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7 Reasons Women Like Men Who Treat Them Like Crap
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1 You can never really have him.
2 Everything is a surprise.
3 He doesn't care if you need him.
4 He is sure of himself.
5 The "chase" period never ends.
6 Other women want him, too.
7 You are convinced that you can fix him.

Your thoughts on this, brobots?
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Its in a woman's genes to want a stronge and independent male, and being stronge and independent doesn't hold hands with being nice nor gentle.
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>>29595864
*Why did I misspell strong?
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>>29595864

Wrong.

Women want a male who APPEARS strong and independent.

Be both know that in the entire world there are probably 0.001% who are strong and independent naturally. The rest is "faking" it.

But women don't care. For them it's all show and no substance.
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>>29595739
>Everything is a surprise.
kek, I believe that. Women would rather be beaten than bored.
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>>29595739
all true,
but I think this is more part of the courtship process, if you still have to act like this to keep her interested in you after having settled with her, you need to, she has deeper issues than you.
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>>29595739
TL;DR
Women are retarded, illogical brainless creatures
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>>29595739
> Your thoughts
RRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
100% origano
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>>29595739
>1 You can never really have him.

Why is this attractive?
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>>29596125
Ultimately women want to change bad boys and become bored when he gives in. Why do women stay with abusers? They genuinely believe that they can change them.
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>>29595739
women: the nigger gender
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>>29596171

That's why niggers and women love each other so much. They have the same mindset.
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I told you about 3DPD dawg
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the entire reason women want bad boy chads can be summed up with one point - they want to be dominated

that's all it is. they want to be dominated physically, financially, intellectually, and sexually.

this is why betas can't compete, at best they are smart and have money, most of the women who value intelligence and/or money over attractiveness/getting deep dicked into a coma are over 30 years old and want to settle down. basically if you're not that attractive, have some money, yet you have a nice looking gf, she's basically using you and you're a sucker. you can't win.
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>>29596125
Why do dogs chase cars?
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>>29596485
they enjoy the chase
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>>29596465
>she's basically using you and you're a sucker. you can't win.
No way it's true. You're talking out of your ass.
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>>29596465

But I don't understand why alphas like to dominate women. At the end you are dominating an inferior creature. Nothing impressive about that.

I'm not a "dominator" because I'm not able to dominate. I simply don't like it, because it's disgusting. Does that make me beta?
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>>29596603
there's a reason that wherever you find some alpha type of male, or even an alpha female, usually they are either completely sociopathic, or just close enough that there's not much of a difference
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FUCKING WOMEN
YOU FUCKING STUPID BITCHES
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
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>>29596603

I wanted to say: I'm not a dominator because I'm not not able to dominate. 2x not.

So I'm able to dominate, I just don't like it.

How can you love something which is inferior to you? Dominating something makes it inferior to you.

Why can't women be fucking normal? I want a gf I can watch the stars with and talk about philosophy.

Not some fucking beastly whore I need to treat like trash everyday, and if I don't she thinks I'm a pussy and leaves me.
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>>29596747
you fell for the intellectual meme, you're not going to find a girl like that, life isn't some movie. at best you might get a girl who heard the name nietzsche at some point, but that's about it
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>>29596747
Might as well neck yourself 'cause you ain't gonna find that or start playing the sims that's as close as you're gonna get
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>>29596747

Because opposites attract, yin and yang, etc etc. Men are dominant and women are submissive. They are two different roles that need to be filled in a relationship, this "equality" bullshit is just an idea that's meant to make people feel good.
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>>29595915
how exactly do you tell the difference between those two?
your unironically blatant mysoginy (muh women are so superficial guyse) makes you incapable of seeing the truth.
what evolutionary use would it give a woman to not care about their mans capability?
women are programmed to want the alpha, so men try to become the alpha, it's not that hard to grasp.
The thing is, that we live in this modern maladaptive society where we all have to fake this bullshit because evolution didn't expect guys looking and acting like Elon Musk to become as impotant as they are today
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>>29596895
nah, the equality meme is just a female tactic to weed out the betas
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>>29596859
is possible to be non-dominant outside relationship but abuser when with her?
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So what? The White Male transcended humanity and is operating at a much higher level of cognition?
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>>29596859

It's simply who I am, I didn't fell for nothing. Since I can remember I did enjoy nothing more than dreaming and thinking about stuff. Especially mind-expanding stuff like the universe.

