Have you ever been in love?
>>29631930
I've never been in love. There were 2 girls who were in love with me i didnt felt the same towards them.
Never have and never will.
I'll show you some originality, you cunt bot.
yes
and then i proceeded to fuck everything up because anxiety and social retardation, go me
>>29631930
Just once
She didn't reciprocate because her friend was trying to get with me, although that was probably just an excuse because she didn't feel the same way, which is kind of funny because it just ended up making me hate her friend.
>>29631930
>Have you ever been in love?
quite a lot but i don't think it's really loved probably just infatuation i guess i never really felt love almost feel like it's not real probably is love doesn't exist at least for me it doesn't
>>29631930
Once. We were together for a month. I was too big of a mess at the time, was not in the place to step back from the situation, strategically do things, and adjust myself to adapt to what was occurring. I stole her heart briefly, then she came to her senses and left me. I was pretty torn up, then again i didn't need much help being torn up.
yeah, just once.
we went out for a while and after the 3rd break up she just straight up questioned my commitment and called my love for her an infatuation.
and then hooked up with some dude 2 weeks later.
I hate her.and still very much love her
>>29632149
Your story sounds kind of like mine. I hope you've made it through some of the pain.
Yeah, first crush from my hometown. Eventually got back into contact with her and am dating her again. City girls are shit. SHIIIIT
>>29631930
Nope, although I had a bunch of crushes I gave up on. Had a cute cousin as a kid who liked me, haven't seen her for years, but I don't think that's love so much as it is nostalgia.
It's not for everyone.
>>29632181
Enough of it, it's been 4 years though, just about. The first year was fucking savage, the second was nasty, the third hurt, and it's looking like the last one is tapering into nothing. I have a tulpa now though, and that helps. I am finding something there that someone else just couldn't offer anyway. I think that even with the person of my dreams there would be a lot of problems, things could always go bad, pressure to have kids, it eating my resources, them getting older. It's not that great.
>>29632166
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGSBp_ODzxw
I LOVE THAT PAIN BITCH BITCH PAIN LOVE BITCH
Once. It was horrible.
>in love with my big brother for as long as I can remember since we grew up really close
>he gets a gf
>always hoping they break up but they never do
>some years pass
>they announce they're getting married
>pretend to be happy for them
>his wife wants me to be a bridesmaid but I refuse
>invited to their wedding anyway
>they announce they're expecting a baby
>cry all night
>>29632474
I'll be your neetboy slave if it makes you feel better
No, I'm pretty envious of the robots who have been, even if it was unrequited or they fucked it up because of social anxiety or whatever. I made an effort to be more social and outgoing, but overcoming your social issues won't make any difference if you can't find anyone to care for. There's nothing I want more than to find someone like that, but I can't help but loathe everybody I meet.
>>29632474
Be my gf, I'll let you call me onii-chan.
YesShe hurt me.
>>29632474
did you ever fuck him?
>>29631930
I had deep feelings for a few people but I don't know if it can be called love
Yes.
It was one of the stupidest decisions of my life.
>>29632516
No, sorry, I only have eyes for onii-chan.
>>29632690
>Be my gf, I'll let you call me onii-chan.
Thats not even the reason anyway, but no.
>>29632714
No, he doesn't even know.
>>29631930
>met a guy online
>we both tell each other we're in love but he doesn't want to call it official until he comes home from the marines
>promises he'll wait for me
>log on to my online account to delete it, haven't been on in ages since our first date
>see that he still uses it
Not fair, it's not fucking fair.
>>29632757
If there's no incest fetish, what's the reason to be in love with your brother? I just find this a fascinating situation.
>>29632834
We were best friends when we were growing up, always together and I developed feelings for him.
>>29632757
;^(
Kanye West:You'll never find nobody better than me
>>29632474
>they're getting married
give them a year at most, normies keep wasting money on marriages and getting pissed off with their partner
>>29633143
>give them a year at most, normies keep wasting money on marriages and getting pissed off with their partner
They've been married for 4 years now and are expecting another baby this year.
>>29631930
No, it seems like I just can't feel "love". I don't know why, I've tried to, and yet I couldn't.
>>29633153
oh...well shit.
sorry to hear that anon.
Yes
It was, and continues to be, my biggest mistake. It really hurt a lot
Except liking some girl in primary school and finding other chicks attractive?
Nope.
Yes. It was at first sight. Me and Mineral Basin have been going steady for 4 years.
Women come and go. The mountains will always be there for you.
>>29631930
Maybe. Fell for a girl that was cute and started to do hints shit at me. Obviously I never experienced that before and thought nothing of it until I saw serious signs.
Even then I did jackshit because I can't handle the moments I'm close to her.
Might be some sort of heart or blood problem. I sweat and enter panic with pretty girls too easily.
But she got fat and tumblr affected, stopped making my gut feel funny.
>girl supports the fact gender roles are shit
>wants an omega to ask her out
It's poetry.
>>29633248
Second biggest mistake, next to tripfaggory.
I've certainly felt love, there are three real girls and four 2D where I felt what I think is love. Just sheer almost childlike happiness just from thinking about them.
Once, when I was like 13
>>29633248
How could it be a mistake? You don't choose whether to or with who you fall in love. If anything it was just bad luck.
Yes.
I used to be a robot and had a waifu. Thought that was love, but it's not real love. It's not reciprocated either.
Now I have a real gf. Every minute of every day I want to be with her. She feels the same way.
After having been depressed, the best way I can describe the feeling is like this:
Know that cold void in your chest? Love is when that feels extremely warm and you can feel the glowing sensation.
You'll make it eventually.
