What made you give up on getting a girlfriend?
>>29657764
I don't think I'm in the right state of mind to date someone at the moment. When my prospects look better and I feel like I can contribute enough to a relationship, then I'll search for a gf.
>>29657764
My whole personality is too negative. Even if i'd have gf i dont think it would healthy relationship but more of me abusing her.
Actually trying to get a girlfriend
>>29657764
I never looked for one.
The combination of being unattractive, socially awkward and not having a good job makes it extremely unlikely to happen. Not even worth trying.
After I tried multiple times and still fucking failed. I get it now, girls want nothing to do with me. What do I do now kill myself? Guess I gotta just keep going....asking why me is not going to do shit, its like getting cancer this is just random bad luck.
>>29657764
It would take a girl to approach me, not the other way around. And the only girls who approach men are either total sluts who need any dick they can get, or completely hideous girls who are also desperate. Basically no one worth dating
>>29657764
I wanna become a wizard original poster.
I want to be the very best wizard out there.
>>29657764
the realization that women will only date you if being in a relationship with you will improve their social standing.
>implying there was ever a point in time I gave enough of a shit to try
>implying I could ever make someone happy
>>29657764
I gave up when I was 12, ffs. So I never tried, I gave up when I saw how awful they were.
I dont have my own place
Im not bringing a girl back to my parents house
>ugly as all fuck
>pencil dick as all fuck
>poor as all fuck
>got rejected by a couple 300+ pound landwhales for "not being attractive enough"
I quit the dating game long ago and have no desire to try again. I'll keep my money and continue to jerk it to disgusting porn.
>>29657764
My ex-girlfriend leaving and cheating with me after 3 year long relationship
>>29657764
false signals aka being bull fought and played like fiddle.
>>29657764
Modern women.
Generic answer aside, I have OCD and social anxiety. I'm in a bad place. I have no job and I'm not in a great place psychologically.
I also have a lot of ambitions for future career etc.
It has a silver lining, being alone. So many people get trapped in relationships early and never reach their potential. I hope to reach my potential in my lifetime and I have a long way to go, but it's better done single than shackled.
>>29658034
>So many people get trapped in relationships early and never reach their potential
That's because these people allow it not because it's universal truth.
>>29657764
Never even knew how to start. Online dating I guess, but I'm too scared to have my profile found out by somebody I know. Also, all I hear are horror stories about guys who never get any success.
>>29657870
>>29657889
these
very original answers
I came to realize all women want is status and power. I have neither and want neither. I seek enjoyment in intellectual pursuits in the technological field. The latest tech and my own ability, those are the things that drive me.
>>29658102
If you aren't more attractive than 80% of the guys in a 10 mile radius of you, DO NOT try online dating. Even if you are, enjoy your landwhales, single mothers, and size queens.
>>29657764
I've made several attempts during my youth that all were extremely awkward and uncomfortable for them so I'm not even gonna try that shit again
>>29658079
True, but relationships are time consuming things. If you want to dedicate your time to productive means without having the constant commitment of a relationship, you're better off single.
There's a reason professional men used to wait until they were established before they got married. A relationship can hinder you in the early days whilst they can benefit you later on.
why would want one? is there a legit reason to chase cum dumpsters?
men in today american society are cucks.
either way i just want to die so it doesnt matter
>>29657764
timetime kill everything
every girl ive known is a literal slut with no personality.
>>29657764
OP makes the assumption that finding a gf or getting married is a natural state or natural human behavior, and that by default every male undertakes these futile endeavors.
At a very young age I saw quite clearly through these lies and falsehoods, and I have never strayed from my paths. As for those who think it is natural, I carry nothing but contempt and have a single word for them - plebs.
>>29658336
*tips menorah*
somehow this comment is not original
Probably when I realised that I never looked for one when I was meant to and figured no point trying now.
>>29657826
Tfw no emotionally and physically abusive bf :(
>>29657764
My negative self-view, loneliness, autism whatnot why even live.
>>29658370
He may have worded it in a fedora way, but what he says is sound.
For centuries men have been ignorant to the true nature of the "fairer sex", but now thanks to the internet, the reality of their nature is revealed for all to see.
This is what is causing the exodus of men. Even if they participate there is still wide complaint from women that they don't want commitment they just want to "hang out".
Women brought this on themselves and yeah going on the quest to get a woman in this era is futile.
Relationships, how the hell do they work?
I think it's an excess of apprehensiveness combined with a lack of aptitude, it's not easy nor does it feel intuitive. I suppose you could construe it as straight up fear and call me a scaredy cat. Feels like I'm one step behind """"the game"""" at all times. It does feel natural, however.
Just realized it was too late to get her interested in me.
>>29658079
t. normalfag in denial
http://www.newenglishreview.org/Orlet/Bachelorhood_And_Its_Discontents/
>Some years ago a noted Japanese researcher analyzed the biographical data of some 280 famous mathematicians, physicists, chemists, and biologists and discovered that all peaked professionally in their twenties, at which point their careers spiraled downward. Married scientists suffered the worst decline in productivity. However, those who never married remained highly productive well into their fifties.
lower your standards, date a girl who is over 300 pounds like im doing. and shes religous and lets me boss her around
oh but u would ratther have sex with trannies and cis males like the faggots you all are
have fun getting jewed, you fucking aspie
>>29658613
I'm >>29657972
You're clearly a normie and one who is attractive enough to gain the attention of women.
>>29657764
I was raised with the idea that girls were the same as guys, just with different parts. When I found out men and women had different personalities, I lost interest. Sure, benis in vagina would be nice, but not at the expense of having to deal with a woman. I'm not into boipucci either, so I guess it's the wizard life for me.
>>29657906
If you happen to be extremely good at something, where there is some kind of social structure around it, decent girls can become interested. This works best in things like high school and college clubs though. The real world afterward is a complete wasteland by comparison.
