Is it ok to require virgin gf since I am virgin myself?
I'm kind of disgusted to fuck with girl that is contaminated already.
>>29569274
Yeah, it's reasonable. The issue is viewing non-virgin women as "contaminated" instead of just more experienced than you. Nobody in real life is going to respond positively to that.
>>29569274
>contaminated
Please stop. Robots are confused enough as it is.
>>29569317
Thats what I'm scared of. I'm scared to meet cool girl and that it turns out that she is not virgin. That literally means that she is not for me. It means she went too fast into that shit and probably was and is stupid.
I get it why this cant be received positively but thats how I feel about it.
Falling too fast to animal instinct is kinda shitty to me.
>>29569274
you can "require" all you want but that doesn't mean you'll ever get it.
say you require a six figure income to get out of bed and work, chances are, that you'll be a neet forever
>>29569351
>That literally means that she is not for me. It means she went too fast into that shit and probably was and is stupid.
So women are stupid if they're willing to have sex with anyone else, but not if they're willing to have sex with you? Just trying to understand your reasoning here.
>>29569429
The reasoning is that she should've waited as long as I did. That means we think about it the same way.
I wonder how many robots that claim they require a virgin gf are serious?
Plenty of trolls here trying to sabotage robots and make them angry at women for stupid reasons. There are plenty of reasons to be, but not that.
I guess there are a lot of theist / very conservative robots too?
>>29569485
I think I am only conservative what it comes to that topic. I really feel that we both need to be "pure".
I am maybe brainwashed by movies and music and therefore I am too romantic and bitchy about this.But I can't get over the fact that somebody else penetrated her and cummed all over her at one point. I believe I do not deserve that kind of cuckery. I am very disciplined person and would never compromise myself to fuck someone that I do not care about truly and wholeheartedly but primitively like degenerate animal
Nonvirgins are disgusting
That includes my mom and my sister
I haven't touched them since I was redpilled
>>29569485
Why should a virgin robot want to be the guy she settles with at 35 after she's had her fun?
>>29569317
Not contaminated, but I legitimately feel like I cannot keep up. No girl wants to have to teach a guy how to fucking have sex.
>>29569317
>Nobody in real life is going to respond positively to that.
What does it matter how people respond when it's the truth?
>>29569633
what is there to teach about sex?
>>29569633
>No girl wants to have to teach a guy how to fucking have sex.
same goes vise-versa
maybe it was inteded to teach each other and go with the flow naturally and learn from each other's moves and emotions and reactions
>>29569595
I really get what you're saying dude, I think the same way, and I think it's reasonable. When I hear that a girl is not a virgin, it just reminds me of the idiotic girls in highschool. I wouldn't want to associate with them then, why now?
And it really does show that they think differently about the topic than you.
>>29569676
>same goes vise-versa
except it doesn't
ask any man of hed like to fuck a virgin and he'll say yes.
it is enjoyable for different reasons
>>29569458
Only the retarded ones waited. As you said only the retarded ones should wait for you like you waited like a retard
>>29569812
oh cool
kthx
>>29569614
Because that's kinda what you people are for.
Genetically, I see a lot of people on here saying they are short, ugly, fat, have small penises, mentally disabled, NEET (and incapable of holding down or finding a job), socially inept to absurd degrees, at cetera. Also, just from lurking you figure out that a good portion of users are cynical, perverted, delusional, and bitter.
Justify the last four by the first four; you're still not ENTITLED to anything just because you are alive. A lot of users are just inferior. They don't get the first turn because they aren't worthy of it.
A lot of it isn't their fault, but it's still a factor. Humans find certain things attractive- just like how you don't want to fuck a non-virgin, she doesn't want to fuck a fat basement-dwelling weeb with no human connections outside his family. That's unattractive, you're unfuckable.
You are still people, though. What isn't in your control, like your physical characteristics, resulted directly in your personality traits that turn women off. There is a deep reason why you are like this, and it is not all your fault. Some of it might be, but why go out of your way to change those parts if what you can't change is still going to set you back? It's got to suck.
Tl;dr, that's probably just your lot in life. Tough break, but one day, everyone will be dead
>>29569812
Why is he the retard for waiting? Why aren't they the retards for losing it so early?
>>29569675
Maybe teach isn't exactly the right word, but who the fuck wants to go from someone who knows at least a little of what their doing to some awkward fuck going off of porn and almost non existent "instinct?"
