/getting out/
Has anyone here really done it? How did you do it? Is it a myth? Do we deserve what we have? How late is too late?
I am drawn between the poles of progress and comfort. I could get a job, I could try and meet people ... it is so much easier to lie in bed browsing /r9k/ when I'm so sure none of it will really work anyway.
i used to do the whole 9-5 office job, go to the gym, hang out with my incel friends, keep an apartment etc
but by the time i was 26-27 i said fuck it. sold everything quit my job and become a NEET. i simply wasn't happy at all. it's been a few years now and i have no idea what to do with my life, i doubt i can ever get a job again with the gap in my resume
>>29591455
Are you on autism/neet bux right now or are you still using what you made selling it all?
>>29591516
still living off what i have saved up
in the end i'll probably go back to my parents
>>29591535
Wow, you must have been well off. why did you only have other incel friends by the way?
>>29591594
it's very easy to save a shitload of money when you're a single guy with inexpensive hobbies.
only a few of them were incel, some were failed normies. definitely no chads. i rarely see them anymore.
i guess you could consider some of my normie coworkers friends, but i only talked to them at work
REEEEESPOND TO ME REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE FUCKING KILL ME THEN
Uni got me out. I started a new hobby that I became extremely passionate about, made great friends through it, and even got a girlfriend.
Uni is the easiest opportunity in the world to change your life - if you can get in, go for it.
Otherwise, I don't know what would help. Good luck bro.
>>29591819
>>29592159
Get the fuck out of /r9k/ and get back to applying for jobs and/or volunteer opportunities.
>idealist.org
>indeed.com
Also, post your resume you wannabe wagekek. Don't even bother blotting out your name/address/contact info nobody's gonna do anything with your personal info. I just want to see what I can do to make it look more appealing.
I work in a warehouse and people keep trying to talk to me and stuff. I just want to do my work and go home.
Get out of the house, but stick to things you can do alone like hiking on a trail or riding a bike.
>>29592207
not him but i don't even have the self confidence to apply for jobs anymore
i send out one application and then have a panic attack
>>29591413
Yeah, my life is like a neet/robot sandwich.
From ages 0-17 I was "that kid", no confidence, into weird shit, almost always picked last in gym class, the odd one out when doing in-class assignments in pairs, didn't go to prom, my on ly friends were other loners and weirdos, etc.
From age 17-22 I was on top of the world, more or less. Started making real friends, was in college, was dating girls, had confidence in myself, etc.
Then from 22 onwards it was all downhill again. Especially from 29 to now (nearly 31) I've been a full NEET and while it was fun at first, it's now a purgatory if not hell on earth.
>>29592190
>tfw keep hearing how Uni will be a new start
>believe it
>graduate engineering degree
>never made 1 friend
>still can't get a job
am i really bottom of the heap? am i really that much of a failure that even university can't fix me
>>29592552
I know this feel
how do I drop off a resume at a fast food place without being a weirdo
I stood in line at McDonalds 20 minutes today then asked the person taking orders I wanted to apply for a job
>>29593864
Nah that guy just had enough normalcy to make it in the correct environment. Uni made me even more robotic. I was litterally bottom 10% in terms of general attractiveness.
I don't think I've ever "got out", but things look ok.
> 0-15 bullied and hated
> 15-18 studying in a nerdy school, it was awesome, I kicked ass at every topic
> 19 mandatory slave camp also known as army
> 20-23 uni in a nerdy topic, still kicking ass
> now 25, educated, living on my own, entrepreneur
Never had friends, everythingless virgin, somewhat poor due to saving everything I can, so that I can drop out of the rat race by 30. In good shape thanks to cardio and very healthy diet.
Oh, I've never had a job either, I made my own shit.
tldr shit can go well even without going out. Still got tfwnogf tho.
>>29594329
>khv
still a loser
i was a normie until age 13 but highschool really started to isolate me
i didn't even finish because of depression and anxiety
i am 22 now and i feel less depressed in general but i don't know where to go with my life. i will never be a normie, you need a normie childhood to "get out" and become one
I was never a fully grown robot but i spent middle school and half of high school depressed and lonely. Attempted to hang myself at age 12.