>>29658170
This is largely true, yeah. Best advice would be to avoid being fat and try to copy how other people who look decent dress. You can also just make a fake female account and use it to copy things (what to wear, how to write profile stuff) from male accounts that look likely to be successful. There are also lots of articles online about what works or doesn't on average.
Look, most of us are never going to have much of an intuitive grasp of social dynamics. I've had pretty decent luck by just analyzing and copying though.
Also don't get too wrapped up in it. And project the impression that you're not particularly in need of anything. Women find it attractive to not be needed; it makes them clingier.
>>29657764
I gave up trying to get a gf once I got a gf
>>29657764
I'm cyborg tier so I can pass myself off as just quirky and weird to normies. I don't really have trouble getting a first date out of women but once I am alone with them and have to make conversation everything falls apart. They eventually figure out I am just another autismo and eventually stop talking to me.
>>29658613
I would rather be alone than date any woman over 120lbs. So far, this has worked just fine for me. Fat chicks are the scourge of society.
>>29658960
>Women find it attractive to not be needed
Pretty sure the vast majority of robots would be getting a lot of attention then. The only way to even garner a positive look from a woman is by having an attractive face.
>>29659016
Then you're fucked. The average white US female is 166 pounds. Guarantee other countries' women are around that too. All the nice thin & fit women are already taken by numerous Chads & Tyrones.
>>29659007
Being a cyborg sucks, I know because i am one. Yeah we can look like a normie on the surface, and we're autistic on the inside.
I have had relationships though, but that was when I was younger and had cool hair, and I was one of those emo kids with problems but it was considered "cool". Most of them were fakers. I actually had problems.
When everyone grew up and moved on, I still had problems. And ofc when I grew older my appeal diminished, as I was expected to be a normie.
>>29658162
Whats the latest tech?
>>29657764
My inability to interact with women.
>>29657764
The fact I have a small dick and won't ever pleasure her.
>>29657764
I never wanted on to begin with.
>>29657764
When I realized it was cheaper to just pay a hooker up front.
And GFs lead to marriage which leads to divorce which means you're going to be always broke. And I hate being broke more than I hate being alone.
Oh wait, I got a cat. Not alone, not broke. Life's pretty good. Judge me all you want, but I don't dread waking up in the morning.
>le tfw no gf xD
i don't understand this meme, most of you can't even get friends, you have to build your social skills slowly
it's like a homeless guy saying ">tfw no Ferrari and mansion"
>>29657764
I'd like to have one but then I realized i'm a selfish fuck and not gonna to take any responsibility
>>29657764
>Be me: Below average looks, but smart, Uni education, very well paying job, geeky but with a large social circle and a good sense of humour.
>After 30 years of trying, still KV. Hundreds of attempts, and nobody was ever interested in me.
>A little after my 30's, start developing a genetically inherited disorder that basically rots my junk with rash.
>Around at the same time, get to bed with a few girls within a few years' time. They predictably find it repulsive, junk can't perform, and every single one ends things right after we get to sex. By ending things, I mean I get back stabbed, betrayed and lied to.
I'm now almost 40. Haven't even bothered trying for several years anymore. Sex, love, those things are literally a billion light years away from the life I have.
Women have never loved me. Even if a few would bother, they would be disgusted by my thing. Even if there were those who weren't, I couldn't perform. Point being, there are so many massive hurdles to cross, and a near zero success history to fall back on, that it's mathematically impossible for me to ever find any kind of love in this lifetime.
So, giving up or not, the end result is the same. Thus, I chose to stop believing in BS fantasies and focus on other aspects of my life instead, like work, games, and occasionally opening up about this in the only place I can: in anon boards in the net.
>>29657764
I'm a 5'3" manlet with a 4 inch dick. That and I'm a husk of a person. I'm boring as shit and I never have anything interesting to say. I'm always quiet. It's why I have no friends. There's no point. I just want to die.
>>29659393
>tfw no Ferrari and mansion
>>29657764
I am a closeted homosexual. I never bothered or had found women attractive.
>>29658157
That about sums it up for me too. I have no clue as to why I'm still alive.
>>29657764
i dont like myself and im like 90% sure im very unattractive
i went to a prostitute and backed out at the last moment
>>29659810
photo
>>29659393
>People wanting Ferraris or mansions
>>29659393
This is a fair comment. Many people meet their partners indirectly because of their friends.
If they went on a night out with their friends or was at a friends birthday or wedding etc etc.
It's true, friends are the first step and are a sound investment.
You have little opportunity for advancement in anything without them.
Ironically many people choose to ditch or neglect their friends for their partners.
>>29659007
>>29659253
>cyborg
god i hate this shit
you're either robot or normie
no inbetween
>>29659397
>>29657801
>>29657906
its a combination of these tbo
For those that have never had a girlfriend:
its so much fucking work. Its like an actual job. For what? A little pussy at the end of the day? No.
My hand is good enough for me right now. Hate to say it.
>>29659999
desu*
holy shit quads also
>>29657764
I've never tried to get one.
>>29659885
>no inbetween
You clearly haven't taken the test.
realized that today woman don't like the buildup of cultivating a relationship and achieving things together, they just want everything out of the box.
sure i might land on a 9/10 gf one day but most chances it will never happen but that's how woman see the situation and its fucking the game up
The ones I did go out with were really really insanely boring. Like couldn't carry a conversation for more than 15 seconds boring.
All the interesting girls only wanted to go out with Chads.
>>29660201
this.
i can't stand talking to woman they bombard with me with hundreds of questions trying to price me and think i don't see through it.
they basically think im dumb and can't see that im under an investigation
>>29657764
I have the looks of chad but I am still beta as fuck on the inside. I get really shy around girls and I am not a social butterfly like most chads. This is what happens when robots get fit they dont just magically get a gf you still have to work on your social skills and on your finacial stability.
>>29657764
Starting to think it's just pointless.
Quoting a turbo edgelord: "I'm like a dog chasing cars, I wouldn't know what to do with one if I caught it."
I'm an autistic fuck. I don't get to bring a girlfriend.
