Is nice to have friends?
>>29669427
I have no friends so you tell me...
>>29669427
It's nice to have people I know I can confide in if I'm ever feeling really shitty, and it's nice to have people to hang out with on occasion. So yes, is nice to have friends.
>>29669427
It's nice to have friends when they aren't shit.
Nothing worse than having those friends that won't do anything. You try to get them to do ANYTHING other than one or two things and they just shoot you down every time.
You also sometimes get those friends that you fall out with and that's always shitty.
More good comes out of them if you make friends, do stuff each person wants and if you stop drama before it begins.
>>29669427
I guess they're ok. I never got to discuss anything related to my interests but we did play lots of vidya. I find that most people don't give 2 shits about your problems so it's best not to vent.
>>29669427
Sometimes. Sometimes it's just a pain in the ass, though. You should try to make at least a couple in your area though, otherwise you won't have any allies to bail you out if shit ever goes seriously wrong for you out of nowhere.
>>29669427
I WANT FRIENDS, SOMEONE BE MY FRIEND!
friends are good for doing stuff with, they're a good excuse to go out and do something
friends make you feel good
but i never got particularly close to a friend
It's nice but can be a hassle if you're lazy like me, also the potential drama just makes having friends even less appealing.
>>29669427
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>>29670370
We all grow apart and die alone. Consider yourself lucky if you have a friend in 10 years. I had a shitload of friends when I was in highschool, but they either died, committed suicide, moved away or we grew apart. Find a gf now or you will die alone. Once you hit 30, your fate is sealed.
It's work to have friends. Even if they are good friends who are popular, good looking and regularly invite you to do shit, it's just work that isn't even worth the effort.
>>29669427
It's satisfying. They cheer you up and help you with shit.
https://discord.gg/xKu9A You guys wanna chat?
>get along with people at work
>people are always in a good mood and work well with me
>don't ever feel shy and feel comfortable talking to anyone
>leave work
>don't speak to any of them, don't have friends to hang out with or gf to cuddle with
I feel like having friends would be a chore. I'm at a time in my life where I'm just trying to improve other aspects of my life and finding out what I want to do. The idea of having friends and needing to do shit with them just gives me the feeling that it will only weigh me down.
I don't feel superior towards anyone, just how I feel about it.
>>29671029
>discord
I don't even know what that is
>Someone asks how many friends you have
>Tell them only 1 or two
>Ask why
>Just say I don't need any more then that I'm totally fine with how many I have
>HURR WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU
Fucking normies.
>>29671067
It's a an IM and voice chat program that works a lot better than skype. it works in your browser. You dont need a microphone to chat you can just use the text channel
>>29669427
No. People are either useful as tools or toys.
>>29671067
>I don't even know what that is
your life
OOOOH #GETTEM
>>29671306
das mean anon
>>29669427
Sure. It's good on occasion to have someone to hang out with. Just don't expect them to come rushing to your rescue when the chips are down and there isn't anything in it for them.
>>29671200
You can still play the game of life and manipulate different kinds of people you have as 'friends'.
I have a couple of completely different friends. For example one friend's a hardline alt-rightist who has a hard on for Trump, another a full nu-male fedora leftist who shills for the Hill. I can perfectly fit in with both crowds as I go full 'gas the kikes race war now' with the former and 'we need to accept the mexicans' with the latter, and I could argue for and against both points depending on the situation.
There's no better feel than being ENTP.
>>29671107
why do normies keep asking questions about friends and relationships?
do they realize we're losers and just want to mock us?
REEEEEE leave us alone!
>>29670571
Are you kidding me? After thirty is when it's FINALLY a man's fucking market in the field of romance.
>>29669427
Who are those cuties OP?
>>29669427
I know that girl on the left. Shes a bi slut. Seen her tits once in an acting role she had.
>>29672306
>finally a chance to become a provider for a single mom or some whitetrash whore who "has had her fun" and is now ready to settle
>>29672352
solution: Don't meet white people
>>29672352
That is the whole point, you don't HAVE to settle for that if you don't want to, assuming you have anything at all to offer as a man, because you are now the prized commodity, not her. There are millions upon millions of women over twenty-five who have not had yet children, a sizable percentage of which do not even want them. Also, women tend to be much less insane once they are full-fledged neurological adults (as do men, for that matter).
But by all means, enjoy missing out on such opportunities because you've fatalistically trained yourself not to see them even when they're staring you in the face. Seems like an attitude that will yield deeply fulfilling middle years for you.
>>29669427
DELETE THIS TREAD DELETE DELETE DELETE DELETE REEEEEEEEEEE
>>29672322
What is her name?
origamodinamo
If they understand you, and you them, and there is a mutual chemistry of interest then yes.
I've had 2-3 best friends over the last 10 years and it's pretty cool. Then I have like 30 to 40 friends whom I only see from time to time and barely hang with since our paths stopped regularly crossing.
Sometimes it can be annoying when you're a confident person and decent people you have no interest in want to be your friend. It's an effort to juggle the few people of wit I confide to into my social life already, there's no realistic way to use my energy to form a serious bond with normie types. Even if they think I'm funny or decent the best I can do is hold them as an acquaintance and not be a dick. I will of course show interest in a girl if she's equally attractive, seems available, and has a nice body type that would compliment my average dick size, it doesn't matter if she is boring or would think my interests and ideas are absurd. If they're not somebody I can love, usually it fizzles out after a couple months of sex and me gradually paying them less attention.
I know it's all a good problem to have, I'm just saying.
>>29672670
Same guy here
What sucks is when you finally have a cool circle of bros going, and the obnoxious antics which are at first fun, grow old and annoying, and then once they pick up on you're indifference or distaste for it it, they direct the antics on to you all the time because it makes it funnier for them knowing it can annoy you.
And then they get annoyed and act offended when you hang out with them less and less.
The rewards of having friends and being communicable are equally balanced with the familiar comfort of solitude and being able to just think without interference.