>Might as well neck yourself 'cause you ain't gonna find that

That's sad. Why can't there be pure, romantic love where nothing else matters except two people, and those two people rediscover the world together like they were born again. Discover the beauty of the universe and be like children again and discover the divine spark in each others eyes.

Instead the best thing I can hope for is a submissive slave who I need to treat like trash and if she discovers even the slightest weakness (like this intellectual stuff) she is going to leave me for a more muscular and braindead slavemaster?

Are women really nothing more than talking meat you can fuck and have to feed and in return she will do simple tasks and have your child? Then our species is doomed. That's really fucking sad.
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>>29597048
yea man you fell way too hard for the movie magic relationship propaganda

reading that sounds like a plot outline to an anime or something.
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>>29597048

Because that's not how life works. At the end of the day we are animals driven to reproduce, and sexual selection has made it so dominant and aggressive traits are preferred.

The world isn't some magical place like we all thought when we were kids anon. It can be beautiful and kinda bad ass, but when you get down to it its all just a bunch of organisms competing for survival and the chance to reproduce.
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>>29596747
The world's not fair. If you want a companion, get a dog.
The manic pixie dreamgirl doesn't exist.
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>got my first girlfriend by cumming on her picture and showing it to her to try to offend her but she liked it
>got my second girlfriend by literally threatening to rape her because she was pissing me off but she liked it too
>other girls only ever show interest in me when I start acting like a huge dickhead to them

then again I only attract fucked up crazy girls
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>>29597159
>my FIRST girlfriend

Fuckers like you are why people whine about not having girls to pair up with
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>>29597206

Are people not allowed to have multiple relationships over the course of their entire life now? Seriously anon?
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>>29595739
It's all the fucking same with men, Jesus.

>You can never really have her

Stacy, anyone? She's showing you some affection, but not enough for it to be a relationship. There's a real reason guys end up being in the friendzone.

>Everything is a surprise

Not even going to comment, same shit with some guys. Just like with women, some are going to hate that, some are going to resent boredom.

>He doesn't care if you need him

Talk about a thing to keep you on edge. Same with guys, the thrill of getting a girl who wasn't initially into you is much more satisfying than getting one that will just spread her legs for you.

>He is sure of himself

Confidence is universally attractive in men, though some men don't like women that are too confident. That's true of men and other men, too.

>The "Chase" period never ends

It's exciting and uncertain. Same shit goes for guys, coquettes thrive off of that.

>Other women want him, too

Guys mostly feel threatened when other men desire their girls, girls get that theirs is a good catch if others want him. Though there are PLENTY of insecure and controlling women out there who are pretty much tortured by the thought that they could lose their man.

>You are convinced that you can fix him

"I can get him to be in a relationship and loyal to me", it's always a good prospect.

It's all understandable and explainable without going into the whole "women are fucked up" spiel, you spergs.
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>>29597159
>acting like a dickhead

betas always fuck this up

when a girl acts like a bitch to a guy, the guy gets kind of sad or he could get really pissed off, and he then most likely can't stand her.

when a guy acts like a dick to a girl those girls either cry or get really bitchy, or they cry and get really bitchy while wondering how they could get that guy to like her more to make him jealous and show him how great she is and what he's missing

women are fucked in the head
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>>29597159
>got my first girlfriend
>first girlfriend
>girlfriend
>first
How about fuck off normie?
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>>29597230
nah it's the whole "Ah that was a bad apple, there's plenty more where that came from!"