>>29659999
The quads ofrelatabletruth
>>29657932
Oh, definitely this. Have yourself a (You), anon
>>29657764
my last long distance """relationship""" which is the only """relationship""" I've ever been in.
I don't wish to get hurt like that ever again.
ITT excuses and insecurities
>>29657764
I gave dating a good shot. A great one, really. I fucked a few sluts before getting a girl who said that she was a chaste christian. She made me wait a while for sex and wanted to build a future, so I went for it. She turned out to be a lazy slut who did drugs with other men while I was at work.
So I went back to fuckng around. Some of the girls I met were really great. I offered them something real. None accepted.
Now I'm in my 30s and I don't get quality tail anymore. I fucked 3 ugly girls once each this year. On the rare occasions that I do go on a date, the girl always has a better job than me but still wants me to pay and asks questions about my career. No sex happens on these dates.
I haven't wanted to meet a woman for a few months straight now.
My life isn't about women anymore, nor is it about any of the things that men do for women -- work, fitness, acheivement, fashion, etc.. It's about tidying up all the loose ends before I die. I'm just preparing for death.
>>29660318
What the fuck did you expect? Is your post relating to anything or are you from Facebook?
>>29660318
It's not excuses and insecurities if you actually get rejected.
I took a step back to evaluate and improve myself because I was being rejected.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
People don't improve if they repeat the same mistakes.
The return investment isn't enough for men in 2016. I would try to date but women in general are diggers and play mind games. I dont do mind games so fuck it. Fuck women for now. I'll get an escort when I need it but these women are selective, inconsistent, and genuinely retarded. You cant debate with these points so fuck off.
>>29657764
anxiety if i have a girlfriend i am anxious she will cheat constantly and i dont know how to deal with these feelings
balding manlet
yello
>>29660321
with so much success how come you didn't settle down?
>>29660356
what if men got together and made a list of all the genuine woman they could find and rate them in geuine scale. like a dating site that woman aren't allowed to participate in you just insert the data of how crazy a woman is and how serious she is and write your experience
>>29660364
Also this. I'll get fucking paranoid she's not banging some other dude because she felt like it and infidelity is legal or something.
>>29660318
Meanwhiles girls can be insecure and make excuse but still have a whole line of guys ready to date them. women cant suffer like us.
>>29660414
yeah also the idea that you dont want to be with you how could someone like you enough to not be swept away by literately anyone else because they would be better
>>29660487
Yup. I'll just think she can do better. So, what's the alternative? No wonder male suicide rates are so high.
>>29660515
i think the best places to find woman is at small communal towns
or woman that volunteer for stuff, there are plenty
-I'm a boring faggot
-I'm not really interested in sex
-I like alone time a lot
-I don't have the right state of mind for a relationship
>>29660535
I live in a village with 400 people and the people are fleeing to the city. People recommend the church but most of the girls there are in a relationship.
>>29660318
see
>>29660315
Perfectly valid reasoning
>>29660515
yeah and who do you talk about this stuff talk to her suddenly shes breaking up with you because you dont trust her. its a rabbit hole where when ever i have been in something close to a relationship i have the voice in my head telling me every time its quiet that she can do better that anyone could take her or shes fucking a chad friend. gets to the point i need to listen to death metal while i try sleep to try drown out all my thoughts and basically live in constant anxiety till i stop talking to her and thinking about her.
i tried my friend and i would go to the bars, but he would cockblock me. i said screw girls. i went to friends house and had a seizure. now i know i can't get a girlfriend because i use a wheelchair.
>>29660647
You can't win, really. You're too controlling or you don't care about her. And she can do better than you and cheat on you and it's your fault for being a man. And if someone dares oppose that and question the insanity that is the current year you're no better than a Nazi in their eyes.
>>29658413
No homosexuals allowed 2bqh
>stem major
>degree from 'top tier' school
>stem job in silicon valley
>still a khv
>discover sex tourism
>literally penetrate model tier females from all over the world
No false rape accusations or accidental pregnancies to worry about. Professionals are more fastidious about contraceptive use than most sluts. Normies think I am cultured because I am so well traveled and can communicate in so many languages.
Females still show no interest, and that's is fine by me. It's probably because I'm only 5'10".
>>29660662
wheelchair, dude there are fetishes for that i have know plenty of guys in wheelchairs with more game than i ever had. now get back on that bike little robot just not literally you spastic.
it is a challenge just for me to make friends, get a job and lead the life of the lowliest subnormy
let's face it, nowadays, for men, a relationship is NOT reciprocal, feminism has made sure of that, so it is like asking me to take care of somone else when I can hardly take care of myself
>>29657764
>get rejected alot
>no one wants to date me
>no one wants to hang out
>focus elsewhere
>on job
>on investing
>no time for a gf now, im building a financial empire that will eventually win me freedom, i.e so that i can buy a small island, grow fruit trees and vegetables there and say good bye to the world
>>29657764
I have bigger things to care about right now, and having a gf is the last thing on my mind
I only think about >tfw no gf when I don't have anything else in my life
>>29657959
I recently got my own place
still can't bring a home home
only prostitutes
>>29657764
getting rejected 2 times. Also the fact that women have more tools to find suitable partners now so if I were to not meet her standards she'd dump me on the spot and go for Chad,
>First and only gf was crazy as fuck, tells everyone I forced her to have sex with me and the day after we broke up started going out with my 'best friend'
>>29661150
you got rejected twice i mean at least try it 3 times i have been rejected by every girl i have asked out sometimes in humiliating ways. move to internet dating everyone knows what you are there for they wouldnt return your message if they werent interested so no real rejections
>>29661240
Sound advice that I always get but the more I think about it the more I face the reality that I couldn't keep a girl even if I got her. I'm just too awkward. I went on a sort of mock date once with a friend and I just spaghetti'd all over the place. I can't keep a conversation with a women since most of them don't really have "le nerdy" interests.
>>29661150
Men also trade up. You have the advantage in dating because you pursue women.
