/r9k/ I need your help. I'm falling in love with a girl at my workplace. Whats a natural way to ask her out? She doesn't know me that well, but she initiates conversation with me. Thats a good sign right? Should I say "hey, so you wanna get a drink?" Is that a good way to ask someone out?
Also, what if I dont really have any friends, or hobbies? Is it hopeless from the get go?
why the fuck would you wanna get involved with someone you work with
money > girls
Talk to her a lot more before you ask her out or anything. Get to know her, let her get to know you.
>>29688241
usually hey we should ____________ is a good way to gauge interest
if you have good rapport and have been talking for a while try what day are we ________
women like to be told so that's a decent way to get it going
>>29688339
How do I know if she's interested? vs if shes just friendly.
If she divulges personal information, is that a sign shes intersted?
Don't do it.
I was in the almost exact same situation as you, and I don't have any friends and next to no hobbies. For me, it ended pretty shit but not as bad as you would expect.
Number 1 Rule when being a male wage cuck and working along side female wage cucks:
Never have an intimate relationship with fellow work colleagues no matter how much you like them.
If the relationship/encounter/one night stand ends on a bad note you still have to work along side that person and it has potential to be very awkward.