>"Wahh I can't get a gf"
>Every time anon posts a girl he has a crush on she's clearly out of his league
Go after what you have a reasonable chance of attracting, not women you have no chance in getting. For r9k that's chicks with low self esteem, fat girls, homely girls and so on.
You'll never ever get the women you're going for right now, that's why you're alone.I know some robots go after girls that are attainable, well done to those guys for having reasonable goals.
>>29631545
Nakamura-san, you know robots will say
> I refuse, is it that hard to find a skinny white girl who is smart, likes my hobbies, isn't batshit insane and also a virgin
but the answer is yes, because that girl is out of your league.
>>29631545
But I tried to get fat and homely girls, but I'm too boring even for them.
I learned that just knowing about anime doesn't helps you gets girls if you don't have an ounce of charisma.
>>29631590
Not even Chad gets a girl like that, a robot expecting to is delusional.
>>29631615
Keep trying anon, I know it's easy for me to sit here and tell you what to do but think of it in terms of percentages.
The longer you keep looking the higher your chance you'll find someone. I won't lie, it's not easy and it could take years. I took the easy way out andgot a bf.
>>29631545
dude, fat and homely girls are not easy as you expect
When we say we want a gf, it should be obvious that she needs to be attractive. Otherwise what is the point?
>>29631545
>fat girls
Eww, no. If i'm skinny why i should date some landwhale who has no discipline?
>>29631647
I didn't say they were easy, I said they were attainable for robots. You won't strike out 100% of the time, you'll have a fighting chance of maybe 10%.
People here just refuse to lower their standards and whine about how unfair it is. They also refuse to better themselves by and large. To those who do, props and this doesn't apply to you.
Obviously, if you're not an attractive male or otherwise flawed (socially, personality wise, etc.), you can't expect to get a pure white gf who will indulge your every fetish. You're undesirable, so you should look for other undesirables. I guarantee you 75% of this board could get a gf if it meant pursuing fatties and single mothers. But the people on this board don't want to because they're undesirable.
You guys are no different from the hamplanet who refuses to "settle" for a nice guy and then complains about how lonely she is. You're not lonely by anything but choice.
t. male who is lonely not by choice and doesn't have the option of settling for a landwhale or single mother.
>>29631680
Well there's attractive then there's out of your league, if you refuse to date anyone but girls who are out of your league then you'll probably be alone your whole life.
You have to settle for women you can actually attract.
>>29631684
>Talking about discipline on a board for permanently unemployed hermits
But ok fine, if you don't like fat chicks then go after the the homely girls. You're cutting your chances by a lot though.
What's the point of settling down with a girl that you feel to affection for whatsoever? If I literally feel disgust if I look at my 0.5/10 bald, SJW, landwhale "gf" , I'd rather be alone as I always was.
>>29631742
>What's the point of settling down with a guy that you feel no affection for whatsoever? If I literally feel disgust if I look at my 0.5/10 bald, MRA, landwhale bf , I'd rather be alone.
>>29631742
Because there's been studies that go most people won't feel disgust for someone on the same level as them. If you're a 5/10, another 5 or a 4 won't look bad to you, but they likely would if you yourself were a 10.
So if you're a 0.5/10, another person similarly low would look fine to you, according to matching hypothesis.
You still find people above it good looking, but don't find those at your level repulsive generally. There's very few absolute 1/10 people though, that's serious deformity levels.
>>29631742
But it's not a choice between the 7-8/10 girls you want and an obese, sjw.
There's the homely girls you often see at anime cons, the low self esteem girls who barely ever leave their house. There's girls out there you could end up going out with if you stopped having these delusional standards for attraction.
Look at yourself in the mirror and be honest about how attractive you are and what you should reasonably expect from a gf.
>>29631764
WHO THE FUCK IS TALKING TO YOU ROASTIE WHORE? GO SUCK A DICK, YOU TRIGGERED, WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT I CAN SMELL THE CRUST CUMSTAINS FROM A MILE AWAY! MOST OF XOUR RUCKING BRAIN MUST HAVE GOT LOST WHEN YOUR FUCKING SKULL WAS STILL IN NEWBORN MODE AND SHIFTING AND SHIT! BITCH!
