I went to a bar for a concert and I sat down myself. A group of girls nearby started talking and one of them pointed in my direction and then all but one left. I thought "surely this girl's friends didn't just tell her to talk to me" but I guess that's what happened cause a few minutes later she walked over to me. She said something I didn't hear (loud music which makes me even more autistic to talk to) and I asked what she said. Then, louder, she asked my name and I told her and she introduced myself. There was a moment of silence and she said "good. How's your night going?" And I said fine how's yours? She said good an then I think she said something about enjoying the decor in the bar but I couldn't really here her. Then she said she was drinking PBR because she wanted to feel white trashy tonight and I said "what else is there" and then she kind of fake laughed and after a minute walked away.
Fuck me you guys. Can anyone help me here. I just wanted to listen to grindcore. Son of a bitch. I am so goddamn autistic.
>"what else is there?"
should've laughed at her shitty joke OP
>>29601692
Don't be so hard on yourself. Maybe she was the autistic one. It seemed like an even exchange.
This reminds me of when I first came to /r9k/ in late 2014, and the prevailing sentiment that I saw everywhere was that only men can be autistic, and women are perfect, and if you don't ask out women, and compliment them all the time, and perform perfectly, you are "autistic".
This board is cancer.
I know that feel. Robot inside but 8/10 outside. Dress quite well. (Not fucking /fa/ shit.) Some girls have mistaken me for human on occasion and tried to flirt.
It only made me realise how absolutely autistic I really am.
>>29601820
it's the man's burden to make the move, not the woman's
I was maybe going to try talking to this girl again but I'm pretty sure she left. Should I talk to another one? How do I do it?
>>29601982
Says who? 4chan? /r9k/ is too hard on guys, men are not autistic if they simply mind their own business without worshiping every m'lady in sight.
Women have it far too easy these days. It's very common for them to complain because some cute shy boy won't ask them out. Apparently, that is how women are oppressed in modern western society.
Help you with what? This wasnt a very good story OP, I didnt like the ending
>>29602394
How do you speak to women? Mentally and physically.
>>29602456
Oh. I don't. But it sounds like that girl might have wanted you to buy her a drink.
It's not too late though, I would advise you to buy a PBR and go around yelling her name until you find her
>>29601692
>trying to talk during concerts
I hate this shit, I don't get why people try to do it. Even when you scream directly into someone's ear there's only about 50% chance of hearing what they say
>>29602456
Don't do what this guy is telling you >>29602573
Too many men these days practically beg for women to give them attention and let them have sex with them. He might be joking, but still. The female worship I see on this website is depressing.
>>29602626
She will be impressed by his initiative
If you weren't so autistic and you liked her you should have invited both her, and her friend to sit with you and join you for a drink. Then spilled your spaghetti in front of both of them so they have something to tweet about.
>>29602697
>>29602747
He said himself that he "just wanted to listen to grindcore".
I don't see what the problem is. Some woman approached him, it didn't work, she walked away, the end. OP should not have even made this thread.
>>29602800
Why listen to grindcore when he could be grinding the core of her cervix
>>29602747
This is my eternal nightmare, that's why i don't talk to wymyn
>>29602800
if he "just wanted to listen to grindcore" why did he make this thread dumbface? Clearly he was into her. Also, grindcore fucking sucks
>>29601692
Should've made brief small talk and asked for her number for later. You can miss an entire grindcore discography in five minutes.
>>29601829
>8/10 outside
That blatant denial....
OP here. Another girl just tried to talk to me but she was really drunk and had a tattoo of her daughter's face and then walked inside smoking a cigarette. But she did give me some of her beer which she was drinking outside and then gave me a cigarette which was nice. What the fuck is going on tonight. She made me talk to other people too when I told her I have no friends. End me
>>29603046
Op here. I am hereod
>>29602867
>>29602988
Faggots. The woman worshiping is going too far. I am criticizing OP too. He needs to just move on. Fuck. Look here >>29603046 OP is at it again, he's trying, he needs to just relax. Fucking OP. What a guy. Someone get this guy a drink over here.
>>29601692
>Can anyone help me here.
Don't go out idiot,
take the redpill and become NEET
>>29601820
no, he was the autistic one. men are expected to carry the conversation
>>29602573
Do this. It might actually lead to something...not getting laid, but maybe a better story.
>>29603117
But why can't you people, and OP, just accept that it didn't work out? He didn't need to make this thread.
And women have it far too easy now. They are "equal" to men yet they still enjoy all the benefits of chivalry too. The very fact that women are never criticized for being autistic is fucked up. Why are men expected to carry the conversation? Is it because men are better than women?
This thread is starting to make me realize treating guys like crap is a double edged sword. I spent my whole life thinking being fair would be noticed, but why do that when you can treat them like complete shit and have them obsess over it?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzejK4-qZ2E
>>29603247
What do you mean? Treating guys like crap is just a normal part of life. Most people don't even notice it. It sucks, but it won't change. Women are valued more than men. That's just the way it goes. I feel your pain.
>>29603226
i agree it didnt work out and i agree that theres a double standard at play. i wish that women are expected to contribute their half to the converation, but it doesnt work that way. its a shitty social convention that you can either accept and play the game or not accept and not play the game.
>>29603339
It's hardly pain, or pleasure, I'm despondent because the ones who attempt to transcend this just become shitty girls.
Is that it? Is that what it comes down to?
>>29603247
tits or gtfo plz (.Y.)
>>29603403
You first fegit
>>29603247
>Why be good
If you have to ask this, you're probably not one of the good ones
>>29603445
I don't have to ask this. It has to be asked so those who don't understand have some point of reference instead of arbitrary self-judgement.
>>29603364
But if I don't play the game, I have to deal with feminists, sluts, /pol/, and the rest of the Internet harassing me and calling me a "manchild". They don't just leave you alone. Oh no they don't. They never do.
>>29603373
Women are women. I see no evidence that any women can transcend the current order - there is no "different" women, only varying degrees of shittyness.
OP here again. There is this really tall girl here that I'm really attracted to. Riding the confidence of two girls approaching me, I want to talk to her. What the fuck do I do? Should I wait for her to go out for a smoke and bum a light? Or just do it? What do I say? Please help robots, I really need you. All I have ever wanted as a 6'4" lanklet is a tall gf
>>29604117
Stop going on 4chan and /r9k/. Women are approaching you, and 4chan's /r9k/ is treating you like shit and calling you autistic because you don't worship women 100 percent.
If you want tips on how to pick up women, Google it. Don't go on here, it will cause more misery.
In defense of normies -- autistis honestly make the worst friends because they don't want to talk about anything except their narrow, boring interests (if they want to talk to you at all.) Normally in a conversation both parties meet somewhere in the middle and there is a sense of shared connection, but with autists its almost like you're just talking to yourself ... They make absolutely no effort to keep the conversation going and it seems like you only get cold, boring, disinterested responses back. As far as I can tell -- this is consistent with unmedicated autism because they just don't give a shit about conversation. She probably sensed your power level OP and decided she didn't want to keep trying to talk to a robot.