were over 18) if they broke up i would hlep my kid but also i would simply not look at the fucking picutres, i dont need or want to see my kid naked so if im expecting the email i wont look

telling your parents and police is the best option

unless you are actually famous which you are probably not, you will jsut join the billion of other nameless nude girls on the net where even if soeone recognizes you, you simply say you had an ex who took advantage of you and would rather not talk about it
its 2016 you tihnk anyone fuckin cares shit

thank you anons
i guess i'll call my local police station and see what an officer has to say
i don't have an attorney so i'll just talk to the police
just know that if all this info suddenly pops up on /r9k/ or /b/ within the next week i couldn't stop it and i hope you'll report the threads and move on
he's a real asshole, he treats me like garbage, we sit on skype together all day and he just plays video games and ignores me, if i go to post on 4chan about anything he immediately asks what i'm writing and who i'm talking to, if i hang up he threatens me, i went to live with him for a month and he choked me and beat me twice before i had to get my brother to come pick me up
please don't let this guy have his way when he posts my shit here

>>29717341
>and i hope you'll report the threads and move on
Give us a teaser OP so we know what to look for.

>>29717341
nigger, you're incredibly self-centered, nobody would know that it's you and nobody would care that it's you

>>29717341
>sits on skype all day and plays videogames

Wait is this an LDR mostly? You said you stayed with him for a month but does he live in the same state as you? If he doesn't, I'm not sure that the police can or will do anything.

>>29717188
>>29717275
>>29717318

Listen to these anons, they have the best advice. Talk to the cops, warn your parents and friends. Hell, let EVERYBODY know this piece of shit is threatening you with blackmail, and he will basically lose all his power.

Also get a restraining order against him, he sounds like a sociopath.

there's naked pictures of millions of girls online, odds are nobody you know will see them

>>29717373
>>29717373
She's not self-centered. It's HER fucking thread. How fucking idiotic are you? inb4 someone calls me a beta orbiter

>>29717341
Good, OP. You're doing the right thing. Just make sure that he doesn't find out you called the cops. Call them when you are at home and then delete the call history from your phone. This guy is 100% garbage. If a man ever hits a woman for any reason, he is the lowest degenerate trash.

>>29717414
he lives in upstate new york and i live on long island
also i'm trans if that makes any difference

>>29717341
r9k isn't a board made particulary for nudes and if your details were posted on some other board some might save them but most would just skip it since it happens more often than you think. Next time please get to know your partner a lot more before sending such private things to him, he's obviously a pathetic obsessive person and those are unfortunately the most dangerous to girls. I hope your local police will be able to help you and again, warn your parents about this as soon as possible.

>>29717432
>tranny

lel

>>29717432
I think police can get involved then, also how old are the two of you? Both 18+? Also I don't think being a tranny is going to effect anything.

>>29717452
i'll go to the police first thing later during the day, although it's the 4th of july and i don't really want to bother them with that
>>29717488
i'm 23 and he's 24
i just don't know if it'll get glanced over because of that, idk i'm just scared

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>>29716912
let me be your deadpool dude OP

>>29717506
If you had been on tumblr you would've had an entire army of SJW behind you right now. Not that they are very usefull besides just making lives of some people miserable by finding their contact information and making sure they get fired ect..

>>29717506
I doubt it'd get glossed over normally, though, with it being July 4th there's a chance it'll get overlooked because NY is a shithole and I'm sure it'll be busy as fuck for them.

Also if you're a tranny then nudes is basically just dickpics right? Nobody is going to recognize your dick, why are you worried about him spreading shit? The fear from physical abuse is understandable though.

>>29717568
i'm not that kind of tranny, i'm more of the self-hating type, it doesn't really help me go out and ask for help like this
ugh i'm hyperventilating i need to calm down
it's not that bad though right? i just need to stop worrying about it and act like it's happened already because it's bound to
>>29717584
full body pictures, idk it's more of my birthname getting out there, getting hunted down for being a tranny or getting my house egged or whatever because of the whole trans bathrooms drama

>>29717432
>trans

stopped caring right there, faggot

>>29717616
>it's more of my birthname getting out there, getting hunted down for being a tranny or getting my house egged or whatever because of the whole trans bathrooms drama

not gonna happen

>>29717631
it's hard for me to even leave the house sometimes because of my paranoia and now this asshole's making it worse
should i just kill myself so it doesn't happen

>>29716962
Revenge porn is also illegal in New York. If he posts it then you can call the police on him.

he's awake i have to stop posting or he'll ask what i'm doing
i'll try to figure out what to do based on the advice you guys gave me here
sorry for bringing my problems here, i know this isn't /adv/ but i just spend so much time here i thought you guys could help

>>29717616
I doubt anyone would hunt you down. Trust me, you would need to be some innocent >17 year old virgin girl who gives away this info and more herself that lives near some pervert who is on 4chan before that happens. Nobody on the internet cares whether someone is trans or not anymore, so you'd have to piss of some kind of anti-trans organisation online before anything could even happen.

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OP, Just tell him you give zero fucks, then break contact

>>29717680
I hope you've gotten enough help. Don't kill yourself because of this guy, he's worthless trash that you should get rid of as soon as possible. Obsessive types are easy to manipulate sometimes through things they love, does he really love you? Would he do anything to make you happy? It seems he would do a lot to stop you from leaving at least.. Mayby you could use that against him in some way. If anything work on those manipulation skills and work your way out of this through people you trust and the police.

stop being a coward and leave. i'm willing to bet he's bluffing, but if he isn't, he's willingly opening himself up to potential legal action depending on where you're at.

regardless, you can take comfort in the fact that he's being a shitty person - it might be embarrassing, but it's worth it. any reasonable person around you would agree.

>>29716912
I've been on the bf side of this, and while I can't speak for him, I would actually never have spread my gf's nudes. It was just an empty threat because I didn't want to lose her. I'm way too possessive to share her nudes with anyone.

>>29717055
> don't want it to get that far
I mean... you should defend yourself properly. call the police then.

>>29716912
Kill them, duh.

Invite them to your house and drop a TV set on their head when they ring your doorbell.

Put Ricin in their shampoo.

Set their house on fire from both the front and back entrances.

you arent getting blackmailed
you are just a retarded twink who wants to have this drama to feel more important

>>29716962
Blackmail is less legal

>>29717568
>using 'SJW' unironically
Kek, come back when you finish high school.