>>29631545
I like butterfaces with amazing thick bodies
>>29631825
>Accusing me of being female
I just typed that out to indicate you are literally no different from "lonely women" who refuse to settle. I'm a male who doesn't have the option of settling, you're not lonely if you think you could date below your level but refuse to as you imply, I don't have that choice. It's infuriating. You're no better than a roastie you failed normalfag.
>>29631784
> So if you're a 0.5/10, another person similarly low would look fine to you, according to matching hypothesis.
The hypothesis is clearly, completely false.
>>29631545
I actually want one with a low self-esteem or homely, the problem is they're all either attention whores or really ugly
>>29631796
But mirrors lie, that's the funny part. On the mirror I'm a rock solid 3/10, but the pictures show how you really look like. And in my case that's fucking disgusting. You know the brain makes you prettier and stuff when you look at the mirror.
>>29631845
Too bad there's multiple studies supporting, right? I'm sure your feelings are more important though
>>29631864
This is false too. In a mirror, you look how your normally look. Preferably one in normal lighting, too, not the shit lighting a lot of bathrooms have that's quite harsh.
You look shit in photos because it's a reversed version of yourself, you're used to seeing a reflection, so a non-reflected image of you looks strange to your mind, and results in you thinking you're hideous.
>>29631545
>crush on
>Go after
do you ever listen to yourself?
>be white
>have good facial aesthetics
>take care of myself physically. Lift, do regular cardio, have never been fat in my life
>never smoked or done any drugs in my life besides alcohol and coffee
>don't have any weird degenerate hobbies, I haven't been a serious gamer since high school (I'm a filthy casual now). Am not in to anime.
>go to a good university, have a good chance of making decent money once I'm out
But despite all these normie qualities, I'm actually bottom of the barrel in terms of overall attractiveness because I'm 5'4 and very introverted, and somehow deserve nothing better than a used up, homely, tattooed land whale with purple hair.
Fuck this earth.
>>29631545
I am not fat so far girls are in my league, i am not homely so homely girls are not in my league. I do seek girls i believe are of equal attractiveness and fitness as me who are also insecure like me but still i have no gf. My standards are fine, my no gf isnt.
>>29631953
You, along with everyone else, don't "deserve" any partner. Stop acting so entitled.
>>29631901
Is a non reflected image not what other people see?
>>29631969
I knew someone would give me crap for using that word. I don't think I'm entitled but at the same time I shouldn't have to settle for fat women if I MYSELF AM NOT FAT AND ACTUALLY TAKE CARE OF MY OWN BODY
>>29631994
If you are an insecure beta cuckboy, fat girls are in your league actually.
>>29631994
>don't think I'm entitled but at the same time I shouldn't have to settle for fat women if I MYSELF AM NOT FAT AND ACTUALLY TAKE CARE OF MY OWN BODY
You don't seem to understand. No, you're not fat. But you are undesirable for one reason or another. Therefore, you can't expect to attain a relationship with someone desirable if you are plainly majorly undesirable yourself.
Fat women are considered undesirable, as are single mothers. If you realistically want a girlfriend you would date them, because, even though you don't share their specific flaws, they are also undesirable. Either try to date them or stop whining about no gf/accept being alone.
>>29631994
>not dating a fat girl and turning her into a hot fit gf by forcing her to workout with you and slipping her fatburners
>>29631954
m8 you gotta realize that women and men are not held to the same standard. It's fucked up but it's the way things are. A 2/10 woman can get laid easily but a 6/10 man still has to work his ass off to get laid. It's partly men's fault for being horny as fuck and bombarding women with propositions. If women didn't have so many thirsty guys constantly doting on them there wouldn't be this imbalance with supply and demand. I'm not trying to white knight, it's just how things are.
