>girls don't ask guys out
>>29625766
iktf
>tfw you will never feel desired
These kinds of feels aren't good right before bed.
This is wrong. My gf asked me out. I was a 20 years old virgin before that, though, and I got rejected by a shitload of girls in my life.
It can happen to anyone.
>>29625952
>It can happen to anyone.
>>29625766
They do ask you out if you're Chad.
>>29625766
The ones that have the courage to do so are being labeled as sluts for that, just because they made the first step. Thats just dumb for both sides.
>>29625766
my school said they do in Australia also pay for the dates and crap. video loked lik it was from the 90s though.
>>29625952
>My gf
why are you still posting here then? You won and got out so leave
>>29625766
Our romance is set up backwards.
>>29627675
Gold guy is getting fucking played though
>>29625985
Even then, rarely. I've known good looking chads that were alone more than they wanted to be because they didn't want to approach women. It's kind of insane how passive women can be about trying to get what they want.
You missed the rule of society that says only ugly girls never get propositioned.
I would love to ask boys out but why take the risk, when they've told me themselves that i'm hideous?
>She will never confess to you
>>29627855
Good looking women don't ask guys out either though. Almost all straight women seem content to take a passive role in courtship, not only unattractive ones.
>>29627675
Which one is the girl in this?
>>29625766
no they just don't ask YOU out
>>29627855
I asked an ugly girl out but she broke up with me anyways
FTGE
T
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somewhat relevant. Have fun
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOrvLlP4pOY
>>29628144
tl;dr
>inb4 'but anon'
no fuck you
>>29628144
>"If a guy asks you out, he should always pay."
>what if you ask him out?
>"I would never do that."
>Have to know a girl to ask her out unless you're chad
>>29628144
"why do you think a guy should pay on the first date?"
"weeeeelllll it baasically means that he cares about you, riiight...."
fuking kek. deluded fucking roasties. yup, sure, you got us, every single guy that goes on a first date with a girl ALREADY CARES ABOUT HER and that's why he "WANTS" to pay for the date.
>>29627855
fuck off my board roast
Stop infecting with your posts
>>29627855
Daily reminder that women are living their lives on autopilot and never stop to think about the bullshit they say or do
>>29628144
>INDEPENDENT WOMEN FORUM
I've had three girlfriends.
Every one of them approached me first/asked me out, including my current gf who messaged me on a dating site a year ago.
So... it does happen. My tip for you robots that want to be asked out: be tall and handsome.
>go to store
>asian chick starts asking me about my job
>becomes extremely interested
>have to leave and get a list because i forgot it
>can see her already lose interest just because i didnt immediately go "MUH DICK U WAN SUM FUK"
the only time i ever made a move on a girl, i fucked her for the next two years
its been 8 years
not a single girl has come on to me beyond some supposed 2/10 girl with a 7 foot 10/10 boyfriend asking me for my facebook to show me some lame as fuck comedian
i feel like im stuck in a night terror
That's because girls want confident young men. Not autistic memelords who shitpost at 2 AM on a Indonesian carpet forum while pretending to be better than the neckbeards on Reddit.
>>29628794
>"confident"
what does this even mean when any of them can accuse me of rape at the drop of a hat and ruin my career?
is it confident to jump off a cliff?
>>29628823
yes it is confident
stupid, but confident
>>29628857
what girls really want is a painfully unselfaware hedonistic retard with no inhibitions who ends up dead or in jail by 25
at least in florida, apparently
>>29627489
I live in australia. I was asked out by 3 girls in high school. The first time i was too shy & beta so i declined, the second and third i didn't really like the chicks.
>>29628823
>Asking out Tumblr users and liberal art college students
You need to get out more, these people always have a few red lights so that you can avoid making moves.
Women appreciate confidence and the ability to adapt. My work often has me travel to different places like UK, Mexico, Japan and Russia, in every single one of those places I've met and gotten laid with an 8.5 or 9.
It's all in your confidence, ability to adapt, how well you manage a conversation and what sort of stories you can presume (Money also helps too).
>>29628794
>>29628891
Oh wow i keked
>>29627505
>don't forget: you're here forever.gif
>>29628935
Can confirm. Good looking guys can only run social game, not cold approachs.
>>29628935
You forgot to mention you're white and tall.
My wife both asked me out and proposed to me. Though I had to take her last name, so it's not totally risk free.
>>29628734
>be tall and handsome
>be Chad
>you need to be Chad to get successful with girls
Who could've known?
>>29629056
>taking her last name
What a cucklord.