>>29569874
>They don't get the first turn because they aren't worthy of it.
But we aren't worthy of it largely because of things out of our control. It's not fair. And normies somehow think we should just ignore this injustice.
>>29569317
Considering the prevalence of STDs he is correct in viewing non-virgin women as contaminated.
Not everyone is ok with Herpes or HPV.
>>29569595
Wow you're serious about this. I kind of get it... it does seem "noble" to me somewhat. It could have been something society valued. But now it's going to be really hard to find people who think that way and have been disciplining themselves like that. Societal expectations are the opposite of that.
This doesn't really bother me though. A lot of promiscuous women are thrash, but not all of them. I just want a nice girl.
I'm mostly worried about not measuring up desu. As long as she can still appreciate me then it's all OK.
>>29569614
That's a different issue. She could be a virgin and still be thrash. I would actually be a little worried about a virgin woman at 35. She could start feeling like she missed out on everything and want to try a Chad now.
But yeah, those "settling down" relationships after they've ridden the cock carousel hard are probably going to be shit relationships unless you find a girl who actually loves you (and not just pretending for companionship and financial support).
>>29569812
t. diseased roastie
Hope that aids is treating you well.
>>29569874
>Because that's kinda what you people are for.
Until the beta uprising.
The issue here is a that a women who is more experienced than you will never be able to love you the way you love her, because she has too many different previous partners to compare you with.
Imagine you having 0 previous partners, dating a girl who had 4. You will give her 100% of your love, while she will only be able to give you 25% of hers because she will be already jaded and know that there is someone with a characteristic better than yours.
No, not in this universe. Enjoy marrying a girl on her 2nd virginity.
>>29569900
You're right, it's not fucking fair. Part of it is society and part of it is instinct. It doesn't matter on the surface your reasons for being what you are, you're just a NEET, so you're not driven enough to work, therefore can't hold down a life. You're fat, so you're not interested in taking care of yourself, so you're going to die young and leave her alone. You're ugly, so your children will look like you, and be ugly, and no one will want to fuck them either, and your family line will die. You're socially inept, so you can't do the human mating dance properly, so you don't even get to being evaluated anyway.
It's not fair. It's not supposed to be, to be honest, because it's human programming for us to want the next generation to be the best of the last generation, to keep improving as time goes on. That's how it works.
You've definitely earned your bitterness, though. >>29569905
>>29570029
>It's not supposed to be
Says you. Why should I be treated worse for things out of my control? And if you say shit like this, then how can anyone ever be surprised that some inferior people just decide to an hero? If you live life being treated like shit by normies and having to struggle for simple things because of bad luck. It makes all the sense in the world to take revenge. Does it not?
I mean yes, you normies will try to defend against this, but often people wonder why do inferior people do it, why are they such monsters. Well your post right here tells everyone why.
>>29569676
>same goes vise-versa
Not him, but I 100% don't care. I'm really just worried about not measuring up. If she's genuinely having a hard time with sex, then it's adorable. And possibly less stressful desu.
>>29569458
>The reasoning is that she should've waited as long as I did. That means we think about it the same way.
So you're a virgin at this point by choice, then? Are you sure that's really the case, and that you're not just deluding yourself to keep your self esteem intact?
Anyone else here grossed out by the idea of other men's dicks in a girl they like? Just the concept of my crush/oneitis having another dick inside her makes me want to vomit. It's a complete turnoff.
>>29569874
>Because that's kinda what you people are for.
Except I don't need to do it.
I don't think these kind of relationships work.
I've learned to try to be happy by myself. I keep getting better at it.
My plan is to keep on seeking casual or short term relationships all my life. I'll die alone, but it's better than being in a bad relationship.
>>29569988
That's what worries me the most. Women are different from men in this regard. It's how their brain works it seems...
>>29569274
honestly, I want a virgin wife too, and I'm not even a virgin myself... I know it's horribly hypocritical, ill go kill myself thx
>>29569988
Yes this. She has told 30 people before "I love you". Same as being told to you. What's the difference? That her time is running out and you're the safest bet.
>>29569912
Yeah I am serious. The only thing I was 100% sure about was this. Finding pure connection with another human being no matter how long it takes. I am perfectly comfortable doing other things in my life.
Like I said I felt disgusted just to think to be slave to primitive animalistic urge and instict. That is sign of weakness, a sign of weak mind.