I don't think it's possible to lower your standarts just like that. If you feel attracted to them you do and if don't you don't. You can't just go
> I don't like this girl at all, but I'm ugly af too, so it's ok
There is just no hope for guys like me. Like faggots, I can't change and was just born this way. I'm just fucked. I can only hope for a fateful encounter or something.
>>29631545
That's the dumbest shit OP. That suggestion is like the worst I have ever heard. People have no control of who they are attracted to. Also it's bad for peoples self esteem to settle. People should try their best to improve and work towards getting the type of girl they truly want. If they find that despite their best efforts it didn't work, they should then pursue something else with their lives. That is the most dignified way of going about things in my opinion. Settling is pathetic.
>>29631970
It is, but it only looks shit to you because you're not used to seeing it. It looks strange and your brain isn't used to it, so you think it's bad.
To others, this isn't the case, so a more accurate image of how you look is yourself in the mirror, as both are versions that the person normally sees. You'd look weird if another person looked at a reflection of you too.
>>29632086
I know you mean well, pham but there's no sugartalking or denying it, we are ugly af. The photo doesn't lie.
>>29632123
The photo doesn't lie, but your brain absolutely does. Believe you look how you do in a mirror, because that's how you look to everyone else.
This isn't just something I'm making up, it's pretty well known.
>it's a some faggot tries to give advice to robots episode.
Oh brother...!
>>29632123
Cameras are notoriously bad at accurately reproducing an image in the way that it looks to a human eye. Lighting is the biggest problem. A mirror shows you an image of yourself in the way that people see you in real life.
Go after a girl you can actually talk to and stop basing leagues on how they look, then maybe you'll get a fulfilling relationship and stop orbiting superficial stacies
>>29632172
>>29632229
Just took a video of myself and it's something between mirror-me and video-me. Why is perception so all over the place...still thanks for the heads-up.
>>29632330
*mirror-me and photo-me
>>29631545
>You'll never ever get a season 2 of aku no hana
A mirror flipping your image does not matter.
Take a picture of yourself, flip it horizontally in mspaint or whatever, and you'll still look just as shitty.
>>29632078
I'm not saying it's a switch you can just toggle in your brain, I'm talking about the guys who look at a girls and say "eh she's ok I guess but I can do better". They're attracted to her and would fuck her but think they deserve someone hotter.
>>29631545
why would i want to go out with a girl who is ugly as fuck
we may as well both die lonely, at least we'll clean up the genepool
>>29632373
>All because /a/ and all the otaku in Japan are close minded pedophiles obsessed with pretty anime girlls and can't stand a different art style
>>29631545
>expecting virginity is too much
Great meme 10/10
>>29632379
This. The delusion in this thread is real.
>girl is fat, has an eyepatch, and is bipolar
>has to settle for Brad instead of Chad, who is 6'2'' in stead of 6'3'', makes 150k instead of 200k, who plays basketball instead of football, and once showed emotion at his mother's funeral
>anon is shy
>has to settle for morbidly obese+completely and uncontrollably insane+amputee+life threatening illness+has criminal family+tattoos
>she will still cheat on him
>she will still divorce him and get all of his money for the rest of his life
>all because anon is afraid of speaking in front of crowds
>>29632383
I think that is a good thing though. I think that is ambition. People always try to slam others into the ground, I think people should shoot for their real goals though. I am a firm believer in achieving something fully, or not bothering with it if you cannot. I think settling and selling yourself short is cowardly and of little honor. If someone is out of their league, I think they should try to change their league. There is much more room with that for men, simple confidence can make a world of difference.
>post thread about cute girls
>just b urself and date someone in your own league ;)
>post thread about damaged (emotionally, physically) girls
>girls like that don't exist, you just want a stacey with a small scar!!!
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
>>29632397
Look, there's a scale.
You don't just have hot girls and not hot girls, there's girls of varying levels of attractiveness in between. Haven't you ever met a girl with some undesirable physical trait like bags under her eyes or shitty hair and thought "well we get on well enough so that stuff isn't that important"?
