How is your relation to your parents? I noticed a that a lot of robots have a manipulative, borderline, hysterical, psycho mother and a "kinda ok" dad. At least that's how it is with me. I won't really say I love them, but I don't hate them neither. I'm kinda troubled when it comes to that.
>>29615630
>hysterical, psycho mother
this. And I didn't have a dad.
They're both lushes and pinkos, dad scares the shit out of me when he goes on a tear, but they're also really fun guys who I can get drunk and shoot the shit with.
My parents are great. Very supportive of me and helpful whenever I need it. They're good people
>>29615630
Nigga wat?
You just perfectly described my mother and father
There must be somo psycho shit going on here
My mother was extremely frigid. And I was actually scared of my dad. Seems like they only had me to receive government assistance. Pretty sure it gave me autism.
>>29615630
>I noticed a that a lot of robots have a manipulative, borderline, hysterical, psycho mother and a "kinda ok" dad
Yeah, that's me. Not just my mother though, all the females in my extended family were insane evil cunts.
I never could drink the feminist kool aid after seeing so many whacko cunts.
They're in a jar in my closet.
Things would be different around here if Blastoise was my father.
>>29615630
>Dad:)
This image is great
>>29615767
It's just the nature of men and women. Men are more reserved and logical while women are emotional and erratic. This can however change if either parent develops any kind of drug addiction.
my mother was a controlling psycho bitch, took me 6 years until she realized I won't be playing her game and she can go fuck off if she opens her mouth to bitch.
my dad is the best man i've met and helped me alot, even though he also took the wrong decisions at certain points in time because of wanting to "protect me" and give me a better life.
>mom who cheated a lot and drank a shit ton
>chainsmoker dad who looked like he'd be my grandfather
>both of them never finished high school
My parents weren't the best. I was unplanned and they weren't married. I'm sure they were just together because of me, they broke up a couple months after I moved out.
I haven't talked to them since.
>>29615630
My parents are pretty autistic.
I'm not that close with mom. Not like our relationship is strained, she's just a very tough, cold-hearted woman. She loves and cares about me but never shows affection or closeness.
Dad died before I was born.
>>29616050
My dad actually had autism. He was a huge influence on me when I was younger, so now I have shit social skills.
My mother is overly sensitive, hysterical, infantilizing, manipulative, and clingy, but I wouldn't call her a psycho. She's just one of those single mothers who didn't bother making friends or finding a bf, so they have nothing to do but smother their kid. My dad was absent for the most part, so I don't have much of an idea of who he is as a person.
I do love them though, even if I don't like them as people. I also feel loved by them, but I highly doubt they like me much either.
I recently found out the proper term was 'emotional neglect'. My parents had a child that pretended they never had a child, just some person they happen to share the house with. I've been living with strangers for the past 21 years.
>>29615630
i want a puppy too
growing up, my mother was a controlling, manipulative, two-faced, helicopter-parenting, histrionic religious zealot with the mentality of "the stricter I am with my children, the better parent I am" and my dad was the diet coke version of that. They were both prideful and projected it onto me whenever I didn't do something or stood up for myself.
I still live at home and don't talk to them any more than I really have to in order to keep the peace.
can confirm
mother had a crazy childhood due to my grandad being a ww2 vet which lead to her having a kid with my dad after already having spat otu 2 other kids with some other guy
my family is fucking bonkers
absolutley ufkcing bonkers
my dad is the most sane pesron in my family and it wouldn't surprise me if evne he turne dout to be bipolar or some hsit
it's all fucking cancer and fucked
it's all fucked
>>29615630
i have a pretty good relationship with both my parents but they arent around allot
>>29616416
Puppies are gay and only gay people want puppies.
>>29615630
My mom tried her best all her life she just isnt cut out for the vileness of people and society, just like me. Cant really blame anyone except people in general.
not good, don't really want to know them or be around them anymore, if i could i'd probably never speak to them again.
i get along with my mother easier, but she's a raging alcoholic (drinks at the minimum a half gallon of wine a day) and every other day she flips out and starts trouble with everyone around her. she has always been a mental case, constantly causing trouble everywhere she goes, the drinking makes it worse.
father is a piece of shit narcissist who just uses people and throws them away like garbage when he's done with them. can't stand him. i think he only got married because he likes abusing and manipulating people.
they are more manageable when they are separated. put together they become a fucking tornado of destruction. they are an embarrassment to be around and i avoid going out in public with them as much as i possibly can.