>>29569988
This too is what I was thinking about. It's all in mind. If she already experienced many men before me she will not view me like special,dear and rare companion. No value and respect and no honesty.
>>29570107
I am sure. It is 100% my choice. And I have taken that choice multiple times with multiple different girls , some of which directly shamelessly invited me to one night sex while hanging out on various parties.
I go out, I know how to behave with people, I know how to be likeable and funny if the moment is right and is desirable.
Its just that ,especilly lately in my life, I feel disgusted by majority of things that dear people and society around me does.
I am aware of fucked up world we are living in, its just my mission to fight and find some purity in it, at least when it comes to partner.
>>29570137
Bothers me a lot too. I'd rather be alone then have to imagine the same girl I love getting fucked by another man. I think most people are just somehow able to not think about it.
>>29569317
>>29569485
>>29569874
>>29570029
Jesus damn, why do you guys care if robots want a virgin gf? If they're virgins themselves, it does make sense. Let them have their standards for crying out loud
>>29570235
>Jesus damn, why do you guys care if robots want a virgin gf
Now it's robots, but what happens if normie men also start expecting more? Then roasties will be in huge trouble. So it's in their interest to shame anyone that says they want a virgin.
>>29570233
>somehow able to not think about it
Probably by surrendering themselves completely to animal instinct and temporary pleasure (which is primitive form of behavior)
>>29570235
Thank you. It gives me some kind of hope and strength that people understands this even in this day and age.
>>29569274
>Is it ok to require virgin gf since I am virgin myself?
No, because you're not a virgin by choice. For women, remaining a virgin is "harder than training for the Olympics", you didn't do anything to deserve a virgin girl. If you, and 90% of robots, for that matter, were presented the opportunity to have sex with a woman I guarantee you almost all of you would cave, you lack the ability to resist your own lust--the opportunity for you to give into it with another person just hasn't presented itself.
If you demand a woman who has resisted her urges, you should resist your own, not sit back and do nothing. At the very least successfully perform nofap.
>>29570071
>Why should I be treated worse for things out of my control?
On an animalistic level, you deserve to be treated that way because you're an inferior male specimen, and... Well, you know. If you were actually an animal, your mom probably would have eaten you.
On a human level, you don't deserve it at all. But it's going to happen to you. Like I've been saying, that's just how it works. Women are conditioned to want a prince, and it ain't you, so they don't want you.
I wish it didn't have to be like that. Obviously I can't prove it, but I wish I could make more friends like you. I can't seem to do so because I have Chad-aesthetics and you always seem guarded, like I'm just picking on you or something. I get why, it just sucks, because I can never convince you I just want to get to know you. And it doesn't matter that I'm upset because I can't befriend you, either, because look at everything else I just get, right? I get friends, I get a job, I get a girlfriend. I get opportunity, just because I'm good looking.
I don't know. I would ask you to judge people as individuals rather than just hate society as you seem to, but while I can't imagine how you feel, I can wholly understand your reaction to society, and I wouldn't tell you you're wrong for it. You're not a downy, or something. You have thoughts, feelings, and character. You should get something for that, although I still maintain that you're not entitled to love (i don't think I am either, though). You are however entitled to the human experience, and you can't have it, and i hate that.
>>29570261
Shit, that could spark the biggest "fuck you" to sluts trading their "unique" bodies for comfort.
Fucking moneygrabbing life-ruining sluts
>>29570272
Thanks for bump and read the thread before talking that much.
I am virgin by choice. I have resisted it way too many times.
>>29570142
I'm glad you learned to be happy on your own, I don't WANT you to live in hell because no one will put their body on you. You shouldn't base your happiness on love. Keep being you, unless you become unhappy with you.
>>29570235
>why do you guys care if robots want a virgin gf?
He asked why, I gave my opinion. I don't care, really. I just said why it's not likely to happen.
>>29570330
Okay, so you are a virgin, then yes, that's okay. But you're not entitled to any woman. But it is fair that you demand a girl be a virgin then.
However, for most of this board what I said is completely true. At least acknowledge this.
>>29570284
Your sympathy doesn't feel genuine. It's the same sympathy that people exhibit when seeing a cripple. It's dishonest at best, humiliating at worst.
Still I have one question to ask. This is going to sound edgy, but who cares. You say all these things about how it's just the way it is. How inferior people have harder and worse lives. How they are treated worse all their lives.
