Anyone else in the same boat? Not only am I past the point of no return, but at this age its just creepy. I've come to the harsh realization when I was high that there is no way I'm going to have sex with an American or western woman without paying for it (which I don't want to) in this life time. It just isn't possible for a guy like me. What do we do? I have $2500 saved I'm thinking about quitting my job and moving to mexico to start a new life. Guys this isn't a joke I'm going to be 26 in 3 months and I'm as sexually experienced as a 13 year old. That's half my age. I need to get this over with to salvage my pathetic life.
guess I should have used an image of a black dick or a tranny to get your attention
go to hookers.
problem solved enjoy the life
Same boat here OP. Mentally I am fucked, I'm either narcissistic or aspergic. I don't know which is worse. I am an attractive guy and many girls have expressed their interest in me, but I'm too filled with hatred and too stubborn to enjoy myself so I just act cold until they lose interest. Recently I went close to hiring an escort but my mobile phone company banned me from registering an account and I backed out. As recently as the end of last year the most cute and interesting (I found out via her online trail) girl showed interest in me but I just didn't or couldn't do anything. I raged and yearned and all the rest of it but for whatever reason I let it go by and now she is dating someone else. I think about suicide every day and I really do feel it's inevitable at this point. I'm just too detached from life.
>>29547706
>paying a slut $200 + for an hour of sticking your cock into her vagina
It isn't only about the act itself you know, it's about knowing that a woman finds you worthy enough to be intimate with her even if it's just a one night stand.
I'm also terrified of sex. I'm too old for girls that are sexually inexperienced, and girls in my age range are going to have so much experience that within 5 mins they'll know I'm a massive virgin that has no idea what he's doing. A female co worker yesterday was flirting with me and she grabbed my radio that was in my pants and I flinched because I never been touched like that before. God help me.
>>29547587
Wizchan is your friend, and mine, anon.The system thinks this is spam. Add a .org to wizchan
>>29547587
25level virgin here, so what?
Shitty job, no money, living with parents, being unable to even provide for myself is way more depressing than not having any sexual experience at this age.
And even if I somehow got a better job, acquired wealth and moved out from my parents... I would probably buy a better PC, buy some manga on amazon, buy some anime merchandise, dakimakura, and I would still stay at home, watching anime, reading manga and listening to music.
Even if my situation was to improve, there's simply no room for 3DPD in my life.
I honestly can't relate to you OP even though I'm also 25 years old virgin. I simply can't find a single benefit of sex or 3DPD. They're just shitty distractions. Not worth it OP, especially in current day and age when relationships and women are stripped of from any values, principles, dignity and purity.
I could never picture myself having sex, actually, the thought disgusts me. I'm sure sex is great but it just isn't for me and I'm perfectly content with that.
33 years old.
real Wizard
no future and no willpower to fix it.
tall,blond and fairly handsome
>>29547587
you know you can just lie right? I lied to my first girlfriend and told her I wasn't a virgin. I was 21, and I told her I had two other partners. we had sex and she didn't seem to be dissatisfied. I mean, she was wet so that says something right? all you have to do is kiss, hug, penetrate for a good few minutes maybe go down on her and cum. I don't know why you guys don't just lie
this is going to be your future or you're living it now
>>29548299
In over 20 states its now illegal to lie about something to get sex. It is now considered legal rape. So legally speaking if you lie about being a virgin to her so she will have sex with you then you have committed rape.
>>29548356
Thanks.
So its looks that only in death one can find true salvation.
If that's you in OP
>lose weight
>gain muscle
>lose the glasses
>shave the moustache
>wear your pants lower
It will help atleast.
>>29548356
I pray for death but it never comes.
>>29548403
what? than for her to decline sex because he's a virgin would be like discrimination or something.
>some people really believe that virginity is a problem
>>29547587
i lost mine at 29 with an 18 year old. were married/have kids now.
>>29547587
level 37 wizard with a question 4U
Imagine that a girl just has sex with you tomorrow, what will change in your life?
what is so fucking severe that you will move to mexico just because you didn't have sex 1 time?
>>29547587
just go to a club, walk up to some women and ask them with a cute smile if you can lose your virginity to them.
>>29547786
>finds you worthy
dude, you have to find the woman worth enough, not the other way around.
>>29548299
You obviously weren't completely inexperienced. Going for such a leap when you don't even know how to kiss is pretty daunting.
at least you guys dont have shitty kids you didnt want
>>29548292
whats your issue
>>29550714
He thinks 5'11 is tall and blond hair is handsome in 2016
>>29547587
36 here. It is true that once you hit 30, you really stop caring.
>>29551580
35, can confirm. You an '80 or a '79? How's life treating you?
>>29551737
'80.
Life's good, actually. Got a good paying job only a few minutes from home, never needed roommates, I've always been able to afford my own place. I have many friends, and a pretty active social life.
>>29551952
Ah, '80 here too. Good to hear anon, best of luck ahead!
>>29547587
I'm in the same boat but I couldn't give a fuck. I didn't care about sex, girls or relationships at the age I was supposed to and i haven't suddenly started caring since.
I reckon I could probably use my job, height and the fact that I am not totally hideous (apparently) to get someone but why bother, I'm really happy being on my own and don't want it to change. If I could live the rest of my life just chilling listening to music and reading manga I wouldn't consider it a waste, although I'm sure others would be who cares what they think.
>>29548356
Welp, time to off myself.
>>29551952
>many friends
>good paying job
>active social life
>own home
>no gf
How? Those are the ingredients for gf, anon.