>>29661337
yeah there are girls with these kinda interests too you will find allot of the women our age online dating have there little problems so you might find more in common than you think
>>29657764
>What made you give up on getting a girlfriend?
Mainly my financial situation. Like it or not, but no woman wants a middle aged man living at his parents, going to university and working part time jobs.
Also I feel that at this point I'm too mentally damaged for most social interaction, especially a meaningful relationship.
Getting one and realizing I feel better alone. It's fucking weird. Everyday I think about romantic stuff I'd do with a GF, but when I finally found one, I wanted to be alone. I cannot really describe it.
Inb4 normie get out
>>29661530
How real is the the Land whale single mom thing if you aren't super ugly, but not super good looking? Area probably plays a big role, but I've only ever met one person that had a positive experience with Online dating.
When I got one and couldn't think about anything else but Chad railing her every day, then she sends shit like hearts and good morning :)s as if nothing happened.
Probably just my imagination but I'm too fucked up for a gf.
>>29657764
Being turned down 15 times in a row in 7 years.
>>29661731
Mine was this weird case of a cutie who somehow managed to stay out of Chads' radars and I have no idea how. I mean, she wasn't perfect, had some flaws, but still looked really nice
>>29661667
depends on how far you are willing to go and your standards really but as long as you are realistic that you cant be ugly and fat and expect to get a 10/10 girl you should find something it can take a while tho
>No woman shows interest.
>Even if I did date her, I have no emotion for her.
>26 yo KHHV.
I'm going the MGTOW route.
I'm not even ugly, i'm 6ft3, not fat. I just really don't see myself sharing my life with someone else. I have friends and shit but when I'm hanging out with them I don't have to tell them about any shit going on in my personal life with family and shit. I don't like sharing shit like that with people. A girl to just fuck would be great tho.
When 3 years of trying got me fucking nowhere.
Because I can hardly handle my own fucking mind, how on Earth would I be able to handle a gf on top of that?
>anxiety
>low self-esteem
Combine that with unemployment, internet addiction, general impulsiveness, there is not much of a point in trying. Either it happens in person by chance, or I'm fine with dying alone.
But shit I wouldn't date me.
>>29660825
thanks, the therapy did change me though before i was quite guy. now i feel like i can talk to anybody.
>i went to the grocery store with dad to get some food i use to work there
>i went to some girl who still works there
>i said hi and had a small conversation with her
>it felt kind of good that people still remember me
>>29657764
I gave up when I realized I can't find a girl that shares enough interested to be worth the time. My plan now is to finish my degree and work on an AI alternative.
overweight 28yo neet with no money or hopes or dreams or aspirations
theres no reason why a woman would ever consider me over any other guy on this planet so fuck it, heres to porn, may the tits be big and the asses fat
I am so insecure. Girls have liked me in the past but i assume they are laughing at me or wouldnt actuallynhave interest in me until its far too late.
Im also bored with everything I do and being boring is easier alone because I dont have to worry about how much the other person hates being there.
>>29657764
i have nothing to offer a girl. i don't even know how to talk to people.
>>29657764
The women hate threads
It's not like I had a shot before but now I don't care because they seem shitty. Plus it's much better than wanting to kill myself over no gf
>>29657764
No matter how hard i try, they always leave me
I realized what I am and that even if I could get a gf it would be morally wrong to inflict myself on another person. If I liked someone enough to want to date them I would want them to be happy and therefore I could never date them.
I dont want to get attached to anyone because im going to kill myself :)))
i learned the cold hard truth of the red pill; i know what must be done.. just not up to the task.
Not that I could get one if I wanted but it just seems like a chore to care about someone on that level also this >>29664053
>>29657764
>abandonment issues with past relationships
>schizoid as fuck
>too frugal to bother lavishing a girl with any sort of gifts or dates
What made me give up?
First girl
>gr.8
>asked her out to the school dance
>said yes
>her friend comes back and tells me she changed her mind
second girl
>gr.11
>befriend a lonely awkward qt asian
>talked everyday and people around us thought we were dating
>second week in I want to ask her out
>as I was about to she starts talking about her boyfriend is from another school
>It's a obese manlet
Third girl
>...
Fuck I'm even gonna talk about that
Fourth girl
>Be 19 y/o
>inna psychward
>become friends with a qt petite Asian with severe anger issues
>fuck it I'm getting desperate
>tell her I like her
>she just shrugs it off and says thanks
>found out already made a boyfriend in the psychward but that guy already left
>the boyfriend was homeless and more than twice her age with blue hair. He was also native.
5th girl
>be 21y/o
>buy a 1 year subscription to Match
>only got one date with another asian (why the fuck am I attracted to asians? I'm not even white)
>The date was actually pretty good, even she was the one that was asking me for a second date
>the next day she stops texting me
>didn't texted me for another 2 weeks
>Finally I get a random text from her saying to delete her number
I already tried Tinder, OKcupid, POF and eharmony with zero success. I'm 22 now so it's too late to me to find anyone. I'm out.
I wouldnt know how to treat a girlfriend or show her emotions.
I also dont feel love anymore. Nowadays i just walk past people including women and i dont feel anything for them. Theyve just become regular people to me.
>>29665048
>not even white
no wonder the asians ain't tripping over your dick
>>29661650
this, except this is how she felt, and was the reason why she left me
only took her 10 months to realise
>>29665155
kek but 2/3 of them aren't even going out with a white guy either. one's a Native and another is a hispanic like me. They already got married.
>>29657764
Ever since I was little I knew that the pros of a girlfriend will never outweigh the cons for me personally.
>>29657764
white women only want to be gang raped and murdered by evil black men, because they can't get a white man who is a male model or a billionaire.
Non-white women are only interested in white men because they're white.
They can't be trusted.
Life is fucking meaningless you autist
>>29657764
Being an unwanted 27kuv with clinical depression. I never stood a chance, and I might as well stop trying. Pic related.
I'm attracted to people who don't find me attractive
>>29657764
The r9k helped. Everything I thought was confirmed.