Now think back to hearing about Adam Lanza, Columbine or hell even Elliot Rodger. Their motivations seem related to what I have described. Frustration, inability and humiliation.
My question is, why do people look at these men and consider them monsters? If you really believe what you said, it makes all the sense in the world to be angry about it. And to even throw your life away (actually I believe most of the people like this don't believe their life to have any value). How do normies defend this apparent cognitive dissonance where they treat many people like shit and when some of them snap, they act like they are not the ones to blame?
>>29570459
They can't defend it simply because they never think about it.
They are closer to wild animal than to peaceful thinking human being who would question himself and his actions against fellow human.
Thats why they continue easily in life (e.g. after high school) never thinking about it while victims bare their scars for life.
By definition , victims in this case are more "intelligent" since they spent more time thinking and questioning world and life unlike their oppressors that only know physical strength and social status.
>>29570459
>Your sympathy doesn't feel genuine.
It does to me, anon.
It's because nobody who condemns those acts goes through what they did. It's damn close to impossible to actually, legitimately empathise with someone. It's incredibly difficult to actually look at someone's situation and experience much beyond "damn, that sucks". And, even worse, at the end of the thought process, there's this selfish "at least it isn't me" thing going on. That pretty much shuts the door and locks it on anything close to genuine empathy. It isn't me, so I can shut it out of my mind now. You do it too, like with soldiers and victims of famine and such. You can't empathise with them, and you're glad you don't have to.
So it doesn't make sense to the masses. I can't really say it makes sense to me either. Murder is a monstrous thing to do, but I also think that they're not the people they tried to be, because society wouldn't have it. We stepped on their innocence. They offered us their friendship, their love, their cameraderie, and we rejected it. They're monsters of our own design, not theirs.
>>29570284
As someone who primarily lurks and never posts, I just wanted to let you know that you disgust me. Never have I seen someone sound so disingenuous on this board and yet still try and push for being a good person.
>>29570575
>It's incredibly difficult to actually look at someone's situation and experience much beyond "damn, that sucks".
It's incredibly surprising to see anyone say this while claiming robots have no empathy.
>You do it too, like with soldiers and victims of famine and such. You can't empathise with them, and you're glad you don't have to.
In a way that's true. Except I don't meet people who suffer from famine. I don't meet people who die on the battlefield. But normies meet inferior people every day.
>They're monsters of our own design, not theirs.
You say this while even the things I have said here could in a way put me in trouble. Do you not see the hypocrisy? You agree with me and still you will keep doing it.
Don't get me wrong. I'm just here to argue, but I feel like I'm missing one very important piece to the jigsaw. One very important piece that should make me accept this injustice and unfairness without being hateful, bitter and vengeful. It seems that many inferior people have found their piece and now are living "happy" life. I used the quote marks because their life are only happy through their own delusion and will not hold when compared to superior people.
Back on the point though. Is my thinking supposed to be like this? Am I mentally ill? I have been told many times (obviously only here, if I talked about these things in real life I would already be locked up) that I seem mentally ill. Yet I feel like I'm seeing things more clearly than I have never seen, which is one of the symptoms for many mental diseases. How incredibly convenient.
>>29570672
What do you mean?
This has not been posted before.
I'm just curious , how old are you virgin male robots who are demanding virgin girls? I hope you realize that by senior year of college, about 80% of people have been sexually active, and the number only grows from there. You are absolutely delusional if you think you will find a girl in her 20's who is not absolutely hideous to whom you can be her "first everything." If, as a girl, you make it to your 20's without touching a single cock, your are either a religious nut or terribly bad-looking...the ones that aren't either are so incredibly rare that it's idiotic to base your life plan on finding one. You would more than likely end up dying alone if you demanded one.
If you are really dead set on this purity stuff, I'd suggest going for a girl that has done oral sex while preserving her vaginal virginity. They are significantly more common than the 100% pure unicorn virgins that you guys dream of, and they are still technically virgins by the vast majority of society's definition. The hymen has long since been considered the gold standard of purity. Who are you to be demanding even greater purity in this day and age?
>>29569458
Don't listen to these normies friend
>>29569812
>>29570107
You're absolutely right.
>>29570284
I'm sorry but this just looks like a giant, bloated way to show "sympathy," or just acting like you give a shit when we all know everyone involved will forget about each other when the thread is gone and we do this same song and dance another day.
