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Where does the meme that women need to be experienced in sex to be desirable come from?
Is it Cosmo or what? Try asking a guy instead of reading some dumb journalist woman who knows everything.

Being experienced is desirable when you want to fuck them, nobody really wants to teach you how to suck cock during casual sex.
But this goes for both sexes, men who know what they're doing are desirable sex partners, that does not mean they're relationship material.

You're killing one aspect of relationships by knowing exactly what you want and don't want in bed instead of exploring with your partner. Sure, it might be somewhat awkward experimentation but if you end up only doing things you enjoy which is nice but makes things boring much more quickly.

Imagine you're with a very experienced guy - he always takes the lead and knows what he wants and knows when it's done well.
He'll just flat out tells you he will never eat you out because he doesn't like it, this is stunting and limiting what you can do as couple.
He will never do it and you will never experience it in that relationship. Other way around applies too when you're giving him a handjob or something he will always compare you to a 'standard' because he has received good ones and bad ones.
The fact that you will eventually improve over time doesn't mean jack because he knows what he wants, and you're only slowly working towards it.
When you actually reach the 'norm' and provide high quality handjob for him it will be like you finally got good enough to do it right.
Same applies for experienced women, except guys find this twice as stressful and off-putting because they now have to compete with previous men in pleasing you and reaching your 'standard'.
Being able to 'fuck a woman proper' is important part of the average males ego because he is taught that pleasing the woman is the most important thing in his life.