That used to be something you tell yourself to become better than what you were but now it's just used as a consolation so you don't feel bad
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>>29597258
Met plenty of guys who wanted to avenge their gf by showing what she's lacking through getting together with them after breakup. What do you think all the /fit/ gfless gymbros 'mirin me?' types are doing?
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>>29597129
>>29597143
>>29597152

That's precisely the reason why I hate 3D. >HURR the world is not magical. We live on a floating rock in almost infinite seas of darkness, and became alive from the dust of a star. And now we are talking to each other almost telepathically via a network which is younger than we are, and soon AI is going to outsmart humans. But the world is not magical at all!

>Let's do repetitive shit in order to survive, even if something in us dies. Survival is the most important thing. For what? Who cares. Let's be slaves to our DNA!
>functionality is better than magic

This is the reason why I'm NEET.

>The manic pixie dreamgirl doesn't exist.

It exists in my fantasy. And fantasy is superior to reality.
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>>29597257
Shhhh I need to reinforce my sexist beliefs to make myself feel better about my pathetic existence

By virtue of having a penis I am so rational and logical and smart and caring and passionate and all those gross vagina-havers are terrible people, that's why they won't date me!!
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>>29597323
please go back to lolcow, no one likes you
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>>29597352
/r9k/ has been my most visited board for years, try again faggit
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>>29597385
k you win

wanna be my gf now?
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>>29597406
I already have a bf, sorry anon
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>>29597420
ok now you can really go the fuck back to lolcow
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behold, for the purposes of academic advancement, the idiocy of many women
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>>29595915

>strong men aren't reeeeeaally strong
>they're just pretending to make me look bad

WEW
E
W
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>>29597257
>Stacy, anyone? She's showing you some affection, but not enough for it to be a relationship. There's a real reason guys end up being in the friendzone.
they want stacy because she's hot, not for some stupid unattainability reason.

>Not even going to comment, same shit with some guys. Just like with women, some are going to hate that, some are going to resent boredom.
can't argue with that. however the surprises aren't of the same kind here.

>Talk about a thing to keep you on edge. Same with guys, the thrill of getting a girl who wasn't initially into you is much more satisfying than getting one that will just spread her legs for you.
>It's exciting and uncertain. Same shit goes for guys, coquettes thrive off of that.
bullshit
only Chad would concern himself with that

>"I can get him to be in a relationship and loyal to me"
never happens
no man thinks like that

Women aren't fucked up. Their reproductive strategy is simply different.
They are however highly illogical and make out men to be the fucked up sex even though all the evidence points into the other direction.
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>>29596603

I'm above every woman, dominating is fun because fun things are fun. Anal sex is good because it hurts, she's accepting pain for the sake of your pleasure. You don't love her, she makes your peepee hard and you don't give a shit about her so you hurt her for the sake of dominance.
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>>29597487

Unattainability signals desirability. Make some supply of an item limited, and it instantly goes up in value - econ 101.

And why aren't they? Drama serves perfectly well to keep you on edge and guessing, therefore thinking about someone. That's how you put a person on a pedestal.

Also, I'm sure you can admit you won't fuck just every girl who'll want it, there will be some who are just too ugly, for example. Surely you wouldn't consider the super boring ones for a relationship, either? Women primarily look for relationships and not sex.

Yes, that doesn't happen with men. Literally every relationship is a guy thinking "I can get this girl to put out", and maybe then be in a relationship if he wants that. It's equivalent.

Yes, nobody argues that their reproductive strategy is different, it manifests biologically as different levels of parental investment are required in child-rearing. Interestingly enough, that makes women less geared towards infidelity, too.

Besides, all of these things do apply to men, too. Everyone knows love makes fools of people, no shit. Talk about the friends I've supported after breakups, won't find a small bit of logic in them.
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>>29597385

Cool, a poser.
>the cake is a lie xd
>I been here all summer
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>>29597600

These are potential mothers you are violating.