>>29547587
I lost my virginity at 26. I learned some pickup and fucked a chubby that I picked up in a bar. It was alright, and nice to get it out of the way. She didn't know that it was my first time.
There's always hope, but you need to actively work to unfuck your shit and overcome your issues. Its not easy, but nothing ever is.
Also pickup is okay as a stepping stone, but don't come to depend on it or disappear into being a pua faggot. Learn what you can, take what helps you, discard the rest and move on to more wholesome methods of self-improvement.
Good luck anon.
>>29547786
>it's about knowing that a woman finds you worthy enough to be intimate with her even if it's just a one night stand.
And then you don't work out, take care of your skin, eat crap and are chubby, no haircut or hairstyle, out of fashion cloths that don't even fit well, and a weird personality. Why would anyone be attracted to that?
>>29551737
>>29551952
You guys never wondered what it would be like to have someone love you as much as you love them?
>inb4 women can't love as hard as a man
>>29552456
Bars scare the hell out of me, especially going alone.
26 here
I simply given up and accepted my fate. If anyone asks I'd tell them I'm in a few year old dry spell. I work as much as I can and drink heavily in my free time.
I don't have the time to put in the work or make the compromises that I would need to be make it happen.
43. Practically dead down there now anyway. Also too dead inside to relate to any human being sexually.
>>29548356
>cortisol
>stress hormone
>Being a virgin is the only source of stress in modern life and that normies don't get stressed by anything.
Fucking hell. That's some really bullshitty science.
Also you're not a virgin because you can't think in a certain way. Having sex has nothing to do with thinking, its not an intellectual problem, that's why fucktards seem to be able to have so much of it. Its an emotional problem. Robots have emotional issues because they've been shat on and made to feel shame for most of their lives to the point where they aren't comfortable with feelings of any kind. They don't know how to express their sexuality without feeling shame.
Emotional issues are fixable, and shitloads of people have them. Everyone is broken one way or another.
The only way your brain can stop you from being socially successful or having sex, is if you have legitimate professionally diagnosed non-tumblr/r9k autism.
>>29552596
Sorry.
You have to choose between comfort and growth.
You don't have to go to bars if you don't like them though, go to places you like to go, and date the girls that also go there, more likely you'll find one that you're compatible with.
29yo, get my wizard hat in six months.
No job, live with my parents, fat, yadda yadda. I don't see any hope of changing it anymore. Its perfectly understandable why no woman would want me, but something making logical sense doesn't make it less depressing.
>>29547587
Not exactly in the same boat but I'm a 23 y/o KV turning 24 in two weeks, so I'm slowly getting there.
25 really seems to be the "cutoff" age for most and that makes me nervous. Don't know what else to say, anon. Good luck.
lost mine with a hooker when i was 22. now i'm 25, i did not go back to hookers because i'm broke, unemployed and living with my parents, so, that time with that hooker was my only experience. i never had a girlfriend, i guess i would not know even how to act. anyway, if i don't kill myself in the next months and get a job i will probably try scorts again.
>>29548356
Welp, time to end it soon.
>>29548989
If you are attractive at least. Otherwise they would ignore you.
>>29551952
hello normie
reeee
>>29547862
>I'm too old for girls that are sexually inexperienced
The one thing that is still kind of comforting to me, is that my parents had an age difference of 10 years, so my potential future pure wife could still be a teen. That thought obviously becomes less comforting and meaningful the older I get and a few years from now, I will just have to accept that it's never going to happen.
>>29552645
Same boat. 26 yet I fell for most memes.
>Be confident bro.
>Approach the girls.
>Make small talk but they just lose interest.
>Wear perfume on.
>ONLY men compliment me.
>Go clubbing bro.
>Dancing will get you birds.
>Why not.
>Women go away, I have the dancefloor for myself which is cool.I do dance shit but why not, no fucks given.
>I see people who look average, not fit, have 8/10 gf.
>Personality counts.
>These people with 8/10 gfs talk bullshit, asshole personality.
>I'm not fit but skinny.
Fuck this double standard style of life. I am becoming more negative the time I always step outside my house.
>>29553092
Yes. Me too, but I'm not brave enough to go to bars by myself.
I hate going outside but being a cyborg/failed normie forces me to. I see people in groups and with their gf smiling and laughing. I look at them and ask myself why I can't be happy. I'll talk with a girl my age at work or school their phone will go off showing several text conversations going off at once while the last person that texted me was my mom checking on me two days ago.
It's like looking through a store window at something you can't afford.
Normies live in a different world than us. A world they won't let us in.
>>29553487
If I had no emotion or feelings, I would be a robot by now.
>Inb4 normie REEEEEEE.
I only get on with men. May as well turn gay but then again women just ignore me most of the time. I know I can be a ass but hey most women have bfs that are much worse.
I only started going clubbing due to a work friend. I'd still rather be at home playing games than seeing slags. The only thing I like about clubbing is dancing. I could never dance, still I can't dance but I'm enjoying it.
>Dance near women.
>When women dance swinging their hips men always go behind.
>Why the fuck shall I do this? They ain't worth it.
>Whenever I get in women's 'circle' they just give me a death stare.
>No fucks given still dance.
>They move away.
>tfw T minus 7 months before hitting point of no return
>>29552344
>>29551952
I second this question. I'm a wizard from '80 myself and I have a decent job; but I am, and have been for many years effectively friendless socially inept and with a mild stutter to boot. Unless there are some serious hormonal or physical problems I can't conceive that why you haven't gotten laid.
>>29552295
this familiadingdongooo