>>29569274
You virgins tend to be awful picky and judgmental about the girls you would fuck, despite being unloved loser neets.
You are not the one who gets to be disgusted
>>29570916
fuck off triggered lesser creature called roastie
fuck off and die you parasite
>>29570744
>claiming robots have no empathy.
I kinda tend to think that robots do have empathy to the extent that I described empathy above, which is the only empathy I believe in. A moment of actual empathy and then selfish dismissal. But in regard to robots vs normies, I think there's an element of envy there. And later, bitterness.
>But normies meet inferior people every day.
Yeah, it is different. It's just the best way to get my point across. I can't sit here and try to justify this. It goes back to what I said at first: it's just how it works.
>still you will keep doing it.
If by you you mean me, there's no point in making any kind of personal claim attempting to prove otherwise. I can't prove you wrong, so you must be right. And disregarding even that, you can't exactly be faulted for noticing the pattern, and making assumptions like that. That's just basic logic, so I have no argument.
If you mean society, yes, you are right. Its not going to end.
I don't know how you're supposed to think, man. I'm an engineer, not a psychiatrist/psychologist. Your reasoning on why you think how you do is sound, though.
>>29569351
God this is stupid.
You assume that having sex before you is her making a mistake? Like sex is degenerate and people shouldn't want it? Grow up
>>29570952
Yes, because I didn't have sex before her.
>>29570809
But the thread is here now. Can I not for a moment express the change I wish would happen? We're all anonymous, and I could go in another thread and scream insults at you completely negating what I've said here if I wanted to - for all we know, I'm doing that right now.
There is no way I'm just doing this to stroke my own cock when I went into it knowing I would likely be rejected completely. You're left out, I hate it, not as much as you do, it sucks, I'm sorry.
I personally, as any sane person would, do not care at all about what girls have done before me.
I have fucked other people, they have fucked other people, what is the issue?
Only retarded and hideous girls have not had sex by this point
>>29569633
thisthe first time i had sex was a one night stand with some sloot from tinder (knowing full well i can't get girls irl) and she just laughed at me for how bad i was and for not knowing what i was doing. it's fucking intimidating
>>29570942
>I think there's an element of envy there. And later, bitterness.
Of course there is. You got something we can never have. Just by being lucky. Envy is justified.
>I can't sit here and try to justify this. It goes back to what I said at first: it's just how it works.
Why do you not say the same when some ugly faggot shoots out a full clasroom? It's not fair. It's just the way the world works. No, you will instead call the kid a monster. Explain yourself.
>Your reasoning on why you think how you do is sound, though.
If it's sound, why aren't these incidents with inferior people fighting back much more common?
>>29570984
That's your fault then for being a lifeless loser
>>29569737
you've never had sex, how would you know?
everyone assumes sex with a female virgin would make her amazing or something, when really she would just have no idea how to please you
have you ever gotten a bad blowjob or had awful sex? you would have rather avoided the whole thing
>>29569274
I'd say that it is.
You both experience something that brings you two closer together, and since you guys are both eachother's first, an even deeper bond is fostered between the two of you.
Even if she turns out to be a vapid cunt and breaks up with you, she will NEVER forget her first time. That's a fucking fact. She will compare how you made her feel to all the men that will come after you.
>>29571038
by choice
Is it really that hard to comprehend this?
Not everybody has same "values" like you people do and not everybody is slave to animal instinct.
>>29571076
Thank you. Exactly my thoughts.
>>29571038
>>29570952
So the second he goes against what you say he's a loser and everything he thinks is invalidated because "lol never had sex"
Why bother coming in in the first place? Why not just let the loser virgins just circlejerk and be wrong among themselves? It's not like they're actually interacting or effecting you or any woman in the first place, being virgins and all.
>>29569274
require a virgin gf all you want. but don't expect a 7/10 qt to save herself for you way into her 20s. they virgin girls you ''deserve'' are equally as undesirable as yourself. imagine a female version of yourself, would you want that?
>>29571081
>not everybody is slave to animal instinct
tips fedora
>>29571182
yes desu. She could stand my sperg ass and actually have a sense of humor.
>>29571195
i get it, but it doesn't change shit
>>29571110
It's true. Coming from a fellow norman.