God is truly a sick fuck, making such degenerate creatures like women giving life.
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>>29597710
I'm just tired of people telling me leave when I have differing opinions. I've been browsing this board consistently almost since it's inception, I've just changed my opinion on lots of things over the years. Now people tell me to go >>/back/ to places I've never even visited
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>>29597460
I'd never hurt a women, excluding self-defense, but at this point it's hard to sympathize when women complain about their bfs being dicks. I'm pretty sure that is exactly why they're with them in the first place.
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>>29597600
>Anal sex is good because it hurts

think this might be a porn meme since my gf was the one to talk me into it
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>>29597600
Nice bait right there, senpai, appreciate it.
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>>29597657
men care primarily about looks
if there's unlimited 10/10s or only a few wouldn't make a difference to them.
women however can be attracted to men for the sole reason that they are unattainable.
There's no better or worse sex but we have to acknowlege the differences. Stop pushing your "it's all the same" bullshit.
Just because men do something too to some extend doesn't mean that it's all equal now.
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>>29597722

If theyre down for it they are whores. If it's not me it'd be some other guy. I'm not about to martyr my dick just so a whore takes 5 seconds longer before she gets fucked.

>>29597761

Its not a meme. Buttsluts exist but it's not the norm. If anal didn't hurt I'd still find something else to do though. Spanking, making her suck dirty cock, dirty talk. Porn mimics real sex, not the other way around. Do what turns you on and bitches are receptive because they like a man who knows what he wants. The concept of someone knowing what they want is mind blowing to them.
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>>29595739
>3D
again why should I care? I'm neet masterrace I'm not limited by the boundaries of reality which will inevitably turn every stacy into an abused shell of her former self and every chad into a beast
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>>29597857

I want to be a NEET. Do you think I will still get bitches if I'm honest and confident about it?

I have the theory that I could still get girls, but I'm too lazy to try.
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>>29597809
Care to tell us some of your conquests where she was your peer and equal in every way? Maybe you split a check then went back to the room gave each other oral, then respectfully condom'd and gave her the equal dicking, being careful not to exert any privilege or display of superior strength.
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>>29597420
thats never stopped a woman before
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>>29597815

Of course it would, in a world of 10s a hierarchy of its own will arise. There's always a girl who's above others in value and they'd pick her above the others if they had to pick one, so they'll be focusing on her.

And besides, women don't get attracted to men solely because they're unattainable. Be gay with a slight hint that you can be turned, nobody will still go for you if you're an ugly mofo.

Nobody said it was equal, if anything, I'm anti-feminist and all that bullshit, all the differences in sexes can be reasonably argued through Darwinian biology. But folks on the internet will push WAY too hard to emphasize those differences.
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>>29597910
You fell for it, nice. Don't they teach that the textbook alpha response to shit tests is ignoring them?

Dominant sadists, of all places, wouldn't frequent /r9k/. Pretty good faking, though.
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>>29597906
Yes you can my friend don't let the wagecuck propaganda get to you. We live in thrilling times, being the traditional caretaker is no longer a requirement, do you know what is required? Passion, confidence, curiosity, values, all things a true waguck has thrown under the rug since the day he was born. Girls want someone who's able to self determine who he is no matter what, we don't need a boss to tell us how we should bend down to get fucked, that's a massive turnoff for girls.
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>>29597486
heheheh
I think he means mentaly
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>>29597922
shit is obviously more nuanced than l can described it in two sentences but men are attracted to looks and in a world with only 10/10s walking around most men wouldn't have a problem to settle with one of the lower 10/10s.
However women, due to hypergamy would.
Our reproductive mindest differs vastly from that of women. That's just a fact.
Most antifeminists from my experience don't seem to want to acknowlege that or try to muddy the waters because it makes it harder for them to push their dogmatic creed of egalitarianism.
You can always point out nunce but that doesn't contradict the rule.
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>>29596125
It's human nature to desire the unattainable.

Although this point seems redundant with #5.
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>>29597750
It's all biologically based behaviors. So many people loathe evolutionary biology and deem it a meme, yet place their faith in silly shit like gender studies and similar stupidity.

