So I know you guys are probably the worst people to ask for advice but I thought I'd give it a try
>meet oneitis
>start flirting with her
>she starts going out with my (no longer) best friend instead
>Three years later they finally break up
>She starts talking with me more
>we start hanging out
>she's saying things like
"I really like hanging out with you"
"I get excited when I get texts from you"
>body language is off the charts
>I'm certain she's into me
>Start trying to do more date like things with her, going to make my move
>I'm finally getting of this ride
>today she texts me asking for advice
>she says that she gave her number to some guy who was hitting on her and now she's too nervous to text him back because he's a total chad
At this point I think it's one of two things. Either I totally misread her feelings for me, or she's trying to make me jealous. She is the kind the kind of person who would play these kind of head games, but with her history of rejecting me I'm really not sure. I could either take this as a sign to back off or call her bluff and hasten my courtship of her. As of right now I'm leaning towards the latter. I don't give a shit if I ruin my chances with her in the long run. I'm not letting myself get cucked again.
>>29603063
should've ignored her the first time. robot hasn't installed red flag detector
"don't answer any of his calls. Also you are really pretty. Want are your plans this weekend?"
There you go, Anon. No matter how she answers you will feel relieved. Take her out bowling. Bitches love bowling.
>>29603167
>she doesn't reply
>5 days later she texts "I went out with him anyway and went back to his place! I had a good time! What should I do next?
OP just drop the bitch she fucks your friend when you sent signals. she leads you on then namedrops another guy. just stop giving the whore attention and drop her from your life. she's not worth the time.
I say you stop wasting time and just ask her on an official date if you still like her. Post results?
>>29603218
Don't reply back, just drop the chick.
If she proves herself to be a whore, why do you even stop to care? you dodged a bullet.
Just ask her out, OP. Don't take anything personally or take life too seriously. Life is too short to live with that kind of anxiety and stress.
>>29603285
that's kinda what I did do actually. I made plans with her for this saturday. It's not explicitly a date but because of what we're doing (drugs) she's probably going to end up staying at my place for the night.
>>29603218
Don't you think it's weird that she's texting me about this and not one of her girl friends? Either she's being incredibly cruel or she's trying to make me jealous.
>>29603300
I don't know man. I've had other girlfriends in the past three years. Nothing worked out though partially because I'm still hung up on her. I think if I got some sort of closure I could at least move on in my life.
>>29603063
shes setting you up for a backup plan, incase shes low on cash and chad isn't piacking up his phone
>>29603417
>Either she's being incredibly cruel or she's trying to make me jealous.
Or most likely. She doesn't respect you at all.
Just drop her. Don't even explain. A bitch who will use another man to emotionally goad you is just absolutely awful even if you do become gf bf. Do you really want that in a relationship? Run the fuck away.
>>29603417
You are in the friend zone because you haven't explicitly asked her on a date. Quit being a bitch. Ask her out this god damned weekend on an actual date. If she says yes, awesome. If she says no but we still cool, cool. If she acts like a cunt, drop her. easy.
Also if she says " you are like a brother to me" just start asking out her friends. Girls can be good wingmen FYI.
Didn't read your post OP, but source on the porn?
>>29603806
no idea
>>29603691
thanks for the advice
>>29603691
>in the friend zone
>getting fucked up just the two of you and passing out at the same house
There are so many implications in that I'm not even going to try to describe it
>>29603841
OP here
that's kind of what I was thinking when I made the plans, but I still think he's right in that I should be more forward. It seems like she's bating me by telling me about this guy so if I don't make a more blatant move she's going to think I'm not serious about going out with her.