I can't be bothered to put in the effort. The idea of getting rejected a million times and hoping that the next girl won't shoot me down doesn't appeal to me.
And honestly, I don't really have any redeeming qualities that would make me good boyfriend material so I really don't see the point.
The requirments are too high
30 year old virgin now, gave up in my early 20s. Relationships and dealing with women seem like a burden and not worth the effort to have sex. The idea of people casually having sex and entering/exiting relationships seems completely alien to me.
Most of the women online were either typical stacies or full on Tumblrinas with dyed hair and piercings. The point I gave up was when I met someone who had the same interests as me and seemed normal. Told me she didn't want to meet up because I was too inhibited and reserved.
You people are pathetic, literally getting or trying isnt that bad.
You try, you fail. You try, you fail. The only true failure is when you stop trying.
Every time im turned down it gives me motivation to try again and again till I make it.
Life and goodness isnt hard to fucking find.
>>29667252
>The only true failure is when you stop trying.
What is so great about the result in the first place?
I've had relationships, it's all overrated. And love isn't real. So it's not a failure to see the forest for the trees. The failure is to let yourself get hoodwinked by the vaginal jew.
>>29667365
Thats the mind and mentally of someone who feels very defeated and insecure.
I'm in a permanent state of delusion because of my fear of failure and sincerity
>>29657764
I was
>drunk
>at a party
>two girls, one on either side of me
>make a good joke with an accessible, entry-level but classy reference
>neither of them get it and are weirded out
>later, sitting next to another girl
>in the middle of telling a funny story
>accidentally slip up and stutter/pause between two words
>see her mentally check out while still making eye contact
>just stop talking and stop the story mid-sentence and walk away from her and out the door
That was the exact moment it happened.
>>29667515
I am defeated and insecure. Also realistic. In my experience of relationships (and I've had several), the love isn't real.
Women are fickle whores. They don't give a shit in the end.
>>29667515
> Cut off have been My people for lack of knowledge,
>Because thou knowledge hast rejected, I reject thee from being priest to Me,
>And thou forgettest the law of thy God, I forget thy sons, I also!
(completely unoriginal)
I just say I'll give up but then when a woman shows any interest in me my head will force me to image all sorts of scenarios and my i'll start to hope but obviously it won't happen because I'm an aspie and no one could ever love me.
>>29657801
Chad can literally have no prospects and have any woman he wants
>>29657764
when i realized that all women were roastie whores and that love was basically a meme
i gave up when i got led on and teased for like the 15th time.
a lot of these girls tease and tease. that's why they end up ugly and hating themselves by age 30.
>>29657826
This is every robot ever
Then those retards will blame women for some reason
>>29657764
I'm 21 and still live at home
>>29657889
What a drama queen. Sounds like you're gay dude
It just seems too hard. Literally can't imagine how I'd meet a girl at this point in my life. I started fucking prostitutes, but it's honestly not that good and costs a lot of money.
I am afraid of rejection. Also the idea of leaving 4chan to become a normie with a gf doesn't appeal to me.
I worry that my family thinks I'm some relationship-forming failure though. And I do desperately desire a partner sometimes. The feeling of loneliness can be painful sometimes.
>>29667688
Real girlfriends cost a lot of money too. Marriage costs more. If you don't fuck prostitutes too often it will actually work out cheaper than a girlfriend.
>>29659393
I have friends, dozens of them if you broaden the definition to include buddies/social circle co-members.
I'm also pretty good at public speaking, I've been told, and personally I believe I'm pretty funny.
But still no gf at 23. So what's the next step?
>tfw that qt 3.14 you liked in elementary/middle school and rejected in high school because you fell in love with someone else posted pics today of her beach day with her fat, spic, boyfriend
>>29657764
8 hours for work
8 hours for college
8 hours for sleeping
I serioulsy don't think that i have the time or the resources, let alone the mental state for a gf.
If the STEM meme is not real and i land a 6k job i'll blow that on hookers if i feel to. Blondes, brunettes, kneegroes, paleasses, thai Kathoey, donkey shows...
>>29657764
Twenty-six years of no meaningful genuine female attention and the knowledge that females are inherently more physically shallow than males, among other reasons.
>>29658613
>Over 300 pounds
Jesus christ
I don't know what it is but there are several reasons
1. I don't feel/think I am good enough and I don't know what it is but I don't think I'll ever feel good enough for anyone, even if I got a perfect waifu virgin who truly loves me, I'll never feel good enough
2: I don't see it, I can't envision myself with anyone now or in the forseeable future, everyone imagines being with someone, even a 2d waifu, but with me, I don't see anyone by my side now, at 25, at 40, or even 60, there's no one else but me
3: Why would anyone want to be with me?, I know I have potential to make something of myself but even then it's not enough for a woman to say "Wow, I really want to be with him and understand him", I know looks don't keep a girl but they do get your foot in the door and even if I got /fit/ and went full Bateman face cream regime, It doesn't fix me as a person.
4: I don't believe there might even be anyone compatible with me anyways.
5: I don't believe I can ever make any woman truly happy, the kind of a happy where her heart skips a beat, where time stops for just an instant, I'll never give her that, I'll only bring her misery and burden, she whomever she is should be with someone who can give her that because I'll never be able to.
There's no one out there for me and if there is, she doesn't deserve the burden of me
>>29657764
>origami comment
>>29658613
that's fucking embarassing
i'd rather fuck a mtf trans person who respests herself enough to stay in shape
>>29667903
Next step is focusing on you. On career. On making a name for yourself.
Men traditionally became established before they found a partner. 23 is too young to be thinking you're eternally lonely.
>>29657826
This pretty much.
I also realized I could never entertain someone for very long. Not long enough for a relationship.
college is what made me give up
i saw everything r9k talks about long before r9k existed, saw chadshit and hypergamy long before we had terms for it, and was dead-set on never being a fallback plan for a ho hoping to be a housewife long before seeing others bitching about it online
>>29668164
But by the time we have an decent merits we will be 40+ which is also too old to have kids.