>>29625766
I've had three girls ask me out. One asked me every day for a month until I said yes.
>>29629056
My last name sucks, I'd totally go for that if my wife had a cool surname.
>be weirdo chan autist fatty crypto NEET
>get laid once from an egf i literally memed into dating me from a video game who left me, once from a slutty /b/ girl, once from a college girl i cold approached. All also fat
>become tranny due to anxious break from disgust with being male. drop out of college, lose some weight but still chubby
>end up being sorta qt
>get a bf, housewaifu for a bit
>cute young traps hook up with me relatively easily, learn social skills from them and bfs family
>come out of my shell
>eventually break up with bf and get jobs
>all jobs involve extensive interaction with the public, end up cashiering for a while
>still a really awkward autist but now can project enough personality that fellow autistics and geeks are sorta easy to connect with
>attractive enough that women on dating sites message me first
>now dating qt womanchild math major of my dreams. She messaged me first. Idk if itll become anything ltr but we get along rly well
>getting ready to go back to college for math again
>happy with my body. got my balls taken out, feels nice to cross my legs and have nothing there to bother me
>>29629138
Hahahaha that's pathetic.
>>29629057
Tall and handsome does not a Chad make. Chad is not necessarily tall or handsome.
>>29627755
Sure but at least there's a chance. Girls will never ask out robots
>>29629194
>Chad is not tall
I could agree on that but
>Chad is not handsome
that doesnt happen. Remember we're talking about Chad not failed normie or cyborg
>>29629186
Idk, you guys seem concerned about being tall and handsome to land chicks. Ive landed more chicks after taking estrogen and growing my hair out than ever before. I literally cold approached a barista who talked about missing the pride parade, took her to a lesbian street party and got laid
Consiser estrogen + ball removal
>>29629216
Lesbians are 7% of women anon. if you have an easier time bedding them it's because of some quirk of your personality or appearance, not because it's actually easier than approaching one of the other 93%.
A girl asked me out once.
She played it up as a joke, but I think she was really serious. Told her no.
>>29629238
All im saying is you guys are droning on about tall/handsome to get laid. Me taking estrogen and getting cuter had that same effect
I mean im just shitposting, part of the reason is that i actually felt motivated to develop a personality being on estrogen :^]
>>29629216
So you are the self hating autis spamming castration threads
>>29629315
I dont recall posting any such threads
I used to actually get asked out a lot by qt girls when I was in high school. Back then I was really in shape due to walking 6 miles to school and 6 miles back every day . I've had some girls throw their pussy at me and I'd reject some. I didn't stop getting asked out until I got fat, funny that. Who would have thought?
>>29625766
jokes on you fagget
my only two gfs asked me out
but being the walking spaghetti bowl that i am, both went to shit, but still you get the point
>>29625766
>>girls don't ask guys out
statistically plausible.
the ugliest girl sooner or later gets some dude asking her for a date
the chaddest chad will get a 'yes' when asking, but may eventually wait for eternity if he doesn't ask
also:
- a girl doesn't ask a guy out, fearing he will think "this slut wants to get plowed"
Why don't we just date fembots?
>>29629488
Because they want chad too.
>>29629488
guybots date their own waifu, fembots date their own husbando.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_h-v7ew20g
>Recently got into MGTOW, opened my eyes
>Redpill is good advice.
>>29629488
Because fembots are fat and smelly. We deserve a 10/10 pure virgin gf.
Try it out bro. Just go and ask her out. Who knows? It works for me.
Be yourself.
>>29629620
I actually like fat women though
you losers wouldnt even be interesting or fun on a date.
>had crush on female friend in high school
>we would always hang out together
>she always had a different boyfriend throughout the two years I knew her
>one day she's drunk, single and talking to me saying I'm a perfect boyfriend
>she asks me why did I never asked her out
>I tell her that she always had a different boyfriend
>she gets sad and cries
>was never good friends with her after that
>see her rarely now, like once or twice a year
>several years later
>she has tons of shitty tattoos
>she fucked 3 of my friends
>she does tons of drugs
>has an eating disorder
>she drinks a lot
>she just seems sad all the time
Did I cause this? I feel I dodged a major bullet.
>>29629620
Nah, they're usually thin and greasy.
>>29629835
Yes, you caused it. You could have saved her that day, after she cried, but you chose not to, and you abandoned her.
>>29629835
Dodged a big slutty bullet, friendo.
>>29629559
>Redpill is good advice
Not always.
>>29629899
>saved her
Would I have really saved her? She had a growing list of mates, I would've just been there for a week or two like all the rest. I've tried reconnecting with her but she never replies and if she does she's "too busy."