The truth is (as is seemingly everything these days) offensive to women that they're (for better or worse) inclined to be masochists to some extent or another. It's their nature.
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>>29597989

Exactly. Deep down the most buff and confident men have the lowest egos.

Fat, sweaty neckbeards are strong enough mentally to not give a shit. An "alpha" couldn't bear the lifestyle of a NEET for a single day without killing himself because of shame and guilt. We are strong enough to tolerate the hatred, humiliation, laughing and contempt society throws at us since we were babies.

It's like a muscle. Train it and it gets stronger. NEETs were despised so often in their lives for various reasons that most of us simply don't give a fuck anymore.
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>>29598017
Well, that's true, because men have much less to lose from just having sex with whomever. But the general guidelines are the same -- our emotional responses may have varying degrees of intensity and their nature may be different, but there is nothing unexplainable or weird about how we differ.
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>>29597318
>this goldmine of autism
Oh wow
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>>29597318
it's all good but if you waste your brainpower on manic pixie girls you're a massive pleb and should be deported to failed normie land
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>>29598076

Is that why NEETs are so afraid of socializing they have no friends and almost never go out in public?
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>>29598076
>we are strong and alpha for sitting on our ass all day and eating junk food
this is what neckbeards actually believe
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>>29597048
You can still have that. You just have to be able to lie to and delude yourself.
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>>29597906

Bitches like neets. You think those ghetto ass niggers are holding down a 9-5?

>>29597966

Shit tests are given by girls. That was a beta wanting a girl. Dominant sadists are fucking everywhere, it's the default setting for men. I might not dress up in leather and do the master/slave bullshit, it's still good sex though.
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Women deserve to be treated like shit, dumb bitches.
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>>29597989

So he's just pretending enjoy doing what he wants then?
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>>29597460
These women are dumb whores, but I appreciate them trying to let everyone in on the secret.
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i love it when niggers beat white women yall
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>>29598076

I think you're thinking of betas. Alpha is a taoist state. Betas are insecure and putting on an elaborate ruse, all smoke a mirrors.

My ego is unrealistically high. I think I'm way better than everyone else and can't stand the thought of others not immediately recognizing. It's pretty beta but I've noticed myself acting truly alpha. Alpha isn't so much a set of behaviors as it is a mindset. I was always fiercely competitive though. I didn't be better than everyone because of insecurity, I did in because I like humiliating others. It's why I played baseball and not soccer. Soccer everyone loses. Baseball has clear winners and losers,individual winners and losers.
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>>29598395
>baseball
More like boreball amIrite
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>>29598281
He's just pretending he doesn't care about her and when he's a dick he secretly regrets it.
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>>29598439

The only other sport was football and basketball. Football team fucking sucked and even good teams only play for like 5 seconds a play. Basketball is fun and is about individual glory but the team sucked so fuck that.
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>>29598205

>we are strong and alpha for sitting on our ass all day and eating junk food

Lying, anon. Lying.

You can't sit for 16 hours a day.

Get a higher NEET-Level and maybe one day you can become as lazy as I am. But you're not there yet, young padawan.
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>>29598513
>basketball is about individual glory
Ball hog detected
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw

Check this out...
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>>29598395

For me it was the opposite. I had such high self-esteem that competition was against my pride. Why prove something which is self-evident?

Yeah you could dominate others and humiliate others, but why? It's like torturing ants. I never valued others enough that dominating them would give me something. They are far too below my level.
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>>29598557

If I wanted to share I'd play fucking soccer.
>2-2

As long as the team wins that's what matters right? Sportsmanship is for faggots.
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>>29595739
You obviously had a privileged life if you've never experienced domestic violence.
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>>29598741

Wait is that really thing? How many of you were baten by your dads as kids?
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>>29598711

Well I also 'played' with small animals for the same reason. So you don't get anything out of it?
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>>29598785

You have to think bigger anon.