>>29657764
I sucked a cock and realized that I have no use for girls
>>29657906
Try the "Costanza gambit"; wear a wedding band. Claim you're S recent widower. Women love married men and some lust after them b/c married men are proven successes in the sexual arena -- having been married!
>>29668164
I'm working on it, slowly. But it'll take a long time before anything comes out of this.
I don't know if I'm "eternally" lonely, but I feel pretty lonely now. I have FOMO, too.
Meanwhile a friend of mine (a very handsome guy) lived with his gf in a dorm room (and those are pretty bad where I live) while they were in college, she apparently didn't mind.
>>29657764
A purely logical conclusion:
>i'm 4/10
>i'm 6'1 220lb, so on the fat side
>i'm balding
>my autism leaks all over you if you have to live with me constantly
>dress like shit, clothes look like shit on me
>nothing to interest a girl with (only autismal history, politics and maths)
>only thing I've got going for me is being financially secure
consequently, I can only get a girl that's:
>below 3/10
>fat
>retarded
>a ugly fat retarded golddigger
There is just no point in devoting any energy or finance at all in an endeavor that is statistically doomed to crash and burn.
>Have a girlfriend
>She spent most of the night telling me she was going to kill herself and it was all my fault before finally calming down and going to bed
I wish I'd stayed single.
>>29667252
>The only true failure is when you stop trying
You can't lose at something you don't play
I'm just a lazy fuck that doesn't have balls to ask someone out because of my inferiority complex
>>29668310
Nah. Womens sexual market value plummets with age as their fertility diminishes. But unlike women, mens sexual value is not in their 20's, but actually in their 30's through to their late 40's.
Yeah it's better to be in the 30's, but 40's is still doable and if you're successful enough, you will still be desirable. And I do mean desirable to younger women, not used up Staceys.
I still live with my parents. My parents are very paranoid, so I couldn't even bring a girl near the house. I'm about to get my license, so hopefully just having a car is enough?
I have a pretty good job and a car, but that's the only things I have. Average looks, with shit social skills so nothing much else.
I gave up because I have trouble talking to women, and I don't seem to be getting any better. So I gave up for now. Especially on online dating because girls only want Chads.
Maybe I'll try to get one when I move out. Then I can try talking to one personally, because online is a no no.
>>29668374
How did you even find a crazy gf? I kinda want one. Is she cute ?
>>29657764
I have always had super bad oneitis for girls that I crushed on. I'd go head-over-heels.
The last time I did this was a few years ago, the entire thing was magical, and then it ended abruptly and ruthlessly. There was a trajectory that was happening and it just crashed with absolutely no warning, heartlessly, and in retrospect I realized that she was just fucking with me the entire time.
It literally almost killed me and destroyed my mental health for a few years and I guess I never really recovered from it. Something changed in me and I don't think I'm capable of falling in love anymore. I see QTs but I just don't care anymore. Sometimes a woman's physical beauty can still stop me in my tracks and take my breath away but I no longer feel anything for them or believe in the possibility of love. Without that there's no point in trying.
>>29668374
kek iktf
>be kind, be caring, do my best to be understanding and compassionate towards borderline gf
>she makes up things to be upset about, freaks out at me for completely unreasonable things, often times contradicting things she said previously, calls me names, is cruel and emotionally abusive and tries to manipulate me after I got comfortable around her
I felt more alone with her than by myself
>>29667252
>slamming yourself repeatedly against a 3-foot thick lead wall your whole life is winning
>sitting and enjoying life is losing
Normies literally are subhuman apes, driven by emotion and instinct. The average beta male would leap from a 100 feet building to get "da pussi bruv"
>>29668509
We post on the same message board and she took notice of me from early on. She's very cute. Full lips, long black hair, wears nothing but stockings, panties, and a bra around the house. She's too unstable to give anyone a happy future, thoughm
>>29668451
>And I do mean desirable to younger women
You don't actually believe this, do you? If they don't like you at 25, they won't like you at 40 either.
Laziness and complacency. I'm actually not that bad looking. 5/10 maybe even 6/10 on a good day. I'm out of shape, sure, but I'm not a fat ass neckbeard.
I've got friends and a few social circles I occasionally meet up with, so its not like I couldn't get a gf if I actually bothered. However, I'd probably need to get into shape and as I said I'm too fucking lazy.
That and I don't know if I really want to commit to a relationship in which I'm inevitably going to get cucked. Wasting time, money and resources just for a brief fling doesn't seem very profitable to me. Eventually I could just rent a high quality hooker and just get the sex without the baggage.
>>29667648
you don't know shit about robots you dumb newfag
>>29657764
already having a gf right now
I'll probably get another one if this one leaves me/I leave her.
>>29657764
I simply no longer give a fuck.
>>29659999
>>29660300
whoa quads checked by dubs
>>29657764
Nothing to contribute in a relationship, too much work, too much attention needed, no real drive to get one either.
Looks like this is it for my bloodline.
>>29659253
This. Another cyborg here. I had a relationship back in high school but it never led into sex. Being a cyborg is like this. You're always close to 'making it' but never quite get there. Like you'd get a relationship but it'd be with a 'quiet girl' that wants to get to know you before fucking and you break off before the sex gets to happen.
>>29657764
pure inercia, i grow my hair very long (and it doesn't fit me), and grow a very ugly moustache and beard (and it doesn't fit me)
i'm also a turbo manlet who got /fit/ but it doesn't matter because clothes look like shit to me now that i'm /fit/ because i have broad shoulders with broad waist
i'm basically dwarven mode, with long hair and ugly
Heartbreak would be the thing that finally kills me.
>>29670376
top kek, it kinda does, im in a heartbreaking situation lately and my health is getting worse without reason
>>29661754
Okay, not that IS an excuse.
>>29665788
>>29664585
>>29664053
>nothing to offer a girl
This really pisses me off, makes me fucking furious. You have fucking PLENTY to offer. You can offer yourself, your interest, your attention, your love and of course your dicks. What the fuck more do the girls have to offer in return anyway, except exactly the same.