>>29629835
>>she gets sad and cries
and she did not learn the lesson.
you just redpilled her ("always a different bf") - she could have overturned tables asking immediately to date you.
she didn't.
she caused it, not you.
you offered her the truth and an escape route. she refused.
and you dodged a strataklinker overcharged quadbullet.
>>29629559
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/41m5jc/dating_site_profiles_what_she_says_and_what_she/
>>29630084
Lmao @ that whole thread.
>"I like to travel" This is a SLUT dead giveaway
Just what >>29629939 is talking about. Men want to do that and are applying their own thinking onto females, which do not function that way.
>>29628794
I want a confident young woman. Should i just expect one to fall into my lap? That statement also makes the assumption that the guy is as interested in you as you are with them. This confident guy may think of the girl as a good friend and could possibly date her if coerced, but not enough to ask her outright. But the girl will literally let her feelings die before she attempts to do something herself.
And no, fluttering eyes, giggling, and other "signals" are not real effort, they are cop outs.
>I don't understand I tried everything!
>I smiled at him, hugged him, winked, and laugh at his jokes
>why won't he ask me out?!
Its like being upset that you didn't get a job after expressing interest in getting one, but not submitting an application.
>>29625766
If that happened to me I'd think it's a cruel joke
I'm sure I'm not the only one here
>>29629964
You showed her that she was in the wrong. If you had offered to become her bf, you could lead her through the right path. It's your fault m8.
>>29630241
Nah. She was a slut and beyond saving. You cant un-destroy a hymen.
>>29629939
So why do "lonely women" reject robots? There are nearly as many men as women, so in theory if they really were sick of being lonely and just wanted someone to be with they would choose us and we would have no problem finding someone.
The only explanation is that they are disgusted by us. Maybe not by the normies on /r/theredpill who had many gfs and got mad when they were cheated on. 1/10 women are disgusted by 1/10 men, the issue of excessively high standards comes up over and over on /r9k/ but there are always a few here who say they want a belly gf or a real relationship for the first time in their lives so I'm not buying that explanation.
In practice women simply aren't attracted to 1/10 men, someone has to be picked last and women apparently have an instinctive visceral disgust towards that someone, but they refuse to admit it as it would result in a surge in popularity of morality and traditional values. You must have heard about that experiment by a chinese teacher about sharing candy, how the boy shared equally while the girls shared with all the girls but only the top boys had any. You see how ANY socially awkward male is suspected of being a sex offender, the "creep", when in reality is is popular fashionable men like bill cosby, michael jackson, jimmy savile and rolf harris who usually end up being monsters. The fact is feminism and equality are a failed experiment, it goes against human nature, women think they have choice when really their desires have just been reshaped by the mainstream media causing them to "choose" something else. The result is a society where everyone is petty, callous and depressed, it won't last long.
>>29630363
>hymen
Anon pls, we're not in the 15th century anymore. A girl can be a nonvirgin and not be a slut and love you genuinely.
>girls won't date unemployed men
>men date unemployed girls all the time
>>29630425
No she can't, it is literally impossible. Once she has tasted more than one dick, she'll want to try all the flavors of dick.
>>29630425
> A girl can be a nonvirgin and not be a slut and love you genuinely.
No she cant. If she's nonvirgin you'll always be her experience #52, not 1st one.
>>29630438
If you're Chad, she'll date you and pay for you. I know plenty of examples when women pay for everything and Chad is abuser.
>>29630439
>>29630457
>people can't make bad choices
Girls ask out hot guys.
Why can 't I just fucking die already.
>>29630476
There is a difference between making a bad choice and making a huge fuck up. A bad choice would be like getting a coke instead of a lemonade. A fuck up would be driving a car off a cliff while shooting heroin and getting buttfucked by a nigger with AIDS. The two are not comparable. Having sex with the wrong person is a huge fuck up. You may as well stitch that pussy together because no one is going to want to even look at that used up pussy.
>>29630425
Perhaps, but those odds don't favor you.
>girl asked me out ONCE in my entire life
>declined because my english wasnt good enough to understand what she wanted from me
>tfw i could have had a greencard by now
>>29625766
>tfw a girl asked me out but I had to turn her down
>>29625952
shes a hoe bro
>>29625766
Generally there's a higher likelihood a guy will just play along with a woman asking him out for the easy chance of free sex regardless of her having feelings that he hasn't for the other, than a woman doing that to a man. (A man offering money to a golddigger has the same result but is relatively less prevalent.)
