I could lose my virginity at any time to a whore at my job.
Should I go through with it r9k? Main reason I havent is cause I value my virginity and wanted it to be for a girl I loved but those dreams...are dead
whore in what way? like pay her to do it? or a girl trying to fuck everyone at work?
>>29576634
She blatantly ssid she just wants some dick and honestly she isnt that bad looking and cute small type. She has a boyfriend and theyre in an open relationship.
Ultimately if I lose it to her I wouldnt feel too bad but I fear Id be wasting my first time on someone who is a whore
>>29576608
>Main reason I havent is cause I value my virginity and wanted it to be for a girl I loved but those dreams...are dead
Unfortunately these days women would probably find it gross that you haven't lost it yet and you probably won't find what you're looking for.
Even though I think this is true, I keep holding onto mine. I don't expect to get anything out of it but it's something I want to do just in case.
>>29576708
just tell her you're a virgin and make it special somehow
it's really not the worst thing if you enjoy yourself
do it if you trust yourself enough to not catch feelings for a whore
>>29576608
Dunno what to tell you OP. It's your virginity, it's your choice. If you value your virginity...I dunno, but I do understand this:
>wanted it to be for a girl I loved but those dreams...are dead
I lost my virginity at 24 over in Okinawa when I was in the Marine Corps....Yoshihara specifically. From the get-go I found I was addicted to sex. I'm 31 now and I have never had unpaid sex with any woman I was physically attracted to. Paid women have been the only decent lookers I've ever fucked, I've had sex with more women than I could even bother to remember at this point....but I'm still alone. I will say that sex has helped save my sanity, but....it's a hallow joy. Still a joy, but very fleeting.
I have no loving wife and kids to come home to....I probably never will....I'm still more than a little lonely, and I can't make a relationship work for the life of me. My sex history is a red flag in the mind of any sane woman; being good at sex and making her cum regularly is a double-edged sword since she's just going to ask "Where'd you learn that??" as she's panting in a pool of her own and your love juices...
I don't know what to tell you OP. Celibacy sucks. The guilt of knowing you're a whore monger sucks. I lean toward thinking virginity is the worse of the two evils, but it's your life and a decision only you can make for yourself.
>I value my virginity
>male
Those are shit valors
Fuck a whore and liberate yourself
Woman want assertive man
Not pussies
>>29577987
Not the OP, but you're not exactly helping.
>>29576608
Don't listen to the desperate porn addicts ITT
Save it. Sex isn't some life-changing experience when its casual.
You're going to end up remembering the first girl you fucked for the rest of your life and regret not doing it with the girl you love and loves you back.
Your first sexual experience forms a strong connection, if you lose it you lose its can't get it back. Just masturbate or get an onahole. Masturbation is healthy in moderation and there's nothing to be ashamed about if you want some stimulation.
Don't be a part of the shaming meme. Only people who actually shame you are the vapid sluts and whores who do gangbangs but have high standards.
Don't have sex outside of a relationship just don't do it.
>>29576608
Casual sex is the most degenerate thing you could do. Aside from doing drugs. Sex is not something you just do with whoever you want whenever and still have respect for yourself, your body, and your soul.
>>29576722
Not true not true not true. This is false don't listen to this.
Normal people won't shame you. Do you think religious people shame each other? They don't. Self respect and strong values are attractive. Don't feel obligated to fuck a slut to "get it over with" or force a nonexistant title on yourself. You don't have a hymen and sex gets better with practice and discovery. A woman who has no respect for herself and others will be a degenerate and shame you.
By falling prey to the virgin male meme you empower feminists, sjws, and sluts.
>>29578122
Troll ignore this poster. Most likely a kike.
You don't know how many normal people regret their first sexual experience when it's casual. Even my own mother regrets it.