While it doesn't make a difference for the end result, the blame is not on fucking you, it's all on them. Who the fuck decided men should have to have all that much to offer women, while the same didn't hold true for them as well? No. It's an equal world, promoting equal partnerships.
The fact that it doesn't work that way for some of us, doesn't make that any less true. So Anons, stop blaming yourselves because other people treat you like shit. Put the blame where it needs to be, on them.
>>29665048
I was about to tell you that you're still young. About how as a 22 year old, you know nothing compared to my own 35 for instance. But, actually, you do. Thing is, compared to my 20's, and now my mid 30's, nothing has changed for the better. I mean I have a great education now, great job, great pay, great friends... but girls and romance? Not a single thing has changed.
So yes, I agree. If you haven't gotten into the whole romance game by your age, chances are you never will. It took me 15 years to figure it out, give up those dreams and focus on work instead. I salute you for being wiser than I was.
The realization that the chances of finding a woman that is even remotely worth any sort of long-term investment is exponentially non-existent.
When I realized there are zero women who would want a 24 year old virgin.
I finally ended up alone with a girl. I drove her to a friend's house that was over an hour away. We sat in silence the entire time. It was at that point I knew that I am too autistic for any meaningful intimate relationship.
There's no getting around it. Oh well.
>I am legitimately attractive, if somewhat feminine
>Every time I ask out a girl, they are "not single"
At a certain point I just got fed up, besides being a fuck up I'm fairly normie and I just don't even bother to show any sign of interest anymore.
>Why don't guys ever initiate anymore??? -Stacy asks
Because of this shit.
confidence is everything and I have none. not even the ability to fake it.
>>29670525
>What the fuck more do the girls have to offer in return anyway
Beauty
Genuine warmth
Self-esteem
A lot of things robots don't have.
>In great physical shape
>Have a ton of male friends
>In college about to graduate with passable grades
>Get stared at by people sometimes like a circus freak because I'm so hideous
>The three times I've approached (generally "ugly") women I've been literally laughed at
>Tfw I'm succeeding at life but the only women I will ever get will be a washed up whore who puts up with my looks for money
Better to just avoid women in the long run probably.
>>29658613
>over 300 pounds
>>29670525
That is implying that people aren't friendly and tries to strike up a conversation with us. There is no way in hell it is someone else's fault.
Finding a girl that is interested and fucking fantastic, but has more problems than you, everytime.
Why best grills are always so clusterfucky?
It's not like I crave for a gf anyway, it's just that it would be nice to have some female company, giving and receiving love from her, do stuff together and feel good
>>29670612
>Genuine warmh
>Self-esteem
They don't have these, though. The first does not last and the later is fake. Wanna a test? Point out good things about another woman near them; you usually will get some kind of reaction regardless of how confident she appears to be.
>>29660168
>realized that today woman don't like the buildup of cultivating a relationship and achieving things together, they just want everything out of the box.
this
it feels like they (middle class women) ALL want to make a seamless transition. from "le free-spirit college girl, having sex with whomever" to "le mature and respectable woman with high-rank chad or beta husband." but they're slowly finding out that it doesn't work that way.
it's a question of effort. women still date now as they did in the past. but now, they feel like attaining marriage/stability doesn't matter. so if she's a cunt to a good guy, and he kicks her stupid ass to the curb, then so what? girls' night at teh wine bar tee hee.
and also, they refuse. REFUSE. to be proactive. they would rather marry some guy, who they don't actually like, just because he put up with their shit long enough and makes money. instead of engaging that guy who they find kinda cool, and who they kinda enjoy talking with, and who they are kinda physically attracted to. and just fucking *asking* him if he wants to get coffee with her one day. it never fucking happens. ask any non-chad guy. it NEVER fucking happens. unless the guy made initial contact, and then *later* the girl asks him out. but women NEVER take the initiative. it's beyond retarded.
I'm trying to get a GF, but women in general are insufferable creatures, specially women in their 20's and 30's. It's not only me. Some of my friends that are more successful with women, that actually date several women, they also have similar problems. They can love you today, and stop talking you altogether tomorrow.
>>29670797
>ask non-Chads
Hell, ask Chads. Only Ultra-Chads get the occasional ask-out by women.
Which is fucking hilarious because the biological reason they're doing it no longer makes sense given today's society.
>>29670847
>tfw you realize that women complaining about commitment issues from men was just projection all this time
>>29657764
When I realized there's no point in having one
>>29670666
Buy hookers and laugh at women trying to get your money.
>>29657801
>le you gotta love yourself first
Keep it up, man!
>>29657889
>killing yourself for not having access to the opposite sex
Go ahead, you sub-human.
>>29657954
You saw something at 12 and you still go by it? Nice. You're from /v/, right?
>>29657976
You would've done the same if given the chance.
>>29657764
In highschool I ended up in a class with msotly only Stacies and a few Chads.
In Italy you've gotta stay in the same class for all the five years of highschool.
They all had a much more active social life than me and knew many experienced Guidos and most of these Staceys were already engaged and daw me as an autist/nerd.
Being in that class for years made me soon depressed and made me dislike relationships.
I also had lost most of the friend I had in middleschool during the first two years of HS so I had no one to introduce me to girls.
The girls in my class obviously knew me as the quiet weird semi autistic nerd and removing that stereotype was basically impossible so i gave that up and went full apathetic, not caring about anything.
>>29670847
>women in their 20's and 30's
so fucking true. girls that are 19-20 are 100x less jaded than ones even 22-23.
personally, i think it's because they still remember what it was like to be middle or low on the totem pole in high school. (unless they're staceys.) so they haven't yet made the transition to special snowflake feminist bitch. they still have a fresh sense of humility, from having quarterback chad look at them with no desire or respect. or even be made fun of by him. so when a male (me) is actually cool to her, and cool with her "level", she appreciates it.