It sucks though, and I do think more women asking men out wouldn't hurt happening. Have that conservative MO finally catch up with the progressive aspects of dating (that mostly benefit women).
>>29627675
More accurate would be to see the gold guy wanting to share the gold with someone who wants to do good with it. Gold guy just giving the gold to someone would be much easier than having others come and ask for the gold, but it increases the risk of the gold ending up abused.
>>29628144
The idea of the date initiator paying for the date is pretty good in theory, but in a society where men are the ones doing 99.9% of the asking out even though the amount of women actually making their own money it's a bit lacking. Going Dutch not only could compensate for that, but allows both parties to indulge in however much food/drinks and however expensive as they themselves can afford without feeling guilty about the other party having to pay for it, as well as showing that both parties are actually interested in the other party and/or had fun at the date. With men always paying for it, it's like they are paying for the women's time because only then the men are deemed worthy of going on a date with the women.
An even bigger issue is the sense of entitlement with quite a lot of women in the casual dating scene; they expect and almost demand having the date paid for by the men. The video shows that same sense of entitlement.
>tfw your gf preferred to go Dutch on the first date
>never expects me to pay for her things
>tfw you still alternate who pays for the date/night out/ etc (out of convenience over going Dutch every single time)
She's a bloody keeper.
>>29630188
iktfb
...original comment for the bot to unblock
>>29630403
Very well written thank you Anon.
>>29630403
is not that whole concept of being robot is unattractive but character qualities which follow this stereotype. It's the same as virgin guys, if you're confident, ambitious no one cares if you're virgin but people wants to drag it to stereotype.
As much as I get pissed off by this kind of shit, I'll never have to face it. The only people truly hurt by this are Chads and that means they don't get twice the pussy they already do now. I'm so fucking ugly that no girl would ever say yes, no matter how repulsive she might be.
>mom's hot friend has a qt asian daughter
>we go to same school
>daughter starts asking my mom where i eat lunch
>tracks me down one day at school
>her and a group of friends awkwardly chat me up
>she asks if I want to go get some coffee after school
>she wants me to walk her there
>say i'll meet her there instead because i leave school early that day
ff to later
>meet her at cafe
>she brings friend but they leave shortly
>try to start conversations but she's obviously too nervous
>getting bored so i plan on asking her if she wants get out of here
>then some random friend shows up by "chance"
>they start gossiping about shit i dont care about
>i proceed to 3rd wheel it the rest of the time
>wait till her mom picks her up
>walk home pissed off
Sorry for length I'm just venting really
that was +2yrs ago and it still fucks me up
Anyone wanna point out what i did wrong?
also have more stories about her if u want it
>>29629085
Wait, it was 4. I've only had to ask a girl out once.
>TFW cute guy
I got asked out like 4 times, 3 times I rejected the girls because they were ugly and I thought I could do better and on the 4th I thought it was a joker because the girl was actually cute.
Oh how I wish I could punch my old self in the face.
>>29631532
Can Chads please go?
I come to /r9k/ to relish in the lonliness with fellow robots.
>>29631532
I fucking hate prettyboys like you.
They expect 6'4 beastmen like me to be the lead everytime. BUT IT DOESN'T WORK SINCE IM AN AUTISMO, HELP.
girls ask guys out all the time, pretty much all those guys are chads though
>>29631557
You can be as beta as you want if you're cute. I was a hungry skelly and could hardly talk to anyone.
I broke up with the first one just because another girl said I should. Then she went and told her we were breaking up.
Doesn't work when you're 20 but if you look after yourself and don't look like an autist at least people will leave you alone and not make fun of you.
>>29631621
I know. Attractiveness is all that matters. Who cares how "beta" or "alpha" you are if you are attractive enough that a girl will hop on your dick regardless.
>>29631646
But when you don't have the looks going for you, being alpha helps.
Life isn't fair, if genetics weren't on your side you have to try twice as hard, unlesd you were lucky enough to be born into a rich family or something.
>>29631646
Without being preachy:
Working out will drastically increase your chances. But it doesn't entitle you to anything.
>>29631621
>>29631646
That's why I refuse to fall for memes. I can be as confident, outgoing, fit, fashionable, etc. as anybody, but will never get a girl interested in me because I'm ugly as sin.
>>29631683
If your face is busted, the only thing that will increase your chances is copious amounts of plastic surgery.
>>29631621
>tfw cute guy
>tfw girls only want some quick succ
>tfw not into hookups/one night stands
>>29631646
>tfw not attractive and zero alpha character
Is this the end?
