>tfw found a cutie online
>trying to get her to be my gf
>exchange pictures
>voice chat together
>watch stuff together
>all of a sudden she deletes her accounts
>privates her shit
>won't respond
It's over robots the last bit of hope of finding a gf for me. Guess i'll just kms
>>29646601
okay goodbye senpai. rip in piss
>>29646606
Was I getting catfished and she wanted some orbiter bucks? Did she do all that because she found out I wouldn't give her money?
>>29646634
you got cucked, famalamadingdong
>>29646601
Who was it?
Oregano commento
>>29646910
No one from here I can tell you that, why do you care?
you can't "get" someone to be your "gf"
it happens naturally or not at all or if it happens unnaturally it is not a good thing
she probably thought you were a desperate creep who wanted way more from her than she wanted from you.
either that or she was doing the same things with somebody else, and decided she liked him more than you
>>29646947
>either that or she was doing the same things with somebody else, and decided she liked him more than you
These seems the most likely answer since that would explain why she privated and deleted everything
>>29646634
They probably just got bored of you. It happens a lot with girls online. They can go from the closest relationship you have to zero contact. Don't take it personally. They probably just didn't like you that way and wanted to end it in a way that wouldn't be messy.
>found qt online
>basically just a female version of me
>"can i message you while you're doing stuff? i don't want to seem crazy"
>"please do message me"
>never fucking responds to anything all day
is this some kind of rule for women, or is she just so busy with her 1000 other chad bfs?
>>29646965
I would wished she would have just said this wouldn't work out and say good bye instead of ghosting me.
>>29646994
you're tugging on my heart strings dude, stahp it.
>>29646994
You'd be surprised how much that can backfire especially since you have picture of her. People are less likely to leak pictures if they get fully cut off. Honestly it should be easier to get over her with zero contact.
>>29646921
Your story is similar to mine except she was from here.
I also already told my story.
Women are monsters who exist just to make you feel feelings for them and then ghost you.
>>29647034
Sorry anon but this just literally happened to me
>>29647045
But she already gave those memories to me and all just to ghost me and not say anything
>>29647068
I'm guessing you are >>29646993 ?
What's her account stuff I wanna message her
>>29647088
no, >>29646993
is me, the >>29647034
guy.
>>29647088
Thats just how it goes. Be happy you got that time together and move on. There are tons of girls online that could stay your friend for years.
>>29646993
Its more like they have at least 5 or 6 guys they talk to at all times so keeping their attention is hard. If they don't find what you say interesting or can't start a conversation off what you say they won't reply. I do that to people whenever I either don't feel like talking or have nothing to add to what they said.
>>29646994
Don't hold onto it for too long, Anon. She doesnt love you. It might hurt now. I dont know you, but I've been in a very similar situation, and I waited for a really long time, almost over a year. It tore me apart and made me idealize her. Don't do this anon, it hurts more in the long run. She doesn't love you. Try and believe she never did.
>>29646601
Bruh, if you didnt like by day 3 ask her to send some of them nudes you fucked up, you a cucked ass son of a bitch.
grow a spine baka
>>29647148
then why the fuck do they bother to ask me if i can text them through the day, and say they like talking to me and skype me? are grills really this mean that they're going to give me false hopes?
>>29647135
I'm still bit confused but ok
>>29647148
Except I wanted a girlfriend anon not a girl that is a friend.
>>29647149
>She doesn't love you. Try and believe she never did.
This I just need to ingrain this in my head and I might be able to get over her, but it might take me awhile.
I somehow got a full on relationship for 2 years based on this (and RL stuff), but now he doesn't want to watch anymore. At least she fucked you early on.
>>29647212
Try to get over her soon, Anon. Don't make her special or dear to you, or you'll rip yourself apart from the inside. I hope the best for you.
>>29647212
i worded that poorly because i am a fat retard.
>>29646993 and >>29647034 are the same duderino.
>>29647183
Its not about false hope. You may have had good conversations with them, but they just don't feel like talking everyday. I have people who message me almost everyday, but I only talk to them like twice a week. You will never be able to know if they are actually busy or just avoiding you.