>>29631619
This dude gets it. You robots have impossibly high standards. You don't understand compromise or accepting things about others and take it as a personal attack on your character when someone suggests you change one little thing. Its immaturity to put it bluntly, you guys are emotionally stunted and mentally incapable of handling a real relationship.
>>29631545
What is the point of dating below a 5/10? I can't get my dick up for a girl who is a 4/10 and probably has bad hygiene and has a terrible smelling ass and vagina.
>>29631705
So what are you, like, a faggot or something?
>>29631545
Nakamura was clearly the better of the two girls, right?
>>29632438
Having goals is fine, as long as they're attainable.
There's nothing to be proud of in chasing after something you'll clearly never have and refusing to adapt to the situation and make a compromise to move forward with your life.
>>29632451
They want you to be yourself so they can weed you out quicker.
They don't believe in damaged people because they're not damaged, and exclude those sorts from their circle.
>>29632456
> You robots [...]
SO YOU HAVE FINALLY REVEALED YOURSELF!
NORMIES
OUT
>>29631764
Ah, the old switcheroo
>>29632490
Don't worry. I have no interest in giving advice to people whom it doesn't apply to
>>29632469
Of course, she was a better fit for the Kasuga at least.
If it was my choice I'd pick Nakamura, Saeki is a nice girl but she's not someone I could see myself or Kasuga being with long term. Nakamura's got issues, so has Kasuga, they've both got the mind of an outcast.
>>29632459
Stop fapping to porn so much and you'll start getting boners for a 4/10 grinding her butt into your crotch.
>>29631545
most robots have no experience with girls and at this point they are too old to get any, pic related.
>>29632533
Sorry for leaping to conclusions. I'm just so tired of normie advice. Thank you for being considerate.
>>29632373
>>29632414
is s2 completely off the table?
they showed footage of s2 at the end of s1
>>29632590
What makes you creepy?
I hate that word, women abuse the fuck out of it.
>>29632596
Yeah which I presume was to excite people into going out and buying the blurays.
Blurays did HORRIBLE numbers so it's looking very unlikely there'll ever be a S2. Even now I'm so fucking salty about it, if I was a millionaire I'd fund it myself and put ads for it on /a/ for a year straight.
>>29632607
I don't want to go into it, sorry, but it's around everyone, not just women.
>>29632459
>What is the point of dating below a 5/10? I can't get my dick up for a girl who is a 4/10
Real life intimate relationships are different from jerking off to pictures of women. Are you more than a 4 yourself? Robots really need to take a look in the mirror.
And what's this meme about how women don't have to settle? Most women have partners less attractive than themselves. Sure they dream about Chads cock, just like their male partners fantasize about a 10/10 Stacey.
>>29632659
>Sure they dream about Chads cock, just like their male partners fantasize about a 10/10 Stacey.
Robots will deny this and say all women only want Chad but I guarantee you the woman they're fantasizing about and masturbating to isn't average or below that.
>>29632659
I'm a 6/10 myself with a constantly improving body because I go to the gym 5 or 6 days per week. I've been rated as having great facial structure on /soc/ consistently. I don't use myspace angles and even do short videos sometimes so i can't hide any aspect of my looks. I still get rated 7/10 consistently but I downgrade myself to a 6/10 because people on /soc/ are pretty generous and nice.
Still can't get even a 5/10 girlfriend. I'm just good looking enough that fat single moms hit on me but average looking girls with no problems won't give me the time of day
I'm a genuine 4-5/10 and NOBODY wants to date me.
>>29632429
Kek'd.
I feel your pain but can we really blame women for how easy they have it? If men didn't constantly approach, then women wouldn't have as many options and couldn't be as choosy. It's the horniness of men that causes the difficulties in dating for us lower ranked men.
Women just sit there passively because why make the effort to approach that ugly shy beta when you have half a dozen Chad's, Thad's, and Brad's offering you their dick at any given moment?