>>29615630
if that's you in the pic, your dad sounds like a cool dude
>Dumb school project I had to do in the middle of the night so our group didn't fail
>>29616478
>it's all fucking cancer and fucked
>it's all fucked
We're going to be alright.
>>29616674
i'm an addict with my psychological problems than both my parents combined, as well as being on the verge of being kicked out and being homeless
unless i hang myself and be reborn in anime fantasy happy fun time drug time heaven world there's no going to be alright
>>29616656
Are you like 13?
>>29615630
>a manipulative, borderline, hysterical, psycho mother and a "kinda ok" dad
it's decently accurate for me
My mom is bipolar, I think. She gets violent if you're loud, she's sexist and likes my little brother more (but denies it). She denies she did anything wrong (beating me as a kid) but if she ever has a moment of clarity she goes into a poor-pitiful-me stage where she says a bunch of stuff like "I was a terrible mother, I know." Etc
One time:
>brother isn't supposed to use computer without permission
>come downstairs, see mouse on opposite side
>disgust.wav
>Lysol that shit, fix admin account settings he fucked with, take photo proof of his shitty job hiding his history
Motherfucker used internet explorer, doesn't know about incognito, stupid bitch
>come back later to use computer
>he stole a cord bc I cock blocked him, what a little bitch
>send history pics to parents, tell them he stole a cord for this, tell him to fix it
>they don't, instead my mom just takes the cord herself
>confront her on why she isn't fixing it, need the computer for school, been a week, start failing a class
This bitch tells me "boys can't help where they do it, they just have to do it right then"
>bitch thinks literally all men have the mental capacity of a retarded 3rd grader
She followed it up with how "oh but you walk around naked in your room! With the window open!"
>there are screens on the windows so you can't see in during the day and I close the blinds and curtains at night, no one can see
>this has nothing to do with anything. She thinks I'm a whore so she lets me nearly fail a class with no computer access, all because she can't admit my brother is a nasty cunt
He has a phone too!
Another time he stole my panties and was looking at sister porn, told my mom I felt unsafe bc she kept telling me how she thinks I'm gonna hurt her little boy (for no reason), she told me that since I have sex with my long term bf I have no place to talk
My dad has some kind of deep-set masculinity issues that make him yell and get angry a lot for stupid shit, but he doesn't hit us so there's that.
>>29616855
Nope gonna be a senior this year
Mom
is pretty cool.
Always baby'd the fuck out of me.
Enjoys play-fighting and dancing.
Dad
Was pretty cool until around age 10 when mom caught him chatting with other girls online.
Family pushed him away HARD
Became very distant with him
Now he doesn't really know how to socialize since he's spent the last 10 years secluded and alone
Language barrier on top of awkwardness makes him kinda hard to be around
Pretty good. I just get annoyed by them because I prefer being alone and become irritated when I'm around people for too long.
>>29616416
HERE'S WHAT I THINK OF YOUR PUPPY YOU LITTLE SHIT
>>29617114
You sound like an utter cunt
Don't really like my mom shes admitted being it and still is a verbally abusive towards me where as on the other hand my dad and I get along so well, like we could be best friends.
>>29617673
Yeah sorry for not wanting my brother fucking my panties and jizzing in the chair I gotta do homework in
The point was that my mom favors him and let's him do whatever he wants. I asked her for a lock for my room because I didn't feel safe and she ignored me because she's such a stupid bitch. I think it all stems from the fact that I look exactly like her
My parents are great, but my upbringing is pretty complicated.
My mom is normal, my dad is bipolar, but he's a business genius and a trully balls of steel type of guy with as much guts as I could see in a man. He always used to say "I'm not violent and I hate competing with people, but if you mess with me, I never lose.", sadly, bipolarity messed with him big fucking time and messed his two couples.
My mom is kind of the same deal, a temper of iron. Both of them met in the 70's, they were both friends of unrecommendable frequentations, in short, my mom and dad used to deal with crime organizations. I used to be babysat by hell's angels.
I actually inherited of most of their character. I'm very quiet, but I fucking HATE being told what to do and people who try to tell me how to live my life only encourage me to oppose them and I usually do with fierce energy. I succeeded in my life because my mom's ex boyfriend spent his time telling me I was worthless and that I would never achieve shit in life, so I wanted to prove him wrong and do whatever I could to live my life exactly how I decided to live it.