Exercising and reading (and by extension less time on 4chan/playing vidya) turned my life around and made me into a better, happier person. Friends followed after self-improvement. Girls followed after a social life built on friends. Now after my first year of college I'm what most of this board would spitefully call a normie, but not some thoughtless vapid moron like many of you are convinced we all are.
Getting out is entirely possible. Being a robot is not some enlightened position to be proud of. If you actually got to know some of the people you lot are so angry at, you would realize many have been through the pain and existential crises plaguing you, but took other routes out of it. There are idiots out there, sure, but you'd be shocked to know how many normies hide histories of the same kind of depression found here.
>>29595632
>Attempted to hang myself at age 12.
KEK that's what you deserve faggot normie
>>29595632
>Tfw have intrests that are based around being alone
>By nature, can't spend time with anyone if I want to persue my intrests
>tell my self I'll be like nicola tesla or issac newton
>Still no friends
why does it have to be this way
>>29595632
Wew lad. Go post on /b/ you normie shitstick
I'm locked in pretty fucking tight
>0-9 pretty normal
>9-14 bullied, depression
>14-20 dropped out of school, lived in my room, got grade 10 at 19
>20-21 going out again doing courses a few days a week
lol why am I still alive?
>0-16 near-normie
>16-20 crippling social anxiety
can't hold conversations with anyone but parents now, i'm stuck senpai
>>29594329
Are you Korean, Finn, Swiss?
>>29595632
Normies don't go through this kind of shit. Get the fuck out of here.
>>29596487
>>29597166
>You're just a fucking normie faggot
Ok. My point was that I used to be a depressed lonely shitposter that couldn't talk to people and hated the world around him, but that I overcame this. That's the topic of the thread.
>>29596660
I only post on /lit/ now. /b/ was where I went in the bad years. I used to think way-too-early exposure to it fucked me up for life but, looking back, the result is better than if I was some soulless reddit engineerfag.
I only come to /r9k/ when I notice angry frogposters on /lit/. They make me want to come talk to you guys and try to help you with stuff. Most of the time it's replies like this telling me to try killing myself again but a handful of people have good conversations so it's worth it, to me.
>>29597660
Holy fuck just kill yourself, you were never a robot to begin with you patronizing idiot.
>>29592914
ughhh this could be me. tell me what you do all day?
>>29597660
if the robot does not spite normies for having what he does not, he is no robot, but a beta.
- plato, the reeeeepublic
>>29597166
You're normal though. We all are. I'm normal, neet, socialise a lot and I'm still a depressive.
>>29599036
Quality post right here, familia.
>>29599055
>you're normal
>we all are
is this was redditor normalfags tell themselves? you think this is all a joke to us? i haven't gone outside in 2 weeks
>>29600072
You are normal. You're not a special unique snowflake.
>>29591413
Honestly it's never going to work. You can pray to Jesus, recite the Quran do the whole God thing it might actually work out. Because that's what you need a miracle. Most jobs require some special requirement to get the job like 250+ fb friends, some stupid shit like that, to get hired. Honestly to get a job you might need more than that like idk. Now looking at your social situation you're pretty much fucked. Get the job thing off the ground wait a few years you may gather 1-2 friends after that it will probably be like 5-6 years before we can talk gf.
>>29593998
wait, you asked the person you wanted to apply for the job? like "i want to apply for a job?"
>>29600613
yes
"welcome to mcdonalds what can i get you"
"hi, are you hiring? i have a resume"
like that, but more awkward.
>>29593864
Can't fix you if you don't really get out of your comfort zone and don't try.
>>29593864
That's just a meme normies tell you or a delusion younger robots have. If you had the ability to make uni a new start, you wouldn't need one.
>>29593998
>>29600613
>>29601807
>Hi! What can I get for you sir?
>o-one job pls
>What was that?
>i w-would like to get a job here pls heres my resume