If I only could make the world my arena and play chess with entire nations and armies and being a scourge like Genghis Khan. That would be more my thing than simply sticking it to some random, average idiots who you will never see again in a few years.
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Women like jerks because jerks are the only ones being masculine and manly.
I think the main problem is that men today are so fixed on being effeminate "nice guys" who refuse to where the trousers in the relationship, refuse to act like men, and don't want to be taken care of.

The act like this because the media and the schooling system tell young boys that this is the ideal way to act.

You can't deny that modern day society has a problem with demonizing masculinity. All romantic comedies and tv shows these days feature submissive, effeminate men fighting for the affections of a woman against a typical evil masculine jock meathead. And the nice guy always wins.

If you dare show a bit of masculinity, you are just a violent meathead who deserves to be alone. Because, after all, it's impossible to be masculine and a good person at the same time. And women will always eventually go with the nice guys, because those silly women are just hormone driven automatons, its not like they have agency of their own.

See, the demonization of masculinity is misandrist, mysogynist... it's just anti-everyone. It's such a destructive concept, and I can't believe people will defend it.
It's time to embrace masculinity and stop
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>>29598768
Oh, you didn't have a dad? I am sorry.
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>>29599118
No. Outside of appearance masculinity is entirely subjective, you can't be that masculine nice guy your thinking of unless you have the physical appearance of a masculine guy, the rest is just bs in the head.

In reality, it is the bs in the head of people that makes them think being treated badly is because they deserve to be, making the person treating them badly seem more superior or harder to get. This happens with guys too, they all fight over some slut fucking all of them and calling them shit, it's just something dumber, or even more natural and normal people fall into.

People like you, are not like them. You are thinking before you act. Which can be a good thing and protect you, but also a bad thing where you are thinking strange ideas of wha masculinity is as personality trait, and having fantasies of being some masculine good person.

If you want to be masculine you must lift weights but even then it won't change all your appearance. Rather you should learn to think before acting as a reaction. You are thinking before acting as habit. You end up making things up in your head.
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>>29599266

>masculinity is a social construct
>masculinity is just a trait you're born with, so don't even try

This is just more of that bullshit propaganda I've been talking about.

People didn't think like this in the past. It's only in recent years that this thinking has become prevalent, and now people are, on the whole, less happy with their lives.

Masculinity is about being assertive, being responsible and being respectful. That's all there is to it.

These days, everyone needs to be "accepted" and be okay with their mediocrity and not even try to better themselves. That's what is causing all the pain in this society.

That's what is causing this "nice guy" phenomenon.
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>>29595739
I wouldn't want a bf that treats me bad, but I wouldn't mind if he beat me sometimes.
He must care about me if he's willing to beat me and still stays with me.

Then again I'm not a woman.
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>>29599578
you sure think like one tho faggot
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>>29598125
>>29598099
>goldmine of autism

Not even him but y'all are clearly ignorant about how toxic the material world is especially in this day and age earthly desires are for fucking cucks
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What if I want to be dominated by a qt anime girl?
Can I ever be loved this thoroughly?
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>>29596603
you do it because its the only way to make your dick wet
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>>29595739
Women, especially women with low self esteem get all of their own validation and feeling of worth through how someone else treats them. When someone always treats them amazing just because they have a pussy, it turns them off because it doesn't give them the validation they're looking for. It only matters when it's usually withheld and is hard to get normally. They like men who close off their emotions most of the time because when they do show any emotion to them it means a lot more. It's a sign of trust. If everything is done just for pussy it becomes meaningless. Bad treatment is a sign that a guy doesn't care about trying to woo the female, so she instantly trusts him more.

The chase is the time where you're constantly thinking about the other person and what they think of you, the time when you're seeking validation the most and when you get it and the person shows that they have affection for you, you get that amazing feeling of validation. Women who constantly seek the chase or seek out abusive men are ones with low self esteem, usually borderline and have often been verbally, physically, and/or sexually abused as a child. Oftentimes they are used to constantly striving after their parents love and being disappointed by parents who are incapable of love. The closest they ever got were those brief moments of validation, but oftentimes they are incapable of true love because they never received it from their parents. It's tragic, but it's becoming more and more common every day in our society.
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To categorize every person who's been in an abusive relationship is to display painful ignorance of emotional manipulation.