I've talked to a handful of girls about their first times at parties, and while some of them said it was absolutely awful, by description it sounded like EVERY single one of them missed their first ex.
Guarantee that if their ex called them out of the blue to hang out, they would be all over them in a heartbeat and completely forget their current relationship with whoever. It's like they are just settling for their current relationship, where they are trying to capture the essence of what their first relationship is like but no one really compares to their first.
This is the essential problem when you are thinking about dating a non-virgin. She thinks she loves you, and in reality she might, but nowhere to the degree of how much she loved/loves her first.
>>29571068
men are aware of this and still want to fuck virgins
that's my whole point
>>29569351
I'm on the same page as you, OP. Normalfags can go fuck themselves.
>>29571068
Yet people still shit their pants over virgins. Nobody cares about how bad she is, they just want to be first.
>>29571227
It's fucking scary
>>29571038
True brah
>>29571275
being #1 is what is this all about senpai
and actually what is the world and life about
>>29571227
I know it's hopeless at my point, but I just really wish I could have been that first for someone.
>>29571312
That's what I was getting at. That's why I don't get people who try to downplay that shit like it's absolutely nothing.
>>29571348
simple
they downplay it because they fucked it up,got cucked at early age and they are out of the game already
>>29571028
>Envy is justified.
I agree with this. I think I said it already.
>Explain yourself.
Probably because of the aforementioned lack of empathy. Feminists are mostly women, klansmen are mostly white, black Panthers are mostly black, gay pride paraders are mostly gay. Feminists ignore divorce court disparities, klansmen ignore colonialism, black Panthers ignore crime statistic disparities, gay pride paraders ignore AIDs. No one accepts responsibility for acts against them. They want their own participation to be ignored and for the action against them to stop for no exchange because "muh rights" when On some level it's probably all justified. That's my best explanation.
>>29571286
It very much is! But it's also uplifting knowing this.
Most women won't admit it, but their first was, at one point, their whole world. They will never forget them. Even if they are with someone more muscular, more wealthy, more athletic, better personality etc. they will never forget that one person and it makes them hate themselves very much so.
>>29571315
Well, who's to say that you can't be? Just because you're a virgin doesn't make you hopeless. There are definitely a handful of girls out there for someone like yourself. Doesn't seem like it'll happen right now huh? Well I'm a virgin too but I believe that it will happen for me if it was meant for me. If I force myself into a relationship with a virgin qt things just won't work out. Maybe the universe didn't have that in plan for me, but I am happy with my life as it is right now.
Kind of fast with all of these drugs and whatnot, but it is a fulfilling life.
>>29571348
It is most likely denial my brother! In a hedonistic society where casual sex reigns supreme, you won't have many people advocate for chastity and virginity. Even female virgins are influenced by their whore friends to get drunk and fuck a hot guy at the club, because virginity is a bad thing apparently. People rush into sex too much, it really is a special kind of activity that should only be reserved for that person you love. If you are a female and aren't a virgin you have no business in marriage because you are, ultimately, useless for marriage! The idea that whores are marrying sweet, unsuspecting family oriented men and are THEN taking them to court and taking all of their shit, with these great and honest men having next to no way to fight back, you best believe that society is entering the shithole era, and frankly I hope to be one of the individuals that speeds up this process!
If society dies, it can be built back up into something righteous again. Not this filth!
/thread
Thanks and all best in life.
>>29569317
Why is that an issue? Non-virgin men and women are both contaminated. I'm a man who lost his virginity and I feel ashamed about it. Would much rather marry a virgin as a virgin. Not even a religious thing
You're probably gonna respond with some tumblr bullshit anyway
The more seriously you take sex, the less likely you are you have it.
Reminder that we're an offshoot of apes.
>>29569274
girls being virgins are a myth they pop that cherry at 13-14
>>29569274
it's just as ok for you to require a virgin as it is for any given average woman to require a very wealthy man. doesn't mean you're ever going to get what you want.
>>29570233
>I'd rather be alone then have to imagine the same girl I love getting fucked by another man.
This, family, it fucking hurts to even imagine. My head would probably explode if it turned out to be true.
>Talk to girl online
>Notice signs that she isn't a virgin, it was never 100% confirmed, I just made some assumptions
>Become queasy at the thought of all my time being spent talking with someone who has literally had a fucking cock inside her that isn't mine even though I will never meet her
>Proceed to damage and fuck up the "relationship" beyond any repair
>Feel bad and start to regret it but then I just remember that this is someone who may well have done shit with other guys
It's extreme, but without our convictions and morals, who the fuck are we?
