Just get over it, you're in love with someone
Linux is the hero CURRENT YEAR deserves.
>>29714872
what is love? never felt it
Love is a horrid painful shitty emotion that I'd much rather be without. All its done for me when I've met people who said they "loved me" is them fucking with me, furthering how shit my anxiety and depression are in the first place, and makes wonder why I even try anymore.
>>29715002
neither have most people, it's limerence at best
op is referring to a creation of meme magicians, nothing else
attraction and affection are real, 'love' is a meme
being content long-term is possible, being happy beyond a brief period of time isn't
this psa, brought to you by your friendly neighborhood meme control patrol officer, take care
I'm in love with her but she wouldn't even care if I never talked to her again. So that's what I'll do.
I'm in love with him but he wouldn't ever care if I never talked to him again. So that's what I'll do.
>>29714872
I don't have a someone right now. I just want to be left alone. It's all too much pressure and everything so far has been for naught. I want to do things and not have anybody make an opinion other than me
>>29715335
Nice meme but I have initiated a clean 100% of our conversations.
>>29715346
take a chance
not everyone will destroy your freedom
>>29715002
>>29715163
this really
Never felt an attraction to anyone that I'd call love
Sort of related, anyone else /neveraskedaroastieoutormadeanyattempttogettingaGFever/
>>29715372
you are a brave and courageous man
never stop
she could just be shy? take the lead!
I'm in love with a distant memory
The subject of that memory got fat and has tattoos and shit now, and became gross to the point I voluntarily stopped creeping her social media
>>29715451
Nah bollocks mate, she just doesn't care. The shy excuse doesn't work when I've made it abundantly clear I want to talk to her.
>>29714872
Yes I am in love withmy cat
>>29715405
I thought you were a fag?
>>29715404
Male interests tend to be deep, narrow, and exotic, whereas roastie interests are always broad and conventional.
A roastie is always entangled with a bunch of social obligations that she will drag you to and make you prove yourself at.
There's really no two ways about it. If you want a good deal of solitude to live a life of the mind and maintain your individuality, then relationships are not for you.
>>29715163
>>29715405
Just to throw in my 2 cents, my take on love isn't that extravagant at all. No movie magic here. You may not agree that it exists of course and that's fine but I think the degree of love that we've grown up with because of media is flawed.
My understanding of love is when they push me to be a better person. When they tell me to sleep well or that I'm going to do great for a test. When they're the first person I think of when I make a decision and the last person I think of before I fall asleep so my dreams will be nice.
Love means that even when they annoy you and do stupid things you can forgive them and move on. And you push them to be better too. When you tell them to be careful walking down a certain street and ask them to tell you when they're home
Love isn't these giant declarations. But I think it's not one of those things you flag out or know immediately. It just hits you one day when they buy your favourite sweets or tell you they miss you
Andit doesn't have to be romantic
I'm in love with my wife.
>>29715593
That's different from in love, which is what we're talking about here.
Take what you just said, but have sex with them. That's in love.
And also, you can't be 'in love' with someone you're not with. You can love them, be infatuated, have a boner for, whatever. You're not in love until it's mutual and also you have sex. Aromantics don't count as people nor as in love.
>>29715533
abundantly clear?
screenshots or you're the heartless bastard
>>29715556
thats not nice anonwhat did I post that made you think that?;_;
>>29715703
I think I got you confused with bandage desu. he's the fag
>>29715776
ah
bandage is quite the fag roleplayer
Not in love but do have a crush. Were getting sushi either Wednesday or Friday so that's cool. Will set up a date that day to go watch a movie another day.
>>29715692
Don't want to post anything incriminating. Me regularly initiating conversations and wanting to hear all she has to say should be clear enough.
>>29715829
what makes you think she doesn't care?
if you're in love, you must tell her. don't walk away.
>>29715966
She knows m8, I told her. Couldn't care less. She knows where I am if she wants to talk to me, I will always receive her and never expect anything of her, not even her love. But if she's not interested in speaking to me then there's no point in me forcing myself on her. I should just keep her best interests at heart and save her the trouble of talking to me.