>>29670900
definitely
in general, guys' "problems" that women complain about aren't even problems. it's made-up Cosmo Seventeen Magazine horseshit. unless he actively deals drugs, the average man is fine. really, bitch? is he "too quiet?" could that be because he's thinking about something, you fucking moron?
men's "drawbacks" are 80% fabricated trash to further edify the Western charade (for profit, ofc) that women's opinion is important or has ever been important in anything.
It baffles me about the majority of you guys is that you grew up on the internet, with every information at your fingertips at any given time, yet you still don't know shit. What a garbage generation.
>>29657764
the fact that I can't get a gf
>>29671160
It baffles me that you normie scum still come on this board.
>>29658613
>lower your standards, date a girl who is over 300 pounds like im doing.
Yeah right, since I don't care at all about sex and sex would be horrible anyway with that fat blob I don't see why I should.
Fine for you if you're into that but to me it's as bad as choosing a Tranny, disgusting either way.
It's just a complete waste of time. I've had relationships before. My first one was 4 years and horrible. Was cheated on, used and dumped for a rich guy. Had about 2 serious ones since then and a few casual ones. I've been rejected more times than I can count. Women are absolute shit. I just can't stand the courtship games. I'm not going to be anyone's fucking court jester anymore.
I'm attractive but grew up a complete autist and nerd, and grew out of it a couple years ago and became a Normie. I've got a good job for my age and have money now. Women show interest in me but I just can't be bothered.
For the virgins, you guys aren't missing anything at all. Sex really isn't any big deal.
>>29657764
grew up pretty isolated from people, so now I feel really different to others
that and I overthink every situation all the time
>>29671225
+ ultra manlet
I'm an unemployed mental health patient with nothing to offer anyone
I love other people and want to make them happy and ease their pain, but I'm also too scared of them to act on those feelings
Gonna an hero soon
>>29658162
>not wanting power
Don't fool yourself.
>>29671276
Me too anon, I can't think of any other solution for us
>>29660662
Have you ever had of a certain Chad Thunderwheelz?
>>29657764
Simply because it's not worth it for me.
The only girls who would date a friendless autist with no power are either landwhales or ugly faced girls, and it's just not worth it for me, it's nto worth going out with them, paying them dinner, seeing them every fucking day, chatting with them, only to get to fuck an obese blob or whatever, and I don't particularly care for sex anyway, I'd rather stay alone.
>>29657764
>>29657922
>>29660364
>>29671368
All of this. I'm an 19 yr old kissless hugless everythingless virgin and have given up on getting a girlfriend. I have 7/10 looks at best with a beta personality.
I could of been born in an era when Chad didn't exist and couples built their love through marriage and grew to love each other, rather than quick meet-and-fucks that occur today with apps such as Tinder which confirms the 80/20 rule.
I've asked so many girls at my high school and they all looked very average looking (5/10). I could tell how obvious it was that all of them looked to fuck Chad. One of them asked me out but by then she was a 3/10 hambeast tumblrina.
I hate the fact that women are the supportive, emotional sex yet instantly put down guys because they don't have the looks or the money.
>>29660764
OR it could be because you are a pathological liar
>>29657764
Just living my life. I have a thesis to write, research to do, and jobs to complete. I don't have time for a "girlfriend" who wants to go hang out 24/7 or talk on the phone for ages. However, I don't mind someone helping me out on chores, doing my laundry, etc... but then she would be my wife and I am glad I have one.
>>29671710
>just living my life bro. on r9k. but I've shit to do, I don't have time for this.
>but muh wife
You're a piece of shit.
>>29671571
You've brought all of this on yourselves. Quit trying to blame external factors, you pathetic little shit. All of the things you complain about are on you. Enjoy it, motherfucker.
I dont meet a lot of women outside of work and small talk is not for me. Usually I don't speak to strangers.
health problems mean I barely keep up with life, and am depressed a lot. Having a gf would push me over the edge and I'd feel shitty for being depressed around her
>>29665081
I'm the same, but I don't know why I'm like this. What made you the way you are?
>>29657764
realizing that I don't need one, can't sustain one nor can afford one. The only way a girlfriend would be benificial to me is sociel status and that is a pretty pathetic thing desu.
Well I asked myself why anyone would want to date me, what do I have to offer? I found my answer which is nothing and I've just accepted that
>>29671710
All you do is live on 4chan though.
I didn't. I still want a girlfriend and mutual love and will still try to make that happen. However I'm deluding myself when I say I'll somehow succeed there. I don't have the looks, I'm skinny, I mostly spend my time inside playing video games, and my personality combined with my looks offers nothing that would interest a girl. Looks matter more than personality, evident by my good looking friend who have girls after him despite being on the spectrum.
>>29672221
And he is living the dream.
>>29657764
Being told "you look ugly" straight to the face by a girl, no sympathetic-lying "hehe, you would be great for any girl [that is not me]!".
Had some terrible experiences with girls growing up, from grade school to high school. I always had friends, but girls always ignored me unless they wanted something or it was to make fun of me.
I see the same shit now that I'm in law school. I do have friends who are women, but the vast majority of them are conniving and petty. Given how terrible most western women are, it's not worth the pain to search through the garbage to find the one person who's actally nice. Especially when she's either already dating or married to Chad
>>29671813
How the fuck is any of that is fault?
>>29668347
>be 4/10
>mad that you score a 3/10
The entitlement on this board is ridiculous.
>>29657764
Too scared of physical intimacy, too scared kids, risk, etc. Too scared of getting cheated on, stuff like that cuz i know i wouldnt be able to handke it with this mind. Ontop of all that i just genuinely dont like women, none of them interest me on a personal level, theyre just not for me. And i know the typical boy girl relationship would suffocate once i got over my initial rush, i need to be free, so all this ends with me being a bitter virgin fag whos to scared and hateful to change
>>29673719
And i know women dont like me at al which makes me even more uncomfortable around them
>>29657764
Realizing that my unhappiness has roots far deeper than the lack of a girlfriend.
Also realizing I don't like being around people, and that a gf is even more work than the average person.