>>29647212
That still applies then. Just replace the friend part with gf. Also it helps to try and find someone who lives near you so you can move it to an irl thing within the first few months before the boredom of an online relationship sinks in.
beta orbiters get gassed
>>29646601
Sorry OP, women are shit like that. You get used to it.
>>29647255
Well she was the first to not mind how ugly I was anon so it's kinda hard.
>>29647257
I think she was trying to make you an orbiter anon
>>29647266
I live in a city where everyone are assholes and liars so I don't think i'll be to find anyone.
>>29647281
>You get used to it
So heart broken over and over?
>>29647266
nice doubles.
well she's NEET so she wouldn't be too busy. i don't get it though, she's done this ever since i met her. we message each other for 20 mins to an hour straight then 7 hours of nothing. i don't get it.
also r u gril?
>>29647314
>So heart broken over and over?
Until you find the right person.
>>29647314
what the fuck is even the point of an orbiter though? it can't be that easy to pull money from someone who isn't your boyfriend, can it? is it really about the attention or is it just a meme?
>>29647314
I know how you feel, Anon. I idealized the first girl that loved me to a ridiculous point. Please don't let this happen to you. I have been telling a friend in a similar situation to even get angry. It's healthier than getting stuck and thinking of what could have been.
>>29647343
Or until you never find one.
>>29647359
Girls like to get weak beta cucks that will give them money in exchange for pictures, attention, etc
>>29647377
Did you ever find another girl that can love you?
>>29647314
It doesn't have to be the same city. Mostly aim for someone who isn't 3+ hours away. Honestly most girls aren't looking for an online relationship and end up dropping most of their online friends when they find someone irl. Thats why you should aim for someone in driving/public transport distance. It will make things easier in the long run.
>>29647320
Some people don't wanna talk for more than an hour at a time. I know I don't like have long conversations if I'm reading threads or watching something.Don't worry about my gender
>>29647398
you don't straight up ignore them though, do you? you at least tell them you're gonna do something else i hope.
also that's saucy and mysterious
>>29647398
roastie detected. get out reee etc. etc.
>>29647424
I usually don't reply until I feel like talking or actually have something to talk about. I admit its a bit rude, but I'd rather be a bit rude than have a bunch of conversations that are just small talk or end up being one to three messages.
>>29647397
>Did you ever find another girl that can love you?
I had my own issues, panic attacks, night terrors, OCD, and probably a ton more. I had to go through a lot of bad relationships(online ones anyway) until I had a really bad one, that lasted way too long and made me miserable. It took that to break the mentality that it was all my fault, but I still clung onto her, like some sort of guardian angel, looking over me, I would talk to her, even prayed to her a couple of times. I thought that she looked over all my relations, and made things go wrong if the girl wasn't the right one. This was all due to the weird way of disappearing she had, where she left me with no trail to follow.
Yeah, to answer the question, it took a girl that lived close enough to me for me to get over these things. I am happy I met her, and even told her about this 'guardian angel' delusion of mine. She told me it was fine so long as I didn't need her anymore, and so I decided I wanted to try and give love a shot again, so I let go. There is no longer a hole in my chest.
>>29647398
>It doesn't have to be the same city. Mostly aim for someone who isn't 3+ hours away.
And where would I be able to find someone like that?
>>29647511
Good for you anon glad at least someone can turn out happy in this rotten place called earth. If you don't mind me asking where did you meet her?
>>29647531
Either through hobbies or just keep making friends online until you eventually meet a girl that lives within a reasonable distance. I know a lot of anons meet through cons or just random board meetups. It takes a lot of effort to meet decent people online, but it is possible.
>>29647531
Here on r9k, desu. All the memes about roasties and """"""fembots"""""" might be true, I don't know, but I've been with her for 8 months, and we haven't fought a single time. We're transparent with each other and we even sleep together on skype every day. It makes me happy. She's planning on flying to me this upcoming month, but if that doesn't go through, I'll probably fly or drive to her in the summer.
>Bonus: she's a virgin like me
I'm never gonna win the lottery, I spent all my luck right here, desu.
>>29647597
I've getting old though anon and i've been trying for the past couple years.