Not everything in an abusive relationship has to do with what the woman wants. As a matter of fact, abusive relationships are not exclusive to couples, they are present in friendship too.
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>>29597912
>implying I'm a woman

anon plz
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but these are not perks in any way shape or form

a nice submissive guy can act like an asshole too but whats the point of acting like an asshole in the first place
woman are a fucking joke at this point, i hope some of them realize it
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>>29600053

what if I categorize them all as fucking retarded normies?
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>>29600182

All I can say is that you're a fool.
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>>29600236
he is right tho, only normies play retarded mind games because they think social statues is a magical essence or something

even if im emotional or feel bad i don't fuck around with people or tell stories about how fucking great i am, because i believe i have dignity
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>>29600142

Why would you want to be a meek, submissive man though?
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But those are all the things I hate

You stay because of #7 but you don't like the first 6.
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>>29595739
hahahahahah dumb fucks.
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>>29600142

They can but they don't. Anyone can be rich. That's not a reason for females to chase poorfags though.
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>>29598395
holy shit
*tips fedora*
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>>29600315

This is what I mean by not knowing anything bout emotional manpulation. it's a lot more subtle than the silly machismo games you envision in your mind.

But I guess that if you've never witnessed it or experienced it, you can never know how it is.
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>>29595739
Only more proof that women are naturally insane.
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>>29597318

>>29597318

i relate so much my friend. i used to love this philosophical discussions about love, life, society, how most people are just numb and superficial, mankind, the universe with my ex gf (she left me).... and god damn, did it feel good, although i believe it was more onsided than i made myself believe.

i've never watched anime, so it has nothing to do with that. there are just people with small hearts and small brains out there, who can't understand any of your thoughts. you need both for that. there are similiar minded people (both sexes) but they are hard to find. and i failed to find them, but i notice them sometimes, but can't really reach out to them (robot stuff). any advise? let some similiar lines slip you mentioned here, while talking to someone (girl or guy) and you'll soon notice if they can relate or are just superficial narrow minded people, who never looked into the stary heaven twice at night and were still fascinated by it. through the breakup i lost a lot of that childish curiousity and fascination for the world (but it was only really awoken by my ex in the first place... plato knew allready that love can have this effect). but I#m getting there again... the only advice i can give you: go where those people could go. talk to a lot of them, you've got nothing to lose. soon you'll be dead anyways. don't try to please people, if they are right for you, you will notice.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXJoexZBMcA

AND PLEASE: don't take this shit board here seriously, or you'll never exoerience what you hope for. if you wanna talk or somethign reply to this post and make a throwaway email and I'll send you my skype. keep your head up, and never mind those losers that secretly wish to be the biggest normies in the world.
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>>29599618

this right here

oregano and tabaco
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>>29600651

Fuck off back to rebbit, atheist numale piece of shit. You're a fucking omega.
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>>29600758
I'll start by not taking any of the shit you said seriously.

Go away
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>>29597323
Youre a stupid whore guys like girls that are hot thats all it takes not this crazy unattainable stuff
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>>29600142
Exactly, they're not perks. They're mostly bad traits. The reality is these "assholes" are just attractive men, so whatever they do is attractive. And the reason they act this way is because they've received attention their whole lives for just existing and aren't desperate for it from anyone who'll give to them.
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>>29601736
You're right, but there is a psychological aspect to female attraction, too. Think of it as the icing on the cake.
Being physically attractive (8/10) is generally a default assumption by women, the other men are less then human to them.
Being physically attractive is the bare minimum that is expected of a male.
However the way that physically attractive man acts is what actually makes the woman fall in love with him.
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>>29602254
Females can't love though. It's silly to think they do.
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