They split up after 15 years of being a couple (never married) when I was 9 years old because my mom got fed up of dealing with him either spending all his time sleeping on the couch during his downs and spending all his money and crashing one of the many successful businesses he started. Before we went bankrupt and ended on the street, she left him.
>>29618729
she lets him because you're an unreceptive prude bitch and i hope he rapes you
>>29618991
Then she started dating this psychopatic manipulator who started beating me and my mom and doing everything he could to break our self-esteem and live in fear of his presence. he contributed to both my tremendous force of will and also the many issues and nightmares I still have to this day. The thing is he beat me separately, but he would beat her in front of me, so she was never aware he did anything to me. For some reason, she endured this shit happening to her, I'll never understand why, but I understand emotiona manipulation works in mysteriou way, he was a master at it. Most times, when I threatened to ell everyone he was an abusive sack f shit he'd convince me I was the bad guy for trying to break him and my mom apart. My mom tells me, sometimes, after beating her, he'd purposefully break into tears, trying to convince her he wasn't in control of what sick shit he was doing. In short, he mostly preyed on my mom's sense of pity and nature to help others. It was all a big game to him, but one day she found out he did shit to me too and she put goons on his ass. We never saw him again since then I was 14 at the time. Funny thing is he had 5 kids that lived with us and they wouldn't be spared that treatment just because they were his blood. 7 people he mercilessly abused and not a soul ever talked.
In the middle of that, though, when I was 12, she sent me to live with my dad because the climate at home was pretty fucked up for a kid entering his teens, but mostly because my dad JUST came back in the picture. the year prior to my 12th brithday, I had spent the whole summer at his house and I realized I really missed him and wanted to go live with him. Being abused greatly contributed to this sentiment.
crazy [psycho dominant demanding control freak mother and dad who was kinda in the background who i never really felt close to.
>>29619153
Then, when I started living with him a year later, he had started dating another woman who would become a second mother to me. I lived with them from 12 to 17 years old, when I was 13, my sister was born. so this woman is my sister's mother, but not my blood mother, she was very good to me and my father tried his best too, but untreated bipolarity ressurfaced and put a shitty climate at home once again. HE was diangosed, but was too proud to take his med. Hating being told what to do is in our blood, as I said. Eventually, the whole pressure of him doing his typical bipolar shit and me sucking so bad at math that it created endless family drama ended up breaking the family apart, I dropped out of highschool an anti-social weeb and went back to live with my, now single mom who had gotten rid of that other sick bastard. She understood my situation and encouraged me to find a job and work on myself. The only condition she had for me to live with her was to have a source of income and to pay a small pension of a miserable 50 bucks. I could smoke as much weed indoor as I could, drink, stay out late as much as I wanted as long as I was responsible enough to wake my ass up in the morning to earn my living. She helped me develop my social skills, my organization, she slowly introduced responsibilites in my life to temper me into knowing how to take care of my own ass and, eventually, tis lead me to go back to school on myown accord, she never even forced me.
Slowly I went from an anti-social emotionally broken fuck-up to a normalfag. A combinaison of my strong will and her help.
After a big fight between me and my dad where we almost jumped at each other. HE finally started taking his meds, I was 22 at the time. My dad wasn't as much a good life teacher to me, but he loves me and we spent a huge deal of quality time since I was a kid, fishing, etc. he taught me survival shit and, mostly, man stuff.
>>29619316
So yeah I'm pretty much a normalfag so I know I "don't belong here", I'm genuinely only here for the memes, but the kind of fucked up upbringing I got makes me understand a lot of you guy's suffering, but I know I had something most of you never had: People around me. I think if I never had the support of someone through all of this, I would have ended up a fuck up so great that even /r9k/ would be too normie for me. I have great friends and a great family and we've been through thick and thin together, this reinforced our connections. I did work REALLY hard for this and huge chunk of my progress is thanks to my own efforts, but the origins of these efforts and my strong character is, undeniably my family.
So yeah, as much as, sometimes, I get annoyed by fags who cry too much around here because being a fighter I don't really hold defeatists in very high regards, I do understand, in some form, where you're all coming from and exactly where you are all lacking. Life is a tragic bitch and it doesn't give everyone the same gifts, sometimes, life gives some people sweet fucking nothing.