>>29628144
Men should pay on the first date because men are superior to women, and women secretly enjoy being treated like pets.
>M-muh MGTOW is actually egalitarian you guise!
Fuck off, women have always been inferior to men, paying for some of their shit demonstrates the power you have over them, gets them wetter like no tomorrow if you do it right.
>>29631699
Black guy at my job asked me if I would "hit" some girl and told him I don't do hookups. He literally couldn't wrap his around that. It's such the norm that if you aren't into hookups you're seen as a complete outcast.
>>29631715
All guys should just ask if the girl if she sees herself as his equal (split), better (she pays), or lesser (guy pays). If she starts bitching, just excuse yourself to the restroom and fucking ditch her.
>>29631697
>>29631685
It certainly helps. 10/10 might be out of your reach but there's still a lot of decent girls you could get by being fit, well dressed and have a busted face.
If you're adamant you won't find anyone then give up. Accept it and find something else to do with your life.
>>29631715
MGTOW has never claimed to be an egalitarian movement as a whole. It's just guys giving up on pussy. Or at least giving up on long term relationships.
>>29630684
This. Or just a 4/10 with no self-esteem
>not Chad
>been asked out multiple times
>they're all busted hambeast
>a 7/10 asked me out once and I accepted
>she stood me up, and I looked like a fool
i was asked out 3 days ago and i'm 5'10 and 220lb
i dont know how it will go, but she seems nice
dont lose hope anon
>>29631769
I already did give up. I tried going for legit 300+ pound whales that were 3-4/10 in the face. Guess what I got? Told I wasn't attractive enough. Yeah, sorry, but your face is all that really matters. Sure, if your body isn't great or your dick isn't huge she'll end up leaving you, but there's only so much you can do.
>>29627855
But that's not true. Most guys receive no attention. Most girls receive attention. If you're seriously saying that, you're either among the bottom 0.001% of females, which is very unlikely, or you're just a deluded whore who has no concept of what it means to be an ugly male in this society.
When you're an ugly, dysfunctional male, everyone, everything wants you dead. You have no support system, no one to fall back onto, you're on your own, and no one wants you.
All girls can get support and lovers.
Just make a profile on a dating site and see all the messages you receive, whore.
All females who pretend that males have it easier should be forced to transition.
>>29631510
nothing wrong, had the same thing happen to me, there's really nothing you can do
I had 3 ask me "out" (mostly just kiss). It was when I was 13 and cute and one of them was a childhood friend and had a crush on me since we were 5. I found out one of those was a senpai and really popular in school and everyone knew I was dating her. rumors spread out that a guy was spying on her naked on a school trip and he came to me to apologize and say they were lies even though he was bigger and older.
>tfw had a chance to be chad and now I havent touched a girl in 7 years, and havent spoken to one in 2
>>29625766
>guys don't ask guys like me out
>tfw girl from uni all of the sudden messages you on fb (she wasn't in my friends)
>tfw asks me to help her study
>tfw tell her I don't get it either but I've already passed so I don't need to study it further
>she says that's a shame and she wanted to talk with me
>didn't respond to that bc I was an insecure manlet with no friends then
>two days later she tells me shell be at this shopping mall and if I want I can come
w-what did she mean guys?
>>29631792
>no self-esteem
>asks somebody out
>>29629835
You did nothing wrong, famaroni..
>>29628734
>tall
>was handsome
>only had a stalker
>become a mix of edge, loner and barely handsome
>get a 10/10 stalker
Partial confirmation here. Girls will never ask me out tho.
>tfw attractive and innocent which makes me endearing
>but too intimidating of a face, always look upset
Fuck these feels. I only had one girl come after me and it was cute but I missed my chance with her after I kept being a pussy for 2 years (and that was HS, where she was with friends and comfortable flirting with me. if that was outside of HS, I bet she wouldn't even say anything). I'm still alone. Everyone I meet always says I look intimidating so I'd like to think that's why I never get hit on or asked out. I'm even /fa/ but nothing works for me. looks don't mean shit.
>In car with girl
>She's super shy and awkward, but cute and smug
>Good conversation, enjoying talking with an old high school and college friend
>unsure if I should make a move
>silence
>I hear her voice
>"H-hey anon, do you.. do you want us to kiss?"
>sperg some spaghetti with meatballs and go for the kiss
I never expected something like that to happen.
It was after fireworks the city organised where we randomly saw each other.
>>29631572
>IKTFB
>gentle femdom mommy gfs do exist
>they all want cuteboys
>Be 6'2", broad sholdered, look 10 years older than I am
RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