>>29633889
sooner or later
>>29634087
When I fall in love with someone I fall in love in unhealthy amounts and more often then not it just leaves me in a bad position. I had a choice with how I reacted to being in love and I made a lot of bad choices
>>29634200
>She feels the same way.
yeah sure, buddy
lol
>>29634344
Is that why she draws and paints for me every day?
Is that why she blows me on command?
How about why I was her first boyfriend?
What about her first kiss?
I wonder why she tells me she misses me every day more than she's missed anything ever.
Wow I guess she really doesn't like me.
You'll never have anything remotely close to this. And that makes me happier than anything else. Because you don't fucking deserve it.
>>29634200
>You'll make it eventually
I appreciate the thought but I really doubt that many robots will make it, if any do.
nah, would have needed to indulge my infatuations with a lot more hope to get close to calling it love
Twice, only twice. There is no success story to tell.
>>29631930
No, nowadays because i'm akward and ugly as fuck and no one talks to me, so aside some kind of atraction, it's not love
>>29634344
>>29634401
He sounds pissy but he's right.
You need trust senpai
>>29631930
kind of, but that was a long time ago.
>>29631930
No and I never had a "crush" either.>"robots" that have felt love
Lmao you ain't shit you niggers
Old enough to post on this board and nope
I'm 23 and I have never even had a crush. I can't seem to feel emotionally attached to anyone.
probably gonna try to make a tulpa before I hit 30
>>29631930
>you will never experience pure innocent childhood love
it's too much
>Online friend gives me attention
>Fall in love with him
Is that love?
YES AND I RUINED IT BETWEEN US
STOP MAKING ME FEEL WHAT I DONT WANT TO FEEL
>>29632166
Oh God I know this feel
>>29631930
Yes. She was one of the shyest and nicest girls at my high school. Unfortunately, she had a boyfriend at the time. Very ugly, long hair, lots of acne, i'm pretty sure she dated him out of pity.Turns out the dude was a weirdo. Rumors around my high school went around saying he did freaky shit to her, and they eventually broke up during my senior year.
I'm still really curious about what she's doing nowadays. I hope she's fine.
>>29637007
iktf
Infatuation, not love.
I try no to, never ends well for me.
What does love even feel like?
There's been girls that I've enjoyed being around, talking to them would make me happy and I'd be excited to see them again, but I don't know if I've ever loved any of them.
Is it one of those things where you just know what it is when it happens?
I think I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I fear that he doesn't feel the same. Would ask him but it would be clingy and insecure.
>>29637007
No, that's infatuation. Love can be born of an online connection over time. Just as a tip, don't use "love" early into anything at all. Just as another tip: Don't break that tip just because they use it first and keep using it.
Yes, and so far, its been fucking miserable
Oooh yes
She eventually went on to become one of those kawaiixDgoth people and an insufferable cunt even for their standards
And even though highschool's been over for a long fucking time I still think about her daily. Literally the first thing I'd do before offing myself would be to drive to wherever the fuck she lives now and confess to herWhat the fuck did you do to me katharina I still fucking love you
>>29631930
Love is strange. i've been in love with situations that I've set myself in, like going through the galaxy, finding a woman who's beautiful but not into me,so I have to work hard to get to her and defend her from all things evil in it, and save the galaxy together. My perfect women in another universe. It almost brings me to tears, thinking that it will never happen
Can someone explain this "love" thing to me? Personally severely lacking in the emotions department, and some clarification on the whole ordeal would be much appreciated.
>>29633153
I sincerely hope you can move on, and proceed to have a wonderful life
>>29637787
this is stupid, but i like it.
>>29632149
Same here man.
I still think about her, but it's getting a bit easier now.
>>29631930
Onceshe was from r9k so it ended badly
There was this girl when I was 17 who I was infatuated with in High School
What do you do if someone loves you and you don't love them? Is it reasonable to stay with them and wait until you fall in love with them as well?
I don't understand how people even get together. Feels like most of the time the love will be unrequited, so you'd have to keep falling in love several times until you luck out and fall in love with someone who also happened to fall in love with you at the same time.
Not really, I would like to. But it just never happened. I can recognise the "hotness" in a person, but i've never felt the "Heart beating" and stuff like that. It kinda sucks.
I was loved by a few gals around, But I've never concluded anything, because I didn't liked them back, and I didn't wanted ti fake attraction.
The overall concept seems strange.
I would love to love. Am I a tin can?
>>29634401
Good for you and all, but you sound like a triggered bitch lol, lighten up
>>29638672
It's called unrequited love, nigger. Just ignore it. It's pretty common.
>>29631930
One time
I crushed heavily on a girl, and not quite so heavily on another at another point.
I've only loved fictional characters.
Twice. First time was on my first ever gf which was full normie. Didn't last long and thanks god I got rid of her and second one was true love. For me, she was perfect. I truly loved her and I still do. Only problem was that it was a long distance relationship. She was fembot tier, frequent panic attacks, depression and even bipolar disorder. I even tried my best to support her but the long distance killed it for us. I gave the relationship all I could but it wasn't enough. Now after reading a shitton of /r9k/ I wonder if shes gonna become a stacy or whore herself cause she had some pretty big self esteem and body issues even though she was perfectly fine. She would starve herself to death. I just hope shes all right and I wonder if I might be responsable of her future and the way she will behave now. Haven't been able to maintain a conversation or love a girl ever since. Might off myself soon.
>>29638926
So it really is the luck of the draw? You can't make yourself fall in love and you can't encourage someone else fall in love with you? Even if you like them platonically?
>>29639188
I guess. I mean, unless you're already in love with someone, how are you supposed to fall in love with them?
>>29639226
I thought you could agree to go on a date with them or something. I mean if you don't find them disgusting or anything. If you like them as a person but just haven't gotten that spark, couldn't you develop it just like they developed an affection for you? I don't even know because I don't have any experience with this.