You can tell me to fuck off now, if you want, but know that when most normies are oblivious of your trauma, I, at least, lived through enough to "check my privilege"
>>29617403
So you're 17.
Fuck off for a year, then don't come back
>>29619102
>So butthurt at women in general that he finds it absolutely impossible to be sympathetic of her situation of obvious favoritism.
>On the board where people meet to complain about how unfair life has been to them and how they wish others would be sympathetic of their circumstances.
The hypocrisy is burning hot.
>>29615630
I can't even talk to my parents very well like with everyone else so i wouldn't say i'm very close with them but they haven't kicked me out yet which i'm grateful for. I would have kicked me out a long time ago
When I was born, my mum was 42 and my dad 50.
The age barrier was quite nasty. Mum thought watching pokemon would make me violent. She didn't let me read Brazilian comics because it would "spoil my Portuguese". She once forbade me from reading Tintin because I was "getting addicted". I barely had any ways to have fun as a child. I played with lego shit all the time to the point of it being fucking boring, and then she'd take pride that I wasn't like those other kids who watch TV and play vidya all day. Never did she consider that it was fucking boring.
The constant "everything normal people do these days is wrong" attitude also fucked me up. It rubbed onto me and I'm a snob who can't appreciate anything properly because my own taste and critical sense is a farse that was imposed to me.
She was overprotective. Don't do x, don't eat y, blah blah, always trying to micromanage shit.
It annoys me when she thinks that I had a happy childhood.
Also, one of the main reasons why I don't bother getting a gf is because she hates people who aren't perfect. Once my brother was cozily watching Monty Python with his girlfriend, his arm on her back. She arrives. Bro's GF says hi, with a nice smile and waving her hand I think. My mother starts going apeshit. She goes insane. Why? What happened? She didn't stand up.Because she didn't fucking stand up, she starts yelling at her, indifferent to the girl's apologies the poor thing was shocked to the point where all she could do was to leave the house.They used to get along very well before that day.
She asks me often about why I don't have a gf.Because of her,that's why.I wouldn't mind just finding a normal girl. I like girls. But I don't want to have to put up with my mother knowing the girl. It's like I can feel my mother trying to live through me and it disgusts me. I feel like I lose to her no matter what.
My dad died 5 years ago, when I was 13. That sucks. He was cool,sometimes a bit clueless - not knowing my school year, etc.
>>29615630
Sort of. I always remember this one time during the weekend I was watching television with her and she just turns and looks at me asks me why I was still there, her voice slowly getting increasingly more hysterical. That was basically how things were for my whole teenage period, made to feel unwelcome and unwanted. I had to tip-toe around the house to avoid her and I spent all day in my room because of it (although she would still burst in at random intervals to scream something at me before slamming the door again). You know that tense stressed feeling you get when you're in a unpleasant situation that you just want to get out of? That was half my life, but I had nowhere else to go. She was always pleasant when my dad came to visit though. Not that bad really, but I wonder how I would've turned out with a more normal mum.
your dad seems cool, I could be friends with him
>>29617114
Kek fuck off roastie.
Buddy boy
>>29615630
My dad was a fucken prick asshole but he died when i was 14. Mom was a psycho after he died but has mellowed out in recent years.
Neither of my parents finished college and they had me when they were 30.
My mother is extremely clingy and has almost no social life besides talking to my grandmother. She's been working the same entry-level job for 30 years and if she sees someone she knows from work (like an ex co-worker or customer) she'll approach them and start chatting which REALLY weirds out the people who don't recognize her. She's very naive and has absolutely no idea how to use things like e-mail or a cellphone. She also brings up wanting to try new things like getting another job or signing up for yoga/baking/computer classes and never does them, instead just sits at home watching SVU reruns and Lifetime.
My father is a bitter, bipolar alcoholic that hates his job and used to threaten to kill himself if my mother would divorce him. He's always been verbally and physically abusive to us and my older sibling ran out of the house because of him. Even though we live in the same house I rarely ever talk to him or try to avoid him if he's around. He's obsessed with watching sports and constantly blasts a radio/transmitter to listen to the local police reports, and he also has a list of all the officers in our town and their vehicle/code numbers.
I don't get along with them particularly well.
My dad is emotionally abusive and manipulative who loves to undermine my confidence and self esteem while at the same time making fun of me especially in front of his family and friends.
My mum is pretty chill but can nag the shit out of you just for being yourself.
