Anyone else here don't actually want a gf yet until they self improve themselves?
>stopped eating so unhealthy
>started to do cardio and lift
>stopped drinking so much
>self medicate with small doses of weed to deal with depression
>complete given up dating websites
>going back to school to finish compsci degree
Yeah. I do try to get better to be worthy of a gf. But I'm afraid I'm gonna break before that.
>>29626772
I totally understand what you mean Anon. I try to remind myself how I'm really alone in this body and no one else will ever truly love or help me succeed in life except myself
Normies like to call this narcissism
i don't really want to settle so it would be better if i took the time to improve first
finish school and get an income, get a car, my own place, dating anyone now would be stupid and i wouldn't be able to be with anyone i'd get along with because my type of girl associates with successful men and are already self sufficient.
>tfw
>>29626805
Huh. Maybe that's the right attitude. For a while at least. For me, it's really depression I have to fight off...
>>29626854
it never goes away. sadness is the default for mammals actually happiness just comes in short bursts between your normal low dopamine state.
the only thing you really need to improve before you get into a relationship is self-esteem and confidence
If you have those, you can still maintain a relationship while having complete control over your life
Plus, getting into a relationship if you have no self-esteem is the worst thing you can possibly do
>>29626732
Sort of, OP. My ex and I didn't have any friends whatsoever and us only having each other was not healthy for our relationship. This time around I want to make friends and better myself before even thinking about dating anyone.