Dick is better than pussy
t. bi faggot
>>29632480
I don't think that would be adapting or moving forward though. Adapting would be adjusting yourself to be sufficient. Moving forward would be the action of adapting, or changing your goal if that one is not attainable (meaning pursuing something besides a relationship).
All that lowering standards is, is being defeated and losing. If that is even in someones vocabulary as something they need to accept, they have missed the attitude that can overcome things like that.
>>29632706
/soc/ ratings are not real ratings. You could be a 3 and get rated 7. Have you approached those average girls, or are you waiting for them to do it? And are you sure you've got the right perception of ''average''?
>>29632777
But there's only so much you can do to make a 5/10 guy more attractive than he is. Why refuse to settle for anything less than an 8 and end up alone your whole life when you could go after other 5/10's and get a chance to be happy.
>>29632414
>>29632629
wtf I hate /a/ now
>>29632823
There is a lot more you can do. 5 is basically average, well to start right off with, the average person is not in shape, so get in shape. The average person is not well versed in psychology, and in this case specifically the psychology of attraction. I'm not talking about some red-pilled crap, I mean the likes of which people like Casanova wrote about. The average person is not in the moment to full take advantage of it, so you meditate. The average person is not confident, so you work on confidence. There is a lot you can do from that point. It has it's limitations I suppose, but the room for bridging a gap like that is perfectly adequate if you hit it from every angle.
>>29632884
>tfw no apothecary qt gf
How can i get a homely gf if they never leave their houses.
Also, those girls always want the qt anime looking guy and they won't abide from their bf-goals.
Unless they are into "kaiji looking guys" i am fucked
I'm a 2/10 girl and I got myself a qt 10/10 bf.
My face is LITERALLY deformed and horrible. His... just makes sense.
I suspect this little situation will make robots mad.
>>29632944
>I suspect this little situation will make robots mad
Nope. You just got lucky. Miracles happen once in a while.
>>29632456
You see, anon, as much as I loathe being lonely and shit, I'm also too stubborn to go out with anything below my expectations.
Also, I love how you people generalise us all as fat neckbeards.
>>29632976
Just because you're skinny doesn't mean you don't have a mediocre/ugly face.
>>29632884
Oh and the expound on my previous post. You could take the chances of meeting someone as a dice role, a dice roll with different modifiers and thresholds for meeting someone you meet to depending on the individual. At the end of the day, throwing the dice as much as you can (using as many social outlets as possible) will have the biggest impact on your results.
>>29632914
If you have his face and you are not gambling you are wasting major potential
>>29632944
Maybe the fact that you were an untouched virgin due to being ugly meant that as time went on your value went up since all the hot stacies were used up while you were pristine.
>>29633008
But if your dice doesn't have an 8 on it you're never in a million years gonna roll an 8
>>29633043
Haha, no m8. I was used goods with a dozen suitcases of baggage by the time I met him.
>>29631545
Bah Gawd op is faggot.
Get lost with that bullshit. As a 32 year old wizard I'll for settle for anyone.
>>29633000
There are good looking robots. It's actually easy for an average to decent looking guy to become a wizard. Just never, EVER approach a girl.
>>29633044
Everyone dice has an 8 on it, it's just more or less common. Even if you are a 10/10, you do not have every single possibility that exists, and even if you are a 3/10, there may still be someone not superficial who is cute and likes you.
>>29633075
>Everyone dice has an 8 on it
You're delusional
>>29632577
>tfw
Last weekend when i was home alone and my stepdad came home a day earlier he told me on the phone he'd let me know in case i had a woman over or was fapping like crazy
It is not the first time he has mentioned girls to me or telling me i should get a gf. He has known me for years, a decade or so. Is he doing this to mock me or does he genuinely believe a guy with my face will ever attract a girl?
>go for girl in my league
>fail miserably
now what?
>>29632944
you are on easy mode that is expected.