>>29572044
>Being a virgin is like being wealthy
No. It's a personal choice that anyone can make.
>>29572163
In modern society it's difficult to keep your standards because you'll be crucified for expressing them, ESPECIALLY preferences about female sexuality. I agree with what you say, yet I can't help but feel like shit whenever I remember that 90% of society would want to beat the shit out of me if they ever found out. Additionally, women (even virgins) would stop liking me and I'd probably be shamed into the ground for it. It makes it even less likely to get such a gf when you display your opinions wide out in the open.
I don't know what to think or do anymore. How does a person even keep their standards in such an environment?
>>29572298
Same person here BTW, but surely you can sift through the female population and eventually find a virgin, dropping contact with the violated ones, without having to express your thoughts on the matter publicly and socially?
It's strange to think that as humanity has progressed, become more technologically advanced and continued to achieve great things with increasing frequency, values regarding sex have actually gone the other way.
>>29572433
At some point you have to bring up the sexual past thing, and if you do it too soon, she's probably gonna bail. Wait too long, and you're already in a relationship with a potential whore. What's the solution? I don't know.
>>29572536
I guess long long ago our ancestors's brain could detect and feel shame. That is lost long ago.
>>29572602
Yeah, definitely. Imagine how cool it must have been to court a girl in the Victorian Era, for example. That said, there are so, so many things we take for granted in the modern world that going back to such a time would be extremely difficult to cope with.
>>29572771
We are glorifying most primitive and simple thing that we had since dawn of mankind instead of new things that could alter our understanding of reality and life.
Thats a human race for you. Simply we are born in the most shittiest time and best time at the same time. Best because of somewhat safe life with things like internet with infinite informations and knowledge.
>>29569274
>giving a shit about girls
Just stop OP seriously go jerk off and then make some music or read a book
>>29571919
It's not really an issue, it's just that virginity is a meme and it changes sweet fuck all in the long term.
>>29573032
I'm happy for you if you can look at it that way, but for a lot of us, psychologically, it's disgusting to have any dealings with someone who's swallowed another man's cum, taken another man's dick, etc etc.
>>29572846
I couldn't have put it better myself. Living in this time is a double-edged sword, you're completely right. Hey, at least people like us have all the provisions to at least somewhat enjoy life though - entertainment, junk food, internet
>>29569274
>caring about girls
let them care about you not you about them.
just focus on yourself, if they are not virgins just tell them they are not worth your time. let them go hunt some dick or something like that.
>>29573112
Yes but I already feel all the enjoyment and illusion I have maintained is slowly breaking.
Mostly because by knowing more about humans and world that we've built is making me sadder and more depressed.
JUST give up.
Things aren't the way movies tell you, or doujins or whatever. You know why they're like that? Because shit like that doesn't happen in real life. It's a terrible existence we live in which is why escapism is a thing in the first place.
Just live your life without women. You'll enjoy it at least 10 times as much.
>>29573032
Obviously a millennial nihilist memester like you can't into values
>>29569274
Ya it's perfectly fine. My close friends know it's important to me. Just don't blurt it out. Just date girls and if you see that she isn't a virgin just stop talking to her or say that you aren't interested(make up an excuse). The only people who care are women who don't like that you wouldn't want them, so it's as simple as not telling them.
>>29573432
shit...but what about children? wouldnt be nice to someone have memory of you? or to teach them to be good person like you so they can carry on the rememberence of good people
>>29573699
If you ever have children you know you're just gonna leave them in a worse situation than you are. You're just dust in the wind, someone remembering shit won't affect anything. Really though, look at all the good people compared to the bad people in the world. What will you think when you end up raising someone who isn't good?
If you want children, you were born in the wrong time because having children in this day and age is a terrible idea.
At worst, you might wanna adopt, but that'll just make you a cuckor so this board says
Do what you want. But if you plan on getting a wife, don't bet on a virgin. Don't bet that she won't divorce you in a split second, that she won't take half your shit and that you won't end up paying alimony when it happens. It's you against fucking existence here.
>>29573949
Im tired of this stupid meme where woman takes half of your things.
She cant take shit that you and her didnt together build.
She cant take anything that you already had before marrying her.