>>29647604
Lucky anon I've met some fembots from here and became friends with them, but most of them were just orbiter collectors or attention whores.
>>29647623
As long as you aren't 35+ you should be fine. If you are under 27 you are still young. Don't let the fact that there are a lot of teens on 4chan make you feel old. I'm in my mid twenties and I get that feeling sometimes, but once I'm out in the real world I remember that I'm still pretty young compared to most people.
>>29647623
I was afraid of this to begin with, but she assured me, and of course I was skeptical. She pretends to be a dude on the internet, and she tells me about her online friends. She honestly doesn't have all that many, and I don't feel threatened by any of them. I feel a bit guilty sometimes but she also barely speaks to them anymore, because we spend most of the day together. She doesn't really have much time for anyone else.
>>29647672
>but once I'm out in the real world
Sorry anon but I'm not a normal.
>>29647687
You sir are one lucky man. Wish I could find a cutie like yours somewhere.
I do this to girls online all the time because im scared they might hurt me first.
Threads like this validate me, thank you.
>>29646601
I know you'll hate hearing this but the truth hurts. If she cared about talking to you or missed you, she would find a way to contact you or at least respond to you and tell you what's going on. I'm sorry, OP. :(
>>29647720
I really wish what happened to me could happen to everyone, but don't follow the path I took, there's nicer roads to take. I say this from a place of experience, try and forget this girl, and don't latch onto her, Anon.
its really easy to tell that she just found chad
>>29647720
Thats fine. I meant it more to show you probably aren't as old as you think you are. If you wanna focus on meeting people online there is a NEET thread on /soc/ that gets a decent amount of traffic you could try.
>>29646601
She doesn't like you. Women are cowards so she dealt with the problem in the most circuitous way possible instead of just telling you to fuck off. You might be glad of this if you're emotionally fragile.
>find girl online
>watch stuff together
>play vidya together
>voice chat together
>get a picture of her
>she'snot attractive
>>29647758
Yeah I kept hoping she would contact me soon if she actually cared about me but it's been an hour so I think it's over and no hope.
>>29647760
I won't contact her or follow her anymore but anon what if she suddenly one day wants to work it out? I get a feeling that'll be because the other guy she chose didn't want her so she now wants to settle with me. If that's the case I don't want anything to do with her.
>>29647784
I don't want to meet people anon I just want a gf that doesn't have orbiters or many friends.
>>29647815
The girl I found wasn a 5/10 but I didn't mind the looks since she was pretty nice to me.
>>29647829
No, Anon. If she wants to work it out she needs to prove it and make it up to you. Look, I was in an awful really long relationship because I gave second chances. Never again. I was hurt so bad I learned to stop believing people. If she had the heart to lie to your face and remove you, over ANYTHING, then she will not be good for you. Sane, healthy relationships don't work like that.
>>29647829
Thats gonna be pretty tough desu. Girls online tend to get orbiters even if they try to avoid it. I guess the best you can do is either try here or other sites like reddit or something. I don't really have any more advice. I hope you can find someone though and don't give up hope.
>>29647901
How would I be able to get her to prove it or make it up anon?
>>29647941
I've tried here before but don't think i'll ever find anyone.
>>29647990
Man how would I know? The fact that you still want her after she wronged you is concerning. It depends on what she has to do for you to prove that she wont do it again. Sadly, Anon, past behavior is an indicator of future behavior.
>>29648040
While I agree on that. I don't know anon what'll I do. I doubt it will happen anyways.
>>29648080
Detach, friend. Really, get angry if you need to. I beg you, don't get attached don't idealize her. It hurts a lot more than it helps. See things for what they are, maybe let it hurt for a bit, and then move on, Anon. Really. She's not the one.
>>29648130
anon how will I find a cutie girl on here like you did got any advice?
>>29648151just b urself brah xd
I honestly can't. If I hadn't met this girl, the void would still be there, I would be hurt from that long shitty relationship, and I would probably had become a pathetic beta orbiter. I don't know how I did it, Anon, other than sheer luck. There was some time when I just tried to talk to as many people as I could, but nothing came of that either. I honestly am ill equipped to give you advice on the matter.
>>29648231
Well good for you anon I'm just going to drink till I forget