>>29633107
I mean maybe not every single person. I would say that for 75% of people its possible. Maybe not always likely, but possible. If they really strained themselves to get out there magnitudes more than most, they could do it.
>>29631953
become a trap you midget cuck
I got a gf whom I think matches and compliments me very very well but she keeps getting sad and insisting I can do better.
Poor girl can't always tell how much I love her I guess.
>>29633369
Because you can do better. If she's ugly as fuck then you clearly will end up cucking her with some 10/10 stacey. She's just saving her own butt.
>>29631545I had a GF once and she hurt me in the end. 0/10 would not reccomend
>>29633124
Try again until you succeed.
>>29631545
>Go after what you have a reasonable chance of attracting
no fuck you, you can live in mediocrity if you want
>>29631705
you sound cute
are you neet? ?
>>29633596
This. Not everyone's going to like you, no matter your looks. Even a 9 or 10 out of 10 couldn't get every single person they wanted, even if that person was a 7 or something lower than them. Dating is being interested in the person overall, not a skillcheck where you compare your stats to the potential partners and then whether you date is based off that.
>>29633649
A lot of posters on /r9k/ have this delusion that there is this magical creature called Chad who gets any girl he wants without any effort. All he has to do is sit down and women will take turns jumping on his cock.
The truth is that Chad gets rejected lots, just like everyone else. He just shrugs it off and moves on until he succeeds.
no girl wants a robot
robots live alone, broken and empty
My crush likes me, the problem is with me as always
>>29633693
Yeah exactly. Chad is that dude who has a +3 on his skillcheck and hits true a bit more. More than anything though, he is out there and trying back to back. If chad wanted a super qt that bad, and knew it was a rare thing, then he would be going out every weekend looking. Versus someone who is more shut in, who tries maybe a few times in the year, and shyly at that. Of course the chad dude gets it, he put himself out there 20x more.
>>29633693
Not only that, but they presume that Chad's even interested in most women. Ignoring the whole stupid part about them being always successful and never failing in anything, if a guy's a 10/10 looks wise, he's probably not going to spend his time chasing average or a bit above average people, because those extremely attractive ones are available realistically.
But yeah, it's dumb that they act like the Chad stereotype exists at all honestly. Guys that hookup regularly are constantly trying to get hookups, they don't just sit around and have women throw themselves at them simply for existing.
>>29633744
>tries maybe a few times in the year
Reading this board, I believe that most robots don't even try a few times in their entire life.
>>29633579
She isn't ugly as fuck and I don't want to cuck anyone.
>falling for the practice girl meme
I'm not scum.
>>29631545
Normies are on full-assault today, it seems.
>>29631545
>Go after what you have a reasonable chance of attracting, not women you have no chance in getting
>women you have no chance in getting
for me that would be all women, OP, thats why I stopped looking for a gf a long time ago
>>29633789
Is she fat though? Are you fat?
>>29633804
Wow man, whatever you have must be super serious. What horrible conditions do you suffer from that prevent you from having a chance with even one of the 3+ billion women on our planet?
>>29633809
Neither of us are fat but she thinks she is despite being at a lower BMI (if you adjust for women normally having higher BMI's because of breasts and etc.) than I am since she's internalized outrageous standards.
>>29633827
Probably worse that the people rendered incapable of even coherently posting online that still have girlfriends have, I'd imagine. He must be awfully hard done by.
>>29631688
I'm not fat, why should I go after a fat girl?
But anon-san I did get the girl I'm going for right now. And she's gorgeous.it's nice to be Chad
>>29633830
Outrageous standards like what?
I don't have a problem with too high standards but with meeting people....
>>29633897
see
>>29631723
oreganosanpapi
I've been hitting it off with a girl for some weeks now, did some research (read stalking) on her twitter to see if she was in a relationship. There's another guy she tweets every now and then and I feel like she's involved with him so I don't talk to her anymore.
>>29632722
Post pic mate
>>29631545
>chicks with low self esteem
Can't tell. Everyone seems more confident than me. Meh.
>tfw no easy to please virgin gf
